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BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thnks boss I appreciate, your wife will be submitted and loyal with u for life, more $$$$$$$$$ in your bank account. amen

amen my sister. that's one of the biggest blessing a man can have

BISIXCLUSIVE:
Thats individual way of thinking, some love money more than his/her future, they don't wanna know how it comes. May God help we ladies honestly.

my dear thank God u stood by him. he has a very bright future. in 1-2 years time I bigger club can sign him and be paying him X5 of his present salary. thank God For your patience. u go drive Range Rover, u deserve it. God bless u

ShawttySoFyne:
Sup?
still wanna buy?
someone js inboxed me for it

I first take with him and see what's he is going to say. I am not the position where I can pay u. I am yet to collect the ATM I applied for. just chat with him sha and see how it goes

greggng:
I did it for 2years but I regretted it cos the bagger ended. Up being disvirgined by a more smart man I was emotional listening to all her excuses that if u love me u must wait for me. That she promised her dead father that she wlll marry anyone that got that thing opened. Infact I was a mugu then

LMaooo

MrsPhysics:
Content writing. Don't mind her. After spending hard to please clients, make money, she expect us to give her all of them because she is a girlfriend. One have sisters to give money, or other family members, and a side girl will be interested to get all of them else we are termed broke.
Which niche are you? I don't know what is wrong with dollars now. I hate it's decrease. I want this naira to loose value. I have dollars to clear and this daily decrease in its value is getting me angry.

abi oh
. before just 1000$ go get u 400k. now exvahngers are pricing at low price. I m into traffic niche and video animation niche. how much u get to clear ?? the guys u sell to, do They buy at high price ?? how much are u clearing. ?? 0 teach me ur niche Na

MrsPhysics:
Why are you angry young woman. So any guy who disagrees with your point is foolish, lazy, poor, yahoo yahoo and the rest.

Well, think again, I believe you have learned a lot from comments here. And you need to change your perspective. Someone said something here, and I got pricked in my heart. He said that you may end up dating a rich guy, you will only enjoy the money, but you won't have access to the money. Having access to wealth is the most important.

There is need for purpose here. The purpose of life, relationship, and love. Like I said here, the power to love, to be loved, to feel belonged, wanted, inspired in this life should not be hinged on a thing like money or financial ability.

You think it's easy and everyone or say guy is not rich? You don't know what guys pass through. Everyone struggling to survive. Well, I'm not broke, so before you insult me, maybe you need to insult my fiverr revenue that will clear on Tuesday, maybe after that, you can go ahead and insult me. Thanks

lol bro what niche are you into?? make we rub mind Jor. nor be all this lazy ass way dey look for free life . most guys are looking for ways to upgrade their life's. workings dey and night. u think say e easy to dey on laptop for 7-8 hours? and u sit in ur fathers hour and have the guts to call someone broke. when u are not doing anything. waiting for ur boob's to bring in the money. forget these idiots Jor. which niche u dey?? make we rub mind

BISIXCLUSIVE:
I'm dating my fiance when he doesn't have a dime, when he is playing ordinary amateur (he is a footballer), I stayed with him because I can see future in him, thoo it wasn't easy has a student, so many advise and distractions but I stood by him and now glory be to God, from gateway united to Enyimba Of Aba, luckily for him, heaven connect him direct to his helper and now at Portugal, now he double my request anytime and we ar engaged and we'll soon wed.

this is what I am saying , if u see potentials , real genuine one, that is clear , my sister wait oh. don't break up, I GB not even ur mama go curse u. from all the comments u can see that funmisticqueen is more mentally balanced than safiaa
. her argument is balanced. safiaa's points are too extreme fuministicqueen looks like some one who with or without marriage, may still make it in life and drive big cars. . cinderella5 is the most childish one, safiaa is more reasonable than this one. to this one, it's either money or nothing . this is foolish this one can even kneel down to beg a rich guy to marry her. very mentally crippled person. fortunately I am not in a mood to bash her.

CAPSLOCKED:
WAIT, WHAAAT? I SEE YOU GONE SO BROKE, YOU HAD TO SELL YOUR BRAIN TO BUY BREAD!

Lmaooooo this one weak me

from the comments I have read so far, it means that without marriage, most of u will never ever be able to own a car. they will never be able to live an expensive house without marriage. if Linda ikeji was waiting for a man to come and do poverty eradication for her family, she was never have owned a house in banana island . that childish one said its not important for a lady to have be money. from. that her comment alone, I can tell u her level of hustle will be very low. I mean legit hustle oh. not alhaji in Abuja u want to visit. lol .

all this Na wishes and fantasy. reality will still fucck u up.

it's good to be optimistic. but he's better to be realist

u know one thing I like about reality?? it the fact that it is brutal and harsh. the reality is that 80- 90% of girls on this thread trying to defend this poo will still end up with average or even broke guys. only a few will hit the jackpot of "rich guy" that they all want.

and as they begin to age, their fantasies begin to die. they tend to become more realist
. u begin. to hear sentence like " so long he is honest and hard working and he can rent a place, we will start life together " LMAOO reality has a way of humbling people I swear

If you're referring to the age difference, her being older than you, then no, it's not wrong.

What matters most is how you feel about each other. The only issue on age I've got here is that you're both so young, especially you at 18. Bear in mind, girls mature physically and mentally quicker than boys - a 27 year-old man is about the equivalent of a 19 year-old girl.

if u say physically then I agree but if u say mentally, then u are Kid. a 20 year old boy thinks better than a 25 year girl

Cinderella5:
even if I don't, it doesn't matter, it matters when it's a guy.

it doesn't. matter?? WTF?? just say it's because guys have more responsibility we will understand ur point stop using the wrong word. u are the reason they don't agree with u.

aside marriage and relationship talk sef . money is important. it matters. imagine ur younger bro is sick and needs just 500k for hospital bill then u will know it Matters. doesn't matter whether u are mAle or female. the right think to say is that society won't mock u much like when u are Guy. because they don't really expect much from u girls unlike guys. that one is different from saying it doesn't matter

AuroraB:
That's unsettling

LMAOOO

people who really not Yoruba find it hard to appreciate olamide's lines. some of his Yoruba lines are good something like
. Eje Jesu nor be zobo. lol .

people who really not Yoruba find it hard to appreciate olamide's lines. some of his Yoruba lines are good something like
. Eje Jesu nor be zobo. lol .

6 over 10 . if u ask me

Safiaa:
everything na talk. Talki talki. Who's talking about being a liability here? At the end of the day its not easy dating a guy who has less funds than you. Problems like insecurities, depression and all sorts will arise from this. Im talking from experience. Everybody wants to be a counselling therapist for their boyfriend on nl for likes, but in reality its a very frustrating experience. Ah beg be with somebody who is on your level or above. And if he's broke, he must have a serious plan to get out. I dont have time to be setting out a business plan for anyone.

I understand what u Tryna say. it's not easy dating a broke guy. but u are not fine either. hope u are planning to be independent oh. just in case u don't end up with a rich man

Amarabae:
Sister, a guy being broke should not be a key issue if you as the lady have something doing to earn some money.
Must you be a financial liability in a relationship?
Even if the guy is broke, you can offer to him intelligent suggestion on how to come out of it, businesses he can venture in, how he can raise capital etc

Na Becos u done marry, u are seeing life from a different perspective . many girls will not agree with u oh. If I were a broke guy, I won't date I swear. I can't stand the shame . I will channel 100% of my energy into anything that will bring money . I once turned down a girl way back way money nor dey. because of this season . she then asked me "when
will u be ready " ?? Lol . I thank God for his help and blessings so far . things are way better now. the thing is, I just can't stand it. I know the embarrassment I faced when there was no money . from then I promised myself I will never engage in it again until I started to make money. I turned down a very very beautiful girl because of that , I don't like unnecessary headache . thank God I didn't stayed with my promise and things are better now. anyways u are talking as a married woman, most slay queen here will not agree with u. almost all will not agree

hmmm okay oh

ennon92:
i love this part

yes to avoid stories that touch

FortuneTeller:
Unless she is chatting about body parts for rituals, what you have seen does not matter. It is much easier for a man to marry than a lady. She has to talk with different men so that she does not miss her opportunity for marriage. If you truly care about her, don't say anything about what you have seen. If you are ready for marriage, do the introduction, then monitor her activities. If she continues to talk to other men then it's a problem.

he has not told u what he saw and yet u say he should go ahead and do intro. ? what if he tells u he just saw chats that the girl recently Did abortion for the other guy? ? he should do introduction.? what he saw doesn't matter. Kai ur mumu carry first. please tell me exactly where u are. I don't want this thunder I am sending to miss road

bukatyne:
I have found out I have very divergent views when it comes to relationships & marriage however:

I don't believe in having spares or open ended options once your are in a relationship / courtship. There is something it does to you and you can't give your all because B is there as backup.

I also don't understand the concept of a person saying he/she wants to enjoy before marriage. Is it bondage? What do they hope to enjoy? Sex? Attention? Money? etc.

Your girl as an example. .. why would she encourage another man's advances? Let's assume they have nothing together. Why would a man (martial status notwithstanding) call her 'the one he loves'? The one I love is different from my live; my dear etc. and other endearment friends use.

Am I saying your girl shouldn't have male friends? No (that one sef is for another day; what do they have in common or are they guys she friendzoned?) However, she needs to realize that she has pledged/committed to be loyal to you. Again, why should she have a lot of his pictures on her phone While the man might be chasing her, she is encouraging him which is not ideal.

You said she is a virgin? Check well to see that one bobo or Alhaji is not chopping what you are saving for your wedding night.

If upon investigations, she is clean, yhen you need to tell her that it is either all of her or nothing. You are done with fragments of her.

If that is the real reason Banky went ahead with the introduction, then i am afraid for him. What would he do when Adesua is crushing on PSquare? Renewal of vows?

Again. You profess to be a Christian, pray.

thank u jare . nor mind those people way dey support the guy. if a girl can not receive CA in front of her guy. or over protect her phone. she is not free at all. u can't even make call with it. then u don't need any other evidence. she has skeleton in her cupboard. nor be the day way house fall e really fall, cracks done already set since then. OP is gone already. I can smell it , she has lots of open options and spares . u are walking on a tight rope. my Call u done go that's the reality

Guitarlife:
Op pls answer these questions.

How old are you ?

What kinda job do you have ?

Are her parents richer than your parents ?

How old is she ?

Lemme tell you a story that happened to me.

I used to date a virgin too. A young girl corper who was about 9 years younger. I loved her and she knew. But these were he mistakes which is the same mistakes young ladies make :

1. She believed she was too young for marriage - same with ur girl friend.

2. She believed she had the potential and beauty to hook a far more "succesful" or richer man.

3. She was not too eager to let everyone around her know she was engaged. Same as ur babe.

4. She was dating me but at the sametime she didnt want people to know, this right there is the first sign of an opportunist.

When I saw all these I knew she did not love me. She was only with me because I was the best at the time and if she was lucky to get someone better she will leave me.

I kicked her out as you would have guessed.

Remember this , as a man if your woman is does not feel lucky for having you as a partner and she now hides you from her fb twitter etc and is forming single please run.

My final advise, forget her hymen which you aint even sure is intact.
Tell her its over. Be firm and let her see you will not tolerate bullshiit.
If she comes back to you fine and if she doesnt well , its life.

You will meet someone who will adore and respect you.



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God will bless u my brother. those people telling OP to sit her down. are very funny . listen. reasoning and logical are not the strength of a woman. a man is logical a woman is more emotional . 80percent of the things u will tell her when u sit her down will not enter her head.
see so long a woman Can not receive call around u, my brother u are gone already. u are walking on a thread rope , start to pull of from the relationship so when she strike, e nor go too affect u

wife big yes. ( your children will benefit from her education) . girlfriend ?? hell no.
by the way, u should only allow your wife attend part-time. never full time

do not learn how to make love to Woman until you have learnt how to make money. after learning and that, you can go and learn how to make love to a woman

poster so many "he said" just full ur post. u be clown. Na u Jor don't drag friend into this

2ndly that person that referred to Holy Spirit as it, thunder will fire her.

lastly. the girls is staying clear because the guy is not decisive . he is confused.
it's a risk been with a Patner like that

alizma:
see how selfish u are, you have a reason why you could stay away from your wife but your wife has non. do you know if serving the nation is precious to your wife as money is to you?
even as we all condemn the wrong doing by the corps members, ensure u criticize constructively

obviously u didn't read my comment with an open. mind. I told u even for the money though it's tempting but I still will not stay away from my wife. she will choose her fatherland or her marriage. 9 months is a long time oh. body nor be wood . useless scheme that will not benefit her anything . so you think I will allow u carry my baby in ur womb and u will be matching up and down in sun ?? u try

so I go marry wife send am go nysc?? lol I laugh . to go serve wetin ?? Becos Na me kill Nigeria?? Shebi they say any one up to 30 years can choose not to go and they will be given exemption letter. she will keep postponing it till she El reach 30 . I can't stay away from my wife for 9 months unless maybe for business or getting for money. which I won't even though sef. not for one useless scheme that will not be beneficial to her life and mine. deprive me just to please Nigeria ?? Taa e nor go happen

lodphil:
When u start approaching them u find out that most of them are both dumb and stupid.So it's better you allow them admire u from afar,that's if u don't ve time for stupid games.

.i swear

ShawttySoFyne:
Lol imagine

I av gat spot of things to say concerning it sha. but if I start to talk , dey go break . can u message me ur whatsapp number if u don't mind