₦airaland Forum

Kalulu44:
Oh now I got some of you guys, the story is not about me o. I have never been to America. It's a school friend of mine it happens to.
Hahahaha, bcus I wrote it using I I me me.
No, that's from a writer's perspective.
I'm not the one involved in the story

You might need to put a disclaimer at the first post instead of all this distractions people keep calling you out on.

It is distracting the story flow.

sweerychick:
That's rubbish, flashed is just a phrased expression, the have to know what you flashed, I flashed her can mean many things

1 I flashed a torchlight, I flashed my cash, I flashed my jewelry, you have to be specific what you flashed. Unless a dumb officer approaches you and arrest you without knowing what you meant. What if they arrest you and you didn't flash your nudes instead it was just a call?

Educative info like this are quite necessary to avoid nasty drama.

The other time on front page, a nigerian woman was held by UK cops when on leaving the pharmacy, she called her partner that she had gotten the drugs. People around called the cops on her and she was held for drug possession. Her home was ransacked before she got home

While it is generally called medication over there, the fact that she just left the drug store should have given the cops common sense but...it is what it is.

erniok:
Dunno your state but it's 6 months in lagos.

Thanks for the update. That's the issue with domestication of laws.

@Nna2025, you might need legal advice on this as if you give it to one party, the other parties might sue you for the entire amount for tampering with their relative or husband's money.

You might need to join or convey a meeting of all parties for everyone to decide whom gets the money.

You might also want fo confirm if there are any outstanding debts to be paid as it would be of no advantage if no one has it in mind and his dependents lose properties they would have kept.

See if there is a Will. This might determine a sharing formula. Be present when the decision on the kids are made. Public opinion will surely sway towards whomever decides on keeping tge kids which may or may not be their mother. I have a feeling the kids are not presently with their mother.

If all this is undecided or takes a long time to conclude, making an investment in treasury bills that gives 15% yearly will take care of their feeding and schooling for a while till they come of age. You might apply to be a court appointed guardian for them or use one decided upon by the families to decide this.

One thing however, to prevent being accused of wanting to steal the money, it is required you make this known as soon as possible to all parties involved. This also prevents one voice singing into your ears to touch small and more till you become like one of those uncles on Nigerian home videos. Never let that money mix with yours.

As I said, get legal advise so your good intentions don't bring any worries or stain to you. I wish you more wisdom on this.

Wishing you well - Teemy

erniok:
For an annual tenant, you do not increase arbitrarily and you must give 6 months notice. This is the position of the law.

When thentenant decides to enforce his legal r8ghts, people like you will complain he's suing his landlord.

@Smartguyboy, actually, it is 3 months for rent increase. Since due date is September, the landlord had given more than enough the required 3 months for this action to take effect.

@erniok, the six months for a yearly tenant applies to the time to give for a tenant to vacate location. Also, take note that if a tenant's tenure ends ahead of that, he/she pays for the extra months used as housing is not free.

I recommend OP either plans towards the new rent or works on relocating. However, it is better to do your house shopping early as housing prices have increased everywhere.

She did wrong, true. But the ones calling for her to be stripped are females.

I wonder...

There seems to be some truth to the allegations

Before leasing out any land for the US to plant any form of military base on Nigerian soil, let's consider what they did to Diego Garcia Island of Mauritus where the local residents were forced out to allow for a US-UK military base. Decades later, the people are not being allowed to go back home.

2026 is the year signed for the evacuation of the US from Iraq. Let's see how they uphold that agreement.

If we do, let's understand that they will not want to go. They will only try to justify getting a greater presence on Nigerian soil. It won't be surprising to hear of escalation of attacks that will support their staying there longer than was discussed initially.

They probably targeted him upon seeing his hospital after a prior visit, did math of how many people walked in and how much was being made daily. Then they decided a ransom amount.

One more reason to resist any affluence of wealth or talk of big amounts of money in public.

Hopez456:
This star link idea will help a great deal. Star link can help to design direct Internet to cell device for the election purpose.

Anyways, when serious, those politicians know what to do.

It already exists. Launching it is what remains.

AntiChristian:
We are still not ripe for this transmission. It can't even work fully in Ogun state not to talk of all those far inland northern rural areas!

There are still many places in Ogun state still on "two days on" and "one day off" electricity! And those "on" days are not 247!

Make we no waste our time on impracticable things. And network still dey there!

There is a solution in place apart from our existing systems.

Power banks can work as backup.

Q. If the BVAS authentication can be done (it surely uses a network), nothing stops tge final results to be uploaded via same way.

In addition, since everyone has phones, we can now use Starlinks via mobile phones by then. All issues resolved.

Delay in transmission of results has always been a conduit for electoral manipulation. We should totally eliminate that section to allow for all votes to count. Do you agree?

Via airtel, Starlinks will become accessible at no extra hardware costs.

Let them not delay approval for its deployment.

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

I don't think you really have an issue and please don't let the current discontent disturb the wonderful marriage you have bar the lack of entrepreneurial intelligence wifey has.

You're lucky. She's told you her limits and wishes not to improve. I understand you wish well for her but take it as it is.

You do the full business building solo. When there's no expectations, there's no conflict. Let her do what she does best and you do you.

Build the other part by improving savings and putting your money in investments like TBills and Mutual funds.

T bills are secured and with 15% yearly which you reinvest the profits, 5m becomes 20m in 10 year and 80m in 20 years. As you save more and more, you compound wealth for the security of your family. Happy wife, happy home, happy family, plus bulky income.

Don't let tge 20% you don't have look too high than the 80% you do have and are assured of.

Wishing you well - Teemy

YUNGLURD:
I didn't watch the video TBH but based on the topic; why didn't you call him out if truly he acted weirdly...I won't be surprised if this milf is seeking attention, na their way everybody wan trend

lezz:
Why she going there without her husband or female nurse present?

From the video, there was no talk of misconduct else she would surely have said it. Though she did say the man like other past male GNs was too dismissive.

I feel the discomfort of being seen by a man was the issue. She also mentioned the man was bringing up discussions too fast for her head to gather on.

Another place she was also not comfortable was where she was asked go pull off her pant at the lab where she went to do the test after the GN's inspection.

The whole thing is she's being sensitive about whomever is seeing her unclothedness.

A solution going forward would be to ask for a female GN and a female lab attendant if she goes there next.

Lamasta:
They were not confrontational its the minister that wants to be showing superiority, if you watch the video the minister was the one insulting the personnels

Honestly.

The Minister had no business with the officer. He simply needed to get the name of his commanding officer, place a call to the CO or someone higher than him.

Instantly, the soldiers will evacuate the land instead of all this show of drama that shows how the political class insult and demean our law enforcement.

FxMasterz:
Why beheading?

Is the Chinese official an Islamist?

I had to search for a full quote of the actual post and found this.

“We have no choice but to cut off that dirty neck that has lunged at us without a moment’s hesitation. Are you ready?”

https://www.tokyoweekender.com/japan-life/news-and-opinion/japan-china-diplomatic-tension-takaichi-taiwan-threat/

Any anime watcher or culture expert on Japan would understand that the statement did not directly point to the woman but rather to Japan itself as a country which is being referred to and is also geographically laid out as a Dragon.

Simply an attack on Japan itself.

I feel it is a legit arrest.

So far, Regina's family has not stated what charges the brother was arrested for. Possibly a legit reason that Ned was aware of and used that as a bargaining chip to influence the drop in charges if Regina returns.

He possibly has dirt on the mum as well which is why instead of wanting to have their day in court, Regina is instead going to settle by going back to Ned.

She should just have kept quiet instead of making videos to shame Ned.

manuelkel:
Because they were not assigned on duty at that moment or possibly the territory wasn't their assigned territory.

Which could end up justifying why those guys had to drive off in the first place.

Because if they were on legit duty, they should have helped out and accessed the accident scene.

manuelkel:
That doesn't justify why they refused to stop.
What encounter have you had with Nigerian police to say such ??
Why are you running if you have nothing to loose??

You're right on this.

Equally, why did the policeman run and leave the scene of the accident if they did nothing wrong 🤷

This is just not funny anymore. I would advise Ohaneze Ndigbo leadership in Lagos to go on a truce meeting with the government of the state to stop the rate at which ibo victims keepblsokng their houses and location of businesses.

In addition, I hope lesson is learnt that you don't make mouth at your host community. Just do your thing and do jeje.

I feel for all these recent losses that should not have been.

DiamondsAreFore:
Not every high definition image with a blurred background is AI generated.

Her blouse, the print disappeared in one of the shots

DiarisGodoo:
It is not a matter of hoe and cutlass, OP specifically called her "LovePeddler", how you turned that into "sweetie" is what's baffling people!

Oh, if that's the confusion, it was with respect to OP's father's view. She is his sweetie, sugar plum or whatever is most endearing to him.

In addition, when the sanctions started, Putin's family were blacklisted here and there but they exercised caution when it came to Putin's mistress.

In general, men are not know to exercise logic when their side chicks are under attack. They feel the need to show were* to prove their love. Which is why I advised OP to get his siblings provided for without putting sweetie* into the discussion. That would be the matured way for him.

DiarisGodoo:
Ok, but how does any of this turn a declared "love peddler" into "sweetie"? She's NOT a hoe to someone. She's simply a hoe, community hoe

To be exact, OP only mentioned she is a baby mama and this does not translate to community prostitute.

We could drag hoe and cutlass as far as we want but let's not forget the OP came here for help and having to overlook that is one of the solutions for him to get what he wants which is sanity for himself and better welfare for his younger ones.

DiarisGodoo:
Why are you suddenly calling a "love peddler" sweetie? Are you perchance a hoe?

We are all hoe to someone. And when that person is attacked, we throw away all rationale and defend* our beloved. That is the origin of the problems in this case.

If OP had addressed his dad based on his financial obligations to the younger ones, it would not have gotten to this. But putting his sweetie* into the same conversation would not yield anything.

His focus should be on what he wants, not who he wants to fight.

natedensel:
You read my mind, I'm already house hunting because what I see daily is enough to ruin my sanity, like immoral stuff, but trust me I won't leave without a fight, I must wreck damage.

Fighting your dad or his new sweetie would do neither you nor your siblings any good.

The only reason I can hint at for your dad not handling your siblings' school fees is your stance of being against the woman.

If you're old and mature to take Care of your younger ones, you can call your dad to a personal discussion that you would be leaving for your own place. You can give the reason that you don't like the way fights have been happening and this way, peace would given a chance.

I believe he would appreciate and support you being manly and mature on this. If and when you are better off, you can have your younger ones move in with you.

Shouting at him or accusing sweetie would not achieve anything good. Move on to achieve your own greatness.

Wishing you well - Teemy

Probably my zoom as well this morning

Oya, let's go there.

Lyrics on the gaangan

Azazyel:
Bokoharam is actively using drones while Nigerian military rarely deploys them. Wonderful! By the way, why is Iswap suddenly quiet and BH now running the show? BH that controls only less than 10% of borno is suddenly getting very bold. Naija politicians and high ranking military chiefs should fear God.

I smell a foreign country interference

GloriousGbola:
what a load of BS

so i bomb someone and i call to say sorry?

that is less than a slap on the wrist

Obviously Qatar has threatened to kick out the US military base there as what is their usefulness if one of US's friends can easily fly over and bomb them

Surely the footballer would be sanctioned due to the action of his emotional spike. What I'm wondered by Is the referee trying to go physical despite the people pulling her back.

Two wrongs don't make a right. She should learn anger management so as not to compromise her own career.