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Foreign AffairsRe: 501-31: Russia & Ukraine Exchange Dead Bodies Of Soldiers Killed (Photos) by altteemy(m): 10:53am On Jul 17
One thing to consider is that most of tge fighting happened within the territories occupied by Russia.

So, Russia will have more access to reclaim its own bodies.
HealthRe: Doctor Claims A Woman's Body-Count Affects Child's Skin Colour During Birth by altteemy(m): 3:16pm On Jul 16
Both parents must be carriers of the albino gene before an albino can be born.

CrimeRe: 35-Year-Old Nigerian Who Raped A Child In Canadian Store Arrested (Photo) by altteemy(m): 5:53pm On Jul 04
Euromillion200:
How possible is this kind of news tbh? Africans are their own worst enemy,you saw news related to your kind and you become judge and jury..what happened to innocent until proven guilty?

His body might have mistakenly brushed off the girls body and to a racist white to see that it's involved a black man and white person..forget it because you're done.

What and how can anyone intentionally achieve in a grocery store by doing such a thing? Except only by a mistaken touch.
I did a further research and found that the child was actually with her parents when it happened. Surely not a rape issue.

Grabbing itself or even verbal could be described as secual assault.

https://www.torontotoday.ca/local/crime-emergency-services/police-searching-for-suspect-after-child-sexually-assaulted-at-grocery-store-12454292

NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 12:02pm On Jul 04
bong4:
If you know the rational and purpose of the NYSC scheme, you won't suggest this trash, which will further disintegrate this country.
Pray tell. What are you opinions on it. I'm open to gaining information.
NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 8:41am On Jul 04
Sample 5 - Combining cultures
Sample 6 - Combining cultures

NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 7:11am On Jul 04
shumuel:
A Unicorn is meant to be 1 that unites but nice concepts, check out the ones below
I love the green one. 👍
NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 6:10pm On Jul 03
Wealthoptulent:
una just MVMV, he said that is not the only SAMPLE of new ATTIRE but according to ETHNICITY? y una like RUMOUR MONGERING?
its not only ADIRE! the OP stated but u cant still COMPREHEND cos u have ur MIND and what its designed for, e ni a teniu mo oo
I personally love that Hausa babanriga model.
NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 6:04pm On Jul 03
hatchy:
Why must it be Yoruba attire, why not Hausa Babanriga or Ibo Akwaette.

Enoch and his people with bigotry.
Check Samples 3 and 4
NYSCRe: Adire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 7:39am On Jul 03
Sample 4 - Ankara formats

NYSCAdire Suggestions For NYSC Uniform by altteemy(op): 9:07pm On Jul 02
Sample 1
Sample 2
Sample 3

RomanceRe: First Dates Are Becoming Job Interviews And Men To Pay Before Love Begins by altteemy(m): 1:07pm On Jun 28
Maisiba:
it is a good test. a man should prrove that he can sustain a woman.

A good man is eager to keep his woman happy and stress-free
I agree with the boldened. Even a potential Father-in-law at the first meeting will ask you what you do for a living.

However, what I do not subscribe to is looking for a man that will be turned into an ATM.
Imagine a case where you're being billed for date transport or date clothes. Some might even want to size you up with saying "I spend xyz monthly to maintain my hair/body". I have never heard of a man billing a date for transport or asking for money to cut his hair.

The signs are always there. Date wighin your financial bracket else you would feel mad when the billings start coming in from those that can't afford to take care of themselves or those that feel your money is simply there for them to consume while theirs is simply theirs.
EducationRe: As A Teacher, How Would You Rate This Student? by altteemy(m): 12:45pm On Jun 28
I would ask the student to redraw it but first complement him for being innovative and say I would cherish and keep it personally.

However, I would also explain that it would be a huge uphill task for him to go against the status quo and it would be unfair to him as his teacher to let him go face those institutional walls when he is yet to become a pillar himself.
FamilyRe: Please Help! I'm Getting Tired Of My 3months Old Marriage by altteemy(m): 9:50pm On Jun 27
Chijeep:
Ok. Thanks
Holla, I've gone through your posts and it seems you're still in the clear as a newly married couple. The food is just part of the aftershoot, the main aspect is communication. We will discuss both.

On the food, rather than hear you provided rubbish, agree on her making all the meals while you take the lion share on dropping money for it. That way, she can't reject what she made by herself and you should be ready to eat whatever is being presented to you. Sometimes, separation of duties helps prevent some unnecessary issues. This way, she will be able to cook items that will seat well with her stomach. You can even use this as a chance to do a food timetable together.

P.S if she has H.pylori ulcer, Holla me and I can provide you with an assured cure.

On communication, video shorts might have become your goto solace and it is affecting you both. Create time to do things together. Watch movies, play games, go for outings and plan the future of things together.

You might want to lead with you opening up with you saying what you want and she gives you hers as well.

If you see something exciting online, show her and let her share her funny viewings with you when you're not there.

There are things she loves, involve yourself with them. Learn. With time, she too, following your leading will open up. Smile more.

Coming from another introvert, she probably also doesn't want to speak out to disturb* you as well.

Wishing you well - Teemy
TravelRe: My New York Struggles And Adventure (japa Things) by altteemy(m): 6:06pm On Jun 02
Kalulu44:
Oh now I got some of you guys, the story is not about me o. I have never been to America. It's a school friend of mine it happens to.
Hahahaha, bcus I wrote it using I I me me.
No, that's from a writer's perspective.
I'm not the one involved in the story
You might need to put a disclaimer at the first post instead of all this distractions people keep calling you out on.

It is distracting the story flow.
TravelRe: This Expression Can Send You To Jail Abroad As A Nigerian by altteemy(m): 8:18pm On May 22
sweerychick:
That's rubbish, flashed is just a phrased expression, the have to know what you flashed, I flashed her can mean many things

1 I flashed a torchlight, I flashed my cash, I flashed my jewelry, you have to be specific what you flashed. Unless a dumb officer approaches you and arrest you without knowing what you meant. What if they arrest you and you didn't flash your nudes instead it was just a call?
Educative info like this are quite necessary to avoid nasty drama.

The other time on front page, a nigerian woman was held by UK cops when on leaving the pharmacy, she called her partner that she had gotten the drugs. People around called the cops on her and she was held for drug possession. Her home was ransacked before she got home

While it is generally called medication over there, the fact that she just left the drug store should have given the cops common sense but...it is what it is.
LiteratureRe: Help Me, One Smallie Is Trying To Snatch My Husband From Me by altteemy(m): 1:59pm On May 05
It would be nice to read through... all of it, before commenting 😄
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PropertiesRe: Increment Of Rent All Of A Sudden by altteemy(m): 2:43pm On Apr 29
erniok:
Dunno your state but it's 6 months in lagos.
Thanks for the update. That's the issue with domestication of laws.
FamilyRe: Who Should I Give the Money, The Wife, Sibling,Mother Or Charity - Advise Needed by altteemy(m): 2:19pm On Apr 29
@Nna2025, you might need legal advice on this as if you give it to one party, the other parties might sue you for the entire amount for tampering with their relative or husband's money.

You might need to join or convey a meeting of all parties for everyone to decide whom gets the money.

You might also want fo confirm if there are any outstanding debts to be paid as it would be of no advantage if no one has it in mind and his dependents lose properties they would have kept.

See if there is a Will. This might determine a sharing formula. Be present when the decision on the kids are made. Public opinion will surely sway towards whomever decides on keeping tge kids which may or may not be their mother. I have a feeling the kids are not presently with their mother.

If all this is undecided or takes a long time to conclude, making an investment in treasury bills that gives 15% yearly will take care of their feeding and schooling for a while till they come of age. You might apply to be a court appointed guardian for them or use one decided upon by the families to decide this.

One thing however, to prevent being accused of wanting to steal the money, it is required you make this known as soon as possible to all parties involved. This also prevents one voice singing into your ears to touch small and more till you become like one of those uncles on Nigerian home videos. Never let that money mix with yours.

As I said, get legal advise so your good intentions don't bring any worries or stain to you. I wish you more wisdom on this.

Wishing you well - Teemy
PropertiesRe: Increment Of Rent All Of A Sudden by altteemy(m): 1:40pm On Apr 29
erniok:
For an annual tenant, you do not increase arbitrarily and you must give 6 months notice. This is the position of the law.

When thentenant decides to enforce his legal r8ghts, people like you will complain he's suing his landlord.
@Smartguyboy, actually, it is 3 months for rent increase. Since due date is September, the landlord had given more than enough the required 3 months for this action to take effect.

@erniok, the six months for a yearly tenant applies to the time to give for a tenant to vacate location. Also, take note that if a tenant's tenure ends ahead of that, he/she pays for the extra months used as housing is not free.

I recommend OP either plans towards the new rent or works on relocating. However, it is better to do your house shopping early as housing prices have increased everywhere.
CrimeRe: Girlfriend Caught Stealing In The Market, Boyfriend Runs by altteemy(m): 3:53pm On Feb 14
She did wrong, true. But the ones calling for her to be stripped are females.

I wonder...
PoliticsRe: USA Proposes A Bill To Target Illegal Chinese Mining In Nigeria by altteemy(m): 8:29am On Feb 13
There seems to be some truth to the allegations

PoliticsRe: USA Seeks Permission To Establish A Drone Refuelling Station In Nigeria by altteemy(m): 9:09pm On Feb 10
Before leasing out any land for the US to plant any form of military base on Nigerian soil, let's consider what they did to Diego Garcia Island of Mauritus where the local residents were forced out to allow for a US-UK military base. Decades later, the people are not being allowed to go back home.

2026 is the year signed for the evacuation of the US from Iraq. Let's see how they uphold that agreement.

If we do, let's understand that they will not want to go. They will only try to justify getting a greater presence on Nigerian soil. It won't be surprising to hear of escalation of attacks that will support their staying there longer than was discussed initially.
CrimeRe: Kidnappers Caught After Victim Doctor Spots Them At Auchi Hospital by altteemy(m): 9:44am On Feb 09
They probably targeted him upon seeing his hospital after a prior visit, did math of how many people walked in and how much was being made daily. Then they decided a ransom amount.

One more reason to resist any affluence of wealth or talk of big amounts of money in public.
PoliticsRe: Why Senate Is Scared Of E-transmission Of Election Results – Samson Itodo by altteemy(m): 9:37am On Feb 09
Hopez456:
This star link idea will help a great deal. Star link can help to design direct Internet to cell device for the election purpose.

Anyways, when serious, those politicians know what to do.
It already exists. Launching it is what remains.

PoliticsRe: How 3 Southern Senators Scuttled Real-time E-transmission Of Election Results by altteemy(m): 9:15am On Feb 09
AntiChristian:
We are still not ripe for this transmission. It can't even work fully in Ogun state not to talk of all those far inland northern rural areas!

There are still many places in Ogun state still on "two days on" and "one day off" electricity! And those "on" days are not 247!

Make we no waste our time on impracticable things. And network still dey there!
There is a solution in place apart from our existing systems.

Power banks can work as backup.

Q. If the BVAS authentication can be done (it surely uses a network), nothing stops tge final results to be uploaded via same way.

In addition, since everyone has phones, we can now use Starlinks via mobile phones by then. All issues resolved.

Delay in transmission of results has always been a conduit for electoral manipulation. We should totally eliminate that section to allow for all votes to count. Do you agree?

PoliticsRe: Electoral Act: Akpabio Summons Emergency Sitting, Notable Nigerians, NLC Kick by altteemy(m): 6:46am On Feb 09
Via airtel, Starlinks will become accessible at no extra hardware costs.

Let them not delay approval for its deployment.

FamilyRe: Men That Married A Lady Without Skill Or Education , Share Your Experience by altteemy(m): 10:05am On Feb 02
elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going
I don't think you really have an issue and please don't let the current discontent disturb the wonderful marriage you have bar the lack of entrepreneurial intelligence wifey has.

You're lucky. She's told you her limits and wishes not to improve. I understand you wish well for her but take it as it is.

You do the full business building solo. When there's no expectations, there's no conflict. Let her do what she does best and you do you.

Build the other part by improving savings and putting your money in investments like TBills and Mutual funds.

T bills are secured and with 15% yearly which you reinvest the profits, 5m becomes 20m in 10 year and 80m in 20 years. As you save more and more, you compound wealth for the security of your family. Happy wife, happy home, happy family, plus bulky income.

Don't let tge 20% you don't have look too high than the 80% you do have and are assured of.

Wishing you well - Teemy
HealthRe: Lady Shares Her Uncomfortable Experience With A Male Gynaecologist (Photos/Video by altteemy(m): 6:24pm On Nov 16, 2025
YUNGLURD:
I didn't watch the video TBH but based on the topic; why didn't you call him out if truly he acted weirdly...I won't be surprised if this milf is seeking attention, na their way everybody wan trend
lezz:
Why she going there without her husband or female nurse present?
From the video, there was no talk of misconduct else she would surely have said it. Though she did say the man like other past male GNs was too dismissive.

I feel the discomfort of being seen by a man was the issue. She also mentioned the man was bringing up discussions too fast for her head to gather on.

Another place she was also not comfortable was where she was asked go pull off her pant at the lab where she went to do the test after the GN's inspection.

The whole thing is she's being sensitive about whomever is seeing her unclothedness.

A solution going forward would be to ask for a female GN and a female lab attendant if she goes there next.
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Block Wike, FCTA Officials From Accessing Land In Abuja by altteemy(m): 7:55pm On Nov 11, 2025
Lamasta:
They were not confrontational its the minister that wants to be showing superiority, if you watch the video the minister was the one insulting the personnels
Honestly.

The Minister had no business with the officer. He simply needed to get the name of his commanding officer, place a call to the CO or someone higher than him.

Instantly, the soldiers will evacuate the land instead of all this show of drama that shows how the political class insult and demean our law enforcement.
Foreign AffairsRe: Chinese Official Threatens To Behead Japanese Prime Minister, Sanae Takaichi by altteemy(m): 7:17pm On Nov 11, 2025
FxMasterz:
Why beheading?

Is the Chinese official an Islamist?
I had to search for a full quote of the actual post and found this.

“We have no choice but to cut off that dirty neck that has lunged at us without a moment’s hesitation. Are you ready?

https://www.tokyoweekender.com/japan-life/news-and-opinion/japan-china-diplomatic-tension-takaichi-taiwan-threat/

Any anime watcher or culture expert on Japan would understand that the statement did not directly point to the woman but rather to Japan itself as a country which is being referred to and is also geographically laid out as a Dragon.

Simply an attack on Japan itself.

CelebritiesRe: 'I Will Return To Ned Nwoko' Regina Daniels In Tears Amid Family Ordeal by altteemy(m): 5:56pm On Nov 07, 2025
I feel it is a legit arrest.

So far, Regina's family has not stated what charges the brother was arrested for. Possibly a legit reason that Ned was aware of and used that as a bargaining chip to influence the drop in charges if Regina returns.

He possibly has dirt on the mum as well which is why instead of wanting to have their day in court, Regina is instead going to settle by going back to Ned.

She should just have kept quiet instead of making videos to shame Ned.

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