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CrimeRe: My Ordeal With A Criminal Friend Yesterday. by alyarmouk(m): 11:51am On Jun 28, 2018
Dyoungstar:
A friend by name COLLINS EFEZINO ATAIBUNO that I lost communication with over 10 years now called my phone Friday last week asking for my location which I told him, he asked that we meet for a reunion, I agreed.

He came to my house at VI for visiting, after much I was expecting him to start leaving but he didn't say anything about going back that day, so I kept mute for it not to look like I am sending away. He stayed the first day, second day on the third day there were no signs of him wanting to leave, the only thing he does is wake up and use my phone to book bet9ja predictions after that he falls back to sleep.

I asked him his plans in Lagos he said he is looking for work, after watching him for few days, I was not comfortable with him around, I asked him to leave that I was traveling and the security will not let him stay in the compound.

He agreed to go, then begged me to connect him with people for jobs or invite him whenever I have project to execute. He asked to use my phone to book bet9ja games before going, I gave him not knowing he probably must have seen me typing my bank account pin one of the few times I purchased airtime in his presence or however he got to know my pin I cannot tell.

He used my phone in guise to book games and transferred 40,000 (forty thousand) naira to himself and deleted the alerts, it was later in the night I went to use the ATM that I got alert that did not correspond to what I was supposed to have.

I called my bank customer care line to verify, after much interrogation they told me that transfers were made to one Mr. Collins Ataibuno from my phone.

To say that this person was our next door neighbor right from 2000 to 2006, we were still very much younger then. We attended the same secondary school but last night I was checking his facebook page to find he wrote he school in warri. I even gave him my second phone free since he had none according to him, he was using people's phone to insert his SIM and call.

He also told me he was in the Nigerian police but was dismissed because they by order shot wrong persons.

The person in question is at large now.

Please, if you see him anywhere around kind reach me on 07066611666, thanks.
Oboi na ur guy forget am. use ds one settle am for life.
CelebritiesRe: Prophet Faleyimu Olagoroye Predicted Motunrayo & Aisha Abimbola’s Death by alyarmouk(m): 11:15am On Jun 04, 2018
segebase:
make baba give us sure game like who go carry world cup... make we stake
IF I HEAR.
HealthRe: Help Me! Syphilis Wants To Finish My Life by alyarmouk(m): 4:26pm On Jun 03, 2018
Guy Spoted
dreamwords:
I hate girls they carry infection around without feeling sick. And transfer it to guys. And the guy becomes sick immediately while the girl will be feeling healthy
PoliticsRe: Another Man Shot At Ekiti APC Rally, Man Trying To Save Him Victim Of Pickpocket by alyarmouk(m): 10:44am On Jun 02, 2018
Hussle everywhere
PoliticsRe: Precious Chikwendu Fani-Kayode Welcomes Triplets, All Boys - Ragnar, Aiden, Liam by alyarmouk(m): 4:19pm On May 25, 2018
dey lie 4 urself
SalamRushdie:
Congrats my friend FFK..
Car TalkRe: See What Is Left Of The N31m Dodge Challenger SRT American Rapper Offset Crashed by alyarmouk(m): 8:58am On May 24, 2018
Cosplay:
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*In Nairaland Autos Section*

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CrimeRe: Worker Knocks Off Indian Boss’ 7 Teeth Over Unpaid Salary (Photo) by alyarmouk(m): 8:50am On May 21, 2018
If I was to be the Judge in this case, the guy no go spend even 1 day 4 detention.
HealthRe: Fabric Machine Cut Man's Stomach Open While Working In Ogun. Graphic Photos by alyarmouk(m): 8:00am On Apr 21, 2018
daviesblaze:
i hope he survives it embarassed embarassed my condolence brother. get well soon
Condolence kwa??
CrimeRe: Kidnappers Abduct 21-Year-Old Man In Abia, Kill Him After 4 Days (Photos) by alyarmouk(m): 4:17pm On Mar 16, 2018
you're just plain stupid. das al

NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


So sad,
He died with an erection.

But OP how can you call this man with massive kodo a boy?
CelebritiesRe: Vote Basketmouth As Governor Of Abia, Imo, Rivers, Lagos, Cross River, Akwa Ibom by alyarmouk(m): 5:20pm On Aug 05, 2017
these ones have POWER already.

jeff1993:
The Youths are not ready for power yet!!!
CelebritiesRe: Sammy Gyang: 'Ups, Downs Of Being Jeremiah Gyang’s Brother’ by alyarmouk(m): 5:10pm On Aug 05, 2017
Goodluck man.
TravelRe: Accident Victim Takes Selfie, Says "It Was Fun" (Photo) by alyarmouk(m): 12:58pm On Jul 19, 2017
Leonbonapart:
I thank God on your behalf
FamilyRe: My Marriage - A Sinking Ship. by alyarmouk(m): 7:59pm On Jul 17, 2017
Your plight cause is plain simple: You didnt take your time to know her before marriage.
Continue dialog and prayers things might eventually get better.
PS: a lesson for the un-married.

Bluestreams:
Profile: 10yrs old Nlander, Postgrad, 32yrs old, 2 yrs old in marriage with a 1yr old son.

Pls kindly read patiently and advice me if I am wrong and also what to do if my spouse is the problem. Thanks.

I got married as the first child out of two and my family (mother) really supported me financially. At this time, I didnt have any salary job neither do I have any contracts running as I do pest control and landscaping services and other small legal hustles. I met my wife who is a civil servant and we fell inlove and I never hid my financial or employment status from her. Shortly before my wedding (I was also job hunting for a better job) I got an interview in a top oil and gas firm in the country by insider recommendation, and being the only one invited I felt I've gotten it. My fiancé started telling her sibs that I'm already a staff which I frowned at because I've not received any appointment letter. This she was doing in "faith" anyway. Subsequently, I was never called for that job again and by this time we were already married. Prior to this time, I got a slightly less than 50k job in a bank and after a few months my fiancé pressed me to resign athough that job was stressful and in another state where I neither had family nor friends.

We got married then the issues began.
I noticed my wife is the type of woman thats slow (I'll not use the word lazy). She cant keep up with my pace when we walk, she can't clean the house daily, she'll prefer I do the house chores while she watches tv and all. We were in honey moon so I didn't have a problem with that, and more over I enjoy such chores and I am a good cook. By this time her salary was dropping and we were living on it coupled with whatever income that comes from me from my business (my wife isn't stingy with her funds and neither am I).

Our problems started when she became pregnant just a months after wedding. She became super slow due to the preggy and I had to do like every every due to the initial sickness and all. Also, I noticed my wife doesn't know how to talk to people. She isnt rude or insolent but she can argue blindly and just keeps talking. She talks too much and doesn't know how to ignore things. She will say she likes speaking her mind, even though I adviced her that she will have lots of enemies by that lifestyle.

My parents live in the same town with me but hers are in the village. If things gets a bit rough I do visit the family shop and pick things on credit and pay later. This happens only when I'm low on budget.

After our honey moon, my wife refused to go back to work (her station is in another state) although she has been complaining that she doesn't like the job (her father helped secure it). Since she couldnt travel she kept calling the offixe and they were still paying her, only for some of her seniors whom she isn't in good terms with write against her and her salary stopped coming in. By this time I had to up my game and started husting harder. God another low paying job which didn't last and I continued with my biz. I lost the job because of lateness due to taking care of a pregnant wife and so on. In fact I lost 2 other jobs of same nature and wasn't bothered because they pay was very poor anyway.

When my wife put to birth, my mother (as hers is late) asked her to stay at our family house for a week,so she can look after her because I was still working at this time and my mother's business and other engagements is just around the house, my wife refused. Infact its not the refusal that touched me but the attitude she put up. Shortly after then I needed to relocate to a new aprtment and asked her to go over to the family house with the baby so I can move things which she did and the outcome of that visit was a heated quarrel with my mother. She accused her of telling my church members not to visit her after childbirth (my house is very far from the church) and even though it was a lie and I told her to shut up she kept on talking so many trash.

At home I cant talk to my wife and she keeps quiet. The will tell me to shut up to my face and one one occasion I landed her a small slap which left an eye bloodshot and this ended the shutup episode. Often times, if I talk she will raise her voice.

Four months after my wedding her father called me sounding angry and asking me why my wife is still with me, why she hadn't gone back to the state where she works, I overlooked. Some months back late last year, he repeated the same thing and even dropped the phone on me and just a week ago it happened again. My wife have refused to go back to work saying she will rather start a particular type of biz (which I'm trying to setup for her) but her family is talking behind my back all manner of absurd things.

My wife and I have been having our own bouts due to her attitude. I don't talk to neighbours again as she confided in one and laid bare exclusive family secrets and they had a quarrel and in front of my landlord, my neighbour spilled the beans and I felt so ashamed. My wife's salary has been stopped for over a year now and I have been solely the bread winner. I even got a car recently and uses it for transport to support other income.

My wife can nag about everything, she can wake me by 3am over petty things so I stopped sleeping in our bedroom and now sleeps in the guest room. If she's angry she'll not wash plates I eat with. This is someone I always wash her clothes and my with the machine since I married her. But she can hardly do same. If she cleans the house its favour and she'll keep murmuring. If we have an argument she'll start shouting, abusing my whole family and stuff.

This morning we had a quarrel and my wife told me I cant even take care of my family to provide for her, talking how she's leaving (she always tells me she'll leave and I've made it clear I'll gladly wait for that day).

I have been thinking about everything myself, since I married things have not really improved. Maybe I really made a wrong choice or rushed things (as I now believe), so I am planning on sending her away soon and them take me dad and kinsmen to her father (as is the culture in my place) for him to either caution his daughter or take her back because I might really injure her out of anger one day.

This is my last effort to save this marriage . I have only slapped her once in 2 yrs.
I feel I should seek matured advice from experienced people here as I know I might be right in my own eyes.
I really don't know what else to do.

PS: I'll answer any questions you might ask me. Forgive any typo. Thanks.
AutosRe: SOLD...Neatly Used 2010 Acura ZDX #fullest Option Now 5.8 million naira by alyarmouk(m): 4:10pm On Jul 08, 2017
whatz your last sales price? can it fly for 5.5m will pick up by wednesday.
AutosRe: AWOOF!!! Sharp Registered 2010 RANGE SPORT 7.5m by alyarmouk(m): 2:39pm On Jul 08, 2017
5m? pick up wednesday.
CrimeRe: Rain Of Slaps Fell On A "Big Boy" Caught Stealing An Iphone (Video) by alyarmouk(m): 11:22am On Jun 29, 2017
ah ahh, ah ah, x7


feranmi400:
According To Who share this Video Online Says A Nigerian "big boy" allegedly caught stealing an iPhone.

And he Was Mobbed by people giving him Dirty Slaps from Left and Right

watch video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lqwMv7Ryc7M


Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/29/video-rain-of-slaps-fell-on-a-nigerian-big-boy-allegedly-caught-stealing-an-iphone/
RomanceRe: My Ex Begging For My Love After seeing This Photo of me by alyarmouk(m): 9:53pm On May 29, 2017
Zarzar ur mouth no good. lmaoo

ZarZar:
She must be a Rihanna fan because you're shining bright like a diamond in that picture grin

Dude, why so greasy looking? LOL!
PoliticsRe: Three Bombers Attack University Of Maiduguri, Kill Security Official (Photos) by alyarmouk(m): 12:28pm On May 13, 2017
Airforce1:
Dis ones wear loafers and face cap go detonate bombs


Yeye dey smell
bROS i FOR LIKE MAKE YOU SHOW ME THE ONE IN PARTICULAR
CrimeRe: Cleaner Steals $2600 From His Boss & Was Caught. See How He Shared The Money by alyarmouk(m): 12:10pm On Apr 22, 2017
Hand don touch ds wan.
AutosRe: Super Clean Toyota Camry 2008 For 1.75M by alyarmouk(m): 11:47am On Apr 21, 2017
princeonlinebiz:
Super clean well maintained Toyota Camry 2008,Super clean exterior,Super clean leather interior,Sound 4plug engine, Strong quality tyres, Chilling AC.Excellent working condition.

LOCATION- Ikeja. PRICE - 1.85M (Negotiable)

Call my number for inspection or message me on whatsapp on d first number.

0 9 0 6 0 3 2 9 3 3 1 or. 0 9 0 3 0 4 1 3 8 6 0
1.7m?
if your ok call, will pick up by weeknd so long d engine is OK
AutosRe: HURRY!!! 2008 Camry For Sale 1.95m by alyarmouk(m): 11:30am On Apr 21, 2017
The7th:
sa
1.6m?
AutosRe: A Nigerian Used 2009 Model Toyota Camry Full Optionss ...1.950m by alyarmouk(m): 11:25am On Apr 21, 2017
[quote author=bjmotors200 post=54824598][/quote]1.7m
AutosRe: Few Months Used 2008 Toyota Camry...2.150 by alyarmouk(m): 11:17am On Apr 21, 2017
MainFieldautos:
Three months used 2008 Toyota Camry. very clean like toks.. Buy and drive.

Ac chilling

Shocks superb

Very clean leather interior.

Few months used

Well serviced and maintained

Price: 2.150

For Enquiry/Inspection
Contact David (MainField Autos)
08030708011 Whatsapp Inclusive
1.7m
RomanceRe: 7 Ways Poor Guys Survive Without A Girlfriend by alyarmouk(m): 10:27pm On Apr 11, 2017
Jokes EtcRe: My Success Story: Giving Back To Nairaland by alyarmouk(m): 11:36pm On Mar 31, 2017
0002736847 stanbic bank. anslem. current acc. #Inspired
CultureRe: Abubakar Waziri Mahdi Is Dead & Buried (Pics) by alyarmouk(m): 1:03pm On Mar 25, 2017
kestolove95:
Evrrytin abt islam is just perfect. .no curfew, no mortuary, no wake keepin on candle nyt, na beer to celebrate. .no suit just china white.....as u cum naso u dey go...aftr u die spendin more dan an hour is a luck...
Even if na fainting sef..
TravelRe: Girl Hit By A Speeding Vehicle Escapes Death. Photos by alyarmouk(m): 11:53pm On Mar 18, 2017
SalamRushdie:
I don't think she has escaped yet , let the hospital decide that
Charlyi you be bad!! grin
EventsRe: Igbo Groom's Squad In Native Attires (Photos) by alyarmouk(m): 10:18am On Dec 29, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin



That groom is looking hot cheesy

He's a true definition of TALL, DARK & HANDSOME. kiss
u 2 like beta thing
AutosRe: Used 2004 Model EOD.. by alyarmouk(m): 10:07am On Dec 20, 2016
[quote author=bjmotors14 post=52092622][/quote]750k pick up ds morning.
AutosRe: Registered n Neatly Used/clean Honda Accord 04/05 SOLD!!! by alyarmouk(m): 10:05am On Dec 20, 2016
700. pick up ds morning.
anslem.ekene@gmail.com
AutosRe: I Need A Scrap Or Bad Grove Gmk Crane 70 Ton And Above by alyarmouk(m): 9:16am On Dec 20, 2016
Peters3050:
I need a scraped or condemned Grove GMK crane of 70 tons and Above ... If it's condemned Scraped or has major issues or written off please get back to me .. I need it SERIOUSLY INTERESTED!!!
08092821236,08032860338
ReachStacker and RTG, such used in container ports available.
AutosRe: Honda Accord. EOD Continue. For Sale by alyarmouk(m): 9:04am On Dec 20, 2016
850k.
seal deal today.

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