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SINZ:
I think he can relate because he used to be in that place.

lol. And Experience is the best bitter teacher

jaksmillioniar:
guy dem dey vex me I wont reply again cos if I say wat on my mind I get a ban I will just see how dey fool diasef. rubbish later dey say girls are not cheap. let dem go meet tblavk now. guy if u must spend for a girl fk shege out or her scata her pucce and giv d bich 5k for meatpie and mtn kad.

why meeting tblachot? Why not meeting Emeka the hardworking Engineer or Femi the Telecommunication guy or Ahmed the banking guy with a good salary? Huh?

Instead of them to learn, they are ranting. Horrible.

SINZ:
How do you know he's broke?

let me answer. By their fruit, you shall know them.
Abi you no know?

Maxi112:
Some guys ain't happy with this thread, lemme watch from the fence

lolz. I have hit a nerve in many guys here.

jaksmillioniar:
wat else can u offer apart from dat tin in ur leg if I dAte and spend on u?

irresponsible comment.

sekxy:
woow...you have said it all

thank you dear. Let them keep ranting instead of learning.

pryme:
Most times when the broke guy gets made he losses respect for women. Cos he will never get over that emotional state that he was dumped for being broke.

The best thing in life is moving from grass to grace with the same person.

It's only a lady that sticks with her man, and motivates him, encourage him, believe in him, that are the real heroes.
Ladies like this are like the Queen on a cheese board. They are invaluable, they are indispensable.

They are the reason for that saying:

"Behind every successful man there is a woman"

But your write up mocks that saying.

Thank you for responding maturely.
A girl sticking with a guy in poverty does not guaranty her a wedding ring when the guy blow.
Ok?
My point is that a guy should be financial stable first before a serious relationship or marriage.

Stevengerd:
When a dog is overfed, it misbehaves. Let her rant, we are use to it. someone that is depending on her husband is calling other "BROKE". Serious minded women dnt waste their precious time causing nuisance. U belong to family section not romance.

what a dry and empty bullying tactics.
I am not moved by it, dear.
Nuisance? Is that the only word you can decode from my writeup?
Horrible.
Also, I have a federal job and financially stable even before marriage.
And last, I have the legal right to be in any section that I want.
Ok?

jaksmillioniar:
u beta shot ur mouth b4 u get us mad mad. are we ur fada? is we are broke is it for u or if we are rich why ndont u mind ur business as a girl wat did u hv to giv to us guys. I can get a girl in bed for 1k so stfu. I make my money for my family not for girls dat add no values to me only to open leg for me.

drop your emotional ranting and counter my point intellectually.
So you will not marry? Is it not a girl you will marry or are you a gay?
So what do you mean by making money for your family and not on any girl?
Who cares if you can bed a girl for 1k?
Some boys are sexually cheap too.

peacebirdone:
Broke guys don't read such long passages

ouch.

jaksmillioniar:
u beta shot ur mouth

you sound like someone I know here.

Stevengerd:
Wait. Do you reason at all. am just curious! if u cant provide solution why dnt u bleep off, av been watching you closing for a while now, you comment as if.... Oh my God, and u're married oh!!!

omg. Who are these my two ememies that gave you "LIKE" to these your comment?
Mtcheew.

A LETTER TO THE BROKE GUYS.
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Greetings all!
I will like to briefly to thank all who wished me a Happy Birthday yesterday.
Thank you my Darlings. *kisses*
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Back to my main subject, THE BROKE GUYS.
I have noticed that one of the most frustrating moments in a man's life is when he is broke!
This era of financial scarcity always leave many men with feeling of emptiness,
No wonder the sighting of that word "BROKE" always touches the nerve in many guys, no wonder the insults, bullying and aggressiveness they exhibit as a response to any thread that is dedicated to such a dreaded word.
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NOW Broke Guys listen, let me give you a bit of advice..
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Every woman dream of a comfortable future, a future where even if she is not been treated like a queen, atleast she will not be a slave.
Most ladies grew up and saw the financial difficuly and suffering their mothers went through in the name of marriage and thereby took a resolution not to be part of that fate.
So before you blame them for rejecting you as a broke guy, remember this.
1. Being broken is NOT a permanent situation, work hard to change the status.
2. Even if you are an unemployed graduate, you can raise a capital and move into business.
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FINANCIAL STABILITY AND SECURITY is an Important Requirement many women look at including me.
How can you expect a girl to reject a rich guy for you that live in a public yard and earn below #30,000 monthly?
The girl may really love you but she need a partner who is Financially stable,
Many ladies are not looking for a Dangote kind of guy but a Hardworking Financially Stable Guy.
and I see nothing wrong in that.
He may not have his own house, atleast let him afford a 1 or 2-bedroom flat.
He may not have a murano or quest, atleast let him afford a mercedes even if it is old model.
Women just want to be comfortable.
So Mr Broke guy,
Why not focus on improving your financial status instead?
From #30,000, aim to be getting atleast up to #70,000 and above, monthly.
From Public yard, aim at living in a comfortable apartment.
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No woman want to suffer, YES the woman may have a good job or business, but she need an equal or higher earner than her as a partner.
You get the drift?.
ALSO.
Some Broke Guys are LAZY in nature!
Women do appreciate hardworking guys, we do.
But the lazy type! Hush.
There are many unemployed graduate who love staying indoors, sleeping and always online looking for a girl to bully.
Why are such guys suprised at being broke?
They are proud and lazy to humble themselves and learn an income earning skill.
Tomorrow, these are guys who will be calling girls "GOLD DIGGERS" for rejecting their lazy azz.
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Dear broke guy, Wake up,
Work hard to improve your financial status,
Go and learn an income earning Skill,they are many out there to learn from.
My Final point is that a guy should be financial stable first before thinking of a serious relationship or marriage.
OK. Broke is not permanent to a hard working guy.
LOVE YOU ALL.
Thank you.

bigcp:
what's up with these Unilag babes....i just de hear unilag babes this, unilag babes that...what abt them....what's wrong....pls enlighten me....

Men and Ashiri.
SMH

How do we define an Educated person?
For me, if you pass from a secondary school and intelligent naturally, you are educated.
So being a Graduate or not should not be a deciding factor in relationship.
There is no age limit to going to university.
Even at 60, you can get a degree if you want.
And btw, there are many EDUCATED ILLITERATES out there.

Umuahia- The worst capital in Igbo land.

enshi:
Hello guys.. Pls i just secured a job in Lekki and i have to come from the main land every Day.. The fare is quite on the high side... And so i really need a roommate pending when i can get an afordable accommodation..

Anywhere from CMS to AJAH or even JAKANDE Would be just fine

I dont mind male or female provided the person is cool

08062360567 Enshigabriel@ymail.com

so you don't mind a female roommate.
Oga badoo. I salute.
Go and Marry pls.

Thank you OP.
Feminism remains a very import concept for wome,
it opens a lady's eye and prepares you in know your rights and priority.
Desperation to get married is most time due to societal pressure and it has pushed many ladies to do some silly things and later get emotional hurt.
Staying with a guy when he is broke and you are hoping for him to use wedding ring as thank you is a bad calculation.
Stay with him when he is broke just because you love him and not be hoping for marriage.
Desperation for marriage makes a woman to be soft target for opportunists.
AND ALSO.
I believe that a lady should focus FIRST on being independent financially before looking for A Broke guy to help carry his broke cross.

Good. Wicked guy.

Benita27:
HBD Ma'.

thank you sister.

Maxi112:
Happy birthday mami.

thank you dear.

refiner:
Merry birthday...
#JulyBornRock!

yap. We rock. July borns .thank you dear

You mean his tiny carrot? NONSENSE.

What a rubbish.!

Garrithe1st:
He is deceiving the frustrated and illiterate Aba-made Jews.

and how is that your business?

Garrithe1st:
The fraudster.....

how is he a fraudster? Did he defraud you?

jaksmillioniar:
happy birthday baby I feel sad dat is a guy like itsjude dat wish u happy birthday first but I knw dat dat not important but who truly care. u are a tru woman,a gud wife, a gud mother a gud friend and a gud person. an ibo beauty, a girl dat spit fire dat most guy are afraid of. I luv u a lot today and I celebrate wit u as u clocked anoda years. is not who first but is from my heart I wish u long life and prosper

God bless you so much. I am grateful.
I appreciate.

SmartchoicesNG:
In matters of love and romance age is nothing but a number.... don't you think so?

I understand but she should show me respect as her friend.
I can't stomach the reality that my son is sleeping with my friend of likely the same age with me.
Ok? For example, If my son is 21yrs and I the mother start dating a 21yr old guy.
Will my son be happy about it?

lozairio:
Happy birthday!!!

thank you dear.

Why wil my friend want to date my son? The age gap will be much abeg.