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Chikita66:
Amarabae I dislike this direction that you keep going, so because some ladies have views contrary to your feminist opinion that means they are looking for men or husband that is why they are talking like that.


Are you listening to yourself right now, you are better than stooping so low to spew this.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Saudi Arabia an ultra conservative society started to loosen it's hold against women when women started to speak up and used social media it is a powerful tool.A woman was allowed into Saudi highest decision council in 2015 women were allowed to vote in local elections and even contest in Iran the women used social media to protest against the forced hair covering.In Iraq the women used street protest and social media to protest against child marriage legislation.Oriaku no woman in her clear senses would not know what the UN and other women agencies both through social media and physical outreach have done to preach about women's right in the middleast that is why I respect Beji caid essebsi of Tunisia the president is really empowering our women.

donstan18:
You ended up embarrassing yourself the more by mentioning me with this garbage and dirt filled poo.

Stop calling yourself a reality advocate, it doesn't fit you, you are a Nland e-goat wannabe advocate, how many books have you in reality written about feminism?, how many interviews have you gone to orally express yourself to the world that you are a feminist, Amarabae can you strike a logical explanatory argument concerning feminism? can you?


No lady can deceive me on cyber, stop getting bitter because your fellow ladies corrected you, you are not above correction, stop being a disgrace to woman, be smart, be sensible.

You are not truthful more than I am, you are not blunt and unapologetic more than I am, but that doesn't mean i shouldn't use my common sense.


Whenever you see you husband, tell him to sit on your feet as you pour him your menstrual cramp so that he can learn his mistakes.


Anuofia

Chikita66:
This is a very disgusting statement, you all that are feminists, how many of you are married eh... .

donstan18:
I don't know about others, but I personally like her comment on politics section because she's not biased, she's straight to her tribe and other tribes, i'v read her posts several times.

But, here in romance section, she's far from the expected behavior and comment from a married woman, there are things others should be learning from her, even thou she owes nobody reasons to behave the way she does.

But, do well to know that Nlanders are ready to serve you what you asked for.

Ladyhippolyta88:
A lot of Nairalanders have gotten to my skin including my NL frenemy donstan18 and sometimes you need to understand that everyone has their own view point.I wonder why some NLders feel threatened when Amarabae makes wonderful suggestions really love and enjoy her post.

BiafranBushBoy:
From chapter 1 to 6, I posted just 6 times.

From chapter 1 to 6, you ve posted 45 times...

Oya, who is the addict?

Lol.... Full time housewife feminist like you.

BiafranBushBoy:
Lol...

Oriaku, woman Advocate, Home giver, Fulltime House wife, Queen to a king,

Only you. No go do Midwife work, come here dey shout feminism.

My wife is pregnant, can u help? Madam Midwife oshi radarada...

BiafranBushBoy:
Look at all the title you gave yourself @ ur siggy.

All you've achieved is rambling Feminism from one romance thread to another..

You sure you gat responsibilities at home? Or your husband doing all the job while you are a full time house wife shouting feminism up and down!!

MissWrite:
Lol. I don't think so. Like you said, this is just for the fun of it.


I don't think that women who oppose feminism are sex-starved. And only because I am convinced that a woman's self-love and self-respect (an a man's empathy) are expressed in active feminism, I believe that women who oppose it fall into any of these categories.

1. Religious women who believe that self-denial and self-sacrifice are a virtue.

2. Conservative women who just are reluctant to change. And are, therefore, unwilling to evaluate the change. They're stuck.

3. Cowardly women who lack the self-belief to be independent. They would rather have a man as a safety net at whatever cost.

4. Lazy women who don't want the hassle of being responsible for themselves.

5. Brainwashed/numb women who have been "stockholmed" and now seem to enjoy oppression. "What oppression?" They ask.

6. Opportunists (also cowardly, lazy, religious or conservative) who see this as a worthy distinguishing factor to make themselves more desirable to men. It used to be: must cook, must clean, must not talk too much, must know how to shag.............now it's: must not be a feminist. So, they'll shout it from the roof tops: feminism is devilish!........for an engagement ring.

7. Women who do not possess the mental acuity to grasp the meaning of feminism for themselves. So they allow the "smart gender" explain it to them. You can imagine how that goes....


Disclaimer: not an exhaustive list. And it's my opinion; you're free to have your own.

BdorianGray:
Hmmm Aunty Amarachi! Well done oh! ... Adaeze ndi Igbo 1 of NL.

anochuko01:
I hate when people bring their personal opinions and try to shove it down peoples throat.

when I find the right woman, I'll do just ANYTHING for her, as long as it doesn't mean committing a crime.

Chikita66:
Until you Nigeria feminist start fighting injustice against the girl child, I won't be one, instead of fighting injustice against the girl child, you people fight men.

TheUpsetGirl:
this lady called amarabae once said her husband must provide financially and in any other way.. for you to be a feminist you must be an independent lady.. what even got me angry is when they said ladies who don't support the movement are single and sex starved.. in America and Europe where it started 53% of their ladies don't support feminism and the feminists there don't say these kinda words. I wonder whether these ladies screaming feminism on nairaland understand the real ideology of feminism
and for their stance that we are sex starved and single... 80% of feminists are single. and they're the ones that are sex starved, yeah you can see their hypocrisy here

makydebbie:
I'm not coming out for you because of your feminism stand. But because of this statement. For you to be a feminist, you must embrace the 'sisterhood' that is, fighting for your fellow woman.

The comment brought out the hypocrite in you, a feminist that believes women who are not for the feminism movement are sex starved, is that one a feminist?


Sometimes it looks like you just want to rub it on people's faces that you're a feminist. As a feminist, I hope you've been empowering women around you and not just 'screaming on nairaland', that you're a feminist.