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If what you feel is right is that man have a free ticket to cheat then I must say your IQ is in the negative.

Princess4ng:
lol....am already being crucified for saying what i feel is right

You can't blame dumb women for their dumb comments. Imagine the mentality of a grown adult. Such mindset is only common Ong Nigerian women and men. How can one feel cheating is his birthright?

kimbraa:
Only guys who feel cheating is their entitlement would like your post. I hope they'll be so understanding when their wives cheat, provided women respects them enough not to rob it on their faces. But then again, would a spouse who respect you cheat on you? Maybe 'respect' has another meaning. Marry a cheat, then come back here and tell us how understanding you've been since you understand it's their nature to cheat. Talk is cheap!

And you think you've made sense

tiredoflife:
Hahahahaha sure its all about dominance
Dem dey use juju
E no do
Now they want physical dominance

I pity the fool that has time for a woman giving him trouble

That's why I say don't be broke
Once u notice she is giving u problems

Pack out and leave her in the house
No time
Na poor man no get option
Pack out
Rent a new place
Marry a new wife or find a side chic
While she looks at the ceiling each day

But men are saints who cannot you into depression.

Watermelonman:
Wives With Knives

I am happy for the man, he can now rest and be free from all accusations and suspicions even when there is nothing going on.

Women can drive you into depression. Same thing I was dealing with for years until I slid into subtle depression as per my doctor.

Still fighting to get out of that.

Please speak for yourself. This very shallow post of yours is the reason why Nigerian men treat women as inferior and second class citizens.

If you can take cheating pls do never advice women to out up with cheating because even the men cannot take half of what they dish out to their wives.

Princess4ng:
this is part of what u get when u dont get to know ur partner so well..................... trust issues everywhere!!!!!!!!!!! one thing ladies always fail to understand is that very very few men dont cheat....as far ur ur hubby respect u and dont show it to ur face why dont u play ur part of being a good wife, pray and leave every other thing to God................u cant stop a man from cheating..........my opinion tho........nobody should come for me mbok

But you believe the man's story that says the woman prevented him from entering the house and even waited there with a knife?

sotallcomputers:
I can see concorted lies in her story.

A man accused you of infidelity and immediately charged against you with a knife.

Big lie!

Those boys must've dressed provocatively. That's what they get from wearing shorts and exposing their flat chests.

It is not misleading and I don't think he's responsible for what you understand.

seguno2:
If it is MISLEADING, it should bother any rationale Christian.

The man is wicked too.

babyfaceafrica:
if he is wicked..then the father that threw her to the mother because he is getting married is what?

The guy is very much safe. Worse case,
the case will be in court and the deatbeat father will be asked where he's been since the child was being taken care of by another person.

xtervaganza:
while I agree with allowing the child to stay with him. It's nonsense to adopt a child without the father's consent. It's actually criminal and you might get sent to jail



Btw, you let a child that's not yours have your surname? If the child's father is a loco I bet you're not safe

Wow, that dude isn't their real dad?

misolataiwo:
Just a quick one, please check Mclure Twins on YouTube for just one hour and see the way the twins relate with their dad, you will be very surprised to hear that the man is not their real dad, he is their step dad!

If you're thinking of rejecting your wife's child then oga you're a wicked soul.

NairalandFAYOSE:
being with the mum means being with me. I don't think I want that

Never you ever refer to your as such.
Stand on your ground. You're not married to your family. You're married to your wife.

NairalandFAYOSE:
I don't Think My family will like this. they don't really like her that much Cus she is "AFTER ONE"

God bless you for being a good father to that child.

reyscrub:
Since your wife is hard working and is capable of taking care of the boy, nothing bad if her baby is with her ok. Blood is ticker than water so she can't let her product be far from her as you will never allow your child be taking away from you. Any body can fall prey to the love bait of boys and girls this day.

If you mistakenly have a child outside, you will think of bring him home and either appeal or force your wife to live with your boy abi.

I'm talking from experience because I married my wife with 6 years old boy and now I have a girl and a boy now they are three altogether and we live together. I ensure that all the three bear my surname and my wife agree and till this moment I claim him as my firstborn of my family and all the children see them self as the same father the same mother unknowingly.

So nothing is special or bad in married-after-one parent as a wife if she makes you happy and support you financially, spiritually, emotionally and prayerfully. My wife loves me like she can die for me nothing thinking twice on my cause because I ensure that all that consigns her is taking care off always.

Allow peace to rain in your home and don't allow people to confuse you with their local knowledge.

Take the boy home and make your wife happy ok.

You're complaining about your own wife's child. This is highly condemnable of you. Your wife's child is your child. Take care of that like she is yours. If the presence of that child bothers you then you clearly don't love your wife.

My parents have been taking care of my cousin since she was 6 and most people don't even know she isn't our sister because of the way we take care of her. We have never for once complained that she should go back.

Honestly, these people can do anything to spread their agenda while at the same time deriding the struggles of others. Thats why I didn't bother replying him anymore.

Mystiquefia:
that guy na fraud... the minute I saw where he was headed I knew he wasn't even from the old bendel state. How can you be bemoaning marginalization and clamouring for equity in the east and still claim to be urhobo?? is urhobo part of igboland?? what happened to putting our ordeals foremost since you're championing the course??

Yes sir

sharrp:
Can one receive money from abroad via his dorm account and withdraw over here in nigeria

Wow...I guess I should try standard chartered then. But do you know if I would need a referee to open a dorm account with them?

afuola:
Try and open standard chartered bank, they offer the best, transfer outside the country is excellent, charges for witd is 0.05% of the amount u want to withdraw, no minimum Bal bt it’s good to always leave something. Visit any branch to know more.

First Bank is for old people.

InvertedHammer:
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First bank is terrible.

$2000 mysteriously disappeared from my account without a trace. The account was debited but the recipient did not get it. It took 8 months to be rectified. I had to make another payment while their bs investigations lasted....very frustrating. It turned out First Bank screwed up. It was just one of many frustrating moments I had with First Bank Nigeria. Oh! And the run arounds. Not on my dime. The whole process sounds sweet when they explain it but good luck banking with them. If you don't use the account in 6 months, the account will be dormant. Really? 6 months? And you have bring it all kinds of paperwork, id, etc to reactivate it. Who has time for that nonsense in this day and age?

First Bank is hopeless. The only people I will ever advice to open dormiciliary accounts with First Bank are folks that I hate and detest. But since I don't keep enemies, FB ain't get any referrals from me ever.

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For real?

J29:
Standard chattered..ALL nigerian banks will route thru intermediary foreign banks.

How do you do this?

yinkeys:
Get a USA PayPal account & know how to use it properly.
That's what I've been using for 2 years now.

Nope, entrepreneur

Remijuice:
I can understand.

Hope your Pa is not a Salary earner. coz they won't accept that if he is a salary earner .

You're really a madgoat.

madgoat:
when your eyes open and when poverty begin deal with you, you go find real corporate job do. Leave all this subsistence farming for the villagers and old people

Bros, ignore senseless comments. You're doing very good and I pray you go higher and higher.

AgroSeeds:
You are sure its only 20k?

But at least, they are there own bosses and don't depend on government to survive. Can we see what you have done or achieved so far in life?

You think its easy to survive in Nigeria without government patronage or stealing money?

One love chief... One love.

Lol you people amaze me. As Christians,
we always give "ALL" the glory, not some to God. Does this bother you?

seguno2:
Don’t you think that your use of the word ONLY earlier is misleading

The funny thing is that I have a foreign account and I was never asked for any referee while opening that account. So why then do I need a referee to open an account in my own country? What about people who don't know any current account holders? I personally want to open a Nigerian dorm but I would hate to ask my father to reference me.

Remijuice:
Just to Make it difficult for us because they benefit more when you don't have foreign account and they are the one doing the conversion for you.

For example, if you receive payment they may pay you 280 to 1dollar into your local account.
But if you have Dom account you can withdraw your hard currency meet the BDC and exchange it 320 to 1dollar.

Imagine if you are changing up to $100

Alright, noted.

Efewestern:
Next time reply with facts, most people here will believe what that man just stated, without verifying his claims, All his accounts about the mid-western region were wrong.

Why should Nigerian banks request for referees from Nigerian adult citizens?

Remijuice:
Getting A Referee is my problem.

And you can't even spell the tribe you're claiming. "urohobo" indeed.

You should have focused on the topic by simply keeping it about seaports.

PS: you can't school me on something you don't know.

tiredoflife:
Oga don't go there
I am urohobo
The mid west didn't fire a shot as Biafran soldiers took Benin
Don't let me school u

Focos on the topic

Who told you they stopped being Igbo after the civil war? I have many ikwerre friends who have told me facts about the origin of their people. Let them be. From seaport matter you speedily jumped into other tribes and anti - igboness.


That being said, the issue of the seaports is a really sad one.

But how can Buhari understand all that grammar?