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Let you now speak of the scenario I know of.

My uncle had this gf. Very nice , loving,
caring, beautiful, respectful etc. My entire loved her and damn she was a very good cook too. Guess what my foolish uncle dumped her when the rest of the family didn't approve of their union. Less than 6 months later , she came to our house inviting us for her wedding. She married a nice guy and had lovely kids.

My uncle had a hard time moving on to the point everyone kept disturbing him to settle down. Well he finally settled down several years later in his late forties.

Mryacks:
Oh my, so spot on. I know an exact scenario to yours. in this case, the "Plan B" was even more loving and caring. Unfortunately for her, when Plan A left her at about the same time Plan B also moved on cos he got tired of her antics. the two guys are married now (one is my cousin)..she is not still!

Not paying tithe is a sin. God said we Rob him by our offerings and tithes. Now ask yourself is robbery against God a sin?

malvisguy212:
are you an atheist ? there is nothing wrong in paying tithe, and not paying tithe is not a sin either.

I don't understand the problem with Nigerian atheists. If our God is imaginary how does that concern you? If we are paying tithe is it with your money? So why exactly are you guys this pained and losing sleep over a God you claim is imaginary? Receive sense!

segmond:
This one has been brainwashed to the point that he thinks his imaginary god need his money b4 he can be welcome to his imaginary heaven. Continue.

Wow nice revelation.

But why are there still Wells in Lagos?

Excuses. The op said backup bf, wether or not feelings are involved is unimportant.
Stop saying what you don't know. Who told you men don't have feelings for their side chicks? I've seen cases where men left their wives for the other woman but I've never a woman leaving her husband for her sideman.

crafteck:
. Guys have sidechicks, no strings or feelings, knows her position.. Let a girl have side guy, d guy go overuse am

But if and when you cheat you don't bring bad luck to her?

keezy125:
I have also have this perspective that when a lady cheats.. she bring bad luck to me, #fact

I like how this topic is paining men but if it was the other way round they would support the op saying men are polygamous in nature. Bloody hypocrites..

Cry me a river

TB J

Just checked the depressed guy's posts now and im totally ashamed on his behalf.

Rizzoli:
Can you imagine that...

Please shut up. If you're going to bring Christianity into then bring your senses along. Christianity has nothing to do with fornication and is totally against it. So get out of my mentions.

SkydaDGreat:
Because their partners would fall down from heaven like eve abi? Please Give yourself sense

Sane people don't think so.

payman:
babe i swear u too dull

Hahahaha....One of such men opened a thread last week saying he wanted to divorce his wife due to her family being too nosy about his marriage. I looked at his profile and guess what?
This same man has been cheating and spending money on prostitutes including married ones and even booking hotels for their escapades. Them go dey alright las las sha.

Rizzoli:
I almost felt sorry for the man who says he is depressed till I took time to go through his Nairaland activities, I am shocked to see that a married man could be living this type of life and he is here accusing a woman of pushing him to depression.His lifestly is enough to push any sane person to depression.

For all you know he spends his hard earned money on call girls locally and internationally,what time does he have to be with the wife.I pity the poor woman ....

A genuine believer in Christ shouldn't have a boyfriend/girlfriend in the first place.

Jayhazard:
A genuine believer in Christ should be trust-filled enough to know that anything that has a godly background has tendencies of fertility. Having two or more 'partners' can be detrimental to the subject. It doesn't pay to live a life of pretence. God's grace cannot be excluded, but it doesn't take away the reward for good deeds.

Look at the thread , it's you people who seem hurt and are crying everywhere

Jayhazard:
Lol, you seem hurt.

You said it all. Nothing to add or subtract.

enilove:
A prophecy is a prediction , it can be Divine ( from God ) , satanic , false or man made.

The owner of a Divine prophecy is God and always comes to pass or be cancelled by God Himself.

Satanic prophecies do come to pass if not cancelled by a higher power than the prophesying.

That of man is most times not coming to pass.

They're really pained honestly. They've been crying all over NL since yesterday.
Hahahaha , bloody hypocrites.

malificent:
Males are so bitter about this why? Some are even of the mindset that joro talks too much, Just because of this article. See una life, if it's the other way round you guys will Hail and even dash him money. Joro or no joro anybody that has sense should know and do what's right. Leave the poor guy alone Abeg.

It's genetics my nigga, not biology

Lexusgs430:
Oga, e be like say to teach biology lessons dey hungry u...

Your question should be , why the man no get girl pikin for body?

Lexusgs430:
Leave me and my statement alone, biko..... Why she no get girl pickin for bodi......

Yes fear women because Hitler , Indi Amin, Buhari, Bin Laden etc were all women. Mumu

ct2:
when I see all this young men falling in love, I laugh. u don't know a woman, fear a woman more than the devil

Im not telling you my opinion. I'm stating medical fact.

Lexusgs430:
They are both responsible.....

The ever bias Tokoni. Would you give this same advice to your fellow me? No?

Toks2008:
And when the contingency guy becomes the main guy you will now start looking for a contingency husband...

Rather than spend time to make your affair work by beeing the best you can be you are fooling around looking for back up.

Hahahaha...

solasoulmusic:
Lmao me that can’t even talk to more than one man without feeling guilty

One in a million.

chronique:
I don't even know how people who think this foolish, manage to become famous. I've never had a back up gf and I don't ever intend to have one cos it's a whole lotta stress. Anybody who can't be exclusive with me should not bother dating me. God help you that I find out you're keeping a side nigga, that would be the end. If you like, be fine like mammy water, it's not my business.

I like how this topic pains men so much but if the op was encouraging men to have multiple girlfriends they would've been saying stuff like "men are polygamous in nature".

Lmao...bloody hypocrites.

The man is responsible for the sex of a child.

Lexusgs430:
Girl pickin no dey her bodi?

Typical domineering attitude of a Nigerian alpha male. No wonder they only marry their grandmothers whenever they wanna go Western cuz a young rational Western woman would never put up with their Bs.
Lmao

Boss13:
Leave that to the men who would tolerate a woman who cheats on them. If they want to keep the wives, it’s their choice. If they want to divorce them, it’s their choice. It’s not the end of the world and doesn’t change the situation that men cheats and have the right to cheat if they want to.

Your husband will do that. I don't need to.
Since you support cheating husbands my guess is you support abusive ones too

Princess4ng:
My dear... I have said my mind.. Please come nd beat me

Not only are you raving mad you're also a schizophrenic nematode. It is obvious you are autosomally recessive so I won't even engage you further. Go meet your fellow mad people at yabaleft. Don't bother replying as I won't read nor reply to a fool like you.

Klinee:
Mumu for your mind now you have sense, senseless idioot like you!
She is explaining the reality of life which you see everywhere in the world even in your so called Western world but because your mind is too myopic you refuse to understand.

Don't pretend like you didn't infer that most men cheat and that a woman should bear with cheaters as long as they are caring and nice towards them. Will you give this same advice to men whose wives cheat on them?

Princess4ng:
my dear.thats why at the end of the post i said its my own opinion....if u where not gud with it,u could just pass on to the next comment...............
i didnt say men should cheat, quote me right..what i said is that if a man is not determined from his mind to stop cheating, there is nothing a lady can do...will she kee herself na wao ....ok so u mean if a lady loves a guy so very much and his weak point is cheating she should leave him do u know if she can put up wit him its a personal decision mbok

Isn't that how you people blame women for being raped? Una too go dey alright by fire by force.

Senorprinz:
las las you go dey alright.

What rubbish justice are you talking about? Did he kill or kidnap the child?
Isn't the child's mother living with the child? Please educate yourself.

xtervaganza:
court? You think this is America or nollywood? We are talking street justice you're talking nonsense about court. I will never risk my life for anybody or any child unless of course the child's father gives his consent 100%