mechanics:
where you part of them?

Yes sir

Congratulations to us!

As salaam alaykum wa rahmatullah ma.

Use this link. You might find prospective buyers there.

https://www.nairaland.com/3589456/house-clearance-sales-come-here/391#3589456.12519

harley88:


Have heard about increasing calorie intake but I have no idea how to calculate it. I can only calculate those written on the label of packaged foods

https://www.freedieting.com/calorie-calculator

Check out the link above. If it doesn't list the amount of calories required to gain weight, it will list the amount required to maintain weight and you add more. Then you download any food diary app. The apps most times calculate the amount you have eaten versus the amount you need.

harley88:
Morning everyone, Pls I need tips on food I can eat to gain weight and add some fat. Yeah I'm trying to gain weight. I'm 22yrs and I weigh just about 68kg. Use to weigh more than this.

Pls I need the foods available In Nigeria that I can eat for gain more fat

Weight lifting is your best bet. You bulk up, your calorie need and intake increases and you gain weight.

I think 68kg is okay though.

bayobabe:
I have a Nokia 2 for sale for just 12k, it is in good condition, the only problem is the back case that got expanded when I changed before I changed the battery that was swollen. I stay around a Jericho in Ibadan. Anyone interested can quote me

What's the new battery like now? And how old is it? Is yours dual sim or single sim?

Ramaphosa:

Remove the bedsheet and post a bigger picture of your items please. If I am satisfied, I will pick them all.

Our grandparents did not have healthy kids. They just believed they were powerful kids who chose to make their parents cry by dying and returning many times. Most of our parents lost at least 2 siblings to their parents' ignorance. Ever wondered why there aren't abikus and ogbanjes anymore? If genotype is not an issue, you won't see so many people worrying about it. Please get more information on the subject.

Does anyone have a wardrobe for sale? Location is Ibadan.

OP's submission is what the ideal is. But this is Nigeria. Nothing ever favours the woman. No one prays for unpleasant events like death, divorce, other women/wives, etc, but these things happen. Personally, what I believe in is, we will have family projects (bearing both our first names and which we will both contribute to) and also individual projects (mine with my maiden name). I don't want stories that tickle the oesophagus.

[quote author=kiboe post=74836780][/quote]

Is this still available? And where is your location?

So sorry, OP, for all the stress. Please don't give up on your brother. From your write up, i think yoir brother is suffering from Catatonic Schizophrenia. The onset, progression and the signs and symptoms all fit a and thankfully, it can be managed. The unfortunate thing is, you sought for medical help a bit late.

As per the MRI, I can't really say if it is really necessary or not. But i'll advice you start all over again somewhere else, without mentionjng the MRI problem. Try University College Hospital, Ibadan or Neuropsychiatric Hospital, Aro, Abeokuta (whichever one that is closest to your location). I think management in either of those hospitals should even be a bit cheaper. The only issue is, you will have to start registration process again and you will have to pay for management and admission. Please seek help from relations, if you have to. He needs help and you need help too.

Please don't keep him at home. It's too risky for you and for your neighbours. Don't take him to any church or spiritualist either. You can go to the churches yourself and pray for him there.

May God ease your burdens.

snapscore:
Salam alyakum sisters,

I would like your opinion on a topic.

1)What are your views on spouses preventing each other from using social media? Like for example a man prevents his wife from using social media and vice versa even though he knew she uses it before he married her?

2) If both spouses agree that they will keep using social media, is it right for them to request passwords and read their private messages?

Wa alaykum salaam

1. Except if a man or a woman sees that his or her partner's activities are becoming detrimental to their marriage or personal well-being, I don't see any reason why he or she should try to stop his or her spouse from using social media.

2. Having access the each other's accounts is not wrong. The issue may arise if it becomes a routine or if one partner needlessly questions the other or does not trust him or her.

Abali1:

Hi ameenahz, I am sorry to hear about your sister, hope she is responding to treatment.
Concerning herbal supplement, I can't vouch for any drug and moreover, our body systems are different. What may work effectively for me, may not work as a effective for another.
Having said that, I can tell you that I have used dioscovite and Cellod-S. But haven't used somalin though I have heard that its equally good. Between the two that I have used, I prefer Cellod-S.
I will advice that you should wait for the hospital to discharge her before introducing herbal medication. Or better still consult her physician, though s/he may discourage the use of herbal medicine.

Thank you so much. I do realise that it will be better to wait until she is discharged. I was just wondering if something can be done to help her, in the mean time. However, I will take to your advise.
Thanks again. Regards to the family.

Hello Abali1,

Is there any herbal supplement that you can vouch for? My sister is on her 5th crisis this year and it seems to be the worst so far. She has tried dioscovite before and i am thinking of getting her somalin and cellod s. She is currently on admission in a tertiary health institution but there has been no improvement. We are tired. Please help. Thank you

Zeinymira:
Eid Mubarak to all the Muslims on NL: demmy66, smellymouth, hybeenoni, Tbaba, udatso,sino, Sissie, lanrexan, vedaxcool, tintingz, ameenahz, abuuUthaymeen, abuklaw and others

Eid mubarak to you too. Thank you for the mention.

celestialAgent:
I seriously need this. Do you have a base in Ibadan?

Hello sir. I have original Bragg's apple cider vinegar with mother for sale. I stay in Ibadan. My place isn't too far from gate. Whatsapp 07032668036 for details

Op, that message you saw could have been sent by anyone. It may have been her friend or her parents or anybody else. It doesn't even remotely suggest that she is cheating, to me. I guess the thought came to your mind because you have been wondering how she copes in her husband's absence. Since you didn't see anything 'incriminating', please banish that thought from your mind and let the poor woman enjoy her marriage.

Women should do this, women must do that... I doubt if some of you guys sleep at night on top woman matter. The appropriate age for marriage for women has now become a matter of grave concern, worthy of quality periods of research, by a man, eh kwa? Make una no develop high bp o.

Let's assume that the wife is the wakajugbe one here. I am sure many of you will still attack her and ask why she doesn't want stability for her family. Which husband will even move around this much for the sake of his wife's professional development? A sense of stability and security is a human need abeg. Let Oga cool down small.

The babies are currently on admission at the special care baby unit at UCH, Ibadan. The family is in dire need of financial assistance. Anyone who is blessed and opportune to help should please do so. God bless you all.

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

I am trying very hard to understand the relationship between being virtuous and waking up at 4am. And i still don't, even after thinking and thinking. I am sorry, but it is not compulsory for your wife to run your home the way your mum and sisters run theirs. To me, as long as the house is well kept, food is ready and kids okay and settled, it doesn't matter if she wakes up at 6am. If she needs rest, please let her get it. Pls stop pushing this matter before she starts seeing you as a task master (you actually sound like one) .

The only issue here is prayer. And even that, you cannot force her. Just pray for her, remind her politely and encourage her.

raumdeuter:
What if the woman wants children and the man says he doesnt want?

Or the woman says she wants 4 and the man says he only want 1. What should happen?

Sincerely, i am trying very hard not to be biased, but it isn't working. Lol.

Anyway, 1 child is too 'few' na, if they are able to have more.

Nubian113, no offence meant, but is this man interested in you or vice versa? Why are you hell bent on totally accepting one side of the story without considering the woman's reasons? You think the man cannot lie to you?

I would love to hear your opinion on this matter when you get married and start having kids. Again, no offence meant, please.

Bros, please do not even think about trying it. My parents did and we all regret it till today. They are even no longer together. Do not be blinded by emotions. For better for worse is not always feasible, especially when you have to stay awake to nurse a child in pain while playing the blame and listening to your own child curse you.

As-salaam alaykum wa rahmatullah, sisters. How are we all?

bntY:
Thanks for ur contribution, @ all.
...Sissie, you dont think you will be makin dis section of d land 'arid' by diverting discussion to our mobiles?

Madam, you were right. Salaam alaykum wa rahmatullah

GodnGold:
I have said it.I don't knw how to tell them.I don't like mun in law /daughter in law drama.I am taking it gradually though.I just told my son not to let anybody touch his mouth.
And the chap knows how to carry out orders.

Good. No one likes drama but it is unavoidable in cases like this. Make she vex if she wan vex. Knocking out a child's teeth for no good reason with crude tools is a bit on the stupid side. I am even more surprised his dad agreed to such nonsense. How will they control bleeding? Manage pain? Prevent infection?

Tell her you have taken him to see a dentist and he said it will fall out and there is no problem. If she insists on doing it, then tell her firmly but calmly that you don't want such done for your child.

I will be very cross with you if you sit back and allow that illiterate mother in law of yours cause that boy all that pain.


Wait, what is she using? Pincers? Pliers? Stone?

bnovative:

I have made my point clear and i have no intention to argue with u. The point is: it's the attitude of the nurses that contribute most in crumbling the sector than lack of equipment/govt policy.
u can try to explain why a cruel and incompetent nurse should be excused for his inefficiency, but the public know some of them are merchants of death.
To put it mildly, the public see the nurse in the public hospital as the nigerian police.

Actually sir, she was trying to correct your misconception about nurses with degrees and those without degrees.

But are you trying to say that the problem has to be my attitude as a nurse if the hospital management refuse to supply enough beds, gloves, disinfectants and the likes? And if i am on night duty in an emergency unit with just one other nurse and i have 20 critically ill patients or accident victims with just 10 bed spaces, it is my fault?

Bro, things are not always the way they seem. Please get rid of this bias and stereotypes of yours and be objective. In the Op's case, he did the best he could do in that situation. I am sure things would have been different if facilities were on ground.


That said, i agree that there are terrible nurses, just as there are bad professionals in every profession. You can help us reform them or flush them out. There is no excuse for negligence and rudeness. Most public hospitals have audit and disciplinary departments (servicom, mostly) where you can lodge complaints if any nurse is rude or negligent. No need to bear grudges or shout. Just get your evidence and report anyone who misbehaves.