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tabithababy:
Na wa o. The moment your boyfriend,manfriend or husband knows you have money, he will become a liability to you to the extent of even borrowing money from you.

omoladunayemi:
After much persuasion, he started a venture, but we still live on my business. The only thing he use his money for is to buy recharge cards. He always complain of lack of money.

We had disagreement on Tuesday over this same issue. He therefore stopped eating my food. To my greatest surprise, my husband began to spend money to buy food for himself, the money I never knew he has.

What shocked me most is this. I am the one that used to pay our security due. They came knocking for the money yesterday money. I refused to answer. He said I should give them 1000 naira, I refused. To my greatest surprise, he went inside and brought out N1000(mint) that I never knew he had. This is a man that never contributed any kobo for feeding o. If I ask him, he will get angry and say I am mocking him for his lack of money.

Now my question is this, am I too forward? as in, Is it because I always go ahead to provide the family needs that got me into the present predicament?

I will really appreciate ur sincere view. Thanks

Just hold on, he is in grief, dont try to settle anything now. Be a good wife, be there for him even when he refuses to talk to you.
Be patient and supportive, he will get over his grief then you can sort yourselves out. Dont beat yourself, the deed has been done, just look towards the future, you need to be seriously patient.
Good Luck

computerboy:


Oga m amarokwa m na i bu onye be anyi.
Udo diri gi

STENON:
Hmmmm, I read through his posts and I noticed that he has scammed someone from UK based on this same post.

Are u serious i was already pitying him oo

Acidosis:
Bro, this business is not for you. It is BAD BUSINESS.

I do not think I know Epe, but certainly not a place you can refund N240k conveniently in 6 months.

Besides, how come Okada now sells @N170K? Last time I studied this venture, some brands sell @N90-100k.

The reason for the 70% increment in the cost of Okada is not far-fetched, but I won't encourage you to delve into this business given the fact that fuel prices have increased, meanwhile, cost of transportation has barely increased by 10%.

Do you really think you can turnover N1800 daily, and still cater for your family, agbero, and fuel?

Further, don't you think N20,000 is too much for registration? Even Taxi and Bus drivers do not pay such!

Again, okada wears out easily in areas with poor road network. You might need to consider this before you agree to their terms.

I understand the Okada would become your property as soon as you pay up, but if I were in your shoes, I'd consider other alternatives like loan, or something. A loan of N200k shouldn't attract a N30,000 interest in 6 months. That's good deal bro! Pay up the registration fee (N20,000), get your bike (N170,000) and keep the change (N10,000). Spread the N230,000 over a period of 6 months. That's barely N35,000/monthly and in 6 months, you're debt free!

Meanwhile, N240,000 is just an ideal money to get a used and sound car/cab/taxi for transportation business (I can get you a used but good Mazda 626 @N200,000, although maintenance is costlier than Okada).

Lastly, since I do not have a good understanding of Epe, cost of transportation and population size, you just might realize the target faster than I've assumed.

In the absence of other alternatives, keep soliciting if you're REAL.

rhymaster:
Trying to be funny but this is trash! So it means that other peoples and languages don't have any of these right or you're just ignorant, you don't know what it is called in their language?

robay:
carry your frustration go enter fire Jor, Ode!

Huasamafia1:
Rubbish Yoruba mothers are very dirty ....i

Op, nice one jor, though I dnt really understand d words u posted up there but I can feel d pain of ppl who receive such.. Thanks to u for further explaining

computerboy:
Anambra is my main base with branches in the other states

computerboy:
No but I do send to lagos. I operate in the East

computerboy:
I'm glad I could solve your problem.

Please for your USA used phones, tablets and laptops remember to contact me first.

computerboy:
I'm glad I could solve your problem.

Please for your USA used phones, tablets and laptops remember to contact me first.

iamDiabolic:
as in why create hell if he really wants us to have free will.90% of those who go to church nd mosque nd all those religious terrorist do all what they do because of threat of hell.why not remove that threat of hell nd dee how religious terrorism would stop nd how lot of people would stop woshipping him.that's like inferirity complex to me

computerboy:
It usually occur after you run some windows update. Either stop updating your windows or keep the code handy in case you might need it again.

Afrokan:
Why Jesus? What of Allah or Krishna? Or are you saying Allah is not as powerful as Jesus

iamDiabolic:
Am not an atheist, though most people see me as thiest (but not a religious one though) just attending church for the sake of attending,but deep in my mind am an agnostic.but with kinda things I go through might end up being an atheist, because I don't even feel the if any God exist, cause I have not even felt him before, I watch people catch holy ghost and testifying to seeing angels but not even have I had a dream bout one before. We just have to keep worshiping though we shouldn't believe what we can see,but we worship him due to fear of the unknown.

Sometimes I even pray that if he exist he should show at least show himself in a dream or through a pastor,but he still never show himself to me,he doesn't have any message for me,damn who TF is he,we should keep worshipping him cause he we were told fairytale about one stupid hell they keep threatening us with.

Me and my friends once attended a night vigil,when the pastor was touching all of them head they kept falling (in my mind I was laughing at their funny charade), when it got to my time I didn't fall, I didn't even move back as he was trying to force me to maybe fall, since then i no attend the yeye church.

What am trying to drive at is am beginning to doubt the existence of God and if he doesn't show himself to me one of this days, then I might graduate into an atheist. Mind you oh yea preachers and gullible ones I don't need your preaching and bible verses. I have heard enough of that.

computerboy:
Exactly. When you clicked yes and saw the box then follow my instructions and paste the code. It should look like the pix below

https://i0.wp.com/www.whatvwant.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/windows7-errorfir-e1399704095918.jpg?resize=447%2C128

You might think the picture is the same with the one you posted earlier but take a close look and you'll see they're different. Try opening both and you'll see for yourself.

[size=15pt]Whaooooooooo, it finally worked... Yipeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm indeed grateful for this.. The laptop no longer shows "This copy of windows is not genuine"
Thanks pal, u are indeed a Computer Genius .. May God Almighty bless you richly[/size]

KINGinVAHALA:
What's the meaning of all this rubbish?

Tay16:
if you see the rubbish PMs the OP sends to girls off NL, you will be shocked that he is even a married guy! check his profile and ask yourself why a "married man" is following so many females and you will know he is a complete joke!

tomquest:
This ain't a men-versus-women thread. Just a thread to look at a specific subject. We are all one. I hope to do justice to the male aspect of the question in a different thread, so please don't get offended. Hope work was fine today?

computerboy:
Click on the start icon and type cmd in the search box but don't press enter. While typing cmd you'll see results shown.
Just right click on command prompt and run as administrator

tomquest:
I'm not being anything. Nobody said men are perfect or otherwise. You know the topic of the thread, please stick to it. God bless you.

horllamy:
You can check my signature for my contact

horllamy:
I base in computer villa

horllamy:
I don't know
If you are living in lagos I can help you to fix it.

computerboy:
Open start screen and type cmd
You'll see command prompt amongst the results
Right click on command prompt and select run as administrator

Once it opens, copy and paste this SLMGR -REARM

A window might come up then press ok and finally reboot.

Note : SLMGR -REARM might not work for 64 bit. If you're on 64bit and it doesn't work, just replace with SLMGR /REARM
Enjoy

horllamy:
You may do it online or offline
I mean to buy the software

tomquest:
Oh yes some men gain weight and pot belly. That's a topic for another thread (probably there's a thread on NL which explores the subject).

tomquest:
Yep I know childbearing brings about weight gain. But it's not irreversible. It's just the zeal.
Besides, this wasn't the type of weight gain I was referring to. It goes beyond that. Talking about "consciously blowing out of shape" without

1) exercises to burn calories to maintain weight
2) sticking to a healthy eating habit wilhich includes the right calories intake considering ones BMI and level of physical activity.


I totally agree with you that an out-of-shape wife shouldn't be a ticket for a man to cheat. But do you realize that staying in shape is a strong attraction factor in keeping your man all to yourself?