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It was this same address of 4b toying street that lead me to this thread as I just received their invite for an interview on Tuesday 29/12/2020. My 15k is hanging in one of the centre I went for job application 2yrs ago after a very smooth talk and inspiring address me wey dey look for job coughed out 10k on spot and later pay up 3k and 2k to do induction even at then my money no still reach start up.
Since then alot of things became clear and the fact that some people are benefiting from the sweat of others and it's an obvious MLM scheme.
So let's be properly guided. No matter how sweet the talk is a job applicant should never pay to be part of an organization.

hisexcellency34:
Even after you rent expires, you are entitled to six months without pay

Any reference for this as my rent too just expired

I think it's about sharing the same value, focal point, compass and source of guidance with the same understanding of concept

Barbie15:
Thank you for not bashing me ,I have learnt my lessons. Please how do I go about this without involving my husband

There is no way it wouldn't involve your husband. All you have to do now is to consider your children perhaps your marriage might survive. But come out clean to your husband then his threat are worthless because no be today we dey see videos online is just a few moments and then we move onto other things.

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

Dear Op,
You don't have any issue
Just go Polygamous already. However do this with sense, compassionate and consideration

Christmasdon:
She wants to pay the dowry, which is my responsibility. should eye fold my hand and watch her go ahead. please advice.

Noooo

Just read the meaning of fathia in English for them that's all

Well check previous post related to this here it will more than suffice for your preparation

SBL28:
It is good to start the year with prayers, whether you are doing it in a church or the corner of your room.

U c

Ideology

Henry22:
Our religious brothers and sisters are coming for you

They are most welcome

All of their reasons has no genuineness from either o their scriptures
It only emanate from Idea or what they see their holy Fathers doing. #baseless

It doesn't mean Shit


Every night is a Crossover

Most of the high paying jobs is on the Island. house rent there is exorbitant. However on the mainland Areas such as Ikeja, Maryland, towards the axis of Yaba, Gbagada, Ogba and so on are areas where you could also get a job with a considerable price for house rent.



My recommendations will be first look for a family or frnd to manage with here in Lagos regardless of where they are staying as long as it is in Lagos. Then when you finally get a Job then you can rent a house. #my2cents

michealoluwaseyi:
God bless u for saying the truth

What is there to gain for lying is not as if it's an offence

Except you have maintained staying at a particular place for the past year then it's possible but if you had to shuttle between places sleeping in different places most likely you wouldn't.

No

Obviously

And so it might be more of exploitation for Nigeria at this stage of our development

The angle I'm seeing this from is that this exposes the recourses countries involve has to each other and we are the one with the largest resources and refuses to use it

Nigeria my Father's Land






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Fp straight

jc173:
Thanks alot... Going into business right?

How about the area of self development (acquiring desired skills/knowledge) even going into business 'gaan sef' requires knowledge and some level of expertise which can always be built on as the business evolve. But if you feel you have the basics p start then shoot your short. However look at start up in Nigeria and see what's happening to them example is in the transport industry from max.ng to Gocada to Opay as an individual who do you easily make use of I'm almost are you will say Opay however Max ng was the first so something must have been the issue to affect our preferences. I hope you got the point. Let us know your final decision

Dear Op the occasion that not having a car deprived you of will it generate an income for you or add value to your worth? If not then don't buy it. I will STRONGLY RECOMMEND you invest in your self to increase your worth because that's the only thing that matters and what employers pay for. Cheers in making the best decision.

Dear Op I think the better question is of what Importance is the degree after your graduation knowing fully well that as it is gaan if you were to had initially graduated with 2:1 in Nigeria is just the begining of another hustle. So to be frank do you really need the degree if yes I will strongly recommend you pick a more desirable course you are passionate about and put your very best in it "anything what do you at all is what doing well" And not too worry 4yrs can be really short . All the best

melviniyke2002:
washington dc

There is no Port at Washington DC but if you mean the items location it's ok then

ValCon888:
Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.

The question is for How long will it continue.
You can actually get married and have an understanding of what you want between you two or find a middle ground on how things can work.

melviniyke2002:
How much wud it cost to ship 2006 corolla frm d us n which shipping coy is d best......

From which port at the US?

tharheer4sure@gmail.com
I'm interested kindly contact me

Baarakallahufeeh