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✍� And here we go again!

Here we are, looking school resumption square in the face Chaiiiii. Adulting is a #scam ohhhh
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So one of the many complex things to do as a parent is to prepare the kids for school resumption, especially when you've got 5 of them and in different grades too.

The task is daunting!

However, you can catch the hang of it as I did

Is that even possible? You may want to ask

Well yes!

Take it from this mum of 5 who wants life to be easy for you as you #Level up
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Oya, look this let it not feel like Viv wants to whine to you.

https://amumandmore.com/prepare-kids-for-school-resumption/

I hope this helps you, mamma, as much as it has helped me, as the new school session commences.

Have you checked this out? We'd love to hear your thoughts.



Love, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay Fabulous!

©️ The Viv Obinna

With Marriage comes a lot of misunderstanding especially when these subjects were not discussed prior to getting married.


A common friction couples tend to have have early on is the money friction.


To successfully build and manage a home the subject of money isn't one that should be left to chance and assumptions.
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READ MORE:

https://amumandmore.com/dealing-with-money-matters-as-a-newlywed/


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay Fabulous!

©️ Viv

✍� How beautiful would the world be with everyone having lived a long productive live?


Did you know that vaccines have been indiscriminately saving lives since 1796.?


In over 2 centuries Vaccines have made it possible for billions of people to live qualitative lives.


To prevent diseases and live a healthy life; Every child should be immunized.


As parents, the onus rests on us to do due diligence by our kids when it comes to been vaccinated.


As a people, It is of utmost importance that we raise the awareness of the importance of Immunization.


Every kid deserves to realize their dreams.

Every child deserves a right to Long life.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous!


©️ Viv

✍� Who have you got in your corner?

Motherhood is a journey made easy with the right people in your corner.

In other words, no woman is an island.

There are days I want to rant so hard that I turn to the Son if Man to vent, but Man be looking at me like I'm talking chinese.

The most I can get out of him is sympathy while what I needed at the time is empathy.

But can I even blame the innocent Man?

Man is a #Dad and he could never understand my mummy bants like only a #Mom would. #Dontleaveme

Sometimes, in the bustle of motherhood, all you need to put your head back in the game is talk to that mom who you are confident can easily relate to what you're saying because she's been there and still is.

Ha! What would I have done without #mommyfriends in my corner?

The bottom line is, you need yourself a mommy friend.

So have you recognized this truth and can't figure out how to go about getting yourself that mommy friend or friends?

I've got you

Read More:

https://amumandmore.com/ways-to-build-mommy-friendship/

Ngwa, click on that link and let's know your thoughts in the comment section.

Stay Fabulous!

Love, Learn, Lead, Laugh and Live Life to the Fullest.

©️ The Viv Obinna

✍�Who wants to be a Millionaire Mom?

It's money-making Monday baibee!

What have you got doing to secure that bag?

So gone are those days we have to depend on another person for our upkeep.

Especially if you're like me, that finds asking for the upkeep even more difficult.

There's nothing as fulfilling as being capable of fending for yourself without brainstorming how, the where, and the when to get the bar.

An even more immense Joy is being able to step in and cater to the need of the home when the need arises.

The need had better not arise frequently, else
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Luckily, the internet has come to stay and thanks to it, there are many businesses or careers that you could venture into from the comfort of your home as a Stay At Home Mom

Amazing! Right?

All you need is the passion for seeing it through. A laptop, a good internet connection, and your content, for the most part.

Las Las, the goal is to have a bag to your name.

Have you been confused or probably don't even know what to venture into to make that extra cash?

Then click on the link below

https://amumandmore.com/online-businesses-for-stay-at-home-mom/

We want some feedback. Let's hear your thoughts in the comment section.

Who's going first?

Love, Lead, Learn, Laugh and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay FabulousFabulous!

©️ The Viv Obinna

goldfish27:
No be by book person dey succeed

OK Sir

✍�Did you know the relationship with your kids is mainly dependent on your ability to manage stress?

Let's face it; Motherhood is the embodiment of stress. While the office brings with it the best perks you can envisage, it also presents a fair share of work and frustration.

Juggling motherhood along with the other duties you may have can be very challenging however, the onus still rests on us to be able to manage our stress levels.

The good news; The joyful perks of motherhood can help you deal with the parts that are more stressful than fun.

Dear Mamma,

Stress comes with the "Mummy" territory, but you have to manage it so you can function optimally.

Imagine talking to your kids in your stressed-out form and tone It's not a good sight, and we often regret our outburst, because it finally registers that these kids are just innocent bystanders.
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Looking to deal with mummy stress?
READ MORE:

https://amumandmore.com/stay-at-home-mom-stress-how-to-deal-with-it/

Hey Mamma!

Don't forget to mention if this helped you!

Care to share what other ways you relieve yourself of the stress?

Please share in the comment section.

Dear Mamma,

While you try to manage the tantrums, the busyness, the accidents, and whatnot that comes with motherhood remember to revel in these moments because it won't last, and when it is gone, all you'll have left are the memories.

So as much as you'd want to have everything under control, have fun while at it.

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest!


Stay Fabulous!

©️ The Viv Obinna

✍� Times have changed and today's generation of teenagers are exposed by a great margin, to what their predecessors weren't.

As more and more teens are getting attracted to various social media platforms, parents are increasingly agitated and worried about what the future holds for their Teens. This isn’t something that can be taken lightly, too, as the consequences of overindulgence in social media can be damaging for teenagers.

Most parents seem to be much quicker in handing out mobile phones without any restrictions to their teens. While the rest apprehensive about doing the same.

Dear Mamma,

While many feel that monitoring your kid’s social media accounts is a violation of their privacy, the dangers present online are far too dangerous to leave them on their own through the early phases of their digital life.

There needs to be a balance between monitoring their online activities and giving them the necessary freedom that they desire.

Mamma, the goal here is to raise well grounded children and if monitoring their social media activity is invading by their privacy, then by all means.

We are parenting as the times demands and we are going to be intentional.

If intentional is your game too, then this might come in handy:

https://amumandmore.com/monitor-teens-social-media-activities/

Dear Mamma,

Society cannot and should not mould our kids. The onus rests upon us to guide them in the way to go.

Do you have any thoughts regarding this topic?

Let's hear them in the comment section.

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay Fabulous!

©️ The Viv Obinna

✍�This Budget thing doesn't work. Na scam��‍♀

Do you get by all the time, or are you able to spend your money wisely?

Has it been years of trying hard to put your money to good use.

Like, money enters your hand now, and in five minutes, you are wondering where it all went. No, be film trick, e dey happen.

You always feel like if you can earn just a little more, then your family needs are sorted. Is this true?

Mamma, having to run a family, especially a large one, can put you on a hot seat. Trust me. I used to be on that seat. We are all together a family of 7.

You can learn how to adequately manage your family on what you have and grow because wealth is not just about what you have.

If you are stuck on this, then these tips can help https://amumandmore.com/budgeting-tips-for-big-families/

Then study, follow diligently, and document your progress.

Gift someone this article. It just might be what they need too.

Love, Learn, Lead, Laugh and Live Life to the fullest!

Stay Fabulous !

©️Viv

✍� The holiday is here already and moms couldn't be more burnt out.


I wish I could be a teacher during the holidays, so as to be alone in the classroom. What am I even saying?


Who needs a brrrrrrrrreaaak?


Well, I hear moms hardly get breaks soooo.........


Dear Working Mamma,


I know it's crazy on your end, knowing the kids have to be home while you go to work, as opposed to them being In school.


So I got you an Early Easter present .


https://amumandmore.com/survival-tips-for-working-moms/

Was that helpful?

We'd love to know in the comment section



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay FabulousFabulous!



©️Viv

✍� You have a friend, she just came visiting. She got into your abode and the next thing she blurts out is; My husband hits me.


How would that rub off on you?


Sadly, this is one situation too many. Many women are going through mind boggling abuse in the hands of the ones who promised them protection.


Dear Mamma,

May I ask?

☘ Have your spouse hit you before?

☘ How would you handle an abusive spouse?

This is a very vast conversation. Join the discussion here:


https://amumandmore.com/domestic-violence/


Dear Mamma,


What your take on domestic violence and how do you think this menace can be curbed?


Let's hear your thoughts in the comments section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous!



©️Viv

✍� Did you know, an important part of your child's emotional and intellectual development is reading.


Wawu right?


For your child to succeed, he needs strong reading and comprehension skill.


Are you at a loss as to how to inculcate the reading habit into your child?

Then you may want to see this:


https://amumandmore.com/good-reading-habits/



Dear Mamma,

Some kids love to read while others have to be nudged to do same. Understand that every kid is different. Therefore a different approach is encouraged when dealing with each kid.


Hey beautiful,

How did you get your babies to love to read?

We'd love to know in the comment section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest


Stay FabulousFabulous!



©️Viv

✍� Has it ever occurred to you that drawing comparisons between your kids actually creates more harm than good?


This habit is one of the leading causes of sibling rivalry.


As a parent, one of the most difficult thing there is to do is avoid comparing the kids. Especially with everything you know about them, from their developmental milestones, their sleep schedule, their feeding habits. Heck! Even their pregnancies were subject to comparison.


We may not know this, but the cons of comparing kids surpasses the pros by a great margin.


What cons? you may ask.

READ MORE:


https://amumandmore.com/sibling-comparison/



Dear Mamma,


Every child's nature or personality is as unique as their DNA.

So the sooner we did away with comparing them, the better they become at blossoming into their real self and not the self they'll morph into as a result of them wanting to meet or surpass our standards.


What do you think of sibling comparison mamma?

Let's hear it in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous!



©️Viv

✍� How did we get here? An era when even the air we breathe isn’t even safe anymore. Does Port Harcourt come to your mind?

Imagine breathing the air you need turning around to having a damaging effect on your health.

While dealing with the Pandemic, people still had to deal with asthma, heart disease, and cancer because of a polluted planet; which way now?

Did you know that an estimation of 13million deaths worldwide each year are linked to avoidable environmental causes, with the climate crisis being the most significant threat facing humanity?

Dear Mamma, this is not a Nigerian problem, it is a global issue, and there is an urgent need to keep ourselves and the planet healthy and create a society that is more focused on well-being.

Are there things we can do to contribute to eliminating pollution and the environmental crisis?

Can you please suggest at least one change we can begin to apply in our homes, offices, or with our lifestyles?

Remember, it is Our Planet, Our Health.

Love, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest!

Stay #fabulous�

Viv Obinna

✍� Times have changed and with an increase of the decadence in the education sector.



With the inadequacies going on in schools nowadays, most parents are being compelled to homeschool their kids.


With the concern of children experiencing a qualitative education on the increase, more families have had to navigate through the home schooling terrain.



While this isn't a bad idea, home schooling is no joke!

From gathering teaching materials, to setting a daily schedule, homeschooling can be overwhelming, especially for first-timers.


Therefore, if you are a parent barely holding on to the strings of home schooling, you may want to go through this guide.



https://amumandmore.com/5-homeschooling-tips-for-stay-at-home-moms/


Dear Mamma,


Regardless of the dread and uncertainties surrounding home schooling, be well aware that the pros by all means surpasses the cons.


What do you think about those tips?

Let's hear them in the comment section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay FabulousFabulous!


©️Viv

✍� Are you raising a self sufficient kid?


I just heard a lady say to another lady "That child is too young to be doing that chore"


It blew my mind! Putting into consideration that the said child is aged about 7.


Did we forget that assigning chores to kids teaches them responsibility and improves on their self esteem?


Yes! it is imperative that as adults, we keep the ages of the kids in mind when assigning chores to ensure they are not overwhelmed. And while your children will likely need reminders to do their assigned work, setting the right tone from the beginning and maintaining it helps keep kids motivated and can prevent common conflicts.


Dear Mamma,


Getting started on kids chores does take a bit of up-front work. But if it’s approached with the right attitude and tone, kids are likely to take on household tasks with ease. And soon chores will simply be a normal part of your daily routine.


Hey Mamma,

Are at a loss at what age appropriate chore to assign to your child?

Then I've gotcha!


https://amumandmore.com/house-chores-for-children/

Dear Mamma,

At what age did you start assigning chores to your kids and how did they fall into the routine?

We'd love to know in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.



Stay FabulousFabulous!


©️Viv

✍�What's more disappointing than seeing Aunt Flo when you really wanted to miss it?



Is it that time of the month for you and you're getting yourself and hubby ready for a marathon?


You may be missing it!

Yes, s$x during ovulation may be a sure bet to falling pregnant. However round the clock s$x is a surer bet.


Dear Mamma,

Have you been struggling with conceiving?


The main symptom of infertility is the inability to get pregnant.


However, there are many reasons as to why you may not be falling pregnant.


Let's talk about this in details using this link:



https://amumandmore.com/causes-of-infertility-in-a-woman/



Dear Mamma,

Don't give up yet, many women who struggled with infertility eventually conceived without treatment. So keep hope alive.



Did you go through the article? What's running through your mind?

We'd love to know in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.



Stay Fabulous!


©️Viv

✍�Is there an ideal age gap between siblings?

Oh! I know! You're considering having another baby.

Whenever I hear this question, I'm always certain a baby is about to be made.

Well, to answer the question; There's really no yes and no answer when it comes to deciding when to have another baby, considering the many factors involved.

That said, many experts recommend 18 to 24 months between siblings.

Dear Mamma,

It's totally up to you to decide when it is ideal to birth another baby. At the end of the day, you'll be the one in the labour ward trying to birth a baby.

You'll be the one trying to satisfy the need of a newborn and a toddler.

So it's totally your decision to make.

However, it's ok to consider the factors involved in bringing another little cute one into the world.

Dear Mamma,

Are you sure or not about what to look into?

Here's something that will help;

https://amumandmore.com/ideal-age-gap-between-siblings/

We'd love to hear your thoughts about your ideal age gap between siblings.

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay FabulousFabulous!

©️ Viv Obinna

✍� Times have changed and today's generation of teenagers are exposed by a great margin, to what their predecessors weren't.


As more and more teens are getting attracted to various social media platforms, parents are increasingly agitated and worried about what the future holds for their Teens. This isn’t something that can be taken lightly, too, as the consequences of overindulgence in social media can be damaging for teenagers.

Most parents seem to be much quicker in handing out mobile phones without any restrictions to their teens. While the rest apprehensive about doing the same.

While many feel that monitoring your kid’s social media accounts is a violation of their privacy, the dangers present online are far too dangerous to leave them on their own through the early phases of their digital life.

There needs to be a balance between monitoring their online activities and giving them the necessary freedom that they desire.

Mamma, the goal here is to raise well grounded children and if monitoring their social media activity is invading by their privacy, then by all means.

We are parenting as the times demands and we are going to be intentional.

If intentional is your game too, then this might come in handy:

https://amumandmore.com/monitor-teens-social-media-activities/



Society cannot and should not mould our kids. The onus rests upon us to guide them in the way to go.


Do you have any thoughts regarding this topic?

Let's hear them in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous


©️Viv

✍� Can I be able to birth a child after I clock 40?

One of the many fears women beyond the age of 35 have is not being able to conceive and birth their babies. �

While these concerns are mostly in the head; It is also valid, seeing as the number of eggs cells women have reduce significantly after the the age of 35.

Regardless of the many myths surrounding pregnancy after age 40. Having a baby a baby at 40 is actually more common than it used to be. �

As much as a lot of women within this age circle definitely would have lot of fears about health and safety, there's still a lot that would shock you. Just so you don't jump into conclusion and rule out your options, there's something you may want to see!

If you are a TTC mom and you are quite unsure. We have something special we have put together for you!

You might want to read this, just click on the link below:

https://amumandmore.com/having-a-baby-in-your-40s/

Don't forget to leave a response in the comment section too !

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest!

Be fabulous �

©️ Viv

✍�I talk. They talk. We talk. But do we listen? Do we really communicate?


Talking with your kids is a daily Occurrence. However, as parents we often like to keep these conversations with them as minimal as possible.


Hold that thought! I know what you're thinking
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Don't bring your "busy card" Out yet.

Everyone is actually busy; Either busy doing something or nothing. ��‍don't leave me.


Busy shouldn't stand in your way of effectively communicating with your child. There are days your child needs for you to really tune in and just listen.
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Dear Mamma,

Your child may or may not tell you; but he or she actually needs communicating with you to make sense of their emotions.

Talk with your children don't just talk to them. This in the long run will definitely open the door to a healthy relationship.

Isn't that what we all want? For our kids to able able to talk about any and everything with us? If that's what you want; then now is the time to work it out.

Well, I know it can be frustrating; I've got some guide here for you:


https://amumandmore.com/effective-communication-with-your-child/



Dear Mamma,

Have you tried engaging in an open Communication with your kid?

Did you encounter challenge


How did it go?


We'd love to know in the comment section!


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.


Stay FabulousFabulous!


©️Viv

✍�Only love would explain why a woman will choose to get pregnant over and over again after the first journey!


Pregnancy is T O U G H Tough! Omo Mehn!�

Forget it! Women are legends��
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It's common knowledge that with pregnancy comes radical changes.�

Changes from what you eat and drink to what you wear, to how you look and to how you sleep; Which is our centre of focus for today.


Pregnancy brings about changes to our bodies that in the long determines how we sleep. As if every other thing we gave up is not enough, we still have to be conditioned on how to sleep.


Well, since we choose to get pregnant, we might as well do it the right way.


So there's such a thing as wrong and right sleeping positions when pregnant. In the first trimester of your pregnancy, Freestyle is allowed; Matter of fact, it is endorsed as the next 6 months will see you sleeping in a particular kind of way.



This position is the best for advanced pregnancies as it ensures optimum circulation for you and your baby

�Do you care to know what position this is?

READ MORE:


https://amumandmore.com/sleeping-positions-during-pregnancy/


Dear Mamma,


How difficult was sleeping for you and how quickly did you adjust to the right position?

We'd love to know in the comment section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.



Stay Fabulous!


©️Viv

✍� All babies are different. All babies teeth and they all teeth different!


While some may not give any sign about a tooth breaking out; Others may show a sign or more.



When babies begin to teeth; It is quite normal for them to be fussy about the pain around their gums.


While this is not a cause for concern; You should know the basic about making his teething process as comfortable as can be. After all, you going to experience teething deja vu over 10 times.


Dear Mamma,

Your baby's sprouting a tooth and there's nothing you can do about. However don't be stuck there!


There are many ways you and your baby can live out this period.


If you care to know;
READ MORE:

https://amumandmore.com/how-do-you-soothe-a-teething-baby/


Dear Mamma,

Teething is a milestone every child must reach; And as their parents, it's our responsibility to help them with the process as much as we can.


Hey Beautiful,

Did your baby show any sign of teething? What were they and how did you handle them.


Let us know in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous!


©️Viv

✍� Why is a spot on my newborn's head pulsating? Is this normal; Do I have to start worrying?�

Whenever I hear these questions, I immediately reckon that the mom is a first time mom. ��

To begin with; Yes, It is absolutely normal. Those pulsating spots on your baby's head are medically called Fontanelles.

First time moms are very particular and sensitive about every aspect of their newborns; And it's only normal for them to have these concerns as these baby spot stands out.

We think; Oh! It's the head, every part of it should be strong. You can then imagine the marvel of seeing not just one but two soft spots on your baby's head. ��
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.Well, thankfully this is not of those events we have to get to heaven to figure out. ��

Dear Mamma,

�Do you want to understand the science behind the soft spot on your baby's head?

�When a difference in its outlook can be source of concern and how to protect it?

Then I've got you covered!�

https://amumandmore.com/babys-throbbing-soft-spot/

Dear Mamma,

Those fontanelles are there for a reason;While they will not be there forever. It's imperative to handle those heads with care. ��

Did you have a funny reaction on discovering those soft spots on your baby's head? �

Let's hear it in the comment section.

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay Fabulous �

©️ Viv Obinna

✍� Build back Happier!

How is that even possible?

How can we build happiness with the numerous injustices and bias plaguing our world?

How can happiness be built with the havoc of war all around us?

It's quite the stretch to talk about building happiness when there's hardly a thing to be happy about.
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Going by the happenings around us: We almost always find ourselves in a melancholy state� other than a happy state, which is how we should mostly be.

Sadly, emotions like sadness, anger and anxiety have become a default mood for many us.
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However, We can be the happy we want the world to be. We can choose to go the extra mile for those who need it.

Be the Happy by showing compassion.


Truth is; The world's not all gloomy, there are good things around us to be happy about and silver linings in life to appreciate.


So here's to playing Pharell Williams "Happy" on repeat.



Here's to finding Happiness, and giving Happiness.

Because believe it or not; It's in you!


We've got all it takes to be happy. We've got Life, We've got Family and We've got the greatest of all Love!

Remember, even the Bible tells us; A happy heart does good like medicine.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.

Stay Fabulous


©️ Viv

✍� Wondering what to make for dinner again?

No be only you waka come!


Many women find thinking about what to make for dinner very mentally draining. Especially since dinner is what you have to make every night if you've got kids.��
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It's TGIF, let's not do dogon Turenchi ( Long talks)


Dear Mamma,

Have you thought about a food calendar?


Well, you don't have to think of one now; I've got some dinner ideas for you to work with.


https://amumandmore.com/dinner-recipes-for-the-nigerian-family/


Have you looked them up? What do you think of them?


Ehen! Did you see that Balunga rice?

If you're from the north, you know it's our beloved (Gero Gero)


Dear Mamma,

What's for dinner tonight?

We'd love to know in the comment section!


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest.


Stay Fabulous �


©️Viv

✍� Do you realise that babies chomping down on their crib railings or anything for that matter, is actually common when they begin to teeth?�


Every Mom has been here, and sincerely every woman who has been In close proximity to a teething child.


While there are many reasons why children chew on their crib railings; The obvious reason is often attributed to teething.
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Teething is a developmental milestone every child must meet, and while they are on it, their gums are sore and irritated.

Therefore, chewing on anything gives them some sort of relief to the area. Anything here includes their toys, pillows and crib railings.


Honestly, I'd rather they chewed on those than on the nipples!
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However, the question that begs for answers is; How safe are these crib railings that teething babies chew on?


While this question might be tough to answer, in that, every parent have a different crib type. The best way to ensure your child's safety is to look into preventative measures.


Dear Mamma,

� Is your baby at the stage of teething and his chewing on his crib railings keeps you on your toes?

Then, you'd want to take a look at this:


https://amumandmore.com/baby-chewing-on-crib-rails/


You can't exactly stop them from chewing on things, as chewing brings comfort to their sore and irritated gums; Butt you can make the environment clean and safe for them.


Dear Mamma,

What preventative measure did you take to ensure your baby didn't fall I'll chomping down on items when he began to teeth?

Please share in the comment in the section.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead, and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous!


©️ Viv

✍� There are things every Mom wished they knew before ever becoming a Mom!


If you didn't know it, let me be the first to tell you that; Motherhood is a calling!�


A beautiful and a demanding, sacrificial calling!

Motherhood is a truckload of surprises; Little surprise nothing ever prepares you for it, regardless of how hard you try to prepare for it.


However, this is not to say you shouldn't prepare at all. On the contrary, you need to be armed with all the information you can lay hands on.


And that's what I'm here to do today� Give you some bit of information to guide you as a First time Mom.



https://amumandmore.com/first-time-mom/


Dear Mamma,

Motherhood is a blessing.

Though it takes so much; It gives so much more.


Dear Mamma,

How was your first time being a Mom?

Yea, I know what to do is almost always innate in us. But how did you come into it?

We'd love to know in the comment section.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous

©️Viv

✍� Having your parenting style questioned or undermined can be pretty upsetting!

Am I right or Right?�


Apparently, this is a challenge almost all parent have encountered and continue to deal with.


It's almost like there's a war between us as to who has the best interest of the kids more at heart.


Sometimes it feels as though they intentionally decided to cross your boundaries; You may feel pushed to cross theirs too. But hey! Take a chill pill.


To resolve this issue, you have to first come to realize that whatever they do actually comes from a place of love.



Not for you of course, those grannies are made to piss you off!
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Defending your parenting style isn't fun, especially to family members; As you likely are leading a different life than they did. Which is where a lot of the conflicts stems from.


Having to make decisions for your child is already in itself exhausting. The last thing you need added to the mix is ; Criticism.



Dear Mamma,

In as much as you don't want to offend. You have to make it clear; That just because they raised you or your spouse doesn't mean you have to agree with how they raised you!




Dear Mamma,

� Do you seek a diplomatic way to handle issues that stem from family undermining your authority in your home?

Then you've go to look this up:


https://amumandmore.com/grandparents-undermine-your-parenting-style/




Hey beautiful!

Had troubles in the past getting grandparents to respect your parenting style? How did you handle that?

We'd love to know in the comment section.



Whatever be the case Mamma, always remember that you're the parent. Remind them of that too, when the need arises.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead, and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous�


©️ Viv

✍� Did you know one of the greatest pains in Life is the pain Of childbirth?


Ah! When I get to heaven, I'll have two questions for the first OG mamma, Eve☺️. The first question I'll ask Eve is; But why?

The second question will be; how did you manage? With no reference, no experience, no nothing. Well, she may have had some sort of help from Angel Gabriel or so� but omoo mehhn..... I'm very sure nothing prepared her for that pain.
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Women have always been strong from time immemorial.

However, With the advent of science and technology, childbirth isn't as complicated as in ages past. Especially with the phenomenal "Epidural"
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Dear Mamma,

�Is your pain threshold on the lower side?


�Are you considering using an epidural to birth your baby?


Then you need to do yourself the service of knowing the pros and the cons.

As usual, I've got you covered.



https://amumandmore.com/pros-and-cons-of-an-epidural/



Dear Mamma,

Did you birth your baby the Eve style or did you use an epidural?��

We'd love to hear your birth story on the comments section.



When I sha meet Eve in Heaven; she'd better not hold back on me on her birth story. She has to spill the whole juice.


Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay Fabulous!


©️Viv

✍� What Mom in the whole world hasn't experienced "Mommy Guilt"?



Have you ever felt like you're not doing a good enough job as a mother?

Well, that's Mom guilt right there! Mom guilt makes the already difficult job of being a mother even more daunting.

Worse! It's still not even helpful. Rather it eat away at the confidence you already have in your abilities and yourself.

Mommy guilt leads to shame or a feeling of inadequacy and if not addressed promptly, can have an impact on your mental health.

You didn't know that, did you?
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Dads too experience Daddy guilt; However the " Almighty" Gender role expectations puts a whole lot of pressure on the woman.


Many situations makes moms feel the guilt; from working to breastfeeding to patenting style. You just name it!


Mommy guilt can make a mom feel like there's something wrong with her. (Hit the brakes here)

Dear Mamma,

Nothing is wrong with you!

You know what? Take this from me; The fact that you're feeling guilty about almost everything that has to do with your kids, is a great indication that you're the best Mom ever!



Hey Beautiful,

Having troubles dealing with those "Mommy Guilt"? I've got some tips that can help.


https://amumandmore.com/dealing-with-mom-guilt/



We go show Mommy guilt and societal pressure say #na we dey run and rock this town.�


� Dear Mamma,

I know we've all run into Mommy guilt at different points. How did you overcome yours?

We'd love to hear from you in the comment section.



Remember, If you ever felt Mommy guilt; It's an indication that your Mommy heart is in the right place and wants the best for its babies.

Yes! They've left our bellies, but they'll always be in our hearts.�

Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.


Stay Fabulous


©️Viv

✍� I'm a SAHM! Yes, you heard that right. I am a Stay-At-Home-Wife—a full-time housewife.


What? Those lazy women without ambitions?��
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Unfortunately, this is just one of the reactions you can get from people when you tell them what you do for a living.


Yes! I stay at home for a living.�


The hard work of a SAHM is frequently overlooked. Primarily because we chose to give up our careers to put our families first.

Being a SAHM is a full-time job with no off days or retirement� So no, we are far from being lazy and without ambitions.


The workspace is always going to be there, but your kids are not always going to be here� So we choose to bask in this time with them while we still have it.


Anyways, I'm not here to confuse or to convince you; after all, it's a personal decision to make.

I'm just going to reiterate the benefits of being a SAHM


https://amumandmore.com/benefits-being-stay-at-home-mom/


Dear Mamma,

Are you a SAHM? What changes have you noticed in your relationship with your kids?

We'd love to hear them.

Remember; Regardless of what path you choose, you're not less or more of a mother. We are all doing the best we can.



Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the Fullest.

Stay Fabulous!

©️Viv