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✍� Dear Frustrated Mamma! I see you! No! Scratch that! I am you! If not yesterday, then today or maybe tomorrow! So I when I say that I feel you, I really, really do! Motherhood can throw you for a loop, you nurture, you train, you love, you discipline. But it sometimes feel like you do not do enough�� Motherhood pushes you, it tests you, it stretches you, and if you've not worked on keeping it together, you could lose you. I realised that no one's going to have my back better than me. Motherhood can't wait! They say..... Oh I agree! %110 But "YOU " shouldn't wait neither. You can slay at Motherhood and at your dreams both at once. None has to give way for the other! Because it's in you to do it all. Life may have you running around with a million reasons why you can't have them both. But at some point, you've got to stop running, turn around and look what wants to keep you down in the face. . . . . . . You want to be frustration free? Who am I kidding? What Mom is free from frustration! But yea! Free from that emptiness that motherhood can't fill. Then you've got to remove "YOU" from the back burner. Give "YOU" the same priority and focus you give motherhood and you'll end up fine. It's #THOUGHTFULTHURSDAY Baibee! What will you be thinking about today? Let's hear your thoughts in the comment section! Think more about "YOU" You are after all, what you think! Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest! Stay Fabulous� ©️ Viv
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✍� Have you ever felt some sort of way after having a baby? Have you struggled to connect with the baby after birth? Did you sometimes struggle with your emotions? You are not alone, Mamma; They said once they place that precious baby in your arms for the first time, it would be love at first sight! Well, Does this always ring true? After the birth of a child, a mother should feel excited, joyful, and filled with all the Love in the world, but the birth of a child could also trigger what you wouldn't expect, "Depression." Many women have slipped into a full-fledged depression because Post Partum Depression isn't sensitized enough around our part of the world. So many Mothers have gone undiagnosed because they didn't realize that #PPD was a thing. Many women think of themselves as bad mothers for not wanting to hold their babies, not feeling the need to bond with their babies, or having suicidal thoughts. Hey Mamma! You're not a wrong mama! It's a combination of your hormones going #crayCray and sometimes births trauma that your body might have gone through. Most importantly, baby girl, you are not flawed! You are not weak! You are just going through what millions of women the world over goes through. What you need to do is identify you need help, seek it, and you'll be as good as new . . . . . . Need help identifying what Post Partum Depression is? Then this is for you https://amumandmore.com/how-to-heal-from-postpartum-depression/ I hope this helps you, mamma. Dear Mamma! What made the light bulb go off in your head? What symptoms convinced you that something wasn't right? Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest! Stay Fabulous� ©️Viv
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✍� One death too many! How did we get here? OK, we've been here a while, so where do we go from here? Granted, we are all sojourners here on earth, but kids shouldn't be leaving from here faster than Adults, especially when it has Zero to do with natural causes. As each day dawns, humans make the world increasingly hostile to its most vulnerable. Children. Again! Where do we go from here? As a human and as a Mum, it breaks my heart, even to the deepest part of my soul, what these kids passed through what even as an adult, I couldn't imagine going through. First, Keren Happuch, then Sylvester, and now five-year-old Hanifa. What are we doing to ourselves? What seeds are we sowing into our future? What will we tell The one who created the Universe that we did with his creation? Sadly, We can't change what has happened. But we can change what we can, from our various homes. We can raise better adults for the next generation. All we have to do is go back to the drawing board and be Intentional with these kids that are yet to be adults. We owe this and more to those who have gone, but way too soon! We owe this to the next generation! Dear Mamma! What are you doing differently in a bid to raise responsible adults? Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️ Viv
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✍� How about you make it your "New Dawn." Many times, when we hear the word "Dawn," we allude to it as just the break of day. Technically, this is right. But Dawn means so much more. Dawn could mean Hope! Hope for your dreams, aspirations, and purpose. Dawn could mean a good turning point! That day or the moment you decide to take the wheel of your life back. I have always believed that as humans, we have the superpower embedded in us to enact any change we want out of life. One of the tremendous disservices you can do to yourself is to give up on what you can change. Life may have dealt you a bad hand.�� But guess what! You can get away with a good hand. Just like in the game of Poker, It doesn't matter how bad the cards you have are. You can end up winning. Stare life hard in the face and find courage in the most unlikely place. In you! Yes, Mamma, inside of you. Wallowing in self-pity and regrets is much too yesterday Even the Bible made us understand that "The old has passed away; behold The New has come". Regardless of any challenge(s) you may have passed through, always remember that every sunset brings the promise of a New Dawn. Take just a step into achieving your dreams, any faster, and you'll be flying Las Las, na who give up na em Loose! It's a New Dawn for AMAM! I do hope. It's a New Dawn for you too! Dear Mamma, do you struggle with letting go of the old and facing the new? How do you intend to overcome this struggle? Care to share? Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous ©️Viv
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✍️� Show me the Mum who doesn't have a thorough understanding of the word boredom? Like seriously? If we are being honest....... Motherhood translated to boredom at some point in a mum's life. Especially for Stay At Home Mums. My name could quickly have passed for "Bored" until I realized I had it in me to change that narrative. I realized that I was a bore and everything around me reflected that because I led a life of routine. . . . . . According to statistics, women are nearly twice as likely as men to be diagnosed with depression. But what we may not know is how many slipped into depression from boredom. As a Mum and especially as a Stay At Home Mum, there is so much we could do to escape boredom because many people rely on your sanity to remain sane. So because we are #womensupportingwomen, here are some cost-effective tips to overcoming Boredom READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/overcome-stay-at-home-mom-boredom/ I hope this helps you, mamma, as much as it has helped me Dear Mamma, have you checked this out? Do you have anything to add? How are you preparing for resumption? Do you have a suggestion on this? Let's hear it in the comment section. Because there's love in sharing, do share with your friends, frenemies, and village people, too Motherhood is a journey made easy when we have the right people in our circle. So come there's ROCK motherhood together. Love, Laugh, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️Viv
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✍� Have you ever come across a mamma who seemed to have it all figured out? She seemed so organized like she was born to do motherhood? She seemed like she handles motherhood just fine? She seemed super optimistic, without a single fear or doubt in her mind? She made multitasking look as easy as breathing? She seemed like she didn't even need anything? . . . . Can I tell you something Beautiful? That mamma, yes, the one you seem to adore! She yells, she gets frustrated, she second-guessed almost everything she ever did, she's felt guilt, she cries, she has needs just like you do, she hurts, just as much as you. But she does it in private because "Private" is her safe place. Dear Mamma! No Mummy is perfect. We are all working on our imperfections to be perfect for our children. We all entered this village (Motherhood) at different times, so why do you feel the need to compare your beginning to someone else's end? ( Not like there's an end to motherhood, but you catch my drift) Why even compare at all? Instead of comparison, why not laud that mamma, who seems to have done a splendid job. And empathize with the mamma who seems to be barely holding on. Guess what? Motherhood is only made easy when you have the right people in your corner. Who are you going to laud today? Who are you empathizing with today? care to share? We would love to know them. Love, Learn, Lead, Laugh and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous ©️Viv
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✍�Who wants to be a Millionaire Mom? It's money-making Monday baibee! What have you got doing to secure that bag? So gone are those days we have to depend on another person for our upkeep. Especially if you're like me, that finds asking for the upkeep even more difficult. There's nothing as fulfilling as being capable of fending for yourself without brainstorming how, the where, and the when to get the bar. An even more immense Joy is being able to step in and cater to the need of the home when the need arises. ( The need had better not arise frequently, else) . . . . . . Luckily, the internet has come to stay and thanks to it, there are many businesses or careers that you could venture into from the comfort of your home as a Stay At Home Mom Amazing! Right? All you need is the passion for seeing it through. A laptop, a good internet connection, and your content, for the most part. Las Las, the goal is to have a bagto your name Have you been confused or probably don't even know what to venture into to make that extra cash? Here's what to do READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/online-businesses-for-stay-at-home-mom/ Who's going first? Love, Lead, Learn, Laugh and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️Viv
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*☘️ WELCOME TO A NEW DAWN!!!* . . . *Hey Super Mamma ��!* . . . � The stage is set already for our *2022* moves!!!..and of course, everything has to birth forth our new beginning in *"Grand Style�"*. � since we have agreed that this month is a “New Dawn for us"...�.. there's no better way to welcome new beginnings other than getting rid of old stuff that we no longer need.��� Don't worry, this an African woman thing we all inherited, e dey hard us to throw stuff away ���. . But this season..it's so necessary we do to give room for new things to come in. We are creating space for all the blessings and goodies the year would bring. *� Did you join our Declutter Challenge��* *� Just in case you were wondering what we have been doing, here's a sneak peak at all the things you can possibly declutter �!* �Are you ready for this Mamma �? So let me know if you're readyyyyyy ���� Love, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest. Be fabulous �
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✍� What could I possibly do to increase my chances of falling pregnant?�� A question prevalent in the minds of TTC moms. While conceiving comes easy to some women, it can be rocket science for others.� Well, reproduction is science� but it shouldn't be the rocket type. Yet it is, especially for women who have been told some kind of news about their systems. However, regardless of what you may have been told, there are some everyday habits you could imbibe to up your chances�. You never know, maybe your body has just been waiting on you to take a chill break and let it do its thing.�� So because I've always got your back�� and you have to be challenged on a daily as much as I am by these kids�� So here's what to do! READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/increase-chances-of-getting-pregnant/ �Because Las Las, every woman looking forward to conceiving, will get to experience motherhood.�� So who's going first? Let's know what you think or want to add in the comment section�� Love, Learn, Lead, Laugh and Live Life to the fullest! Stay Fabulous� ©️ @Viv Obinnna
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✍� You know our saying, right? Motherhood is a journey made easy with the right people in your corner�� In other words, no woman is an island�� There are days I want to rant so hard that I turn to my husband to vent, but Man be looking at me like I'm talking chinese�� The most I can get out of him is sympathy���while what I needed at the time is empathy����. But can I even blame the innocent Man?� Man is a #Dad��� and he could never understand my mummy bants like only a #Mom would��. #Dontleaveme�♀️�♀️�♀️ Sometimes, in the bustle of motherhood, all you need to put your head back in the game is talk to that mom who you are confident can easily relate to what you're saying because she's been there and still is.��� Ha! What would I have done without #mommyfriends in my corner?�� The bottom line is, you need yourself a mommy friend�. So have you recognized this truth� and can't figure out how to go about getting yourself that mommy friend or friends? I've got you� https://amumandmore.com/ways-to-build-mommy-friendship/ Ngwa, click on that link and let's know your thoughts in the comment section. Stay Fabulous� Love, Learn, Lead, Laugh and Live Life to the Fullest. ©️Viv
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✍� And they've eventually returned to school! � Hmmmmm!�� So regardless of how Sylvester's bully, death and acquittal of the culprit's story went down���� Our kids have gone back to school.���� If we are being honest, though, it doesn't feel quite the same, knowing we are leaving our kids in the care of the same system that failed to protect Sylvester and did everything to see he wasn't given the Justice he deserved����� Well, it is what it is! ��♀️ But we can choose to change this narrative as parents✊�✊� Kids can be mean.�� Granted! But it's our responsibility as parents to curb any excesses found in these kids. The school have a lot to do concerning this sensitive matter called bullying, but the more significant part of the onus rests on us as parents� It's high time we did better by our kids and the kids our kids will meet in school and the world at large.�� Do you have a kid who already exhibits bullying tendencies and doesn't know how to help them? Then this is for you�������� https://amumandmore.com/ways-to-help-a-child-overcome-the-habit-of-bullying/ Read up and let us know what you think in the comment section. Love, Learn, Lead and Live life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️@ Viv
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✍� Budget! Save! Level up! Is this making sense or I sound like a broken record already?�� OK, calm down! �� The record might be broken but the song has to be sung one way or another.�� As a mum, and the home manager, we are always on the lookout for means to save any Naira or Dollar ��we can lay sight and hands on, and if you're that mum, then you need to talk budgeting baibee�� Some of us may find it easier to freestyle, but you know deep down your kidney that it doesn't pay� as a matter of fact it hurts, especially the finances�� and before you say jack, the relationship as a whole�♀️�♀️ So if the idea is to #LevelUp and in the long run Secure the bag��� then you definitely need these pointers�������� https://amumandmore.com/save-money-on-budget/ Ngwa click that link and tell us how you feel about those ideas in the comment section�� Love, Learn, Lead and Live life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️ Viv
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✍� And here we go again! Wasn't it just yesterday that we were basking in the euphoria of Christmas and The New year?�� And just with the snap of the fingers, here we are, looking school resumption square in the face�♀️�♀️�♀️ Chaiiiii. Adulting is a #scam ohhhh ��� . . . . . . . So one of the many complex things to do as a parent is to prepare the kids for school resumption, especially when you've got 5 of them�� and in different grades too. The task is daunting!�♀️ However, you can catch the hang of it as I did☺️☺️ Is that even possible? You may want to ask Well yes! � Take it from this mum of 5�� who wants life to be easy for you as you #Level up . . . . Oya, look this up������let it not feel like Viv wants to whine to you�� https://amumandmore.com/prepare-kids-for-school-resumption/ I hope this helps you, mamma, as much as it has helped me, as the new school session commences. �� Have you checked this out? Do you have anything to add? Let's know in the comment section! Love, Learn, Lead and Live Life to the fullest. Stay Fabulous� ©️Viv
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✍� If don't eat cake during a holiday,wetin I gain kwanu? Like what's Christmas without those sweet things?�� Cake is hands down my favourite anytime any day. Cake is sweet by itself, but can you imagine cake�� with a sprinkle of Christmas? Heavenly��� . . . . . So because it's Christmas�� and I want your family to enjoy Christmas in all its glory, I'll hold you by the hand� and show you step by step how to make a delicious Christmas Fruity cake for your family. Guess what?�� You're not just going to be making a sweet thing for your family to enjoy, you're also going to be bonding with your family, because everybody has to help out to make it more Delicious and fun�� Do you want to make Christmas more christmassy?��� READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/how-to-bake-a-christmas-fruit-cake/
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✍� I think I'm a movie buff! Are you? Like I could literally spend hours binge watching.� . . . What again naaaa?��� OK, I know I said I enjoy pressing phone���� but can't somebody's daughter have more than one guilty pleasure again?☹️☹️ Ha! Biko kwa, it's the yuletide let me indulge mbok�� . . . . . So going out for sight seeing and all that, isn't my idea of fun, but I do if for the sakes of the kids☺️, you know.... What are mothers for��� doing what they don't like doing to make those lituns happy� and for the benefit of bonding also. Make e no be like we no dey try� . . . . . So movie watching is one of my favorite thing to do during the holidays. Even more fun is having to do it with the whole family.�������� Ah! Just imagine the whole family laying on the floor watching a Christmas comedy while munching on some Christmas snacks. You know, the likes of chin chin, cupcakes��and ice cream� because what's Christmas without those little sweet things to throw in your mouth. So are you a film buff like me?�� Here are some ideas on what movies to binge on during the holiday READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/christmas-movies-to-watch-with-your-children/ Who's is going there? �
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Who doesn't just hate having to think about what to gift loved ones, especially during the yuletide? Well, if you do, Welcome to the club! However, this is a route we have to travel on yearly, not just for the sakes of gifting but to show family that we love and appreciate them. Afterall, what's Christmas without family? So what are those items you can possibly buy for family for Christmas? READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/christmas-gift-ideas-for-your-loved-ones/
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Okay! It's the yuletide! And Christmas time= Travel time Travelling is fun, however, not for everybody. But even for those who enjoy travelling, going on that trip with kids can be quite the ordeal, because kids do be unpredictable. You couldn't prep them enough to have a smooth sailing ride, but you could prep yourself enough to have a solution to almost all of their whimpers and tantrums when it arises. So here are some tips to ease the hassle of traveling with kids READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/travelling-with-children/
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And here we go again! Yet another Christmas season. And in the daily hustle and bustle, you've forgotten to make plans to make this season not just memorable for you but for the kids as well. You may think, well, what's the big deal about planning for Christmas? Let me ask! Don't you get tired of routine? Well, it you don't, I bet the kids do. Kids love activities and they get bored quick. So take advantage of this period to switch things up for the family. In the long run, it will also be a bonding time for your family. So what are the activities to engage in this Christmas? READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/exciting-christmas-vacation-activities-for-children/
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As a parent, you may have caught yourself wondering whether you are raising your kids right, especially your boy child. It's hard not to wear that worry hat, as most of the things we hear about boys are negative. To top it all off, The boys will always be boys mantra that have long been choved deep into our subconscious makes one wonder of these traits attributed to the male specie are more cultural than biological. Parenting is hard, especially parenting a boy child and we need all the help we can get to raise these boys into Men who we'll be safe to leave the world to READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/raising-boys-in-the-21st-century/
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Cakeeeeeeeeeee! Who doesn't love them some cake? I've actually never come across anyone who doesn't love cake. I mean , even those weight loss enthusiasts that go on and on about portion control and have gym clothes in their car, those people....... Yes, quote me in your mind�, I know they indulge when they get the chance, even if it's just a bite. Elderly people inclusive! I don't know what it is about cake, but mehn, I could eat cake everyday for the rest of my life. For some people who can't go a day without those buds teaser, the love for cake have metamorphosed into a passion, that they had to learn the art of cake making. If you fall into this category of people I've got good news: You can actually make a business out of your love affair with cake, right from the comfort of your living room. READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/starting-cake-business/
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If there's one certainty about loss, it's that nothing ever prepares you for it! Worse still, is being thrown headfirst into emotions that you didn't know existed and can barely handle. Loss generally is hard! Loss of a person even harder, as you have to come to terms with the fact that you're never going to see the reposed anymore. So how does one cope with loss, especially the loss of a loved one? READ MORE:https://amumandmore.com/overcoming-grief-and-the-loss-of-a-loved-one/
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Are you curious to know the major changes that happen in your body during pregnancy? The saying that pregnancy comes with a lot of changes has become an anthem, but it doesn’t falsify this saying at all. These changes can be good news to some mothers and bad news to many others. While some moms may be celebrating the additional weight gain, many become sad about losing shape. After all, who doesn’t like maintaining a sweet figure 8?��♀️ But, before we go about the major changes you should be expecting during pregnancy let’s talk a bit about what causes these changes. READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/body-changes-to-expect-during-pregnancy/
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Do you want to start a business but you are overwhelmed by all the factors you need to consider: business plan, shop space, rent, set up time and cost etc? You want something that will bring in the cash but is easy to start and at low cost? One word: Handcrafts! For those that already have a handwork, you're in the right place. If you're thinking: "But I dont have a handwork?". We can assure you that all humans are creative and you will be able to find at least one business that you can do or that is easy for you to learn quickly. With mass production and imports, Handmade crafts are gradually going away, and that's what makes it so lucrative! The good news is we have the business ideas for you! Not 1, Not 2 or 3... But 13! Read More: https://amumandmore.com/handcraft-business/
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Do you want to start a business but you are overwhelmed by all the factors you need to consider: business plan, shop space, rent, set up time and cost etc? You want something that will bring in the cash but is easy to start and at low cost? One word: Handcrafts! For those that already have a handwork, you're in the right place. If you're thinking: "But I dont have a handwork?". We can assure you that all humans are creative and you will be able to find at least one business that you can do or that is easy for you to learn quickly. With mass production and imports, Handmade crafts are gradually going away, and that's what makes it so lucrative! The good news is we have the business ideas for you! Not 1, Not 2 or 3... But 13! Read More: https://amumandmore.com/handcraft-business/
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Lol! Your dad should consider joining the Avengers ![]() I agree that parents should create enabling environments for their children to open up to the,. You can't solve a problem you don't know exists. Thanks for sharing ! Kobojunkie: |
I love the way you acknowledge that bullies are also dealing with issues of their own. I read a quote that said, Hurt People hurt people: meaning that it's people that are hurt that turn around to hurt others. Thanks for sharing ! MBSpen: |
Remember when you were younger and parents will tell their kids that if they were being bullied, they should either fight back or forget about crying back home... Do you think times have changed? If your child is being bullied now, what would you do? Remember that Bullying can either be physical, verbal or social, not forgetting cyberbullying and it is not restricted to gender. What would you do? As for me o, my own solution is something that most parents may not even consider: https://amumandmore.com/ways-to-help-a-child-cope-with-bullying/
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Imagine you have planned an entire trip with your family. Everyone is happy. Pieces of Luggage are all neatly packed up. Hotel reservations have been made. And you’re earnestly looking forward to having the time of your life with your family when suddenly your child develops a cold or fever on the morning of the trip. Devastating, right? Travelling with a child is tough. What’s worse is travelling with a sick child. What can you do when you’re required to travel with a sick child? READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/travelling-with-sick-child/
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Imagine you have planned an entire trip with your family. Everyone is happy. Pieces of Luggage are all neatly packed up. Hotel reservations have been made. And you’re earnestly looking forward to having the time of your life with your family when suddenly your child develops a cold or fever on the morning of the trip. Devastating, right? Travelling with a child is tough. What’s worse is travelling with a sick child. What can you do when you’re required to travel with a sick child? READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/travelling-with-sick-child/
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Ageing is a part of the life cycle and most times, we desire that our parents and even ourselves live long and age well. For many, ageing comes with a few challenges; health, finance and help. There is a decline in mental and physical strength and this can cause drastic changes in their appearance. The responsibility of caring for aged people tends to fall on close people i.e. spouse, children, siblings etc. Sometimes, these people are not even ready for that phase that now appears to be a huge burden. Being aware of their needs, the options available to them and how it affects you is key. Caring can be overwhelming and challenging for the caregiver. It can in turn affect the health and mental state of the ones who take on this responsibility. In fact, in the true sense of it, it is a full-time job if you decide to take on this. READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/care-for-aged-parents/
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Ageing is a part of the life cycle and most times, we desire that our parents and even ourselves live long and age well. For many, ageing comes with a few challenges; health, finance and help. There is a decline in mental and physical strength and this can cause drastic changes in their appearance. The responsibility of caring for aged people tends to fall on close people i.e. spouse, children, siblings etc. Sometimes, these people are not even ready for that phase that now appears to be a huge burden. Being aware of their needs, the options available to them and how it affects you is key. Caring can be overwhelming and challenging for the caregiver. It can in turn affect the health and mental state of the ones who take on this responsibility. In fact, in the true sense of it, it is a full-time job if you decide to take on this. READ MORE: https://amumandmore.com/care-for-aged-parents/
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Kobojunkiee:Thank you for asking! ![]() I can tell you all about the role and daily activities of a stay at home mum in this eye-opening article: https://amumandmore.com/stay-at-home-mom/ I'm sure it will give you a better understanding. ![]() |


