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Ninapha: And where do u rate urself. High IQ, and u could not put 2&2 together to atleast fix her story and comment reasonably witout insults?

Since you are here to put 2&2 together from her post, answer her and let this not make front page.It's and wasn't an insult rather to let any one posting here to note that we are not here to start correcting anyone because this nairalnad medium, should be for adults and not people who write with their nose instead of their brain.

HotNaijaBabe: Guys, do you pray to marry a woman like your mother. Mothers are golden and we all profess undying love for our mothers, are there some traits in your mother that you would love your wife to have.

Also, i have this feeling that some guys actually look out for girls who have the same qualities as their mum, is this true?
Or do you just love a lady for who she is?

Guys, over to you.

Yes I did and as a matter of fact, I got what I wanted and also had almost similar kind of child bearing like my mother did.

Go to SCOAN and get the Anointing Water and have it spread on his manhood and he will be delivered.

God will heal your husband. I have seen many couples with similar problem and they receive their healing. You go there and receive your healing and still go back to where you worship and continue.

@op , you even cannot express yourself better.Were you writing to yourself or you do not know how to express yourself? Or is this write-up English language?

sweetchick1234: I honestly can't believe I'm asking this but such is the way of our culture.
Brief history: I relocated back to naija in 2010 and moved in with my folks since I was a JJC. Met my fiance in 2012. Before that the issue of moving out on my own had always been a hot topic (knowing fully well I was an independent person while outside the country). Anyway fast forward to this year and I think its just about time I move out and get some privacy and restore my sanity.
My only problem now is that although we are engaged to get married in the near future he hasn't done the whole traditional rite and my parents will shun against moving in with him (I'm not even allowed to spend the night with him).
And it won't be financially wise to get a place of my own in the meantime knowing that we will get hitched eventually.
My problem now is that I really need my privacy and sanity. Right now the folks are driving me insane. My stress level is at an all time high and I feel like if I don't get it under control I might be heading for some major downtime which is what I'm trying to prevent.
Please looking forward to your advice/suggestion.

Listen, the taste of friendship is not the taste of marriage. If he loves you and needs you as much as you need him, follow the right steps to resolve this issue, less you regret it. You having stayed outside and had your privacy does not mean that it is like that when you are talking of marriage.
Your parents are trying to help you do the right thing as men, could turn to be something nasty when they have taken due advantage of you and you be left to regret your action. Relax and follow due process in anything that has to do with marriage. 9ija men are very difficult when it come to marriage unlike their western counterpart.
I am a man and must advise you as a brother. Take it easy as this your marriage thing is a difficult thing to handle. 9ija man can display love today and take you to all the good eatery places and once you get married and take in, you are on your own and no more eatery, flower,love cards and their likes.Listen to your parents so that your days may be long.

OP, I think you are a low iq person because your explanation is irritating as if you NEVER went to school. You do not know how to put a simple story so that people can read and understand your point?

Even most of your posts here are confusing.

This man must be brought to book. I need to have the case and must have this immigration officer dismissed and jailed.
How can I get this case?

babyosisi: All you stingy men
How dare you call your wife a thief
U need to ask for forgiveness immediately


My husband was hiding his wallet and sometimes putting it under his pillow just because I was taking little chicken change from it for lunch
Nonsense !!
How can a woman steal from her own husband
Are we not joined in holy matrimony again?
In Igboland wives are lovingly called odoziaku which translates to mean " the one who arranges the wealth"
Your own is to bring in the money,allow me to arrange it na ,as expected
I pitied him sha one day long ago when we had no credit cards ,he came home ranting about how he was so embarrassed at the store When it was time to pay and he Opened his wallet and the cash was depleted
I said ewoooo, di m oma
I am so sorry
But did it stop me ?
Whosai
If a man has 5 $20 bills in the wallet I bought him for Christmas why can't a woman who bore him bouncing baby boys take one or two $20 as the spirit leads
I don't do it as much anymore
I now ask him first and if he says no i have no cash on me and I go to the wallet and see cash,he can't come back and claim that he had cash
Abi?
Love u boo

Professional thief na im you b. Pure thief.

babyosisi: All you stingy men
How dare you call your wife a thief
U need to ask for forgiveness immediately


My husband was hiding his wallet and sometimes putting it under his pillow just because I was taking little chicken change from it for lunch
Nonsense !!
How can a woman steal from her own husband
Are we not joined in holy matrimony again?
In Igboland wives are lovingly called odoziaku which translates to mean " the one who arranges the wealth"
Your own is to bring in the money,allow me to arrange it na ,as expected
I pitied him sha one day long ago when we had no credit cards ,he came home ranting about how he was so embarrassed at the store When it was time to pay and he Opened his wallet and the cash was depleted
I said ewoooo, di m oma
I am so sorry
But did it stop me ?
Whosai
If a man has 5 $20 bills in the wallet I bought him for Christmas why can't a woman who bore him bouncing baby boys take one or two $20 as the spirit leads
I don't do it as much anymore
I now ask him first and if he says no i have no cash on me and I go to the wallet and see cash,he can't come back and claim that he had cash
Abi?
Love u boo

Professional theif na im you b. Pure theif.

Le them pay him.Mad cows called army.

Good for him and I pray he displays that same form against Uruguay in order to make a point for the recall by AC Milan owner. Wishing him the best.

Adamskuty: Nigeria is beating uruguay,it might end 2-1,3-2,4-3!

All i know is that suarez will surely score and we will win them by a goal difference.

Remember to quote me people!

Please, note that Surez will not score. They should just mark him out.The only thing Surez could do to score is by biting as that is his only Strategy, but if been marked out, he is finished and Uruguay is out of the competition.

Do not worry. One day, he will still ask you to kneel down on the Highway when you have a broken down vehicle and need you to get pure water, you must kneel down to serve him. When he is in the toilet and needed something, you kneel down and serve him. When he is sick and needed to be taken to the hospital, also kneel down and ask keep asking him what to do instead of rushing him to the hospital.

Now, let me tell you, your husband is egocentric and needed to understand that for him to do that, he needs no woman as a wife.

Why must you be kneeling down to serve him in everything because his mother does that for his selfish father hence his actions.
Anyway, you married him and there is no way you will come here to say you never saw those traits and backed out.I believe that you went into the marriage because of his money which you call caring.If so, he bought you and wants you to respect his action.

In fact, I wonder with what brain our leaders reason. To be changing plate numbers when you buy or sell your car?

Mikel , in fact needs to improve. He was loosing balls unprofessionally in the mid-field.

kreami diva: In my opinion as a Christian,rather than commit adultery,just take a walk.u'll die of frustration cos from ur story,he does care.if u hv a heart to heart talk with him on the issue and he still doesn't budge,den i think u shld walk away.he must have issues he feels ashamed to talk about.homosexuals behave like that too.so put it in prayers,speak with him about it and if the situation is still d same,walk away.

Your husband must be a bi-sexu

Ideye is a rat and pig

Spain will spell Nigeria

useless goal scored by useless guys

I rexerve my comment

Ideye is useless

all of u go and play an stop c

Mikel Useless.

We have a very useless team.

Mikel na foo--l

In fact, I score Tahiti better than these our boys. Mikel has been our problem as all the moves made by Tahiti to score was as a result of Mikel's mistakes

in fact these our boys are confused iddi--ots

Mikel na fool

If Amechi did this, then I will tell GEJ and his wife to go and sleep and allow this man be. The only legacy you can give to the younger generation is education.

Nigerian Policemen are all confirmed robbers and killers hence they have a tag, 90% of them carry a curse on themselves.

Let that of self acclaimed demonic King of Kings be signed and let him be executed. That is the only death I will appreciate.

Uwadia raj: A frd of mine just finished giving it to her nd he found out dat she's not d gal told her she's a virgin nd now she's not what will he do continue d r/ship or break up!

Take cutlass and chase her running and also cut your joystick for requesting to taste.