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The guy no go chop after the transplant? This lady should stay off and allow people help the guy. After the transplant, what of feeding and other things and is she expecting him to come back online begging for another fund to fed? Nonsense.

dolphinife: I have known him for two years. He's one of those distant neighbours who had tru casual interactions become a friend. In the months that we lived together in d same area and when we ocassionally ran into one another, our conversation never went beyond the usual inquiry about the weather or the offhand question: how is ur family? He was introverted, easy-going and almost self-effacing. I knw him as someone who minded his biz. That was as far as our friendship went until a year ago when I began to see him with a lady.

Once, he timidly introduced her to me as his fiancee. He re-appeared in d neighbourhood again after a month to apologise for not inviting me to his wedding. He had at d time informed me dat he would quit his self-contained apartment to a more comfortable one due to his change of status and dis was more than a year ago. Last weekend, when I again ran into my old friend at a barber's shop where I went for a haircut, he had changed a great deal

He was withdrawn and traumatised. He couldn't recognise me at first when I wave to draw his attention. He didn't radiate d freshness and robust look dat is common with newly weds. We exchanged pleasantries ind midst of the loud music frm d blarring speakers in d salon. Grabbing me by d arm like a long lost friend, he half-dragged me to a distance where he was sure that no one could eavesdrop on us. Then, in what seemed like torrents of pent-up emotions, he began:

Bros where have u been? I've been on d look out for u. You see, I hardly make friend. But I see u as someone I can confide in. My marriage has been hell and my wife is trouble personified. She has been violent since the first day we were pronounced as couples. We didn't court for a long time. But even in those few months of our courtship, I noticed she was aggressive. She once slapped a cashier over a small matter. She also slapped me once and I once narrowly escaped being bathed with hot water but I never took it seriously then. Each time she goes into a rage, I quickly forgive her. Ind last one year, she has fought me over flimpsy excuses. D last time, she slapped me ind presence of our friends at a party. The other day,out of annoyance, she sliced my arm with a razor.

He unfolded his shirt to reveal a deep but a stitched scar that ran tru his shoulder to his wrist. Almost sobbing, he went on,' I really do not knw wat to do as am very scared of her violent mood swings. Her weapons include hot water, boiling soup and kitchen knife which she throws at me like missiles. She has destroyed every gadget in d house.when she's calm, she would break down in my arms and cry profusely. What should I do now? Things have become even more complicated now that she's pregnant with our first baby.

He proceeded to show me deep scars of teeth bites, nail scratches and injury marks. It was unbelievable. Now he has taken to drinking. What advice can we give to this gentle young man in the midst of his ferocious and outrageous wife?

The woman is demonized and she needed deliverance.You take her to SCOAN and she will be delivered.

pappilo: Was it proven that he gave the child acid to drink? A vulcaniser may have had a "acid" at home as a tool of his trade. Couldnt a child have drank the "acid" accidentally? I as out one day and got a call from the missus that my 3 year old son had been found in the toilet with bleach all over him. If he had drank this bleach, should my missus have been charged with attempted murder?

Everyone in Ibadan knows Senator Folarin ordered the killing of Eleweomo but today he is a free man and no one has been convicted of the murder despite there been several witnesses.

I am not against capital punishment and have no problem with the second suspect who was caught in the act and presented ludicrous defence, being sentenced to death. Just let the man know his date of execution well in advance and let him exhaust all appeals.

I think your brain has eluded you. You still want to defend a man who knowingly gave an innocent child an acid to drink? I think one day, you will be given acid knowingly or unknowingly so that you know how it tastes. Nonsense

trytillmake: Naija we hail thee, just saw this, can any nairalander attempt this.

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Abdullahi Kurma
A 67-year-old Abdullahi Kurma carrying 6 bags of cement to demonstrate his drug-free state of health at the commemoration of the 2013 International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Drug Trafficking in Gombe.


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He is using invisible powers. until one of dem people go decode him. Why di ge nopt use his skill to make name when he was young?He is not real/

In fact who told this boys to be playing as if they have won the game? I wonder

I think the Federal Government should not integrate this mad people into the society where normal human beings are.
How can you bring "Militants" and allow them school with normal human beings? I suggest the Federal Government build their own schools and employ their own teachers who should be insured with a reputable Insurance Company, in case they go mad and kill their lecturers.

Jonathan should open their school in Bayelsa and call it "Special College for Militants"

Raiyell: Hello house, how's y'all

Please i am in a tight spot... i will explain.

I am 21 years old, i am not particularly good looking but i posses some qualities that women find admirable, i have been told that i am a great conversationalist and empathic person and so many other things that i can remember.

Now a lady just joined the organisation, we became friends at the word go, after a while, about two weeks later our friendship started to become more intense... we would walk home together, go to lunch together and do all sorts of things together. it was during this period that i began to notice some signs in her.. like she would just smile and giggle like a baby whenever i am around, or let out a huge sigh of relieve when i hug her. it was during one these encounters that i kissed her, i was drop dead scared, but to my surprise she even wrapped her hands around me.. hmmm! after that the calls and the gifts just intensified and i was becoming scared.

She asked me one day how old i am.. i told her i am 21, she laughed and called me a baby and then went ahead to inform me she is 33years old, i thought that my age would scare her off, apparently i was mistaken because this evening she called me to her desk and and proposed that we get away for the weekend to a guest house or a hotel for the weekend, she said she would take care of me and give me all i want, she just needs my company, honestly i thought she was joking but apparently she is very serious, she even proposed to come pick me up in her car from my house on friday so we could go off.



Thing is i haven't had s**x for about 1 year now, i want to have this woman, but should i stick to my guns and reject her because this is very strange and i have no prior experience of such. if i can survive one year without punny, i surely can do more.

what do you guys advise pls.

This could trigger your destroying your destiny with this woman. There are women demonically possessed and by the time you are through, your whole world will crumble.

Look for the Lebanese and flush them out.

datsall: After reading Seyi’s story here on nairaland… I got sober cos I know I have a bigger problem in my hand. This is because I am addicted to pornography and sex…worst of all sex is something I engage in almost every day not only with my wife as I am married with 4 kids. I started having sex at 11 and now I am 38. It doesn’t take my wallet and look to get sex whenever I wanted. I don’t know how it happens but my wishes in having sex get settled whenever I thought of it. I got home started searching for material on overcoming addictions. Now I think I am getting my life back as my though-line since last night has been devoid of anything immoral. I am quitting pornography and adultery for real. I know the battle just start but I will overcome on the strength of God’s GRACE

You can get it done because it is a very big problem and only a firm decision by your good self can help you to overcome this problem.
You have to ask God to help you. It happened to me and I took a decision by the grace of God, I dont even think about it any more and even counsel people on this issue. It is a very big demonic problem.
I am glad today that even if a woman who is not my wife go naked, I will not have any single feelings and I enjoy intimacy with my wife. You can do it when you can ask God and holy spirit to help you out.

Good one my broda. God will replenish for you as you showed kindness and love for the young man, so will heaven show mercy on you.

hollandis: I saw the sign he made after he scores

Saw the sign when he made it, but could not read meanings to that. It's his headache as he will gain or loose his soul.

hollandis: Dear Stephen Keshi
I know you feel the sky is the limit ever since you won the last nations cup.I also know you feel it was your technical superiority over all coaches that led you to glory.We are entering the world stage now, a stage of perfectio n where one is judged by ones success and failures.I know your ego ...please dont let it lead to your downfall.We dont know what deal you have with ideye brown but you know we know he is not a good fit, he might have won laurels in his club but he is not a deliverer in the national team at best he can be a supportinf striker.stop trying to make a star out of him.where is uche ? A word is enough for the wise

The truth is said here and I think Seun should move this to the front page. This is a national issue as we are aware the number of sports lovers that this forum carry whenever any game is played.
Keshi should be told the truth because Ideye is not a striker at all.

Built2last: i dont take weed bro. i am confident i will see my car. i worked for it.

The God in heaven is aware and must help you recover your hard earned property.You will see your car as God must put confusion among them and they will abandon the car.

Phranciz: For M I to be taLler then her, it simply means d girl is F ing short.

The lady is not short. Look at her hands and she bent down to collect the chain.

neutrotoba: When will Rev. King be hanged?? Can't wait!!!!!!!!!

Rev. King is the ONLY death I would love to hear and for his death to be signed and he be hanged. Others can go free.
I still wonder why we cry for those to be killed.

These armed robbers will come to your house kill and ra=pe married pregnant women, minors and even grannies and sometimes strangle them to death and we are here crying that they should be allowed to live?

Someone will pull a gun and kill an innocent child and be allowed to live? A murderer like Nigerian Police officers will pull a gun and kill a defenseless individual and we are here saying he should be allowed to live?A gang of young men will gang-ra-pe and kill an innocent young lady and we are here saying that they should live?
Too bad.

Good write-up by an experienced and intelligent individual. Others will come here to condemn the coach.
We have very inexperienced players like our defense and attackers were just inexperienced and exposed their weakness to the whole world.
Keshi need to look for good strikers and experienced defenders.

[quote author=Okija_juju]i hope he was a born again o!

[/quote]Have you seen any politician go to heaven? There reward is here on earth.
If he misses stealing from the party vault, no more enjoyment for him.

Straight to hell. No heaven for Nigerian politician. from A ====Z. Only one repent at the last day.

Akainzo: If this is your reasoning, you are even worse than I expected.

How many DUI drivers have been shot by police across the world? Your reasoning is quite pathetic.

You have made your points. Don't argue with people without brain.

That is why when you employ armed robbers and now convert them to police officers, you get products like the accused. Most 85% Nigerian police officers are armed robbers granted license to kill and rob.
You cannot get anything less from the accused because his seeing a student or a young man with such a car, he is already angry with himself as to why the young man should be riding on such a car and himself patrolling the streets.
It is out of envy that most policemen kill young men. If he was arrested and they discover money in his car, the next thing is to tag him armed robber and drop a guy into his car as evidence.
Thank God the young man took a quick decision by running into the school compound, he would have been dead by now and the DPO will come out with stupid proofs tagging him as armed robber in order to defend his boys he sent out to rob.

chidindufrank: See what an underage punny caused. Guys better date 18 and above

Only in developed countries. In Nigeria, even our senators and leaders sleep with 10 yrs old girls and nothing can come out of this. You see them sleeping with primary school students. Their own punishment will be passed by God since our judicial system here is meant for poor man as they the judges are as corrupt as the accused.

This players, missing a penalty is something serious.

Photo-shopped. No creature like this will be acceptable by a lady like the one in this pix.

She got too much flesh and cannot turn me on.
This is like a man to me and therefore cannot make me go honey.

kreami diva: I think this guy is only guilty of buying stolen goods.period.he can't be this foolish to put his family up as his d.p if he stole the fone.from Saturday to Tuesday is enuff time for these criminals to sell stolen goods.

You said the truth.

To me, I will say that this guy must have bought the stolen phone unknowingly. Too bad. Stop calling him thief, rather tell him that the phone he is having is stolen and should be returned so that he can help you identify who sold to him.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]I have a question to ask you guys!

I saw a friend of mine's boyfriend of three years with another woman at Starbucks and he was hugging her ikebe!

My husband told me to stay out of it but I think my friend should know. I took a pix for proof and want to text her the pix

Here is the thing..she is pregnant and hasn't told him yet. I don't want the child to grow up in broken home but AIDS is real

I think she should know to protext herself. I am stuck!

Tell or don't tell?[/quote]Note that the lady will eventually tell her man that you told her. If you are ready to own up that you told her, open up to her. If you feel you want to just say and get out of it, when they reconcile, you will be the one that will bear the brunt.

Note that no permanent friend or enemy because one day, you may or might end up having misunderstanding with your friend and she will open up that you pushed her to do whatever action she must have taken after you opened up to her.

If you also want to play safe, why not first call the guy and ask him why and what he was doing if your friend is aware of his present action? If he must stop because your friend might get hurt if she discovers that her man is sleeping around. Tell him to stop and if he doesn't stop that you will open up to your friend and to tell her to tell him,you told her.

Get well the world is praying for our daddy.

dani1luv: [size=15pt]Nigeria vs Spain: Spain (8 barca players,2 madrid players) vs Nigeria (1 Chelsea player, Enyeama and 9 moving objects)[/size]

True talk. Only Enyema and Mikel with other fools inclusive of Keshi that messed up.

AbyDee: I don't know,

He tells me that he does, he is still with me good day/ bad day and I have no reason to think he ever cheated, He is not doing any harm to me, he is just not doing anything. I don't know, if he doesn't love me or if he has serious issues with shows of love and feelings in general,

All that I know is that my tears, begging, nagging, shouting, crying, I've tried it, nothing works. I still pray for something to happen, one word, one moment that could make him see how I feel deep down inside, who I am, something that would make him care. But if I tell him that he gets angry saying "he doesn't know what to do to show me he cares for me" or that "nothing is enough for me".

Honestly, I had other relationships before, and I never encountered such problem. Is it an african thing to live side by side without showing feelings?

Give him a blow jo--b

IDEYE slumps as he was slapped by the spirit of the dead

Keshi disgraced by SPAIN. This is to tell you that we do not have good coach and players.

An Edo girl molested in Spain is not a story now. Prostitution is their trade. They cannot take their eyes off Oyibo man no matter how dead the man is. Go to GRA Ikeja and see how these Edo ladies hang waiting for any white man no matter how old.