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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Barron's Gmat by Anextin(f): 4:33pm On Dec 01, 2015
Hello slim, you gave the guy more than what he asked for. Please do same for me. Anything that can help me prepare and more. Thank you. akujobiebere@gmail.com
slimfit2:
Check your mail.. Maybe something that can help sits there already!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Typical Oral Interview Tips, Questions & Answers by Anextin(f): 8:10pm On Nov 26, 2015
Thanks for the info, very helpful. Please send to ebereakujobi@yahoo.com. God bless you
ashantemoore:
And sincere apologies if you are suppose to receive your professional CV/cover letter today but haven't, you will by noon tomorrow. Thank you for understanding.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Please I Need More Information About Workforce by Anextin(f): 3:15pm On Nov 20, 2015
SSpeter:
pls hep send to altanwanne@gmail.com thanks
please send to ebereakujobi@yahoo.com. Thank you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Free Workforce Past Question And Answer by Anextin(f): 1:02pm On Nov 16, 2015
Ultimate54:
I am giving out workforce past Question
and Answers for free for Allah's sake.
Feel Free to drop Your email
Thanks ultimate, please send to akujobiebere@gmail.com. May Allah reward you accordingly.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Step-by-Step CV Writing for Entry Level (samples included) by Anextin(f): 12:57pm On Nov 16, 2015
Op, thanks for educating us, it's really very informative. Pls send to akujobiebere@gmail.com. Will also send you my CV when am done for appraisal.
FamilyRe: Ny Hubby Doesnt Request For Impress Pls Advice by Anextin(op): 4:40pm On Nov 04, 2015
Thanks for the advice, sorry I personalised it, it's actually my friends', am sure if the mode moves this to front page, the hubby will see it. He's only a guest here not a registered member. And pls keep the advice coming,
FamilyRe: Ny Hubby Doesnt Request For Impress Pls Advice by Anextin(op): 1:20pm On Nov 04, 2015
THANKS FOR THE CORRECTIONTION
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imprest not impress.
FamilyNy Hubby Doesnt Request For Impress Pls Advice by Anextin(op): 1:05pm On Nov 04, 2015
MODERATORS PLEASE KINDLY MOVE THIS TO THE FRONT PAGE, EVEN IF IT DOESN’T MEET YOUR STANDARD FOR FRONT PAGE, THIS LADY NEEDS HER HUSBAND TO SEE THE ADVICE PEOPLE WIILL GIVE SO HE WILL KNOW HOW TO GO ABOUT THIS.
Dear Nairalanders, (please my dear friend needs your advice urgently, concerning her husband and his attitude to work expenses. she’s so close to me and I can actually relate to what she is going through. Her husband uses this forum not as a member, but a guest and will see this piece, am sure it will relate to him)
My job involved lots of travelling before I got married but reduced significantly afterwards. My boss ran for election and lost. She spent so much and even borrowed from the banks. The dept was huge and after she had to practically close down her office with no pay whatsoever. People advised me to go here and there for my pay but I just could not cos I know things were not like this before. Though I pray she remembers my pay when things turn better for her again. It’s not just my salary but also my personal funds used in doing her work. So for now I am unemployed and seriously looking for ways to earn for my family.
TO THE MAIN ISSUE
My husband needs your urgent advice. My hubby works for an architectural firm with staff strength less than 10 and a salary of less than N100k. he’s good at what he does and gets on well with his boss. He’s more like the manager cos his boss assigns duties only to him so he disburses to other people.
The problem is her husband uses his little salary to run errands for the company. He doesn’t ask for expense reimbursement. Anywhere he goes he takes his car and exhausts his fuel and doesn’t bother asking for impress. And from what I figured he doesn’t know how to man up and put his foot down. I believe every company provides transportation for running of their offices but this is not the case. She feels the reason is that her hubby does not request and doesn’t know how to either.
They have just one car which they both contributed to buy as a family. Initially they agreed that the wife can use the car two days out of seven days of the week. But that is not the case since her husband always has somewhere to go. My friend stopped asking and goes about her business, only calls when it’s absolutely necessary (which the husband responds fast if he can cos she’s pregnant).
Meanwhile before this car came, he collects impress.
She said the husbands’ boss is this type that will send you for market survey in different places and expects you to come back and give her a response before going to acquire that item. Her husband runs around town with their car and fuel and never collects a dime for it. He appropriates money from his salary for that. Even when the salary doesn’t last a month she brings hers for them to fuel their vehicle only for him to use it for office use.
They buy fuel every two days, she’s tired of advising her husband cos it’s beginning to seem like she’s telling him what to do. She has exhausted soft, mild approach on this matter and none is working. She feels the advice from intellectual minds on this forum might do the trick.
HOW WILL SHE MAKE HER DEAR HUBBY UNDERSTAND THAT HE’S SPENDING FAR TOO MUCH ON HIS OFFICE WORK WITH THEIR LITTLE INCOME. THEY SPEND CLOSE TO HALF OF HIS SALARY IF NOT MORE ON FUELING MONTHLY. AND SHES SICK OF THIS
FamilyRe: Lessons From My Marriage by Anextin(f): 10:56am On Sep 21, 2015
My brother, at this point, who married who is gone. The issue is raising your kids. Whether you are in a loveless marriage or not, your children should be paramount. You can't afford to leave it for your wife to man your family. If u have issues with marriage that's OK. But do not take it out on the kids. They have got nothing to do with it at all. A man who can't support his family no matter how small is an infidel. As a wife, who makes more than the husband, I don't mind my husband giving me just 1k for food. All I need is his input and support regardless of how small.
Zenanted:
Godforbide I support your Hubby oo,How I wish he will tell his own version of the story becuz its one sided...but since he won't ,lemme just ask this question (1. Are you sure you didn't force him into marrying you (2.Did he get married to you out of His self-will or pity


I believe there is a rational explanation , make una no crucify me oo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Vacancy For Business Development Officer by Anextin(f): 9:16am On Aug 19, 2015
Hello Mtutor, kindly post the name of the said company, its address, website , location and other information so we know its real ok. Thank you
Jokes EtcRe: PHOTO: When Your Photographer Has A Masters In Photography.. Lolz by Anextin(f): 11:31am On Jul 02, 2015
Experience
Intelligence
Freedom, popularity
HealthRe: Is it Possible for a AA genotype to give birth to SC.. Are They My Parents? by Anextin(f): 4:46pm On Jun 26, 2015
akudinaobi:
Thanks @adams they nearly got me confuse about genetics sc ac tin
And as for poster pls bury the hatchet ,don't dig out what you can condole its smell ,if you really wana know ur mom has all explanation to make she is manuplating the whole thing likewise you that is lying to this forum the you subjeted your parents to regular test
Why not request for dna text
my dear, ur Adams is wrong, SC does exist but it's rare. Pls do a little research and find out more
HealthRe: Is it Possible for a AA genotype to give birth to SC.. Are They My Parents? by Anextin(f): 4:44pm On Jun 26, 2015
adamshuaib:
First Page tinzz
huh
its SS not SC
Its AA or AS or SS
Noo SC, it doesn't exist
SS can only be given birth by AS + AS soo both ur parents had to be AS to get u
do your research extensively, the person suffering from it, told u what he's battling with. SC does exist and their are more too. Its not limited to AA, AS
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Waec Coordination For May/june S.s.c.e. Begins On 19 June, 2015 by Anextin(f): 10:49am On Jun 16, 2015
Pls people, answer me ooo. Where is the Abuja centre located. I really need it. Still waiting and hoping for response.
Thank u
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NBC Aptitude Test Invitation by Anextin(f): 10:41am On Jun 16, 2015
KissQ:
pls also send to ebereakujobi@yahoo.com
Thank you



Would send to u guys
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Waec Coordination For May/june S.s.c.e. Begins On 19 June, 2015 by Anextin(f): 1:52pm On Jun 15, 2015
please can somebody ghelp me with Abuja address . plssssssssssss
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Lawan-led Faction Goes To Court Against Saraki by Anextin(f): 3:15pm On Jun 10, 2015
Even if all apc members are present They conduct a rerun, bukola will still emerged winner cos the number of loyals with PDP is higher than the absentee members. Who knows some of the absentees might still caste their votes to him. The only unsure situation is the deputy Senate president.
PoliticsRe: Remy Tinubu Snubs Saraki At Swearing-in Of Pro-Lawan Senators - TheCable by Anextin(f): 1:28pm On Jun 10, 2015
What some of us who thinks that saraki sold out don't realise is thus, even if the party appointed someone and majority wanted saraki he could easily have emerged winner if they are left to vote personality. AM sure that among the 51 senators who attended the meeting, there are still some who would have voted saraki regardless of the what party wanted. Another point is what if while they were away, with the President having signed for the National Assembly to go ahead from 10am, then the PDP would have voted themselves. cos is it within the law and rightly legal. They make two third of the house. APC should congratulate Thier own and move on for the betterment of the nation else they will divide within a short time. They are backed against the wall and their fist tied, at least for now.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nigeria Immigration Service 2015 Recruitment Invitation For Aptitude Test by Anextin(f): 9:42am On Jun 10, 2015
Hello house, pls those of us from IMO State, what's going on there, they haven't started and I am wondering why. Please if there's any good info as to what's holding them.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: See The Letter This Person Wrote To Quit His Job by Anextin(f): 2:39am On Jun 04, 2015
Some people work in order to broaden their horizon, to get better at what they do, to become professionals or the next big thing. He was employed as an IT personnel not an administrative assistant or a personal assistant, in fact that is not even a secretary's job. He has his duties lined out for him and administrative wasn't part of it. Why turn him into an errand boy. It's not everyone who sits and take such, especially people who knows their worth. And believe me, the young nan did a good thing by resigning because in the next two years with such company he will even forget what IT means cos he will be far away from computer. .
InvertedHammer:
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You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it. If only you know how many slackers will kill to have your job. Hey! At least you get paid on time. No salaries in arrears? If you don't like it, start looking for another one. In all, don't forget that a bird at hand is worth more than ten in the bush
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: See The Letter This Person Wrote To Quit His Job by Anextin(f): 2:30am On Jun 04, 2015
My dear writer I support you, I know what u feel is way deeper than what u wrote. Some employers use people like they have no vision or direction in life, and a smart person get to a stage in life where they vehemently refuse to take such and I think Op Is at that point.
When u know your worth and u are not a beginner, then u sell your self high. You don't just sucomb to any humiliation and maltreatment because u know your self worth. Most people that thinks he's wrong probably had a hard time finding job. But I tell u this, if u are good in what u do, I mean exceptional good. Then u have no fear and u won't stand for anyone treating you like trash. I listened to a preacher on VISION and I came to understand that when ones vision is clear and he knows his target, he doesn't stay and take things that would never promote him.
Ops description of that office is a place u work in and u remain in one spot all Tru ur life with no career growth and even self esteem. My dear, u did well in leaving, I know u already have something lined up. GOODLUCK
EventsRe: Hilarious And Beautiful Wedding Pictures To Make Your Day (pictures) by Anextin(f): 11:05am On Jun 01, 2015
op, you do well. very funny indeed
PoliticsRe: Why Buhari Didn’t Make Assets Public – Aides by Anextin(f): 9:29am On Jun 01, 2015
No brother, when he made his campaign promises, he didnt say after 100 days in office. he said he would when resumes office, why is he stalling, why after 100 days in officewhen he he resumes office today. if he has indeed submitted to CCB, whats stopping him from publishing it. hmmm pls president Buhari do not renegae on your promises, we know some promises will not be atttainanble, but those that are within his reach, he should be truthful to them.
Rawani:
This issue is over-flogged to be honest. Even President Buhari's core loyalists will call him to question if he fails to publicly announce his declaration within 100 days as promised. If we expect integrity, we should also possess integrity.

If he has fulfilled the minimum constitutional requirements for asset declaration, and we want him to fulfill his promise as an indicator of our democratic progress, then we must abide to the terms of his promise in all fairness.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Immgration Provisional Appointment Letter Update. by Anextin(f): 7:31am On May 26, 2015
Mode, this tread is better, the other tread is full of hatred and back bitting, one can't even understand what's going on there, children insulting themselves and calling their elders names and bringing false information. Pls this thread should be it. Let's get meaningful info here. Anybody with truthful info on ahoada, orlu and kano should post it here. Thank you
Car TalkRe: FRSC Reveals Real Cost Of Obtaining A Driver's Licence by Anextin(f): 9:29pm On May 20, 2015
Its only in Mabushi Office of the VIO that you get such price, and that's if u are ready to go round yourself, if not the VIO boys charges between 8-8.5k to help out. i was speaking with one of their bosses today regarding my plate number. Then i mentioned how I heard that their office in Maraba is known for issuance of fake licence. He told me that even when you arrest such people, the police bails then without any delay. That the only solution is the awareness the are creating, letting people know that if u do not capture, eye test and thumbprint , then your licence is FAKE, and once FRSC catches you, you will pay the fine and still produce the real licence before your car will be released.

so, people if u didn't THUMP PRINT, CAPTURE AND NO EYE TEST, THEN YOUR LICENCE IS FAKE.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Immigration Appointments: Connections 90%, And Few Luck. by Anextin(f): 9:02pm On May 20, 2015
my Cousin got his totally on merit and Gods divine favor. hes been going through a rough time and needed a break. i went on my knees in the Alter of God and cried for his sake. Then this immigration stuff started. among all my siblings, cousins and myself i applied for only his name was shortlisted. i knew God was about to change someones life. the said boy doesn't even have a phone, reaching him became a task, but a way always manifest albert at the almost die minute. At the last stage, i didn't leave Nairaland, i opened my ears to anything that could be helpful like having all your credentials including JSS, making sure hes clean shaved and the rest. I DID NOT CONTACT, PAY, LOBBY OR BEG ANYONE. Lo and behold, his name was shortlisted, i cried that faithful morning when i opened his mail. since then i have not ceased praising God.

I dont have a worthy job myself, but i am so happy this boy is employed, it gladdens my heart knowing that God picked him up.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Urgent Vacancy For The Position Of A Human Resource Officer by Anextin(f): 3:02am On May 20, 2015
Sending my cv and resident in Abuja, also married, hope that won't be a problem
PoliticsRe: Buhari & Lara Oshiomhole’s Handshake Cause Commotion On Twitter by Anextin(f): 8:27am On May 18, 2015
Ramanto:
Islam is strictly against a man shaking hands with a woman or vice versa. And I'm sure that GMB is aware of this.I'm surprised he does that or he thinks being a president makes him above the laws of the sharia?
what do expect to him to do, Nigeria is not a sharia state. And now he is first an elected president before any other. Muslim president all over the world shake hands with women when they are not same religion with them. Nigeria is not even no 20th Islamic state, yet nations who are evolved in Islam have leaders who shake hands with female diplomats.
RomanceRe: 12 Things Couples Still Won’t Do In Front Of Each Other (even Afta Years 2geda) by Anextin(f): 10:28pm On May 17, 2015
@op your list is dead wrong, I and my spouse we exhibit these and more. I only leave the toilet when his poop smells so bad, otherwise I stay put. Common we don't hold anything from one another so it's an open book all the way.
PhonesRe: Etisalat Introduces Cheaper Call Tariff Plan by Anextin(f): 12:13pm On May 16, 2015
I just migrated and was told I will lose all bonus on my line. Welcome to 4.20 limited
CareerRe: Immigration Result by Anextin(f): 12:19pm On May 14, 2015
They started sending emails to successful applicants this morning, you can also visit their website site and click on appointment, my cousin just received his, he's to go to ahoada for documentation and collect his provisional appointment letter
Jobs/VacanciesImmigration Provisional List Out by Anextin(op): 11:23am On May 14, 2015
Hello everyone, God just made my day by listing my cousin among those who were offered provisional appointment into the Nigerian Immigration Service. I Thank Him for that. This is first time in my life I have benefited directly or indirectly from the federal government without going through any politician or meeting a high ranking individual. If this continues, Our Nigeria will be a better Nation indeed.

Congratulation to all those who made the list and especially those who gave us insights to assist people who went for the oral interview. I must say I got some tips like the jss result, primary testimonials and some other tips which were helpful to my cousin.

Hope most of you made it, please share if you did and still share if you didn't.
God bless Nigeria

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