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DaveHert:Actually, me telling you not to take my word for it doesn't mean I was lying. But you can't judged me with that either because I believe in keeping myself till after marriage cause I'm practicing it. Again who's talking about hijab? People and their mentality sha, who said only those in hijabs dress decently? My point is you'll always be judged by the way you dress. And most guys won't respect girls that don't respect their selves and their bodies. |
PDPGuy:It will. The way you dress is the way you'll be addressed. It can't change even if peoples sense of modesty and decency is greatly reducing. |
DaveHert:Hahaha, yea well not believing something doesn't mean they aren't true right? But anyways if being against something wrong and bad is equivalent to me having a small mind the again, I accept the label with pride. ![]() People will always be defined by how they dress whether it is actually right conclusion or not. Yes, I am an African and proud of that fact. I ain't gonna borrow anyone's culture all in the name of civilization especially if it is wrong and bad. No matter what societies allow these days, it can't change a wrong to right. Shallow mind speaking. |
Aderola15:Thank you, and no, I never justified rape nor do I condone it. |
PDPGuy:Why aren't they allowed in schools, offices or banks but yet are allowed on the streets? Remember, anything goes on the street that isn't even close to decent so that point isn't valid. |
SirMichael1:You are the one misunderstanding me. Or are you defending indecent dressings? My post has nothing to do with the number of people who are actually decent in their act or not but those that are decent in their mode of dressing. And yes, her choice of clothing could be a reason for her to be disrespected that's the honest truth. Again I grew up with guys that are notorious for disrespecting girls and they don't hold back their reasons for it which usually has to do with their mode of dressing which they always feel is an invitation. If celebrities wear indecent clothes does that make is good and acceptable? Aren't they part of the reason? Not everybody is bad and not everybody is corrupt. I actually have no business with jamb anymore unless the day my kids would want to write theirs. |
PDPGuy:So are bum shorts and bras acceptable? ![]() |
Maxi112:Really. You think girls of my religion don't dress indecently? ![]() Who's even talking about religion? I hope you won't encourage your child to wear rags so that she won't live a boring life if being decent means being boring to you. On second thoughts, if that's what you want for her, go ahead. |
SirMichael1:Hahaha, very funny. First of all, should I pardon and accept what majority do even if its actually wrong? Who said anything about hijabs and rendezvous, read my post again and see what it said. It didn't said all those who wear hijab and dress modestly are not terrible deep down but that some women are the reasons guys disrespect them due to their mode of dressing. This is where first impression comes in. |
DaveHert:And if I am a virgin and believe virginity should be kept till after marriage? Shallow, old school and uncivilized right? But hey, don't take my word for it. |
PDPGuy:Thanks for your opinion, its now left for you to define those dressings that won't biolate the public decency laws. |
SirMichael1:Okay, if that's what will make you happy. But seriously, are you trying to tell me that a 19 year old can't differentiate between right and wrong? So in other words they shouldn't be judged for any crime they commit? |
plainbibletruth:God, what will it take for you people to keep away their ignorance? 1. There are some things common sense will tell you is not literal. If I wanted to describe something like that to people with little understanding that's how I'll put it for them to understand just as i will tell people that the water found far down a road is a mirage. 2. Yes, he found it going down into the sea, which was what the sun was doing in that picture even though it wasn't literarily. 3. Yes it said found by it a people, which meant by the water not by the sun. Or don't tell me you thought it was by then sun.. ![]() 4. Yes, the Quran is clear to those literate enough to understand it not those who are only seeking for errors without any understanding of it. 5. The way I interpreted it is the real meaning, nothing else. That's the way it was revealed to him and that's the way he put it and interpreted it. If you can't understand it, don't blame anyone. It's just like not understanding a medical statement then saying there's an error with it. |
Dimples182:Hahaha, small mind indeed. Yes, the actual reason a mad person is said to be made is because of their mental health, but how will you know a person is mentally unstable? Because of their behaviours and mode of dressing. What's the first thing among the above people will notice? Their mode of dressing. It is only after further queries that you can be certain that that person isn't really mad. So what are you trying to tell me? How do most prostitutes advertise themselves? What's the first thing that will tell their costumers that they are really prostitutes? They definitely don't paste it on their foreheads for quick identification. In every profession there's a mode of dressing attached to it. A doctor is not a doctor because he wears lab coat and holds a stethoscope but because he treats people but what will be your thought after seeing someone dressed like that? Keep defending it though, it's your choice. My points aren't ignorant, you are just being sentimental about it..oops, but if being against some bad makes me ignorant the I carry the label with pride. |
Dimples182:You are being sentimental and biased, why judge the person who dressed in rags and looked unkept as a madman and not the sane person that had other means yet decided to dress like a madman? They way you dress is the way you'll be addressed so don't shift all the blame on the person who mistakes someone for being a hooker because she dressed the part. What's even the reason behind them dressing that way? ![]() Are you actually excusing indecent dressing by calling it civilization? I think they reason you are attacking me so much is because you don't see anything wrong with dressing indecently, if so, I definitely can't change your mind about it. But bottom line is, walking around in rags and half naked is not civilization, that is backwardness because that's how we started. People believe only prostitutes and people without shame or self respect walk around half naked and are proud of it and the truth is they have a point. Peacefullove: the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objectsThank you very much, you get my point which shows you aren't being sentimental. |
Dimples182:I see I've hit a sore spot. Who said anything about deserving? I said they are the reason not whether they deserve it or not. The truth might be bitter but it remains the truth, call me what you like. I don't promote rape culture neither did I talk about rape. There are different ways to be disrespected and I wasn't referring to rape. I am a woman and I'd never encourage or excuse rape. When you dress indecently and a guys picks you up asking you your price per day, what's that called? Disrespect right? Did he actually meant it as disrespect or was it responding to the message he thought you were sending by going around half naked. Are you actually excusing indecent dressing by calling it civilization? People believe only prostitutes and people without shame or self respect walk around half naked and are proud of it and the truth is they have a point. Peacefullove: the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objectsThank you very much, you get my point which shows you aren't being sentimental. |
plainbibletruth:Very funny. Seriously you people are amazing. First of all we were talking about violence and war not errors but anyways let me enlighten you. 18:86 Until when he reached the place where the sun set, he found it going down into a black sea, and found by it a people. We said: O Zulqarnain! either give them a chastisement or do them a benefit. Have you ever lived near a sea or any pool of water in general? Have you ever seen sun setting in those areas? Let me attach a photo to make you see better but before that, that verse wasn't saying the sun fell into the water or any of that misconceptions but was explaining the pattern sun sets in some areas with water bodies. What will you use in explaining the pattern of sun set in that photo? What does it look like?
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lefulefu:Lol, of course she's free to were anything she likes at home. I'm not talking about ladies wearing jeans but those wearing rags and walking around half naked. |
Maxi112:There should be freedom of dressing as long as the mode of dressing is decent. We can't respect and encourage indecency for many reasons because it ends up spreading and corrupting the youth. The difference between me and them is that I'm being judged for dressing decently which is absurd and they are being judged because they dress indecently which if you're being honest isn't right. Everyone is free to choose but no one is free from the consequences of their choices. |
benzics:Seriously, why do you guys keep turning in circles? Haven't I explained giving valid proofs from the Quran itself? It's left for you to bring your own proof from that same Quran to debunk it. It's all recorded. Talking about history, where you there when it all happened? How are you so sure it's a lie? Because you hate Islam and don't care about the truth? I don't see points arguing with you any more cause I can see you aren't interested in proofs or the truth. If you are tired of running in circles then maybe we can have a reasonable discussion. When I debate, I deal with facts and proofs not thoughts and opinions. Keep hating but beware, hatred darkens the soul and blocks the heart. |
lefulefu:Lol. Sorry for that but don't worry, I'm certain most won't heed to it share. The funny things about you guys is that you compliment in their presence but abuse them behind their backs. I've witnessed lots of things like that cause I grew up with lots of guys around me. ![]() |
Maxi112:Hahaha, something I don't have? Lol, that's pretty funny. But hey, you can't judge what you've never seen right? On second thoughts, you are free to. Sorry to say this but how can I respect people that don't respect their selves? And yes, people like that do judge people who dress decently calling them uncivilized. I'm surprised you don't know. About your last statement, go back to my post and underline the word some women. I never said all those being harassed or disrespected are the cause. |
Maxi112:Really? So you mean only Muslims dress modestly? Maybe you have a thing against Muslims, I don't know nor do I care. Please go over my post again and point out the phrase or sentence that denotes religious mindset. Or do other religions encourage indecent dressings? There are many Christians I see who dress very decently, head coverings aside. If you are taking it personal, sorry but the truth is always bitter. |
Dimples182:Call it what you want, its your own opinion. Yes, I am indeed a woman so that's why I don't understand why some of my fellow sex would love exposing something that should be preserved and respected. Sure it doesn't mean she's less human but seriously, is she actually showing her body the respect it deserves? |
Maxi112:Really? Is religion all you people can think of? Well to address that issue, I don't dress the way I dress just because my religion forbids indecent dressing but because I respect my body. Being modest is not equivalent to being religious but having self respect. |
Maxi112:Hahaha, jealousy my foot. I'm just sick and tired of those sort of girls whining and complaining about things they brought on their selves. Yes, they can dress the way they like as long as they keep their miseries to their selves. Believe me, they have nothing I can be jealous of. It might sound harsh but it's the truth. |
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed. They dress themselves in rags, walking around unclad all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly? Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them. The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.
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This is so disgusting and stupid. What's wrong with these women set, walking around naked all in the name of civilization giving the rest of us a bad name. Later they'll start complaining guys disrespect them. Well news flash, if you don't disrespect yourself guy's won't disrespect you. ![]() |
benzics:You are very funny, seriously. But to enlighten you.. Mecca, just like any other part of the world had variates of religions then. It was through Muhammad pbuh who was born in mecca that God made Islam official, meaning it was Through him that Islam officially became a religion not just an act. When he started preaching about Islam, some believed and some disbelieved even amongst his own family members just like Abraham's. For those who believed and began practicing Islam, began being picked on and aggressed by the non believers that some were even forced to change back due to fear. The ones who refused were killed and threatened. Even Muhammad was threatened and some plotted to kill h8m and his remaining followers, hence he had to leave his home and land and migrated to Medina (hijira). God then gave them the go ahead to fight back and retaliate against their oppressors but not to transgress because transgression is a sin. 2:190 Fight in the way of Allah those who fight you but do not transgress. Indeed. Allah does not like transgressors. He asked them to kill and drive those people away from the places they have driven them from, their lands, houses etc 191 And kill them wherever you overtake them and expel them from wherever they have expelled you, and fitnah is worse than killing. And do not fight them at al-Masjid al- Haram until they fight you there. But if they fight you, then kill them. Such is the recompense of the disbelievers. God told them to stop, if those who fight and oppress them stop their aggression 192 And if they cease, then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. And he warned them that there should be no aggression except against the oppressors. 193 Fight them until there is no [more] fitnah and [until] worship is [acknowledged to be] for Allah . But if they cease, then there is to be no aggression except against the oppressors. After then Muslims were allowed to practice and worship freely, which encouraged those that never practiced due to the fear of oppression from non believers. Islam fought many wars after then too that had to do with self-defense and treason. I can go on and on posting verses to prove this but I know it'll just be waste of time. I can even post verses that commanded Muslims to protect disbelievers during war when they seek for it and they should deliver them to safety even if those disbelievers refuse to convert. But your notions and mentality can never be changed because you are too proud to see and accept the truth. |
benzics:It might be difficult for you to understand the first verse but I have made the place that shows self defense bold. Turn them out FROM WHERE THEY HAVE TURNED YOU OUT... With your understanding can you interpret that phrase? And why don't youpeople like writing everything out? 191 And kill them wherever you overtake them and expel them from wherever they have expelled you, and fitnah is worse than killing. And do not fight them at al-Masjid al- Haram until they fight you there. But if they fight you, then kill them. Such is the recompense of the disbelievers. 192 And if they cease, then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. 193 Fight them until there is no [more] fitnah and [until] worship is [acknowledged to be] for Allah . But if they cease, then there is to be no aggression except against the oppressors. If you are indeed literate, those verses should be easy to spot that it's for self-defense. And this 3:151 We will cast terror into the hearts of those who disbelieve for what they have associated with Allah of which He had not sent down [any] authority. And their refuge will be the Fire, and wretched is the residence of the wrongdoers. If you had care to write it to the end you'll see that it was talking about their punishment on the day of judgement... |
benzics:That shows your level of ignorance but please let me enlighten you. You who knows the real history..... Do you know that Muhammad was actually born and lived in mecca until the non believers aggressed and plotted to kill him and his followers which lead to his migration to Medina, termed hijirah? ![]() After then, God ordered them to go and fight for their rights but not to transgress. Q2:190 Fight in the way of Allah those who fight you but do not transgress. Indeed. Allah does not like transgressors. 191 And kill them wherever you overtake them and expel them from wherever they have expelled you, and fitnah (aggression) is worse than killing. And do not fight them at al-Masjid al- Haram until they fight you there. But if they fight you, then kill them. Such is the recompense of the disbelievers. 192 And if they cease, then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. 193 Fight them until there is no [more] fitnah and [until] worship is [acknowledged to be] for Allah . But if they cease, then there is to be no aggression except against the oppressors. But I'm sure you still won't accept it but no worries, I'm used to it. Islam can't undergo reformation because we don't believe in adulteration and because we don't need it. That's why the Quran can't be changed like most holy books have been. |
benzics:Well can you please quote the verses that ordered the deaths of the infidels so well make step by step interpretation of it? About Isis issue, haven't you heard about their Muslim victims? And don't tell me you haven't heard about bombs going off in mosques on Fridays during Jumuat prayer or during any prayer. If those called people are so called Muslims following the order of the Quran about killing infidels, I wonder if it also mentioned some where that infidels in did resided in the mosques during prayer times. ![]() Quran 2:193 but remember that no hostility is allow except against the aggressors. |



.having said dat i won't insult my babe if she prefers wearing dem bum shorts or dose sexy nighties at home wen wit me.in short i had encourage dat cos babes on wrapper 24/7 dey tire me
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