Angel196:



You are being sentimental and biased, why judge the person who dressed in rags and looked unkept as a madman and not the sane person that had other means yet decided to dress like a madman? They way you dress is the way you'll be addressed so don't shift all the blame on the person who mistakes someone for being a hooker because she dressed the part.

What's even the reason behind them dressing that way?

Are you actually excusing indecent dressing by calling it civilization?

I think they reason you are attacking me so much is because you don't see anything wrong with dressing indecently, if so, I definitely can't change your mind about it. But bottom line is, walking around in rags and half naked is not civilization, that is backwardness because that's how we started.

People believe only prostitutes and people without shame or self respect walk around half naked and are proud of it and the truth is they have a point.





Thank you very much, you get my point which shows you aren't being sentimental.

Dimples182:


Come out your village every now and again and expose yourself to the world. I am sorry you live in a society that thinks so low of women. Men and women wear shorts, swimwear, short dresses etc and nobody judges them. You do not become a prostitute by what you wear rather what you do. If a man approaches a woman wearing short clothes and he propositions her then he is the dirty fvcker and he should be taken off the streets. I won't entertain your ignorance anymore.

Dimples182:


A mad person is mad because of their mental health and not because of the way they dress. A prostitute is a prostitute because she sells her body for money and not because of what she wears. Look I can't explain everything to you. Your points are ignorant and small minded. I don't judge people by the way they look. What you call "Indecent" is just clothes, fashion, style and choice to me.

Dimples182:


A mad person is mad because of their mental health and not because of the way they dress. A prostitute is a prostitute because she sells her body for money and not because of what she wears. Look I can't explain everything to you. Your points are ignorant and small minded. I don't judge people by the way they look. What you call "Indecent" is just clothes, fashion, style and choice to me.

Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around half naked all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.

Akjwyzepal:
and u're a lady? 1. She didnt say short cloths but indecent dressing.
I don't think u can comprehend what she typed. Now imagine guys dressing half naked showing deir peny, u dnt think gals will start raping guys? Nigerians just turns things upside down. That abroad u mean as ur civilized world, do u knw d rate at wich they have sex? Just a gal u meet at a eatery in abroad b4 u knw it dy havin sex at d eatery toilet. I'm not saying short skirt is bad, dnt just dress exposing ur body. By d way its fasting period dnt be the cause of a sin. If a gal dress exposing her body and get raped d guy shuld., be spared. I hate rape with passion neither do i like people showing me wat i dnt want to see.

SirMichael1:


I can bet that a 19 year old is behind this handle. You're still too young to differentiate your left from your right

Akjwyzepal:
shut up jawe, age is only a number. We need young reasonable people in this country. And where on earth is a 19yr old a minor? How old are u 100yrs? Journey mercies to d aftaworld nigbayen.

Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around half naked all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.

Dimples182:


Lol! What marriage? Girl I want you to chat pidgin to the op and reset her brain

She says if we wear shorts in August we are prostitutes

SirMichael1:


I can bet that a 19 year old is behind this handle. You're still too young to differentiate your left from your right

PDPGuy:


Slut-shaming won't change anything. A woman has the right to wear whatever she wants, in public, so long as her outfit doesn't violate public decency laws.

A woman dressed in a short, black dress deserves equal respect as the one who is dressed in iro and buba.

RuthDaniels:
This is a Nigerian forum, where most users are 90% Nigerians. A people with different culture, mentality , norms and values just incase you have forgotten! You don't ridicule people because of their believes woman!. You either calm down, learn, state your opinion or better still leave if some of its thread does not suite you.

LalaLushness:

Is that agege bread

Angel196:


Okay, if that's what will make you happy.

But seriously, are you trying to tell me that a 19 year old can't differentiate between right and wrong? So in other words they shouldn't be judged for any crime they commit?

DaveHert:
I was just reading comments but from the few who've commented so far one could clearly tell of how "Shallow" some of you are on this forum according to Dimple. So because a girl chose to wear a mini shirt or cleavage baring outfit it then means she should be used and dumped or she's showing herself as a sex object?. Let me tell you...it's not about the dressing but the personality of who's on the dress that either keeps or chases away a man. A girl can be well covered but nothing to write home about while another can be ill dressed but knows her onion. Take Mercy Johnson for example, when she was single one could assume she's a whöre if we go by her she dresses but she's the one other actresses are looking up to. Omotola was at some point on indecent dress, if you've seen her music video you could tell, she does twerk on life TV but one can't just wake up to conclude a lady who twerks is a hoe or should be used and dumped.

Actually, most of those who claim to be decent on social media are the real whòres. All that decency preaching is to get attracted to some so called decent guys who would use and dump them. I hope you're a virgin too?, @op.

Angel196:


Lol, of course she's free to were anything she likes at home.

I'm not talking about ladies wearing jeans but those wearing rags and walking around half naked.

Dimples182:


Trust me, threads like these often make me want to deactivate my account. I'm here for the people I have become friends with on here...

Yea right!

Pls state your opinion in a less degrading manner, we are different, we learn everyday. Moreover, you can't change what you don't accept ( although I see no reason for change on this thread).

Live and let live!

SirMichael1:


Doesn't make me happy, only made feel sad for you. You know little to nothing about your kind(ladies)

You come over here to the north and see people with ijabs committing immorality late at night. They come out in the middle of the night naked putting on only the ijab and make way to their rendezvous.

The job becomes easier for the guy who doesn't need to remove any blouse or leggings. Just slips in freely and touch live boobs without much strain.

You're still naive and that's why you say decency is a yardstick for measuring the respect women get from men.

Travel wide and experience life. Don't be too quick to say your personal findings.

Angel196:


Hahaha, very funny.

First of all, should I pardon and accept what majority do even if its actually wrong?

Who said anything about hijabs and rendezvous, read my post again and see what it said. It didn't said all those who wear hijab and dress modestly are not terrible deep down but that some women are the reasons guys disrespect them due to their mode of dressing. This is where first impression comes in.

Angel196:


Thanks for your opinion, its now left for you to define those dressings that won't violate the public decency laws.

Dimples182:


The religion of peace

MzLarem:
At the end of the day, your dressing goes a long way and it determines how you will be addressed but still, it is not an excuse for guys to disrespect any lady. We all are free to wear whatever we find comfortable.

Akjwyzepal:
u reach here. Issokay. Dy wnt to disfagin my eyes with their slippy boouubs and hairy laps, i rebuke it.

Dimples182:


Lol! What marriage? Girl I want you to chat pidgin to the op and reset her brain

She says if we wear shorts in August we are prostitutes

Dimples182:


Lol! What marriage? Girl I want you to chat pidgin to the op and reset her brain

She says if we wear shorts in August we are prostitutes