DALE917:
They should deport many of them abeg

They keep spoiling the image of Nigerians with lying pity stories
Imagine I watched a video where a woman who lived in Lagos said and I quote "nigeria is not safe for my child, they bomb and shoot people everywhere, they don't allow them go to school because they are females"
Somebody asked where she lived and she said Lagos-ogun axis

Pls where in Lagos are they bombing houses?
Or who will pursue your daughter from school and sell her off in Lagos?

Or maybe I'm in another part of Lagos

Stycon:


The bottom line is that working hard hardly make people rich. The better approach is to make your money work for you.

TheCongo2:


Then you are part of the problem and bot the solution. It is unfortunate

TheCongo2:


Now that it has been revealed the guy is from Trinidad and not from Nigeria, what is your take on the bolded?


cc: TheUpsetGirl

ShyCypher:
Everyone is blamin' the devil for their own conscious failures.

Even this feminist wannabe who was exposed suckin' an otogenarian's preeqson is also blamin' devil.

You didn't remember devil when the credit alert entered you phone o. You still didn't remember devil when you drove down to the hotel and allowed him put his aged preeqson inside your mouth, held your head firmly in place, choked you with his throbbin' preeq, rammed your throat for almost 10 mins in various rhythmic strokes & finally peed hot cum down your achin' throat o.

Even after he stuck 3 fingers down your throat and made you convulse slightly to throw up the cum on the floor tiles & lick it back up, you didn't remember devil then o.


Na now wey you don spend d money finish you come remember devil.

Shioor.

Dharniel:
that's how Taye Taiwo was claiming 25 years while his twin brother Kehinde, was somewhere celebrating 42 years...

efavour:
there is a provision for step children, he doesn't have to adopt him to file for him. Adoption is a long process,I would advice that he forget it, he can still love him as his own. Or can start that at a later date after you have started living together. What am saying is he can file for him and it will still take the same length of time if he were to be his biological son. Leave the stress of adoption for now. As for those chauvinistic fools ignore them, they are just made that you found love again and to a better man sef.they are still living in stone age, believing that women with kids cannot find love again. Yet, these women keep landing correct men daily. The joke is on them. Name to make mouth online and go hide and do the things they discouraged others from doing lol.

revolt:
you'll need to prove he's late ie death certificate... N woe betide thee if you're caught lying. I don't understand y the dude wants to legally adopt a child that's indirectly adopted . Are u sure ure nt insisting he does so,?!! Anyways look b4 leaping. The biological father has to sign out his rights for tht to happen.

Thisandthat:
I lost my mum at 14 and my dad at 21....Meanwhile at 12 my dad was already down with stroke till he passed on.....I see many traits of Cee Cee in me.....I'm an adult that has lost her joy and I find it difficult to just let go and love.....Sometimes these things just make u a broken individual... If iv taken taken anytin 4rm bbn,den its d resolve to do better.....I will still not vote for her but I understand d place she's at...trust me ...its a terrible state

JONNYSPUTE:
. Swearing of affidavit for change of name doesn't take time. Provided you and your hubby ve everything necessary to proof that both of you are legally married,ur request shall be granted by the embassy. Nothing like adoption.Ur lawyer can advice you more. Gudluck.

ekensi01:


Before I talk let me congratulate your husband for accepting a broken seal.

After all the warning 'Do not accept if seal is broken'.

Coming to edit

JONNYSPUTE:
. Then you ve nothing to fear. Get a good attorney,swear affidavit and change the boys name to that of the man since you are now legally married to him. Not a difficult task. Sorry abt my questions ,just to understand the situation well. There is no much procedure.

kekeoj15:
You should please read adoption laws in Nigeria, and what the US consulate says about it. That's a tough road to trend, have your husband file for your child as his stepson (This is legit), when and if his case is approved you will need to prove that you are his biological mother. This is not a rocket science. I know friends that have done it, it all came back to the DNA results. Adoption in Nigeria will lengthen your case more than you would ever wished for. You should please educate yourself on what the US Consulate says about adoption from Nigeria.

JONNYSPUTE:
. Ok,no kind of marriage rites,bride price,or any form of traditional commitments between your family and his?

Follygunners:


The lady na FOOL. Just wan try show herself na. You dey U.S dey ask foolish question for here. Just imagine!

Ayodejioak:
How do mean you searched everywhere?

Its boldly written every where on the USCIS website

I assisted a relative the same way.

Here: https://www.uscis.gov/adoption/immigration-through-adoption

younglawya:


Depending on the State you are in there is a procedure to be followed. There is also a court order that must be granted befire the process can be concluded

in summary, a parent –child relationship must have been established (temporary custody) before the court decision can be considered final.

Also, prospective adoptive parents must be at least aged 25 years of age and 21 years older than the child. For a married couple, one of the parents must meet the age requirement.

Some of the documents required are
birth certificate .
Pictures of the child,
Marriage Certificate
Proof of Nigerian citizenship
A police report

You can reach me on 07037836881 if you have any questions

TONYEFIBBS:


One's your legally married to him your son automatically qualifies. All your husband need to do is to file for both of u at once as long as u have your sons birth certificate. And you have court documents showing that u have full custody of your son. That's the most important document. I know cause I been through the process. And my son became an American citizen as soon as I file for him when he got here. 7 years ago.

JONNYSPUTE:
Madam before I answer your questions,can you pls clarify on these issues, Where u legally married to the boys father? Did both of you divorce? Is he still alive? Without answering all I ve asked you,sorry I can't help you. Note that the clarity here will be of help to u.

kekeoj15:
Pardon my ignorance, why would your husband want to adopt your son legally (He can for good reasons, immigrating to the US is not part of it)? Don't tell me it's for immigration purpose. Your son can be filed for as a stepson to your husband, he won't necessarily have to adopt him before filling. Are you not part of the filling? The US consulate will only need you to prove you are the mother (DNA) and have the full custody of the child. I think you're over-complicating issues here.

Follygunners:


Imagine your language tone sef... Abeg commot. Just imagine, I have the answer to ur question but, you seem like a rude, spoilt brat!

WhoBeThisMan:
Where is the father if the child? I don't think it's possible to just adopt another man's child just like that

lekonso:
You are not serious. You want to adopt a child in Nigeria and you stay put outside the country. Is it from outside the country you will adopt a child? I repeat you are not serious

Follygunners:
This OP is very annoying. I can still give you my honest advice...trust me, I know... I know... I know what the fvck I'm saying... from experience.

Just so you're aware, your best option is to first get ur papers and then file for your son afterwards. It's way easier, less-complicated and straight forward. Otherwise, OP is a total slowpoke!

ChiefSweetus:
congrats on your recent marriage

The best way to go about this is to google the closest orphanage to you and visit with gifts. When the proprietress or administrator comes to receive you, start a conversation about adoption process and let her guide you through what's involved. She may also have contacts in the courts who will fast track it on your behalf.

Please buy chocolate for us when you join your husband in AMERICA. God don bless you with nice guy wey go carry you comot this shithole, still adopt your near-teenage son join. Lovely and a good encouragement to other single mothers to keep being amazing and never losing hope if matrimony is what they desire. Bless!

sexymoma:
Visit any magistrate court in Nigeria, ask questions from them .. they'll direct you
Or visit any Secretariat in Nigeria, ask questions... They will direct you.