Sanchez01:

And what gives you the assurance that the woman indeed lied against TD? That she was humiliated by being talked down in a video footage or because TD also got the chance to 'revenge'?

Unfortunately, I've been forced to believe that TD indeed treated her MIL as stated. We are Africans and respect is key in this part of the world. Even when the chips are down, respect could be that one lifeline to get things working again.

You're really trying hard to make me believe you're being logical and unbiased on this issue when clearly it's the complete opposite. I am not a fan of Tonto, I've never really liked the lady; but that doesn't mean I have to take sides with anyone who is against her simply because she is Tonto Dike. That's just wrong.

I don't know how she may have treated her MIL and won't cast stones because every other person is doing so based on assumptions.

Her approach at clearing the air on this issue may be wrong, but that doesn't automatically make the woman right.

Sanchez01:

I quite agree with you. However, I must be quick to point out that we have never killed our mothers who sometimes sell us out just to get on our nerves. EVEN IF she wanted to address the woman in that manner, I strongly believe doing so while a video recording is on is nothing but an attempt at dehumanizing and humiliating the poor woman and her family.

There is something called posterity and life has taught me that every situation does not need to addressed or reacted to. Tell me, say the woman is your mother and you're seeing this all over the Internet. How would you feel?

If she were my own mother, guaranteed I'd feel devastated seeing her like this all over the internet. However, "he who comes to equity must come with clean hands". If she had any integrity and not made up lies about being abandoned by her ex-employer in the bid to get funds from the public, I don't think we would be discussing this in the first place.

Let's stop playing the age card here and call a spade what it is

Sanchez01:

That woman could pass as her mother. She not only intimidated her but also humiliated the poor woman in the process. Interestingly, it was recorded while her madness raged.

I'm sorry but if a woman who could pass as my mother goes to the press to lie against me and solicit funds after everything I had done for her, my madness may be more raging than that of tonto

eyinjuege:


She sold her child. She didn't give the child up for adoption. There's a difference. No one should have the right to sell another human being.

People do legally adopt in Nigeria. It may take some time, but if you're found fit, you'll scale through the adoption process.
Every good thing takes time, and is worth waiting for. Those going that route need to be patient, and not just do sharp sharp runs. Adoption is a long process, even for the rich abroad.

I'd never advise anybody I know to go through adoption process in Nigeria. It is more draining and frustrating than trying to conceive your own child. My former boss's wife went through this for more than a year and ended up having her hopes dashed. All she wanted was a girl after four boys.

I'm glad God finally answered her prayers because she eventually conceived and delivered a baby girl.

It is wrong to buy a human but I cannot and will not judge this couple for their action because I don't know what they've been through to have a child.

IdeyFindWife:
That couple could've just gone ahead and adopted a child through legal channels nah?!

Nigerians and clandestine runz?! Now, they're roped in with criminals now!

Anyway, gotta run...tribal mofos be all over this thread like flies on day-old shyt!

You can't blame them. Child adoption in Nigeria is such a hassle. Sometimes people go through the process for more than a year and eventually get disqualified for stupid reasons. So people end up sorting the easy way out.

I'm shocked people are blaming tonto for this. That woman was just wrong for saying she was abandoned when apparently she had been discharged of her duties months before. She is very ungrateful.

If they don't want to know then they shouldn't be asking by throwing puzzle-like questions. I've attended an interview outside Nigeria and it was so much fun. The interviewers were very friendly yet professional. All you need is be expressive and articulate and know your stuff, and be rest assured you'd get the job. It's only in Nigeria you need to be some sort of genius with Albert Einstein type IQ before you can ace and interview. Pity!

TSOM:
You conversed intimately frequently enough for her to reveal her true age (women do not reveal their true ages until they get really comfortable with you).

You made no mention of her relationship status and kids which supposedly means she's unattached.

You are likely a sexually-liberal person who's open with his sexuality; hence, you must have given her reasons to make a play at you with lower chances of rejection.

If you still need advice about an issue which is clear-cut then you're having second thoughts which means you aren't the moral lighthouse you're trying to project yourself as.

Bless you for the last paragraph

I apply handbrake immediately everytime I put my car to (P) wether sloppy or level ground. I'm even surprised this is a question for discussion as they always go hand in hand.

Only people who do not have kids that age would applaud this kind of "help"

rheether:
That Spot must belong to an IPOD.. They are everywhere

It's been there for ages and belongs to an Hausa man. They have one of the best suyas around if you can endure the long queues

yourexcellency:
na VIO i fear pass. Useless old Afonjas with heavy tribal marks...they gat no mercy

Lol true. The fear of VIOs is the beginning of driving wisdom. They have no joy! But ever since they stopped me twice in one day at festac and VI and cleared me without any issue, I've had little peace of mind driving in Lagos

What did AY say about Tboss?

lizlazy:
Gooday doc.I really commend your effort on dis group.God wl continue to bless u wit wisdom.Doc,am 42 nd hv been finding it hard to conceive.my periods hv bin so irregular.in in feb I hd 28days cycle ,march 32 days.Pls doc wat can I do as age is nt on my side.thanks as I await your response

Sweetheart find yourself a good fertility clinic and register. Or start by seeing a gynecologist. He or she would recommend you do a day3 and day21 hormone profile tests and pelvic scans and then take it up from there.

In the meantime you can start by taking prenatal supplements which contain several vitamins that work to prepare your body suitable for a new baby. Go to any trusted pharmacy they'd have lots of varieties to choose from. If you can afford fertilaid and ovaboost, start taking them as they help regulate cycles and improve your egg quality respectively. However there are many alternatives that are more affordable. Try to loose some weight if you're on the big side. Cut down on sugar, alcohol, and carbs. Quit smoking if you do. Eat a balanced diet with lots of veggies and fruits. Drink plenty of water. Within a month or two you'd definitely notice remarkable changes in your body and hopefully get your BFP.

Don't forget to persuade your husband/partner to go for seminal fluid analysis to check his swimmers, just to rule out any issues on his side. Finally, I do believe in the power of prayers.

Best of luck to you and I hope to hear good news from you soon

PS: I am not a Doctor. I was just moved by your question knowing the doctors here may not answer you swiftly. Just sharing the basic knowledge that I have from research. God bless you and the little one on the way.

sorextee:
mostly at nipost, but if it stays too long at nipost, they will bring it to ur adress

Ok great. Thanks!

And do I need to pay any extra fees to pick up at nipost?

manlawal:
they send to the nearest post office of your address

Ok Thanks.

timbros:


I've been using the Ulefone Tiger for a month+ now, zero issues. For the price, the phone is dope. Infact wifey just hijacked the phone last week. I'm using hers now and planning to order another phone.

I advise anyone buying from Aliexpress to buy NEW items not refurbished or fake. Sony Xperia isn't the normal 'Chinko' phone we know. So buying Sony, Samsung, iPhone etc is either a fake or refurbished. You're on your own.

And I don't buy a device of more than $150. That's my spending limit. So if it turns out bad, I can bear it. But so far, I haven't had a bad experience with my aliexpress orders.

Imagine buying a 64gb flash drive below 4k!

Hi! Are your ordered items sent directly to your address or you have to go pick up somewhere?

just2endowed:


was it this this week u were offered such amount?

Sorry for the late reply. It was on the 28th or so.

Got my interest alert today and it was precisely 17% for 182 days. I think it's a great bargain since primary market gives for 17.2%

As much as people are being careful not to lose their money to scammers and that this story needs to be verified, I think the "detectives" here need to be a little sensitive while asking questions. Until proven otherwise please try to show some empathy to this op's predicament

just2endowed:
Ecobank offerring me 17.50% for 362 days and 16.50% for 182 days and 13.20% for 91 days.

Guys what u think?


cc: feelamong

It's low. FBN offered 17% for 182 days and that's what I went for

IHelp:


First bank will debit the value of your bid(all) and pay in the interest if the bid is successful. If the bid fails, your money is returned.

I see. Thanks for your prompt reply. Contrary to what the lady told me, I got debited all my bid hence my question. I think some of these bank staffs really don't know much about TB. They struggle to give a proper and well detailed information. They just basically want to hand out the forms and don't want you bothering them with questions.

Thanks again for your clarification.

ositadima1:
First bank did approximately 18.12℅ for 364 days.I got alert this morning.

Hi, please did first bank debit all your bids and paid the interest later.....or they debited just the difference and left your interest.

delishpot:


The way you dress when you go see your parents. That is how she should dress cos she is a living example to her kids. And you still did not send me a photo of those boobs.

And who says I can't go visit my parents and even in-laws in a short white dress, black pumps and a designer purse to match? Lol. You need to put down your phone and go back to the cave you came from

delishpot:


Oya show me yours na, pleeasseee. As a young woman that you are. Show me a photo of those young perky boobs and your nice young thighs.

You didn't answer my question. As a "mother of 3, teacher and wife" like you put it, how is she supposed to dress??

delishpot:
Mom of 3, a Teacher and probably a wife and she is still advertising her body to be drooled at while flaunting a designer bag in the 'Look at me; I have arrived" fashion. Some women sef

What would you rather have her do? Wear iro and buba with gele because she's a mother and a teacher and has no right to look and feel like a young woman that she is?

With the help of modern science and advanced technology, there's no such thing as impotent or barren anymore. You could even have two or three at once if you desire

rawpadgin:
stop rubbing this guy's new on our faces please

bloody desperado, denied ur family because of 25million


this kain guy fit use him entire family do money ritual sef

but then again.......


wetin concern me?

The irony is that this man may end up being one of the biggest celebrities in the entertainment industry soon, with the way his news has been trending. This is the kind of mediocre we like to celebrate in Nigeria and it's pathetic

No you're not impotent. Your mind has been conditioned to think so due to your first experience. You've not even had a real girlfriend or fallen in love before so how would you know you can't have a full erection and last long with it? I think it's more of a psychological than a medical issue and nothing close to spiritual. You've just been too scared

However to rule out any medical condition, try and see a medical doctor as soon as you can. Personally I believe this is something changing your diet and taking a few supplements would handle.

No you're not impotent. Your mind has been conditioned to think so due to your first experience. You've not even had a real girlfriend or fallen in love before so how would you know you can't have a full erection and last long with it? I think it's more of a psychological than a medical issue and nothing close to spiritual.

However to rule out any medical condition, try and see a medical doctor as soon as you can. Personally I believe this is something changing your diet and taking a few supplements would handle.

Ioannes:


Sorry for quoting this long piece and I know it's also an old post, but in case you've made your choice, then at least someone going through this might see this response.

I've come to realise that Because we love someone doesn't mean we have time marry them.

If the younger guy is physically exhausting now, what will happen when the two of you start living together through months and years, enduring his childish behaviour ( he's already 29, So he won't change).

If I were you, I'd go for the older guy only after I've made my own personal and detailed research as to why he hasn't married at 40.

All the best.

Thank you very much. And I absolutely agree with you. Most times love is just not enough because on the long run only endurance, patience and perseverance would sustain a marriage. There's no such thing as a fairytale marriage. It takes two mature people to make it work, or atleast one mature and coolheaded person, as I can be really strongheaded sometimes. So yes I made my decision based on facts and real life experiences and I chose smart over spark. Thanks for your contribution

Originalsly:
I don't think the US is targeting Nigerians..... as I see it.... they are targeting Muslims period. If you are not a Muslim....you may as well be one since you work for a Middle East airline....Middle East and Muslim.... same thing....same result... denial. To other Nigerians...just like anyone else... visa is clearance to travel to the US.... it doesn't guarantee entry. At Port of entry they have your info and will question you... should your info not match then you are denied entry. Happens all the time...not to Nigerians only. On visa fees... yes they do make a killing. .. but can simply deny you visa... they don't have to wait until you get to the POE to deny you entry if their aim is to collect fees.

Thanks for atleast being reasonable and stating your opinion maturely without name calling. Hardly happens on here. Now I am not Muslim, and then QA flies to more than 10 airports in the US daily, twice daily to JFK and BOS. If it had to do with the airline, it may not be allowed into the states and many people would be turned back at POE, but that's not the case. Nigeria has always been in the international media for the wrong reasons including terrorism, drugs, cyber fraud, murdering their spouses in the US etc...and do you think Trump would want any more of us infiltrating his America? He doesn't have to say it out loud. And quite frankly I'm glad I was turned down from the embassy, rather than going all the way and be turned back at the POE. Would have been more devastating.