ebijimi7:
Good morning guys

I'm tired of this life I'm living in the last few years I've actually had to battle with depression, I'm a guy who just did his 30th birthday few months ago and it's really making me feel bad I'm in my 30s no wife no child, now let me tell you what has been happening in my life.

I stayed in my family house with my mum until I clocked 27 years so I got my apartment although I had a building project of 3 bedrooms flat and 3 unit of room and parlour self contained and 2 shops in front which I was actually building for my mum so she can enjoy her privacy, my plan was to surprise my mum on her 60th birthday with the said house but my mum died at the age of 57 which is september 2022 after spending all the money i had on her hospital bills and took loans judt for her to be fine,I'm still not over it yet and I now had a supportive girlfriend who was with me and my sister in the hospital in 2022 and when my mum died she was beside me she cared for me and doesn't want me to think about what happened at times when I'm down thinking about my life she would show up and tell me baby let's step out I don't like you in this mood she was actually helping me to get over my mums death,

then early this year my girlfriend and I got a shop for her so she can start making money for herself too so we were cool everything was going well until she feel sick in June and at this moment I was just pulling myself together with her help now she is sick I started getting scared because I remember how my mums sickness started I tried not to cry as a man but I couldn't hold back the tears when we were in hospital she would held my hands and tell me baby don't worry I would be fine please stop crying,

at times I hide myself to cry because I don't want her to see me at a point in time she wasn't responding to medical treatment and this is the same girl I've engaged only to do necessary things next year so she can move in with me and we start living as a couple later on after going to churches and seeking spiritual assistance every where we were told she stepped on poison and we need to act fast me I'm a yoruba man that was born and brought up in a white garment church and my fiancee was an igbo girl and a deeper life church goer which she later stopped going because that was her mums church, after everything I told the mother that can we take her to my church so that she can be fine because d

I'm not comfortable with the fact that she kept crying she is feeling pains all over her body but the mother didn't listen to me so I approached the shepherd if there is anything that can be done if she's not brought to church?

The shepherd said its only when there is physical contact with her that he can help her be better again.

because they projected needle in her body and the whole thing started from where we went to get shop for her, so after talking to the shepherd, he said I should tell the mother that he would come to the house to do prayer and spiritual work in that house they are staying that even the house is haunted too, apart from the shop so after relating this to the mother she refused,

I understand you can force your believ on people but atleast let's save the life of my wife to be, at a point in time my fiancee started hiding to call me, She kept telling me that I should please come and take her away and she wants to come be with me that she doesn't like the way her matter is being handled by the family.

After the mother refuse to allow us come to the house to pray for her, I took some things to her to use bath after spending so much money the mother seized it from her and ask her not to use it because of where it was coming from, she couldn't because her mum has been the one bathing for her and helping her because the pain was intense she couldn't walk, everytime I think about the pain I would almost run mad,

the last time I saw her I went to her house because ofcourse I used to go and see her every weekend and go with provisions at a point too I was asked to stop bringing anything for her, I felt bad but I never mind my own was just for her to be fine so on that day I went to her house I never knew that would be the last day I would be seeing her, then she looked at me and smile and asked me why do I love her?


I told her don't worry get better I would tell you why then she smiled at me and looked into my eye and said babe you would leave me

I told her never I wasn't going to do that because when I was down you were the only one I'm seeing why would I run away when you need me too,

I told her not to worry that she would be fine then she asked me to help her get up which I did then she hugged me thrice and continued non stop then I asked her baby are you OK?

She smiled and hugged me again.
So it was time to leave then I told her I was going she said when I get home I should call and this was on a Saturday, so I got home and called no response, then on Sunday I called she picked but I can feel the pain in her voice she couldn't talk for long then on Monday night she died,

my instinct kept telling something is not right, so I called the mother she told me my fiancee was asleep I said OK I would call the next day, then her friend from Ghana called me and was crying on phone so I asked what was wrong she said nothing that she eas just checking up on me I said OK and i asked if she has spoken to my fiancee she said yes so i told her to be fine I ended the call but I was restless as I was bothered what was going on,

then on Tuesday around 6:20 am my fiancées elder sister text me that my fiancee is dead that message dis organised everything in me, instantly had uncontrollable tears rolling out of my eyes even as I type this I still find myself crying she was suppose to celebrate her 27th birthday October 12 which in same month I celebrated my 30th but through out the month of October till this moment I'm still filled with pains and tears.

every day I wake up I cry because its not been easy on me at times I feel like just ending it all she was the only woman that has gone extra mile for me to see me happy I can't even move on.

my life is shattered I'm broken hearted I cry everyday and I find it difficult to forgive myself for not taking her away when she wants me to and I felt I've betrayed her and neglected her when she wanted me,

I had sleepless nights because of her move from hospital to hospital in the middle of the night went broke again I've really suffered and I hope I find peace soon

can i have your number, please?

Maks27:
a few days ago, I noticed a thin black line on right side of my iPhone XR's screen, and I also saw recently that the line is longer than before. I tried to take a screenshot, but it does not appear in the photo. I tried to restart the phone and had my software update, but it's still there. What seems to be the problem?
This problem started when I changed the charger could that be the issue

Mine had that same issue a couple of days ago. I was asked to update everything that needed to be updated. I did as I was told and the screen became clear again. Mine were very tiny dots that spread on the screen.

agentarcher:
No such a thing as homophobic. No one is afraid of a homosexual. Homosexuality is a mental disorder, and we just want them to seek help. If they don't want help, then isolate yourself. Do not disturb a mentally stable individual because you need self validation in your life. If homosexuality is a normal thing, put two gay man on an island, come back in 50 years and see if the population on that island has increased. Homosexual families are the most dysfunctional, have the highest rate of domestic abuse, substance abuse. Contribute the less to a developing society, do nothing for the workforce of a nation. Homosexuals if you look deep into their past suffered from one type of sexual and mental abuse when little.

God bless you for this piece.

mascot87:
The secret of loan shark is very simple.
Before you borrow money from any loan app company, MAKE SURE you take off all your phone contact and store them in a different phone. Make sure you have FAKE contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app.
Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Make sure you have fake phone contacts on the phone you are installing the loan app

Please take that information seriously.
Don't keep your original contacts on that phone you are installing that loan app.
That's is the only way they can blackmail you.
A word is enough for the wise

exactly what i tell people who run to them for loans. The second one is to immediately block the card the moment they credit your account and then go to your bank and get a new card.

God1000:
This is propaganda just to deceive the credulous and justify the brutal invasion of Gaza and the massacre of babies.

Underground tunnels are built in big hospitals all over the world for emergency use, as for those weapons, I don't trust Israeli military, why will Hamas leave weapons behind knowing fully well that Israel will use it to build a case against them?


The human tragedy that is unfolding in Gaza is heart-wrenching and Israel won't go unpunished.

UN should consider sending the protection force to Gaza immediately.

I stand with the people of Palestine

If you like, sit with them, nobody really cares. You know nothing about the war!

ahnie:

Dem still dey feedam naim make ham dey cap like this.
Onions is a goldmine here.

Exactly my point

Inobeyourmate:
I no wan know your location, but I swear nah lie, normally country hard, but e no hard reach as una dey portray an, wetin happen nah? 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

Are you aware that one tiny bulb of onion goes for between 120 and 150 Naira in Abuja? I bought 3 baskets of Onions last week Saturday and just couldn't believe how much I paid for those.

AbuTwins:
Nigeria is like marriage, it's for better for worse. In Good and otherwise!

When una dey make profit who una inform?

So you have never seen a Multinational Organization post their Profit after tax in your entire life? You guys are just impossible!

ObamaMessi:
Away with that! This wicked woman cursed me to be the tail but it didn't work, I'm the General Representative of the Faculty of Arts, 100, in my institution all the other course reps in the eight departments of the faculty are answerable to me. I'm known as Professor in school and I have an uncountable number of mentees. Lissen and lissen carefully, I must possess my possession.

With this your attitude, you will never ever be intimated. I like your attitude to life. Don't let anyone cower you into believing you do not have the right to what is yours. Have you had a word with your mum in respect to this?

Samantha124:
Are you telling me that if she went for a poor guy, the guy wouldn't one day end up being desperate to get rich overnight and use her for rituals?

It is not always the case. When I met my wife a little over a decade ago, I had, not even a spoon to my name. My wife stayed with me, built with me and today, I have given her the World. It is only people without plans, prospects and patience that go into ritual killings. I always knew I would be rich someday. All I needed was to stay focused, work hard and smart and then get myself close to people who are rich and made their fortune legally and in a a Godly way.

[quote author=Anny69 post=126635992] You're pained. Tell your gender to stop killing for money.

Stop killing Women!!! Tell your fellow gender and stop looking for excuses to justify the killings.
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Hi, I chose to reply your writeup because you and my wife both have the same name. It would be very wrong to choose to generalize issues. My staff was killed by his fiancé in January this year, I lost my best friend to the cold hands of death when his wife hit him on the head when they both were arguing because he caught his wife on their matrimonial bed with her ex. now, would it be fair to say all Nigerian women are killers or evil? Just because some people decide for whatever reason to misbehave, shouldn't make you use generic terms. I have been married for 9 years and have never had any reason(s) to call women names because I am enjoying my marriage like we were still dating. My advice is for anyone that wants to go into a relationship to know the person they want to go into a relationship with very well before getting involved with them and for the ones in a relationship, know when to walk away.

pendusky:


Which year has the naira gained before when e crashed

Pay no mind to him. He just asked a hypothetical question. He already knows the answer to his question. Let us stop deceiving ourselves and even being delusional in this Country.

Bigkoko:
Useless people..... Even as clueless as Buhari is, he told you guys Asiwaju is never an option, and would rather an Igbo person from the tribe he loathes take over, but these fallen demons would not listen. Una go chop grass soon!

If the commander in chief of certificate forgers survive SC, while you guys chop graas and gnash your teeth, him & his spend drift would continue to attend Owambe party abroad with hookers high on cocaine!

Mad people! Honestly, una pain dey give me joy! Just like the pain of Gaza dey give me joy! As Gazans say dey like Hamas, na so their pain go dey go me joy. As these miscreants say looters and forgers dey give them joy, na so their pain go dey give me joy!

From a confidential info i sighted, prepared by PwC ~ Price Waterhouse Coopers, FX projections for most African Countries; Nigeria inclusive, is estimated to lose nearly 70% of its value within the next 9 months!

If you get small space or land, just go plant garden for veggies, thank me later!

You are one of the few intelligent people Nigeria still has.

DatNiggaDaz:
Is he a Muslim

Because the only people that can attribute "magic" to a Southern Christian who outperformed their muslims presidents both from the North & South are slam skull creatures

....his Intro was purely religious. The Naira can fall well above 2000 Naira to a Dollar, thesame creatures will remind you that Tinubu is not a magician & Nigerians should buy made in Nigeria while his god travel to France for medical refuel.

In such situation, juxtapose his Intro if the President of Nigeria today is a Christian from the South. The mudlims of the North & their slaves from the South will unleash hell & protest against that Southern Christian president

After criticizing one of the best Southetn Christian President this is what they settled with

Your wisdom would continue to increase. I always get excited when I read stuffs from smart and intelligent people.

I have always said it that this forum is the worst online platform for interactions. The way they have turned it into a tribal war field is very disappointing to say the least. The way the Yorubas arrack the Igbos like the Igbos are their very problems. I always say it that a lot of beings here have very poor parental upbringing. Parents keep making their children hate a certain tribe or a certain people and the children grow up with so much hate, disdain, unforgiveness and bitterness. Given, it is a Yoruba-owned platform, but does it have to be full of hate? Is Facebook all about America or Tiktok all about China? This Nairaland is plagued with kids. That is why i hardly ever visit it.

NzogbuNzogbu:
Uits not by oilprice, buhari had fair enough oil price and killed this country

Mr master strategist is now burying it, if gej had half the pateience yorubas are giving tinubu he would have done more

They didn't give him breathing space, manufactured Boko haram, always creating sabotage but he is still miles above them

You, sir, are a very intelligent man. I am glad there are still people who are sincere in this country

Isobug:
He had capable hands for the Economy.
It's still an enigma to me that the economy of the person they claim was clueless is 5 times better in their watch.
All they wanted was to get into power, they got it and destroy everything.
A car (ES 330 2006 model) I bought 3.450M on November last year, I went back to buy for my Niece, only to find out is now 5.8M last.
They have completely scattered the country

Don't even get people like us started. This country has just been hijacked. It really saddens my heart when I see people on this forum fiercely defending a Government that has even made life difficult for not just them but, even their family members. Truly, Religion and Tribalism would continue to plunge this country into where it may never come out from. I have hardly seen a clear-thinking individual defend or support the APC Government and its failed systems. All they wanted was the Power, money and influence that comes with politics. A car I bought N5.5 Million( Brand new) in 2014 is now sold for 11 Million (Fairly used). I weep for the poor and struggling.

CodeTemplar:
That's part of the plan to grow(or rather swell) the economy.
Maintain lower forex rates then allow inflation ravage the country until 1USD goes for N2500. After that, calculate the size of the economy by computing Naira value of economy divided by lower I&E rates N770.

Tinubu is a genius indeed. He built Lagos and will do so for Nigeria.

Foolishlishly but shamelessly displaying your level of naivety and folly

Okoroawusa:
Onwekwanu ife ozo odinma ya?

Onwero ife ozo odinma ya, mana okakwa gi na ezi na uno gi nma. Onye nzuzu di ka gi.

mdimefields:

Please, remove Igbos from that list. If at all, Igbos want out of the coursed union. The country will never get better, as long as Yoruba extrema tribalism thrives. A tribalism that is worst than racism and religious extremism. Igbos will be glad to leave the country for una.
Tell me what manner of hate motivates these people from south west. A simple thread on Animal content, that fool with empty brain still had to display his tribal hate by dragging Igbos into it. My happiness is that the bitter soul carries the burden of hate, while the hated keeps progressing. This is a natural law.

Check very well, whenever you see chaos online, there most times would be a Yoruba person who either started it or championing it. They are always angry. Yorubas hate Igbos, Hausas and any other Tribe in Nigeria. Yorubas use this platform, owned by their fellow Yoruba to show how much hate they have in them. I always wonder how far they think hating other tribes would take them. Any opportunity to vent their anger, they just display it. I had to resign from a good job I once had because of the anger they always showed me. Igbos don't have hatred for any tribe, that is why there is no place in this World you would not find an Igbo person.

raskymonojendor:

How. By selling gala and lacasera on expressway.

Mtchew

I usually ignore ignoramus people, especially the ones that do not even know their identity. When I see people like you, filled with hate and bitterness, I just know that it is a true reflection of your upbringing. You definitely grew up in an environment with so much hate, anger, jealousy, bitterness and unforgiveness. Purge yourself of those unhealthy stuffs and watch how happy and prosperous you'd become.

Your parents failed in giving you a proper upbringing. I feel so sorry for whoever that would end up marrying you. You parents are to blame, really.

SILVERLINES:


You are foolish if you think those who are against ur political terrorist, fraudulent government and their misrule are only the Igbos

Reason I hate this forum is that fools are just having a sway here. To them, their problems are always the Igbos, yet, they aren't even making any progress on their own.

Pakute:
Na wa o, the ibo President really destroyed Gabon patapata, thank goodness, Nigerians rejected the agulu fraud from the east. Ibos are not fit for presidency.

Sickos like you need to be thrown away. The very problem dumb fellows like you have is that you are perpetually filled with hate and bitterness that you don't even know that it is hindering you from making any meaningful progress in life. Your problems are always the Igbos, while people much younger than you are busy breaking records everyday. Fools like you are all about tribe and religion, but it is a dumbass like you that would cry foul if he went abroad and got racially abused. Psychos like you make me want to puke. How on Earth did we even get here?

Loveabove:


Please are you a man or a woman?

I am a married man with kids.

Loveabove:
Please I need you people's advice and I want to be as brief and straight to the point.

My sister gave birth to 2 children under circumstances I'm not to explain here. She took ill and passed away last month.

Since we were just two of us, (our parents are late) the responsibility of taking care of this little kids of 8 and 5 has fallen on me.

God knows I love these kids and would take them as my own but I don't have a job and struggling seriously to survive. It's killing since they became my full responsibility. I was thinking any of the extended family member or a good person would come up to take them.

House rent has expired and problems everywhere.

Since no where else to take them to, I'm considering taking them to the orphanage. It's not my fault please. If I have the means, i would keep them and take very good care of them as they are very dear to me.

Like i said, i love this two boys and would take them as mine, providing for them now as it should, is the challenge.

Their presence is even affecting the small thing I am doing, especially by way of paying attention to them.

Please advise me on what to do.

Edited: File Photo by nlf.pmod

i'd like to adopt them. if you cannot take care of them, i would gladly adopt them, but we must sign an agreement. You must visit them at least once every 3 months, always speak with them on the phone and never be to far away from them. Never take those kids to any Orphanage, please.

IconicR:
😂 just like Obi is forcing himself on Nigerians.

You reek of both folly and shallow-mindedness

RingRoadMafia:


But he didn't hold the entire country to ransome, he didn't bribe the electoral umpire to help him manipulate both the process and the outcome, he didn't offer ministerial positions to Governors to help him gag their people and force his aspirations down their throats, he didn't ask his touts to threaten a certain demographic of the country with violence should they vote his opponents

Obi did not threaten the country with anarchy if the PEPT does not support him. Obi did not choose to go to war with a country sorting out its own internal issues to avoid being kicked out of office. Obi did not restrict access to his academic records because he has something to hide. Obi did not imprison the CBN and EFCC heads for reasons best known to him.. I could go on and on!

Obi has done NONE of this. All he did was provide substantial evidence to plead his case in court just as he was advised. He even called on his supporters to shun anything like protests and allow him focus on litigation, yet this is the man you call desperate?

Your stupidity stinks to high heavens!

Your days on Earth shall be long!

Taylor90:
Low key I’m very happy Obi was robbed by INEC

Imagine it was Obi that damaged Nigeria and it’s economy half of what this urine device has done

APC supporters would have acted like if it was Tinubu the economy would have been better than USA

It’s good that the rubbish they voted in is the one doing this colossal damage

The only sensible person and sensible writeup i have seen all day.

Moh227:




Mumu people

Next Ibo President might be 2075


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Fools like you are the reason I fear for the future of our kids. To you, it is about Tribe and not what needs to be done for Nigeria to be Great. Really, you aren't to blame. If you were raised right, you'd have thought, spoken, behaved and typed better. Tribal bigots like are the reason why I do not like my kids interacting with just any body.

IconicR:
Conspiracy everywhere God will judge all of you , it's very unfair to start all these for a government that has barely started. Moderators should be cautioned not to be pushing this kind of topics to front page, they should be taken down. It doesn't speak well of our country

People like you are the reason Nigeria may never grow.

Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌

I understand your pains. na the same boat carry both of us. I am from a polygamous family and wish I never met my father.