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Mariqiss:
I met him 2010 in my village when during Sallah festival he was very broke but I didn't care I stood by him I did all I could to see him up among his mate by 2014 he got a job and things start moving well for him by then he was still a good man, late 2016 we got married and a year later I was blessed with twins one died at birth but I believe it is the will of God. I never stop working with him saving money for him and planning our future and kid future with him and he loved me very well then fast forward 2019 he started changing he no longer care about me or my kid sometimes he beat me February 10 2019 was the day I will never forget I called him that our kid is sick that she needs blood my husband told me he don't care I should find a way to care for the child. I began to wonder what could be wrong but I did nothing bad to him only for him to call me one day that he wants to marry another wife whatt is that the reason why you have been trying to push me away? He refused to respond I started praying for God to help him see me and love me the way I love him but he cares about the new woman and not even me or my baby may 4th 2019 I lost my baby my whole world changed during that time I was suffering he married that woman and he come very abusive and I had to flee for my life I went back to village where I stayed with my grandma you know life in the village is very hard I suffered till I nearly ran mad my appearance change I became weak and unstable almost a year now I have not heard from him and am suffering to death.
I am very weak and I have Lost everything i need advice on what to do? And I need help I am starving he destroyed my life my dream and everything the only thing left for me now is death please help me.

I usually don't give marital advice but I'd give you one or two. Firstly, you need to pick the bits and pieces of your life and leave the village as the surrounding environments, prying eyes and loneliness would only increase your emotional and psychological sufferings. Secondly, you need to come down to earth and embrace the reality that your beloved husband is now your estranged husband. Sis, there's more to life than marriage. I am a happily married man with a daughter and I can honestly tell you that marriage isn't challenges-free. You've overtime, lost your 2 kids and your husband couldn't care less,shouldn't that tell you something? Sis, get over your losses, dust yourself up and move on. It is painful you stood by your husband when he had nothing and the moment he started springing up, he left you. If you story is true and I want to believe it is, then just sit and relax and watch how your husband would face his Waterloo. For fact, the blood of your dead children would fight him to a point he'd wish he never existed. Peace.

kingzizzy:
I just lost all respect for him. Theres a way I see any Igbo man who supports the devilish party called APC, although everyone is entitled to support who they like.

Gbam! Well written.

englishmart:
He looks like a Somalian jihadist from Maiduguri.
How do people kill with ease these days?
Before I kill an ant, I must make sure it stings me first so it can justify the killing.

Lol, and a venomous snake or spider?

[quote author=Sirmwill post=93418745]Sometimes
I just wonder where Bobrisky is getting money from[/quote

Honestly, you're not alone on this. I think he has fans and lovers who sponsor his lifestyle.

AkwaIbomMan:
he is notorious for insulting and cursing members of this forum, it's his hobby.
check another post of his' below were he insulted and cursed someone.
I've notified the mods, the troll would be fixed soon.

You keep on reporting me to nairaland moderators. It goes to show that you're either a teenager or a young adult for I'd really be ashamed if you're older that 25 and still "reporting" someone online. Childish much! I have a meeting to go in for. Hop along, child.

AkwaIbomMan:
29 million ke?
annford is a troll and a scammer, he's an internet fraudster.
Beware of him

To a poor, hungry and dejected thing like yourself, N29 Million is too big an amount. I just don't know why you keep showing how daft you are to people when you should be ashamed you know too litlle. Boy, I made my first million at 21. You probably were still in primary school then or even hadn't been born. Boy, I don't blow my own whistle. I have helped some persons here on nairaland financially to start businesses and prop their already existing businesses. Your brain is so small. So people who bring out several millions and spend on vehicles and luxury items are scams too? Boy, you need to either dream a new dream or dream big in life. Don't think Nigeria is all there is. Think big for no law forbids it. You called me a scam? Check my file, I have never asked anyone for money or to invest with me let alone, a hungry thing like you. I know you're enjoying the very little attention I've been giving you. Enjoy boy, today is your lucky day.

Qtsnow:
Kindly read the post well.

The panoramic roof is there, no point for argument.

I mentioned reverse camera and not DVD as the follow come screen was stolen at the port

No one is arguing with you. What that vehicle has is called "Moon roof" and not panoramic roof. Panoramic roof is like glass although.

If it is Nigerian used, why wrap it with cellophane? Would that increase the market value or would it attract rich buyers?

Where's the panoramic roof? Where's the DVD? Easy man!

Edoloaded:
Bro I'll like to learn how you made the 29million plss

I made it through my loan shark business.

The woman in blue with her makeup though. Reminds of my days in Benin City when you'd see lots of scary makeup worn by different ladies.

Onye Ife anyi na ewe Iwe, ya pia isi na wall. If our thing dey vex you, knack head for wall.

lost N29 Million 7 years ago. 11 years ago, i lost $4,000 to Forex trading. 3 years ago, i bought a car i still regret buying because na police settle the matter the very day i bought the car as i had an issue with the seller that very same day. D.P.O come use me make Christmas money. The lesson I've learned is not to trust anyone.

[quote author=banjo022 post=93078455]no mind these greedy fellows. they poured all thier family problems on thier commodity[/quote


Corolla sports 2008-2010 goes for between N2.6 and N2.7 Million. It is the LE trim that's N2.3- N2.5 Million. Have you noticed that Camry Muscle (Nigerian Used) that sold for N1.5 Million, some were even sold for N1.4 Million before the Lockdown now goes for N1.750? To think that these vehicles were already in the country before the Lockdown is really surprising. Yet the same people keep blaming the Government for hardship on people

These guys with their outrageous and unrealistic prices. Just last week, My Church member bought a corolla 2012 sports with leather interior, mad alloy wheel, thumb start, DVD and some other features at the rate of N3.1 Million. The milage is less than 80k.

Amanyanabo:
Why must everything be a competition. Why do blacks hate on another unnecessarily?

I keep on saying it that the enemy of the blackman/woman is their fellow blacks. I find it nauseating when I see supposed adults here misbehaving. You get to see hate remarks like Igbos, afonjas, pigs and all that. And these are people who are expecting that the reins of leadership be handed over to them soon.

This is very impressive. This will push for a very competitive automobile market here in Nigeria. Very soon, more automobile companies will roll out and all those guys that would buy cars and use them for some months or even a few years and put them up for sell and still want to recover all they spent on the car ( especially those that want to sell 2004 - 2007 corolla), would find it challenging recouping their funds. I'm particularly looking forward to seeing more of made-in-Nigeria vehicles on our Nigerian roads just as it is in China, Japan, Germany and so many other countries.

Binhamid:
Bros we don plan to marry in 5 years time. Because I feel I should have my own house and we should be staying in the same city before then. So she will probably get another job where I am, but now everything don scatter.

OK, I understand you better now. About the getting married in 5 years time, honestly, that would depend on a lot of factors. Asking or expecting a woman to wait that long could be very challenging. Please consider the following factors: 1. Would age still be on her side in five years time? 2. Would you love her just as much and she, you, in five years time? 3. Would thing have aligned themselves in your favour in five years time? 4. Would you both stay faithful and true to each other till the five years? I'd tell you a thing or two about my own experience. I am a husband and a father. When I met my wife, She was based in Benin and I, in Abuja. We visited each other at least twice a Month. She'd visit and I'd return the visit after two weeks ( we visited fortnightly). Today, we are happily married and are both raising our beautiful daughter together here in Abuja. About the "having a house thing" before marriage, well, it depends on you. Don't give yourself difficult tasks to meet before marriage. When I met my Wife, I hadn't ordinary farmland, but today, we are about finishing our third house. Sometimes, the blessings of marriage are just what you need to succeed. I kinda married late because just like you, I wanted to own the World before getting married. I can affirm to you that most of the things I had dreamed of having before marriage, I have them now that I am married. Long distance relationship/marriage is never easy but if you still know you can live with the said Lady, go on with her. But I'd advise you put an end to her, hanging out with males other than her blood brother. Marriage no be beans o

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

From your writeup, you both seem to be running an open relationship. No matter how open a relationship/marriage might be, there would always arise jealousy and unhappiness. I think you encouraged or pushed her into the mess, not like she's a baby anyway. From what you wrote, it seems you both have been dating for some years ( you wrote you always spend three weeks together every Christmas), why then haven't you both gotten married? I think you two should analyse and review your relationship so as to know what each one wants. There's no need to get yourself vexed.

Some people are so despicable. 35 years in chains?

jrtorrents:
If you don't understand why other Africans dislike Nigerians, you are a very good example. You call other Africans lazy without any sort of proof yet you want to loved?

I usually don't reply useless quotes like yours but let me dignify your lack of senses with a reply. In fact, I changed my mind. You aren't worth my time.

Dear President Buhari, Please don't try this at home, Aso Villa or Daura. Stay safe, Mr. President. You'd just be on your own if you tried a heroic act such as this.

Most South Africans are bitter souls. Why is it that most African Countries feel threatened by the doggedness of Nigerians? I have 2 South Africans in our Company and these two speak of Nigeria and Nigerians with great disdain. Most Africans are lazy and feel uneasy when they see Nigerians come to their countries and show them how to succeed. We may not know how valuable we are here in Nigeria until we travel and meet Nigerians who work hard abroad and are succeeding while at it. I always tell people that the enemy of the black man is his fellow black person. White don't pull whites down, but blacks? ...

This luxury-of-a-car is both to kill for and to die for. This is all shades of beauty and luxury.

godwinkessi:
The only place that interest me more in all these places is the Area 51! I’ve read about the place very well but still waiting for the Explorers will throw more light. Who got more feeds concerning Area 51?

Rumours have it that the US Government has aliens and UFOs stored up there. Though over the years, the Government has been refuting the claims.

Lodge them in a hotel so they'd be able to do what most of the WASSCE candidates (special centers) do in the Eastern and Southern parts of the country. Sexual escapades loading...

amSTARboy:
What's your budget?

N3 Million - N3.2 Million.

baliyubla:
Just say the senile man in Aso Rock is in Shock and let’s move on. Buhari that can’t remember who Isa Funtua was, is the one you people are issuing statements on his behalf.

This is the most hilarious read I've come across this Month. God forgive Buhari.

amSTARboy:
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Thank you for reaching me. I am on a tight budget. what I want the 2016 Model but what I need is the 2013/2014. I actually saw your vehicle on jiji and wished I could buy it but it would affect the money I have for a project.