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Onye Ife anyi na ewe Iwe, ya pia isi na wall. If our thing dey vex you, knack head for wall.

lost N29 Million 7 years ago. 11 years ago, i lost $4,000 to Forex trading. 3 years ago, i bought a car i still regret buying because na police settle the matter the very day i bought the car as i had an issue with the seller that very same day. D.P.O come use me make Christmas money. The lesson I've learned is not to trust anyone.

[quote author=banjo022 post=93078455]no mind these greedy fellows. they poured all thier family problems on thier commodity[/quote


Corolla sports 2008-2010 goes for between N2.6 and N2.7 Million. It is the LE trim that's N2.3- N2.5 Million. Have you noticed that Camry Muscle (Nigerian Used) that sold for N1.5 Million, some were even sold for N1.4 Million before the Lockdown now goes for N1.750? To think that these vehicles were already in the country before the Lockdown is really surprising. Yet the same people keep blaming the Government for hardship on people

These guys with their outrageous and unrealistic prices. Just last week, My Church member bought a corolla 2012 sports with leather interior, mad alloy wheel, thumb start, DVD and some other features at the rate of N3.1 Million. The milage is less than 80k.

Amanyanabo:
Why must everything be a competition. Why do blacks hate on another unnecessarily?

I keep on saying it that the enemy of the blackman/woman is their fellow blacks. I find it nauseating when I see supposed adults here misbehaving. You get to see hate remarks like Igbos, afonjas, pigs and all that. And these are people who are expecting that the reins of leadership be handed over to them soon.

This is very impressive. This will push for a very competitive automobile market here in Nigeria. Very soon, more automobile companies will roll out and all those guys that would buy cars and use them for some months or even a few years and put them up for sell and still want to recover all they spent on the car ( especially those that want to sell 2004 - 2007 corolla), would find it challenging recouping their funds. I'm particularly looking forward to seeing more of made-in-Nigeria vehicles on our Nigerian roads just as it is in China, Japan, Germany and so many other countries.

Binhamid:
Bros we don plan to marry in 5 years time. Because I feel I should have my own house and we should be staying in the same city before then. So she will probably get another job where I am, but now everything don scatter.

OK, I understand you better now. About the getting married in 5 years time, honestly, that would depend on a lot of factors. Asking or expecting a woman to wait that long could be very challenging. Please consider the following factors: 1. Would age still be on her side in five years time? 2. Would you love her just as much and she, you, in five years time? 3. Would thing have aligned themselves in your favour in five years time? 4. Would you both stay faithful and true to each other till the five years? I'd tell you a thing or two about my own experience. I am a husband and a father. When I met my wife, She was based in Benin and I, in Abuja. We visited each other at least twice a Month. She'd visit and I'd return the visit after two weeks ( we visited fortnightly). Today, we are happily married and are both raising our beautiful daughter together here in Abuja. About the "having a house thing" before marriage, well, it depends on you. Don't give yourself difficult tasks to meet before marriage. When I met my Wife, I hadn't ordinary farmland, but today, we are about finishing our third house. Sometimes, the blessings of marriage are just what you need to succeed. I kinda married late because just like you, I wanted to own the World before getting married. I can affirm to you that most of the things I had dreamed of having before marriage, I have them now that I am married. Long distance relationship/marriage is never easy but if you still know you can live with the said Lady, go on with her. But I'd advise you put an end to her, hanging out with males other than her blood brother. Marriage no be beans o

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

From your writeup, you both seem to be running an open relationship. No matter how open a relationship/marriage might be, there would always arise jealousy and unhappiness. I think you encouraged or pushed her into the mess, not like she's a baby anyway. From what you wrote, it seems you both have been dating for some years ( you wrote you always spend three weeks together every Christmas), why then haven't you both gotten married? I think you two should analyse and review your relationship so as to know what each one wants. There's no need to get yourself vexed.

Some people are so despicable. 35 years in chains?

jrtorrents:
If you don't understand why other Africans dislike Nigerians, you are a very good example. You call other Africans lazy without any sort of proof yet you want to loved?

I usually don't reply useless quotes like yours but let me dignify your lack of senses with a reply. In fact, I changed my mind. You aren't worth my time.

Dear President Buhari, Please don't try this at home, Aso Villa or Daura. Stay safe, Mr. President. You'd just be on your own if you tried a heroic act such as this.

Most South Africans are bitter souls. Why is it that most African Countries feel threatened by the doggedness of Nigerians? I have 2 South Africans in our Company and these two speak of Nigeria and Nigerians with great disdain. Most Africans are lazy and feel uneasy when they see Nigerians come to their countries and show them how to succeed. We may not know how valuable we are here in Nigeria until we travel and meet Nigerians who work hard abroad and are succeeding while at it. I always tell people that the enemy of the black man is his fellow black person. White don't pull whites down, but blacks? ...

This luxury-of-a-car is both to kill for and to die for. This is all shades of beauty and luxury.

godwinkessi:
The only place that interest me more in all these places is the Area 51! I’ve read about the place very well but still waiting for the Explorers will throw more light. Who got more feeds concerning Area 51?

Rumours have it that the US Government has aliens and UFOs stored up there. Though over the years, the Government has been refuting the claims.

Lodge them in a hotel so they'd be able to do what most of the WASSCE candidates (special centers) do in the Eastern and Southern parts of the country. Sexual escapades loading...

amSTARboy:
What's your budget?

N3 Million - N3.2 Million.

baliyubla:
Just say the senile man in Aso Rock is in Shock and let’s move on. Buhari that can’t remember who Isa Funtua was, is the one you people are issuing statements on his behalf.

This is the most hilarious read I've come across this Month. God forgive Buhari.

amSTARboy:
https://www.nairaland.com/5474312/2016-chevrolet-malibu-2.0-turbo

08099448205

Contact me

Thank you for reaching me. I am on a tight budget. what I want the 2016 Model but what I need is the 2013/2014. I actually saw your vehicle on jiji and wished I could buy it but it would affect the money I have for a project.

Does anyone know how I can get the above vehicle here in Nigeria? It must be clean in and out. Gear and Engine should be 100% working.

PapaPHWalka:
yes o. I have 10k to spare on his treatment

But wait.. They don't eat garri and soup?

I feed my Dogs Garri too but with Okra soup and Ogbono. Dogs enjoy their EBA with "Draw Soup" as it is easy for them to swallow due to the slippery nature of the soup.

Hmm we greet you, Sir Virginia.

It is 'Runny Stomach' not "Running Stomach".

This is a wicked Benz. I'd upgrade my 2012 to look this sweet.

stanliwise:
And yet none of them was convicted nor any of them behind bars. Why is everything not all ways conclusive. Shouldn’t that give you an insight that something may be going on?

Everything is stage- managed. Thing is, Nigeria will not make any meaningful progress if we continue doing the wrong things.

From Farida Waziri to Magu, The EFCC as an anti-graft Agency, has never had clean and sincere Leaders.

lalasticlala:
Give number 2 to Tony Umez

Tony Umez Likes saying " I kill you" and then "Dorling".

Karatum:
Is the woman a banker?

Lol. This is your question is so funny. Most of the vehicle sellers online would always claim their vehicles are owned by "Female Bankers" as if that is a guarantee the vehicle would last.

4ckz:
I will really need the input of married men and women on this thread.

So yesterday at the bar, you know, ashawo bar, I sat in the same table with a married man, looked early 40's to me. He got drunk and got all chit chat with me.

He told me that he actually picked up ashawo life style after marriage, told me his wife always used sex as a bargaining chip early in their marriage, and often looked for the slightest reason not to have sex.

He said his first time cheating was after his first child, that his wife refused his touch for more than 3 months, he got to cheat with one of his colleagues at work (lest I forget, the man is well learned and rich too, I could get this from his fluency in English and his car).

The affair almost cost him his marriage. When mata cast, everyone blamed him, but he couldn't tell them how his wife deprived him of sex. He was later forgiven by the wife and the marriage continued.

According to him, before long the wife went back to her style of sexual deprivation, was only active when they wanted children. He did mention that he doesn't think the wife cheated, he has monitored her, and as far as he could tell, the wife was an always at home type of woman, and according to him was a good woman apart from the sex thing.

Before long he went back to cheating again, and that was when he started ashawo life style, he choose not to have a relationship with anyone again because of the threat it posed to his marriage.

He said he is sure his wife knows of his ashawo life style, but never talked about it for the sake of peace, and he has been living like that for more than 10 yrs, and their sex life though not dead comes once in a while, few times in a year.

He advised me that if I should cheat, that I should never keep a relationship with anyone, that I should try as much as possible to make it just about sex. Me that's planning to never cheat on my wife.

So married men, do your wives ever keep you for months without sex?

Also do husbands deprive their wives of sex?

I don't think I can even bear 1 month without, like, I must be lashing my wife like thrice a week to say the least. I am much more scared that since my life is like this now, maybe cheating would be inevitable for me.

So married people, how do you deal with sexual deprivation from your spouse, and is it even possible not to cheat?

What of the health threat to your spouse that comes with it?

When you get married and start building a home and facing the challenges in marriage, you'd then realise that there's more to marriage than everyday sex. When the pressures of bring up children and making a good role model to your kids, sex becomes one of the least things on your mind. I speak from experience.

starbuck:
There's a term SURGE normally used medically or so to say where one tends to appear physically and mentally fit after a long term of being terminally sick or sudden fatal accidents unexpectedly... One minute you think the patient is getting better but not knowing that his/her time is up....

Have had experience of it.. I think same happened with both men

Doctors should please help out

You're very correct. It was that surge that killed my mum and also my Aunt. It is well.

This is Passat CC 2009. The difference between 2009 and 2011 are the shape of the gear lever and then in 2011, the analog clock is where the hazard switch is in the 2009 model. That price is too high for a 2009 model if the CC. I use the 2014 so I am an authority.

PoliticallyInco:
Haha.. 2020 has been a funny year. As silly as the video is, I can relate 100% with this in many ways. Even amidst the whole Corona Virus pandemic. I can really imagine. I have been dealing with this for the past 3 months.

-Sleeping in the sitting room (feigned sleeping). Wearing the skimpiest of gowns. Thighs spread. Panties showing. Heavy breathing clearly visible showing wakefulness and anxiety.

- Sleeping in the room but awkwardly across the bed so that thighs are facing the room door and passage. Room door is left open so that as I passed by I can see spread thighs and get a peep show. Not bothering to cover up, move or change positions when I approach.

-Running to change into skimpy clothes/gowns when I arrive home and her older sister isn't around.

- Wearing the tightest most erotic clothing at home including tying wrapper the African way where the wrapper edges is tied in a criss cross across the chest and edges are tied behind the neck. Boob's, arse, everything dangling and jigling everywhere.

While awake acting all saintly and feigning ignorance as if she doesn't know what is happening. Granted she is young and at a time for a few minutes, I thought to myself and said or felt, well just do it with her and spoil her silly with money, travels and stuff. Even got to the point where I grabbed a condom/ protection and said what the hell, if she wants it, let her have it. But then common. I shouldn't be that predictable and easily seduced. I shouldn't be easily controlled? I shouldn't be a plaything. A toy. No woman should have that much power or control over me. No woman should be able to influence me with anything on her body. Decided against it and mentally told myself to put a stop to it and ignore her. Smile and quietly laugh at her naive sexual shenanigans.Becauase when I look at it, to what end? She is no where near her older sister. In beauty, character, etc. Academically, she is also dumb. Her focus is on her self and the building of arse and curves. Also, noticed the harious and laughable indirect request for favours on material things.Why?Because of a peep show? Even if we had done it and if something had happened, I wouldn't have been made to do things against my will. I live for myself and not for anyone else. Anyway, hopefully she changes. Decided to return to totally ignoring the childish antics, focus on more important stuff. A man has dreams, goals, aspirations and a life purpose to achieve. Besides, respect would also have been totally lost.

Brother, you are a man! Your level of maturity is second to none. Some people would gladly wreck their homes and engage in extramarital affairs. I had similar experiences when my Wife's younger sister was living with us and I rejected the bad apple with every strength I had. I have told my Wife that her sister would never visit us again. She's my wife's only sister. I'd rather get her a hotel to stay at when she visits Abuja than to have her stay with us. Kudos Bro.