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Buhari's Government scores no 1 for "killing" over 200 million Nigerians and subjecting them to avoidable suffering and poverty.

DrAkpamudehe:
Building bungalows is a waste of land space

Lol. But na where pesin money reach. I got mine for less than 15M. Duplex costs way more.

I have 3 Duplexes and 5 Bungalows, all were bought by Mortgage. It took me years to buy them, financed with business profits from my businesses and my wife's and boy, am I happy. Just take it a step at a time.

Totilopussylick:
The minute it takes you to type this gibberish could've turned you to a millionaire

This right here, made my day!

deewhydoski:
Can you give the details of what you did?, It might help some people here

OK. If I told you, you may doubt it but I have no reason to lie. We did quite a number of crazy things, some out of desperation and others, well, let's say we were just being humans. 1. We knew we only had to trust in God and his word. What options did we have? 2. We took all the instructions my Doctor-friend gave us. 3. We were prescribed hormonal drugs for my wife. We always prayed and fasted. My wife and I never stopped buying stuffs for random kids and carrying them every chance we got (this always works). 4. We made a vow to God that if He gave us kids of our own, we would forever serve him. Generally, we CHOSE to trust God, always love, carry and bless little children and pray for ourselves and our unborn kids each time we carried them. Like i wrote earlier, you may not like my answer but I promise, those were all we did and had to do.

JapaToDNext:
I love this your advice, but not everyone can be like u

U have the Money for all the test and also seeing different doctors with experiences,

Which at the end of the day, u achieved your heart desire(children)

What of those that do not have money to conduct test or see a doctor,

What will they do then?

To tell you the truth, the tests we carried out from time to time, weren't even expensive, neither were they regular. Some tests cost 5k, 9k and i think the highest we paid for a test was 25k. We did all sorts from hormonal to virginial. A desperate person never really calculates their loss, not when they have their eyes on their set goal. I refused to go for Ivf because my Doctor-friend kept reassuring us that we would be fine, eventually. We followed all the routine instructions and today, we have 3 children of our own. Was it easy? far from it. But with time and patience, our story changed.

MetroLane:
You Put a Muslim in Charge of INEC and you expect a Muslim-Muslim ticket not to win.

All the Urchins that were praising Buhari in the beginning, remember how it ended with you guys swearing for him the past few weeks ago.

Tinubu will be no different, After all, Mc Oluomo's son already said They own Lagos and Nigeria.

Urchins, any of you that dare to leave this country within the next four years. I'm here to tell you that you're going nowhere, if you try it, na Death straight.

AMEN!

eglobalcafe:
Good morning to everyone, please i sincerely need your advice please, i see no reason why people should insult me but all i plead is just a sincere advice. Am confused on what to do thats why am here, help a brother.

I have been married for 4 years now and my wife has pcos which is preventing her from ovulating and now am 35 years of age and she's 30 years now and our marriage is 4 years but we have been together for 6 years. Please what should i do, yes i understand this is hereditary that's why she can not conceive according to Doctor, but she can only get pregnant if she uses supplements thats going to enhance her ovulation that's when she can conceive, might not be easy but the drugs will assist.

We have done 1 ivf that failed already and we are about to go another round of ivf again. Am positive it will work, the last ivf we did, she had miscarriage so am kind of scared for another miscarriage again, ivf is expensive cost almost 2m because of other drugs you pay weekly 54k for tge next 3 months.

Please i don't want another wife because i know its not a good road because Walhalla, once i carry another woman my wife will start to give me different treatments as a wife. I love my wife so much but how long can i continue to stay childless, and this thing makes my wife cry almost all night and even i cant sleep because of we can't have a baby because of PCOS that she has.

So mentally it's drains me cos am only pretending am okay while am not okay because i dont want her to panic. Please advise me, my family members advised i get another woman pregnant but i should not divorce her. And sometimes i says to myself will i be happy if i was the one who has this problem and i said to my myself if i was the one with this issue i will let my wife go marry another man.

And my wife loves me so much and she hate to see me or hear me talk about another wife or another woman

Please help a brother, what do you guys think i should do please.

My wife has clearly told me if i want to take another woman she will leave me instantly because of the wahala of polygamy.

Please should i get another woman pregnant.
Should i still be patient
Or what's your advice but just know its not easy as i have been doing my best not to hurt my wife, this days people die any how, sometimes i feel what if i die today and no children that's my greatest fear because i have hustle so hard to build a house and financially we are managing.

Should i get another woman pregnant or divorce my wife by telling her this thing is not working please advise me. According to doctors me as a man am healthy no issues with me

My wife had PCOS and Fibroid too. It took us years before our first child came. It is never an easy process, but in the end, you get to realize how divine the process is. My wife didn't really get any treatments for the PCOS cos we were told some of them have adverse effects like blocking of the fallopian tubes, increasing the fibroids, et al. However, we have three kids now. PCOS could be hereditary but then, it is not untreatable. We considered a lot of options like adoption, IVF, Surrogacy and all, but i stood my ground that i was never going to take any of them. Just be patient and calm, consult fertlity Doctors and Gynecologists and i tell you, you would carry your kids too. All the best Sir.

Racoon:
Tinubu, Gandollar, El-Rufai in the mud again. Now, Tinubu, all these criminal governors, all their urchins and miscreants can go to hell.

They were never on the side of the masses for the past 8 years. Suddenly a currency swap turned them to overnight patriots because their looted monies stashed outside the banks are being threatened. This present leadership of the Supreme Court have gone down to ignominy.

You couldn't be more right. This just made my day!

THIS MAN IS LOVED AND ADMIRED BY A LOT OF NIGERIANS

MaryAye:
I recently noticed my boy complaining of itching on his back. When I checked I noticed is boil. I quickly googled it and found out is chickenpox.

I took him to a chemist and it was diagnosed as one. Please house what must have caused it?

Picture attached.

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hot weather is a major promotor of all poxes.

peepydelano:
Anytime I see this Peter Obi in our regalia it makes me so angry, what could be going on in his deceitful mind? Does he think his deceits and lies will work with us? Well, since he has chosen to labour in vain, he should continue. I can’t have that Peter Obi’s voice that sounds like a virgin been disvirgined address me as a president, neverrrrrrrrr.

DO YOU REALLY THINK ANYONE GIVES A FLYING MELINDA HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT HIS REGALIA? YOU HATING HIM WITH A PASSION STILL DOES NOT TAKE AWAY THE FACT THAT HE WOULD BE YOUR PRESIDENT IN THE COMING WEEKS.

Danisaint112:
End that freaking mindset of yours because it's possible. And you still live in Peace. I have seen it multiple times over the years compared to people that have been dating for ages.

My wife and I married 4 months after our first date. We have been together for 10 years and counting...

oyin44:
But some one tells me that south east is as peaceful as south west ....

But now..l don't see it that way l consider it as a war zone

see how this foolish man disgrace se

IF YOU KNEW ANY BETTER, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT THE ENTIRE NIGERIA HAS LOST ITS SECURITY SYSTEM. I LIVE IN ABUJA AND I COULD TELL YOU FOR FREE THAT A DAY NEVER GOES WITHOUT SOMEONE BEING KIDNAPPED HERE IN ABUJA. IT HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE THEY KIDNAP SOMEONE AND DEMAND FOR A RANSON OF N50K. YES, IT IS THAT BAD. YOU GUYS SHOULD STOP MAKING EVERYTHING ABOUT NIGERIA ABOUT RELIGION, TRIBE OR ETHNICITY. HOW CAN WE GROW WHEN WE HAVE THIS INDESCRIBABLE HATE AND DISGUST IN US?

EmiDon11:
I didnt see any difference.
Only the name upgrade.

Designs are thesame thing, same spec, same battery life.

Or is there any difference?

JUST UPGRADED PICTURE QUALITY

Trollronaldo:
I am voting for Sowore but I wonder why Nigerians are not looking at him with the same vein they look at Peter Obi.

Someone like Sowore is going to clean this country, why can't we give him a chance?

THAT IS BECAUSE HE IS A SADISTIST. HE NEVER SEES ANYTHING GOOD IN ANYONE WHO IS HIGHER AND BETTER THAN HIM.

I really do hope Mr. Peter Obi emerges the President of Federal Republic of Nigeria.

GLeesMODEL:
Celebration As Daniel Precious Emerges Winner Cultural Queen Africa, Gets Exotic Car


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lum3--fJ_0E

25-year-old Daniel Precious has been crowned the Cultural Queen Africa at the just concluded pageant show.

The event organised by Sophie J Entertainment took place recently. It is a prestigious crown that promotes African culture, peaceful coexistence and unity among Africans as well as making African ladies to accept their culture using beauty pageantry as a climax of attraction.

14 different countries participated in the pageant amidst fanfare and excitement.

The winner smiled home with the star prize of a Nissan Murano car while the first, second and third runners up also got exciting prizes.

In her remarks, Daniel Precious while thanking the organisers of Cultural Queen Africa for giving her the platform to showcase her talent promised to be a good ambassador of the brand.

She assured that she will use her good office to promote the culture and norms of the African people.

Top dignitaries from various countries in Africa graced the occasion.

SO, 2005 NISSAN MURANO IS AN EXOTIC CAR? WOW! WE LEARN EVERYDAY.

heendrix:
Sincerely speaking if I'm Peter Obi I'll follow suit cuz what on earth would Obi gain if he's embarrassed at the poll next year?? he couldn't even win massively in all the states in his region 2019 and same thing would happen 2023. as the biggest fan of Obi atm, I'll be the only one to tell him the bitter truth. Sir, now is not the best time to contest. carefully and sincerely back off the presidential race.

THANK GOODNESS YOU AREN'T HIM!!!

HausaIgboYoruba:
3.6m 4 a Nigerian used 2007 Corolla? bandit!

I just weak

[quote author=Lordmech post=111626276]One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?[/q

There isn't anything stupid about it. I, by choice, gave my wife all my ATM cards and their PINs and she gets all the alerts on my accounts. If you have a GOOD WIFE, you would not see that as stupidity. I willingly gave my wife the authority to run the home (financially), because she knows how to run the finances of the home very well.

Mylordmygod1:
Hello nairalanders...

i got my girfriend pregnant since september, and it really got me crazy..

when it was 2 months, we tried to abort it, and so we met a chemist who gave her drugs and injection, he told us that the blood we rush out, but it did rush out just small and stopped.. So it did not work even after i paid him 8k..

now, we are about to carry out D & C abortion tomorow, but she keep saying she is scared.. Even me, i'm scared too..

i don't know what to do..

please, don't feel bad reading this, i only need advice on this, it is a wrong move but my mind is already made up to do it..

how i wish i can just allow her to birth it..

though, one of my mind is still telling me to keep it, but how can i be able to take care of her and the baby?

And she is just my side girlfriend, not my real babe..
pray for me nairalanders, i need strenght this moment to take the right decision..

You want to abort a 4-month pregnancy? E be like say burial don deyhungry you to organize. You must be joking.

WaffenSS:
You ought to have a terrible accident and die painfully.

People like you and your pastors are a disgrace.

As fuuny and extreme as your wish for that retard is, he actually does not deserve to breathe same air as his enstranged wife and daughter.

Handsomejok:
I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.

After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.

After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?

What you typed up there is very nauseating. You are accusing your a year and half old daughter of witchcraft? You must be delusional. i have a daughter that is a year and four months old and i adore the very ground she steps on. You dare accuse an innocent child of being a witch? At your age, you still believe in those crap that some fake Pastors tell dummies? What stops you from accusing that Pastor of being a witch himself? Someone is breaking your home that God gave you and you let them? You accused your wife too of being a witch? Bro, you are still a child. Your wife should be ashamed of you. I am a married man. I have been married for 7 years and i adore and literally worship my wife and 2 daughters. i just pity you and your naivety.

ihatebuhari:
you Christians use the name of the holy one for jokes and nonsense, have you seen any Muslim using their prophet name to joke?

No wonder Christians in Nigeria are being subjected to second class citizens because of nitwits like you.

I don't blame you

That's one thing about most Christians. I don't know why Christians can't uphold sacred things but Muslims do. Everything is a joke to Christians. No wonder Muslims slaughter them without delay. I get sick to my stomach when I see Christians acting foolishly with sacred things

seunny4lif:
Bros, i get one baba for my village, if I give that money
I no go fear bomb

Bomb -proofs too fail o. RPG and missiles would send a bullet-proof vehicle to the abyss. If you go to the East too, you'd realise that Baba's voodoo too dey fail yakata

seunny4lif:
Bros, even if na Nigeria made

Lol. Maybe Nigeria-made, but definitely not a foreign vehicle. I know someone who made some contacts for his Mercedes S- class to be made bullet-proof and got a bill of N180 Million last.

seunny4lif:
How come the car is not bulletproof?
Who drives a car in this world has a politician without bulletproof?
Even guys that are not Politicians drive bulletproof.
If I worth 40M Naira and I will drive a bulletproof in Nigeria because person no know who dey vex.

Bullet-proof vehicles are worth more than N40 Million (not even Nigeria-used). Many rich people cannot afford bullet-proof vehicles.

owobokiri:
This is the reason they invented choas in Imo state. This is the reason they are desperate to set the east on fire.
This has always been the reason, to kill hardworking Igbos for fun.
All of you reading will blame the Igbos as usual but these killings have been going on for a long time now, it must stop! This is a very resourceful young man cut down in his prime by a vindictive state hellbent on carrying out a genocide in the east.

The army are not killing hardworking fulanis because of the murderous fulani Herdsmen. There is no genocide in Borno against innocent civilians because of Boko Haram! This man was heading to the airport. Obviously he's reasonably dressed and doesn't in any way look like a militant...The Nigerian army under Buhari has now turned the killing of igbo youths into a national past time and the dregs of the society like the one below this post are cheering them on...
The consequences will be dire..

You're full of wisdom

Ok12345:
I won't say your username but I am in love with you. ..

it has been a year we met through this medium.

you are amazing, disciplined and well mannerd.

If everyone was like you the world would have been a better place but you want us to be friends and I can't move on because I keep hoping one day you will be ready for a relationship. ...sighs

person Wey you love no go love you and vice versa.

There's nothing to correct. Your writeup is correct and needs no correction. You don't say " if everyone IS like you" because you were only wishing or assuming. The correct way to put is "if everyone was like you". You were correct and needn't be corrected.

extol1:
thanks you very much for this wonderful advice. with this your advice, I think I need to get a woman that will be a wife. searching mood activated

I wish you the very best my brother. You aren't compelled to marry the lady if you think she isn't the type of woman you want, but for the child, you owe him/her your love, support and fatherly care. When the baby arrives and you carry him/her in your arms, you'd be grateful you never got rid of the pregnancy. Best of wishes, Sir.

Investor0011:
Hello nairalanders let me go straight to the point.
My side babe called me yesterday night and told me she's pregnant. She was supposed to see her period on the 12 but it didn't show up.
So yesterday she said she was feeling someone and bought the urine pregnancy strip and it showed two red lines and she said she's pregnant.
I'm thinking of abortion cos i can't father any kid now and she's still a student and I'm in my finals.
She's on her way to the hospital now to confirm if truly she's pregnant with a blood test

Please i need best abortion pills for a pregnancy less than two weeks
Insults are allowed i know i messed up but I'm not ready to suffer a kid in this present situation.

Please i need abortion pills recommendation With zero risk of anything fatal

Are you aware that using pills to terminate pregnancy could get the lady killed? Pills don't completely evacuate the foetus thereby leading to fatal complications ranging from excessive and uncontrollable bleeding to very serious infections. Better go seek help from a certified Doctor so you don't end up regretting it. A child is a blessing and should never have to be murdered. You may not know what God will do for you through that child. Who ever told you having a baby would put your life on hold? I am a husband and a father (2 kids), and I would tell you that nothing gives me joy like seeing my wife and kids. I don't give a flying Melinda what anyone tells you. Have you read about Roman, the owner of Chelsea FC? His parents thought to get rid of him while still in the womb but later changed their mind. A second pregnancy came and they decided to terminate it and in so doing, the woman lost her life from excessive bleeding. Don't allow your hands get stained with blood. Some children actually open doors. After the birth of my son, gates of blessings and prosperity started opening to my wife and I and it has been so till this day. Think this through.