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Welcome to June

Sixfeetbelle:
Watching the video might cause me to change my mind and I don't need double mind going into this makeover.

a story was recently shared here on Nairaland of a woman in lekki who did the makeover, and one cheek of her buttocks exploded killing her. So please be careful

Sixfeetbelle:
I don't have data to spare watching an 18 minutes long video 😌😌

Thank you

That's okay. You did not read what was typed clearly, being that you should fast forward to 18 minutes into the hour long video.

The exchange between the two people talking is not up to 4 minutes.

But I understand your mind is set and your data is too low to watch the short but life-changing conversation.

That's okay, others that have the same issue and need it will watch.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKl0uwrQVb8?feature=shared

Source: Kennan Davis (YouTube)

Sixfeetbelle:
What I have ke? I don't have anything abeg.

Forget long talk, cause as I dey so, I am already gathering funds for my breast and ass surgery. Dey play 😂😂😌

Please watch the below video from the 18 minute mark. The person speaking there has everything and is not happy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VWSdjnpPX30

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I-X9Bmu2qOU

Sixfeetbelle:
As a lady, just have ass and boobs. Sizeable ass and perky boobs are the only thing you need to attract a potential partner. Every other thing is secondary.

The only reason I haven't attracted one yet is because I look like a Palm tree, so don't be like me.

Hope you find peace, please don't look at what you have as a disadvantage


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxgcErYYX4U?feature=shared

Source: DominionCoach (YouTube)

Be clean and see the difference


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgH4UA-wuH8?feature=shared


Source: Dr Lanre Olusola (YouTube)

Wisdom is required

Are the people around you clean?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fCiGKFyvX9E?feature=shared

Source: Ogbo awoke ogbo (YouTube)

By respecting and understanding differences
https://www.nairaland.com/7648459/differences-men-women-kingsley-okonkwo

Cleanliness is next to..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WknmEoZSwE?feature=shared

Source: Aproko Doctor TV (YouTube)

Be clean and attract more people



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWQvmh_INTQ?feature=shared

Source: Jeremy Ethier (YouTube)

Are all members of the opposite gender you meet clean?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nt_XsRB6nfo?feature=shared

Source: qkatie (YouTube)

LIVINGICONREBOR:
U might not be able to change the structure of your face as a man but from the neck downwards can be reconstructed with "iron" and "good food".🤔🤔

Yes that's true

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmnjzhqA-GU?feature=shared

Source: teeth talk girl (YouTube)

Here are a few;
Don't bite your fingernails (there is dirt in between them), get a pedicure and manicure instead (can do this by yourself as well)

Wash your hair regularly so it doesn't smell

Bath at least once a day

Floss in between your teeth to remove large food particles of meat etc (very important to prevent tooth decay and bad breath)

Brush your teeth and tongue with toothbrush and tongue scraper (preferably twice daily)

Gargle your mouth with salt water before bed. You will be shocked to wake up with zero morning breath (even if you didn't brush before sleeping).

Rinse your mouth with water after meals (can floss too)

Visit a dentist annually as some oral issues can only be corrected there

Keep your living space tidy

Use water to wash your rectal area after using the toilet (use a bidet or bottle), it is a much more hygienic method than the use of tissue paper and leaves that area odorless

Use water to rinse your urinal tract after urinating or use a kleenex if in a public restroom where water is not accessible. This ensures your underwear does not get soiled and smelly from mild incontinence

Apply lotion on your skin daily to keep it from looking dry and white

Get a nose hair trimmer

Eat less oily and junk foods and more natural whole foods to reduce propensity for acne breakouts

Exercise regularly (at the very minimum walk more often) to stay fit and healthy

Go for regular general health checkups

Let go of bitterness of all forms to stay disease free (forgive even though you don't forget the offense, learn from it)

Smile more often, be kind and practice boundary setting to avoid burnout

Shave regularly where necessary (more for men)

Use a deodorant to prevent body odor

Be mindful of your posture and get help to correct it where necessary

Learn correct clothing colour combination and dress smartly with freshly ironed clothes

Get comfortable shoes to prevent foot injury and pain which cause bad moods

Invest in knowledge to make you a well rounded and financially stable person

Avoid debt except for business purposes and pray before taking such

Get counselling and therapy where necessary to clear emotional baggage issues

Connect spiritually with your creator


What tips do you have that were not mentioned? Comment below

Persephone1:

Hope it helps

Get the right mindset before getting a partner

True

More often than not men are more logical than emotional and women are more emotional than logical.

Women should learn to harness their emotions and think logically. When trying to persuade their man, they should appeal to his logical side.

E.g. instead of I want junior to go to that school because all my friends kids are there, explain the benefits of the school for junior's education such as scholarship availability there etc.

Men should cheer their woman up constantly with jokes etc as she can experience a lot of down times from overthinking.

Don't always try to fix issues she brings to you, instead be available emotionally to listen to her vent and she will appreciate that.

She is very intelligent and usually already knows the solution to the problem she has come to talk with you about.

Unless she specifically asks for help and advice, just listen attentively and provide verbal feedback cues.

Women should learn to observe the facts of a situation above the emotions behind it.

For example: If your boyfriend gives you good feelings such as excitement and laughter, but beats and abuses you physically or verbally.. common sense should tell you to leave such a relationship

If he promises you heaven on earth but you look at the pattern of his life and how he is not progressing in any way.. run

Because you must elevate patterns over potential

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCMUA4HRToE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCMUA4HRToE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnCbA8GEsJs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OnCbA8GEsJs

Men are moved by what they see women are moved by what they hear

Men should continue saying the sweet things they said to get into the relationship, when inside the relationship...

Women should always be conscious of looking attractive and visually appealing even when indoors with their man

In summary both genders should not become complacent when inside the relationship but keep doing what made your partner attracted to you in the first place

Women communicate poetically men communicate literally..

Women should realize that men are not mind readers and therefore communicate their needs plainly as often as possible for him to understand.

"Honey there's no more water" is not the same as "honey please can you switch on the generator to pump water? it has run out"

Men on the other hand should serenade their women with poetic speech and acts occasionally as the mood permits. E.g. flowery language such as "you look radiant like the sun right now" is welcomed.

See example of poetic acts here >>>
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CopepHAIRWS/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Do according to your pocket size

Women need love men need respect

As a woman, you can't hold down a home if you don't respect your man. He needs to feel like his input matters in the relationship. Never belittle him with your words. You submit to your hairdresser so why not do same for the man you chose to go along with? It doesn't mean you are weaker, it just means you are smart if you do so.

As for men, you're wife cannot go days without being loved by you. She must feel like you are emotionally present or else she will seek that connection elsewhere. Even if you are not physically present much, you must make the times that you are count by giving her all your attention.

Ultimately, love and respect go both ways but men need respect more than women do and women crave love more than men.

All the best

Men are future oriented, women think more of the past

So a woman usually keeps past misdeeds of many people including her partner, in her mind for years

She will spill all the built up offense from the past on the man, If she reaches a high stress level

As a man, you must keep her stress free as much as possible by monitoring her emotional needs and seeking to meet them regularly so that her emotional tank does not run dry

Her brain is structured to multi task and so she has too many thoughts running through her mind all day at once and gets stressed very easily

Watch the video above to learn how men are future oriented