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Happy new year 2026

Happy new year

Happy new year

kunkelhanspeter:
We been married for 3 years now and she’s 10 weeks pregnant 🤰 and it not been easy for me as the husband.

When we went to register for antenatal the nurse told us not to have sex till 14 weeks .

Just want to ask men here how do you guys cope with konji?

let her use her hand to touch you there

Valid points really..i concur

Jesus

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9wZWMZCngx0?feature=shared

Source: Ibukun Awosika (YouTube)

They will learn here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2hwekGNmhio?feature=shared



Full channel link below

https://youtube.com/@wholesomesexuality?feature=shared

But why don't these people sign up to HMOs?

When a person realises that they are ingesting dirt and micro-organisms, they will quit easily

Fiscus105:
Table shaker how?,....I guess u re not be delusion about what people saying on social media or boyfriend/girlfriend of a thing.
We are talking of Marriage proper.

Go and do ur findings very well, 95% of home today are joint spending on their family ok.

Infact, in many homes wives contributing higher.

In the sense that despite your assertions (which are true by the way), a very large segment of society does not see it as normal in any way

Money controls a lot

Weekend greetings

Weekend greetings

Great points

Teeyoo:
See gbese chai

Well, it shouldn't even be so, but tradition has made it this way.

If you are fortunate to have reasonable in-laws and a sensible spouse, all of it can be skipped if one does not have the funds for such.

A court wedding or a small ceremony would do

Weekends greetings!

All the best in choosing

Talk it out

Part 2 -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnhdNmuHJvo?feature=shared

Part 3 -
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwEKzjjdHms?feature=shared

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6ruL46jo_Q?feature=shared

Reminder: Another good reason to do this is so that you don't catch a criminal case

Research shows that phones are more dirty than the inside of toilet bowls.

But medicated wet wipes or baby wipes and use to clean your phones periodically...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4huihEY36VU?feature=shared

Careful ladies. Marriage is the safest

Majority of people that entered this thread didn't watch the video. Nowhere did he say Messi is too dull for his liking. The press needs to be more careful with how they twist words

God help us

whitejs:
What should I do to break out?

I can't give a speech in public.

I blank out at times when trying to express myself.

Also rapid heartbeat...

I feel more relaxed when alone.

Join a fellowship group in your local church. It's a more forgiving environment to train coupled with divine breath that will blow on your interactions and effort

Insightful

That was quite a comprehensive list

1. Fear of vulnerability

2. Unrealistic expectations

3. Excessive self-centeredness

4. Fear of commitment

5. Poor communication skills

6. Negative attitude

7. Unresolved past trauma and unforgiveness

8. Low self esteem and lack of self confidence

9. Desperation

10. Settling for less

Nice weekend

Pardon your being tagged.

OP also updated to include male version

His thought process