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bros, you are dating a prostitute.
you will only drain yourself trying to cope with her or trying to change her.

it doesn't end well - even if it leads to marriage.

Orgasmgiver123:
If i stayed two years trying to change things and you say I’m not her rider, then I don’t want to be her rider.
Two years of unimaginable abuse is enough for me to call it quit.
I just pray she meets the right person before age fails her.

these guys won't understand.

only someone that has 1st hand experience will understand

TheManofTomorrow:
I'm currently with one. Not in an official relationship, but we are in the pre-relationship stage. I already confirm she has Daddy issues.

- Her Dad gave birth to three of them, all ladies. He's a lawyer that doesn't behave like one. He subjects her to emotional stress to the extent of her shouting at him over the call severally while I am with her.

She's the first of three, so she believes she must protect her whole family from the man. Even his mom lost her job, and the man feeds the whole family except her now. Her pops no gree send her money because she refuses to come home and wait for nysc mobilisation.

Meanwhile, if she goes home, her business and all her other side hustle will be null, so the man leaves her to fend for herself because of that.

She's done with school (this year) while I'm still in my finals.

She has all the above trait except having sex to validate her desirability. She's a virgin and doesn't want it popped yet. We do every other form of romance except that.

She has never put me on a pedestal. Maybe cause I'm not her official father yet.

I'm a very ambitious person, and she's pretty ambitious too. I've given her time and attention, got stuffs for her, advised her when she's facing difficulty, and a lot more.

But someone she still asks about my hoes (she knows I have none), tells me men, her scum, posts about men being scum on her WhatsApp, switches moods effortlessly, is always stubborn and wants to argue even though she's wrong.

Once she starts arguing with me when I correct her, I Immediately stop without expressing my full though and let it slide.

This girl seem not to trust me no matter how I try.

She can be very, very manipulative to other men she has been with because I know her scope now.

She can be very stubborn too.

But beyond her flaws, she has her good side too.

She loves me but doesn't trust me(n)


I really like this girl, but I don't want to proceed into anything that will waste my time, and energy cos I'm still young, and I need my energy in other endeavours that'd prosper me.

What is your advice, brother?

give her some space.

one common issue with her kind is that they have so much pride. but will drop it for the person they feel is worth it.

if you are worth it, she will drop her pride and come for you

he's hustling to recover what is already lost

JovialJune:
Are there trousers without pockets though? Never seen one.

they are.

he can also get a tailor to seal up the ones with pockets

he married a show glass

you should've remained single.
now your desire to be called a good boy by your parents led you to getting an innocent girl into your sadistic life.

you worsened the situation by bringing a very angelic soul (that should have remained in heaven singing hossana) in the form of a child, into your pathetic life.

will all your properties to your wife and child,
go on an unending sorjourn in the desert, where you and the legions of demons that inhabit you will have the luxury of time and space to yourselves, until the hour comes for you to return to your home in hell fire to continue your hobby of gnashing of teeth.


nonsense

this shows she is still immature.

have a pillow talk with her on the importance of couples confidentially.

then, stop telling her your plans

start wearing trousers without pockets

so na him-finish nut 8 them use

go and see them first.

lawyer for what?

you better tell that your sister to return to your family

is this a joke?

this should be investigated properly

I'm coming

na wa o!
just because of 150k?!

shortIGBOman:
Some parents know in details, what yahoo actually entails. They even know the ritual aspect of it. But the love for worldly things have beclouded their reasoning.

no be lie

talk to your mom to confirm if she is really aware of what your brother is doing

why didn't you stop having sex because of what people will say?

keep on living your life for people

be very serious and stern with the bank

the activities of a fraudster affects his society 10x more.
it is also bad that greed has made them the core hope and customers of some businesses.
i keep saying it,
it is injustice to prosecute a fraudster and leave his beneficiaries to go free - especially the landlord, fashion suppliers and car dealers. most of these persons are fully aware that the person is a fraudster but are cool with it because they benefit from it.

go to the bank and make a request for recall of funds

Doubleoh7:
This your response has shown me that you've had very limited encounter with these guys or that in your experiences, you put adequate checks in place to ensure you are not shortchanged. These guys can give you water in place of wine. It is that their corrupt tendency that our people exploit while making requests for inferior products. But when they see you are a foreigner and you are making orders without a local agent to assist you, they have a tendency of shipping any nonsense to you

your response shows you have never had direct business with them.
ask the Nigerians that related their encounters with the Chinese to you, let them go back to history and tell you the truth.
Nigerians were the ones that initiated it

Doubleoh7:
And you don't think the Nigerian that sold this may have unsuspectingly bought same thing from China? I mean who buys a 20ft container load of power bank for instance and cracks each one open and burst the batteries to confirm they are not filled with sand. If you know how corrupt and untrustworthy some Chinese merchants are, you will know our corrupt biz people are still learners.

the Chinese are not really the corrupt ones here.
Chinese can produce any quality you specify and pay for. Nigerians go there and ask for products to be produced in low qualities. so that the production cost will be very low and they can make very huge profits when they sell those products in nigeria.
if Nigerians in China demand for products to be produced in their best quality and pay for it, the Chinese will obey

Nigerians and fraud

it is more in the african (or better say) Nigerian environment

which of the food

i see my girl babe - rita, for there

except it is tokunbo

call a technician

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