₦airaland Forum

vooks:
Tradition once demanded that girls get married at their early teens, undergo genital mutilation, are mere chattels with zero inheritance rights, can be shared among agemates,inherited after being widowed and so forth.

The point is 'traditions' are not static and are constantly changing. Marriage is no exception and you should not throw fits over this

hahn:
If they are married under tradition and not at a court or registry and without signing any legal document, is their matrimony legal?

ojeota:
Sexy eucharia She has improved greatly on her brows

Bigprozzie:
The truth will come out-----------eventually!

All I know is that, someone is lying....

Madam Ekwesili should have kept shut and not involve herself in this at all

It might come back to bite her HARD

Idrismusty97:
Yet again no unclad pics ... The mods should delete all topics on this Sugarbelly Vs mustapha issue that doesn't have the alleged unclad pics. Thanks

Reiyvinn:
Sex is sweet. 1.) Sex and Love are no synonyms:

2.) Success is not an STI/STD (no be Suck-Sex):

3.) We have NOTHING to lose:

4.) We may marry non-virgins but we won't accept 'boreholes':

You are somebody's future wife, please play safe with your body.

Ekuse!

flywaterbo:
My Brothers and sisters, if you were in my shoes and someone is ripping you off from your hard, stressed earned funds.
At the end of year you were expecting to get of N1.750m but surprisingly telling you he will give 700k, he actually said 600k before, what would you do? Seriously need your opinions.

Please, what would you do if this was on you?

misspicy:
since the first day a girl sees her period she is already a woman....go ask ur mummy and who owns the child in a Nigerian society,man or woman,she gave him a gift instead

misspicy:
wow....when a man realise the pains his woman went thru to give him a child he ought to appreciate God in her life and also appreciate her for being a woman...no matter how little, men should please encourage their woman to want to give birth to 100 of kids....lol





modified....whats all this cry about the car being a mecedees abi honda...thats not the point naw...the point is that the dude bought a car for his wife to appreciate her for making him a man...so why are you all wailing na jealousy go kill you all

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

WhoBeThisMan:
May I also add thatbshe even puts me down in front of her family. She has embarased me in public too

WhoBeThisMan:
cards are already out, we have even finished selling aso ebi

4C2215131:
Have you ever sat down to ask yourself this question: What does my girl really want to be in life. What makes her happy?

Please do, as you seem determined to turn her into something that makes YOU happy never minding how she'd feel about it. She's someone with feelings not a toy you purchased for your amusement!

Do you think she doesn't know that you detest these traits of hers. Do you think she's not hurting about it- wishing she could be the superwoman that you want her to be. Guy exercise some selflessness in this your quest I beg thee.

Iamthewatcher:
I met my fiancee some few yrs ago. I've agreed to marry her but there are factors I still want to give a final consideration before signing the dotted lines. These are:

1. She is not literate but willing to go to school. I never dreamt of marrying an illiterate when I, myself is a graduate. Her waec result is nothing to write home about. In fact she wasted her time in secondary school as far as I'm concerned and when I asked her why she was such an olodo, she quickly blamed those she lived with. She said because she was more or less a maid then, she hadn't much time for her studies and that's why she failed woefully. When I met her, her use of english was zero and I had to exert much effort to bring her to the level where she could converse freely with me at least in english. She retook her ssce and credited all subjects except math.

2. She's 2yrs and 3months older than me. Some argue that a woman will age first when older and that's the reason men go for younger women or at worst, their age mates.

3: She sometimes feel inferior to me cos' of my literacy and polished way of going about my stuff.

4. She has a fat tummy. This I perceived to be an upshot of her eating habit before I met her. Can you believe that it was when I started staying close to her that I discovered that she doesn't drink water after eating. Maybe she does that very much later. She was an expert in devouring meat with her friends and never exercised. I also had to teach her to drink water first thing in the morning before taking breakfast. I discovered that her mouth was always dry as a result of this disgusting lifestyle. If she wants to have a word with me in low tone, I do perceive some offensive odours from the mouth sometimes. All this are changing slowly now cos' a damage of so many years can't just be corrected overnight. I'm putting much effort into rearing her cos' she's a wife material.

There are one or two other drawbacks I won't like to go into now as the aforementioned factors are the ones that baffle me the most. I sometimes get so annoyed and start abusing her. But she also has her good sides that even attracted me to her which are:

1. She is well-mannered.
2. She can cook very well.
3. She is very hospitable.
4. She's very respectful.
5: She's pretty and fair.
6. She's a wife material.
7. She's reserved.

The crux here is that we are presently, not on the same page as far as being learned and refined is concerned and I want to marry someone who'll be very refined as well. Though we stay as friends but I feel she doesn't measure up.
So my people, if you were in my shoes, can you go ahead and marry her despite these bad sides??
Pls and pls, helpful comments will suffice.

Cc: Lalasticlala

sureway1:
smart Nigerians they just sent me a text now telling me to send my BVN#accountnumber#BVN code to 08076664444. l knew its a scam with the grammatical error in the text.

thank God l decided to check the authenticity online.

pls don't send your bank details to any Number..go to.
http://bvn.firstbanknigeria.com/form instead.

please help me flash this guy phone till em battery die.. 0807666444

mobicomtech01:
You did not leave a mail add to contact you.

king406:
If the corolla hadn't got a work on the engine, I'd go with it, it looks nicer than the ugly camry which every average worker is buying these days and it's all over the road, if it's for ur day to day city driving I suggest u take a chance with the corolla or find a corolla that the engine haven't been worked on. If u regularly embark on a journey I suggest u pick the camry for it has a bigger engine, more spacious and is more balanced on the highway.

Siena:
[color=Blue]Assuming both cars had their stock engines, as in they'd never been taken apart for major work, I would have gone with the Corolla. It looks nicer, less dated than the ponderous, clumsy Camry. The Corolla also looks much more dynamic than the Camry, which I also associate with older users. It's a staid, dull-looking car, with an elderly image.

However, as I do not trust Nigerian mechanics to get even a basic timing belt job on an Audi 80 1.6 I4 8V right, I would NOT feel relaxed driving a car that had been subjected to a piston ring job. For this reason ONLY, I would go with the Camry.[/color]

ElFenomeno1:
Take a competent Toyota mechanic along for a thorough inspection and make an informed decision based on that......
Nigeria used cars can be deceptive especially if you are looking at things from a face value.

DGD1:
bro, buying a nigerian used car requires mechanic to help you check well. both are great cars.
am not really comfortable with the ringed engine of the corolla (my opinion though) .

from me to you, choose dat camry 5 times before you even remember corrola was the other option.

sademola:
Travelling is education. How do you think they sustained the Toyota n Honda era? Who were (and still) their mechanics? Igbo, Yoruba? Please visit 'Panteka' in Kaduna and you will marvel. Wait, where was Peugeot assembly in Nigeria?