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Merimental:
n did u miss dis part too
" Whenever I am in need financially and I have no one to turn to, I most times go to him for help and he's always ready to offer help whenever he can.
One day in 2015, I had challenges raising my school fees, I was able to get half of it so I went to him for help to balance the fees."
look I ain't saying she whilst cheat but her past is Starring her Bak in d Face...

Merimental:
its a bit complicated but agreement na agreement....u may nid his help some oda time..don't kick him aside nw even if u don't hav sex wit him...der ar many gals who even hav sex 4 free yet u hav one who has helped u financially..

SifonAbasi:
Thank you sir.
I actually wanted to tell my husband but I don't know what lie my ex would tell him if he confronts my ex.

Niggafckyou07:
P.M sucks bro! Drop your mail so I can contact you. I have samples and very serious about this. Quote me when you see this message. Thanks

blessedvisky:
You are very smart but you got pregnant for a wayward and ambitionless guy. I hail your smartness

iboboyswag:
Hmmm... Not to enter into an argument or derail but if you are not (no name mentioned) but her husband... then i must say i don't envy you but commend you. Your "wife" has a very nasty reputation online, she is known to be insulting at the slightest wimp of a disagreement and it often leaves me wondering how she will be like in the real world.

She has quarrelled with more people i know online than I can imagine doing and the amusing part of it is that, it is usually for petty issues and she often fires the first volley of insults, creating a scene where their is none (in her words... i don't care how anybody sees me).

No Offence "Bro" but sometimes these stuffs bite when nobody sees and people least expect.

That aside anyway!

The problem is not sharing finance or living together as one in everything, the main issue is creating a divide by dividing things and responsibilities. In marriage, the maths is 1 + 1 = 1.

However illogical it may seem but the fact the partners seek to divide finance, responsibility et al creates a crack in the marriage than most people know... it creates unwarranted expectations that when not met can lead to more trouble ahead.

The man is too proud for his own good... He is trying very hard to prove a point that don't exist. The woman may have acted cunning (which is subjective and speculative) but in this matter now, the man needs to get off his high horse and rescind all these unattainable conditions.

Loves wins in the end!

A part of me feels the man is a boy with a chequered view of marriage (you know... those marriages of 1940).

iboboyswag:
You see them... beware of this kind of people and their advices!

The person I know behind this moniker is a proud, insulting and an uncultured girl but see how she is talking about her girlfriend and giving advice... well what do I know? the world is turning upside down!


Encore

Oga, I read your wife's epistle and now I have read yours... the truth is that you are seeking answers where you won't find any. Another reality check, you are indeed proud like your wife asserted. In the heat of argument you also insulted her, she may have gone overboard with insulting your family but that is not enough and i mean even with only her name on the house, it is not enough to try and break your marriage.

Note; this not boyfriend and girlfriend matter... Na Marriage be this one o!

kill your pride and man up! it's your family you have now... your parents and siblings will leave but you, that nagging, sexy, beautiful and overbearing wife and the children you both sired in love and sexual estacy are what will remain.

Reprimand her but never again threaten her with separation.

Thank you and God bless your home.

iboboyswag:
You see them... beware of this kind of people and their advices!

The person I know behind this moniker is a proud, insulting and an uncultured girl but see how she is talking about her girlfriend and giving advice... well what do I know? the world is turning upside down!
Girl? I'm a man but my wife uses the acct cos she is a freelancer. My wife is not uncultured Biko although sometimes she tends to say heartbreaking stuffs to people.

Encore

Oga, I read your wife's epistle and now I have read yours... the truth is that you are seeking answers where you won't find any. Another reality check, you are indeed proud like your wife asserted. In the heat of argument you also insulted her, she may have gone overboard with insulting your family but that is not enough and i mean even with only her name on the house, it is not enough to try and break your marriage.

Note; this not boyfriend and girlfriend matter... Na Marriage be this one o!

kill your pride and man up! it's your family you have now... your parents and siblings will leave but you, that nagging, sexy, beautiful and overbearing wife and the children you both sired in love and sexual estacy are what will remain.

Reprimand her but never again threaten her with separation.

Thank you and God bless your home.