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Last Friday, I was in a bus going home. Iyana-Ipaja to Aboru. The fare had just jumped from ₦300 to ₦500. I was complaining to an old friend I met on the bus. Before I finished, he looked at me and said, “No be una papa cause am?” I laughed. But inside me, something shifted. That one sentence is Nigeria’s problem in a nutshell. We have become a people who cannot argue beyond blame. Your father. My father. Your party. My party. Your tribe. My tribe. Nobody talks about the policy. Nobody talks about the global oil market. Nobody talks about the fact that reform is painful. We just find the nearest person to blame and pour our frustration on their head. Now, let me be clear: I am not here to defend President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. He is not 100% perfect. No president is. But the way we discuss his administration is shallow. On paper, Nigeria is doing some things right. The fuel subsidy is gone. The exchange rate is being allowed to find its true value. Investors are looking at us again. But on the street? The street is angry. ₦500 for a bus from Iyana-Ipaja to Aboru is not economics to the person paying. It is suffering. The macro is smiling. The micro is crying. That is the paradox. Critics say the government has failed. I understand. I feel it too. But let us be honest: the system we were running before was a lie. We were buying petrol cheaper than we could sell it, then borrowing to pay the difference. We were printing money to plug holes. That thing was going to collapse one day. The current administration is simply the one holding the bucket when the last drops ran out. That does not make Tinubu a saint. It just means the problem did not start today. And reform? Reform is not beans. By definition, reform means changing from the old way to a new way. It is not a spa treatment. It is surgery. You do not go for surgery and expect to dance home the same day. There is pain. There is swelling. There is recovery. Every serious country that has done structural adjustment went through fire. The question is not whether there is pain. The question is whether we are building something that can stand. Then add the war in the Middle East. Gaza. Iran. Israel. The whole region is boiling. When that place catches fire, oil prices go crazy globally. Nigeria sells oil. So our budget, our petrol price, our transport fare, our food, and barely everything is tied to a war we did not start. You can hate Tinubu from now till tomorrow, but you cannot blame him for the war in Gaza, Iran and others. That is not criticism. That is just noise. But my main problem is not even the government. It is us. We don’t know how to criticise positively. Democracy is about choice. You can choose Peter Obi. You can choose Atiku. You can choose Tinubu or even Sowore. That is your right. But the moment you start calling everyone who disagrees with your choice a “miscreant,” a “fool,” a “wailing wailer,” or every oyher names you all call yourselves here, you have left democracy and entered something else. It is not politics. It is tribalism. It is intellectual laziness. If you don’t like a policy, attack the policy. Bring data. Bring alternatives. Ask why the palliatives are not reaching the market women in Aba, Isale-eko, alaba, Mile 12 etc. Ask why the naira is still struggling despite the reforms. Ask why the savings from subsidy removal are not visible in your local hospital. That is positive criticism. But to sit on social media and insult people because they voted differently? That is shallow. So when my friend said, “No be una papa cause am?” I wanted to ask him: Which papa? My father that was a civil servant? Or the papa in Aso Rock? Or the papa in OPEC? Or the papa that voted? Or the papa that didn’t vote? We cannot reduce a national crisis to a family insult. That is the shallow-mindedness I am talking about. I am not saying Tinubu is perfect. I am saying we should be mature enough to separate the person from the policy, the pain from the progress, and the noise from the truth. Nigeria is not a football match. We are not spectators. We are all players. And if we keep playing into the hands of those who want to divide us, we will all lose. Let us criticise. But let us criticise with sense. Let us criticise with facts. And let us remember that democracy is about choice, not about degrading the other person just to make ourselves feel tall. Because at the end of the day, whether the fare is ₦300 or ₦500, we are all in the same bus. |
Last Friday, I was in a bus going home. Iyana-Ipaja to Aboru. The fare had just jumped from ₦300 to ₦500. I was complaining to an old friend I met on the bus. Before I finished, he looked at me and said, “No be una papa cause am?” I laughed. But inside me, something shifted. That one sentence is Nigeria’s problem in a nutshell. We have become a people who cannot argue beyond blame. Your father. My father. Your party. My party. Your tribe. My tribe. Nobody talks about the policy. Nobody talks about the global oil market. Nobody talks about the fact that reform is painful. We just find the nearest person to blame and pour our frustration on their head. Now, let me be clear: I am not here to defend President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. He is not 100% perfect. No president is. But the way we discuss his administration is shallow. On paper, Nigeria is doing some things right. The fuel subsidy is gone. The exchange rate is being allowed to find its true value. Investors are looking at us again. But on the street? The street is angry. ₦500 for a bus from Iyana-Ipaja to Aboru is not economics to the person paying. It is suffering. The macro is smiling. The micro is crying. That is the paradox. Critics say the government has failed. I understand. I feel it too. But let us be honest: the system we were running before was a lie. We were buying petrol cheaper than we could sell it, then borrowing to pay the difference. We were printing money to plug holes. That thing was going to collapse one day. The current administration is simply the one holding the bucket when the last drops ran out. That does not make Tinubu a saint. It just means the problem did not start today. And reform? Reform is not beans. By definition, reform means changing from the old way to a new way. It is not a spa treatment. It is surgery. You do not go for surgery and expect to dance home the same day. There is pain. There is swelling. There is recovery. Every serious country that has done structural adjustment went through fire. The question is not whether there is pain. The question is whether we are building something that can stand. Then add the war in the Middle East. Gaza. Iran. Israel. The whole region is boiling. When that place catches fire, oil prices go crazy globally. Nigeria sells oil. So our budget, our petrol price, our transport fare, our food, and barely everything is tied to a war we did not start. You can hate Tinubu from now till tomorrow, but you cannot blame him for the war in Gaza, Iran and others. That is not criticism. That is just noise. But my main problem is not even the government. It is us. We don’t know how to criticise positively. Democracy is about choice. You can choose Peter Obi. You can choose Atiku. You can choose Tinubu or even Sowore. That is your right. But the moment you start calling everyone who disagrees with your choice a “miscreant,” a “fool,” a “wailing wailer,” or every oyher names you all call yourselves here, you have left democracy and entered something else. It is not politics. It is tribalism. It is intellectual laziness. If you don’t like a policy, attack the policy. Bring data. Bring alternatives. Ask why the palliatives are not reaching the market women in Aba, Isale-eko, alaba, Mile 12 etc. Ask why the naira is still struggling despite the reforms. Ask why the savings from subsidy removal are not visible in your local hospital. That is positive criticism. But to sit on social media and insult people because they voted differently? That is shallow. So when my friend said, “No be una papa cause am?” I wanted to ask him: Which papa? My father that was a civil servant? Or the papa in Aso Rock? Or the papa in OPEC? Or the papa that voted? Or the papa that didn’t vote? We cannot reduce a national crisis to a family insult. That is the shallow-mindedness I am talking about. I am not saying Tinubu is perfect. I am saying we should be mature enough to separate the person from the policy, the pain from the progress, and the noise from the truth. Nigeria is not a football match. We are not spectators. We are all players. And if we keep playing into the hands of those who want to divide us, we will all lose. Let us criticise. But let us criticise with sense. Let us criticise with facts. And let us remember that democracy is about choice, not about degrading the other person just to make ourselves feel tall. Because at the end of the day, whether the fare is ₦300 or ₦500, we are all in the same bus. |
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Make we dey observe. Time shall tell... |
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As businesses expand globally, they often face unique challenges that require careful planning, adaptability, and a deep understanding of local dynamics. Nigeria, with its vibrant markets and growing consumer base, presents both incredible opportunities and significant hurdles for entrepreneurs and business leaders. Navigating the economic landscape of Nigeria—marked by inflation, fluctuating exchange rates, regulatory changes, and infrastructure challenges—requires a strategic approach to scaling operations. In this post, I’ll delve into key considerations for businesses looking to scale in Nigeria, exploring the economic realities that entrepreneurs must understand and overcome to thrive in this complex but promising market. From understanding local consumer behavior to optimizing supply chains, let's explore how businesses can not only survive but grow amidst Nigeria’s economic challenges. What have been your experiences in scaling within Nigeria's economic environment? What strategies have worked for your business, or where have you faced roadblocks? Share your insights and let's discuss how we can all navigate this together. |
The Foundation You Must Pour These six behaviors are the reasons the foundation of your financial life is cracked and unstable. You are trying to build a skyscraper on top of a foundation of talk, theory, status symbols, unproven advice, premature surrender, and frantic, pointless motion. It’s time to stop. It’s time to get quiet, to get honest, and to get to work. The blueprint is useless without the builder. The teacher is a fraud without the experience. The status symbol is a monument to your insecurity. The map is worthless if you haven’t walked the path. The first thing you need to do right now is that you must pick up a sledgehammer and demolish the faulty structures you’ve been living in. The choice is yours: continue the performance, or step onto the silent, empty construction site of your future and start laying the first, real, honest brick. |
The Prescription: Define your ONE Thing. At the start of every day, before you check email or get lost in motion, ask yourself this question: “What is the one thing I can do today such that by doing it, everything else would be easier or unnecessary?” This forces you to identify the task that represents genuine progress. Then, protect that task. Do it first. Do it before the world has a chance to distract you. Let the emails wait. Let the meetings be rescheduled. Until that one progress-making task is done, you have not started your real work day. |
6. You Mistake Motion for Progress This is the master saboteur, the one that disguises itself as productivity. You are so busy. Your to-do list is a mile long. You’re answering emails, attending Zoom meetings, organizing your digital files, researching the best project management software, and creating beautifully color-coded calendars. You are in constant motion. But are you making progress? Motion is activity that feels like work but doesn’t move the needle. Progress is activity that directly leads to a valuable result. Sending 50 emails is motion. Closing one sale is progress. Researching for ten hours is motion. Writing one page of your book is progress. You are hiding in the comfort of motion. It’s easier to “get ready to get ready” than it is to do the one, difficult, high-impact task that you’re afraid of—the task that actually matters. This is also known as productive procrastination. You’re cleaning your desk instead of writing the proposal. You’re learning a new programming language instead of building the simple, ugly-but-functional first version of your app. You are a hamster on a wheel, running furiously, sweating, and exhausted, but going absolutely nowhere. And at the end of the day, you have the fatigue of hard work without the results to show for it. |
I'm coming up with the last point.... |
The Prescription: Pre-commit to a “Minimum Viable Effort.” Before starting any significant new endeavor, define the absolute minimum amount of time and effort you will invest before you are allowed to even consider quitting. It’s not a year of half-hearted effort. It’s six months of relentless, all-in, 100% focus. It’s reaching out to 500 potential clients, not 50. This pre-commitment removes the emotional, moment-to-moment decision to quit. You are no longer asking, “Is this hard? Should I stop?” You are simply executing a pre-determined plan. The goal is to outlast your own resistance. |
5. You Quit Too Early You launch a new venture. The first week is exciting. The first month is challenging but bearable. Then, you hit the first real wall. A product fails. A launch flops. A client says no. The numbers aren’t moving. This is the critical juncture—the moment that separates the professional from the amateur. This is where you quit. You mistake the first inevitable failure for a final verdict. You believe that because it’s hard now, it will always be hard. You lack the emotional fortitude to endure the “Dip,” as Seth Godin calls it—the long slog between beginner’s luck and real mastery. What you don’t see are the countless successful people who, just a few years ago, were in your exact position. They faced the same rejection, the same failure, the same silence. The only difference is that they didn’t interpret that failure as a stop sign. They saw it as data. They learned, adjusted, and pressed on. They understood that success is not a straight line; it’s a brutal, messy, non-linear grind. You quit because you believe in the myth of the overnight success. You see the finished product, the victory lap, and assume it was easy. You don’t see the years of silent struggle that built the foundation for that moment. Your timeline is unrealistic, and when reality doesn’t conform to your fantasy, you bail. |
The Prescription: Adopt the “Earned Authority” principle. You are only allowed to sell, teach, or advise on something after you have personally used it to achieve a significant, verifiable result. Your story of transformation from Point A (broke) to Point B (profitable) is your product. It is your most valuable asset. Stop trying to skip the hard work of the journey by selling shortcuts you haven’t personally tested. Go build the proof. The selling will become infinitely easier, and you’ll be able to do it with integrity. |
4. You Sell What You've Never Proven In the desperate scramble for quick cash, you’ve fallen for the lie that you can monetize, a map to a place you’ve never been. You’re trying to sell a “get rich quick” course, but you’re not rich. You’re trying to coach people on how to build a seven-figure business, but your own business has never broken five figures. You’re offering advice on a topic where you have no legitimate, proven track record. This isn’t just ineffective; it’s corrosive to your soul. You create a fragile, house-of-cards identity. You live in constant, low-grade fear of being exposed as a fraud. Every customer interaction is tinged with anxiety. You have to spin, exaggerate, and hide the truth. Furthermore, it doesn’t work for long. The market is ruthlessly efficient at sniffing out inauthenticity. People are drawn to genuine success and repelled by manufactured hype. You might make a few quick sales, but you will never build a real, sustainable business or a respected personal brand this way. You are building on a foundation of sand, and it’s only a matter of time before the tide comes in. |
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The Prescription: Perform a “Status Audit.” Go through your last three months of bank statements. Highlight every expense that was primarily about signaling status or maintaining an image. Total it. That number is the exact amount you paid last quarter to look rich instead of becoming rich. Now, imagine if you had invested that same amount into a skill-building course, or into a low-cost index fund. The goal is to redirect every Naira possible from the “Image” column to the “Asset” column. |
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3. You Chase Status Instead of Building Status Look at your spending. Be brutally honest. How much of it is dedicated to looking successful versus being successful? The car you can’t really afford that you took on instalments. The designer handbag that you're still paying it's debt. The endless rounds of drinks at the trendy lounge to show you’re a baller. The constant upgrade to the latest iPhone, not because you need it, but because you need to be seen with it. You are chasing the symbols of wealth, hoping they will magically attract the substance. This is financial suicide. You are spending your seed corn on a more beautiful bag to carry it in. You are trading the asset (your capital) for the liability (the depreciation and maintenance of the status symbol). True, durable status isn’t bought; it’s built. It’s the reputation you earn by being exceptional at what you do. It’s the network you build by providing genuine value. It’s the confidence that comes from a fortified financial position, not from the logo on your shirt. Warren Buffett lives in the same house he bought in 1958. His status isn’t in his car or his watch; it’s in his track record. His status is the result of his building, not his buying. Same with Aliko Dangote and others. When you chase status, you are perpetually poor, because there will always be a newer, more expensive symbol to acquire. When you build status through competence and value creation, the symbols become irrelevant, and often, they eventually come to you as a byproduct of your actual success. |
We go again tonight when I get home... See you guys then. Hope you're learning sha ![]() |
The Prescription: Become your first and most important student. For every single piece of advice you are capable of giving, you must first apply it to your own life with ruthless consistency. You cannot teach about budgeting until you have a zero-based budget that you’ve followed for three consecutive months. You cannot advise on building an online audience until you have consistently created content and grown your own. Shift your identity from “teacher” to “practitioner.” Your credibility will no longer come from what you say you know, but from the results you can point to. |
Good news for the lovers of Nigeria but bad news to the haters |
2. You Teach More Than You Apply This is a more sophisticated, and therefore more dangerous, version of the first point. You’ve consumed so much content—from YouTube gurus to finance blogs—that you can now teach the principles of wealth better than most. You can explain compound interest, the importance of a high-income skill, the 4% rule for retirement, and the difference between a stock and a bond. You’ve become a walking, talking encyclopedia of theoretical wealth. But theory without practice is intellectual entertainment, not a path to results. You’re the person who can give a flawless lecture on swimming techniques but refuses to get in the water. You’re the critic who can dissect a film’s flaws but has never written a screenplay. You’ve positioned yourself as a teacher to create a hierarchy where you are the expert, but it’s a hierarchy built on quicksand. You are teaching to feel knowledgeable, not because you have earned the right through proven application. Why? Because teaching is safe. It’s a performance. Applying is risky. It’s where you can fail, look foolish, and discover that knowing the theory and living it are two different things. You’d rather live in the clean, orderly world of concepts than the messy, unpredictable world of action. |
Oh! It almost skipped my mind... Happy 65th anniversary to our dear native land - Nigeria. |
Happy new month, guys. |