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RomanceRe: If You Know Lagos Very Well Where's This Place. (photo) by ardeks(m): 3:45pm On Oct 18, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
Oshodi
Shey you're a Lagosian ni?
PoliticsRe: Meet This FRAUDSTER Among Us Here. by ardeks(op): 6:35am On Oct 18, 2022
Roman77:
The last time he replied my message was on Thursday last week. I have sent several messages to his WhatsApp for a refund. He comes online but never open them to read.

Please, what do you think I can do?.. The banks are not even helping matters by sending email with proof. I also got defrauded 2 weeks ago... It was even a paid ads on Nairaland.
I created a topic to expose the criminal this night, it was removed or hidden immediately. I was even banned for 1 hour by antispam bot.
Chat me via the number on signature
PoliticsRe: Meet This FRAUDSTER Among Us Here. by ardeks(op): 7:35pm On Oct 17, 2022
Roman77:
He has taken down his profile. I'm also a victim.
But the money somehow big
Really? What step did you take or you did nothing about it?
PoliticsRe: Subsidy: I’m Sorry For The Next President – Sanusi by ardeks(m): 5:22pm On Oct 16, 2022
buymyride:
how much do you sell usdt?
This nigga isn't legit, don't waste your money. He's nothing but a scammer
PoliticsRe: Subsidy: I’m Sorry For The Next President – Sanusi by ardeks(m): 1:40pm On Oct 16, 2022
MilliXchange:
To be honest, I pity the next president too and this is why we don’t need any old sick man to handle the affairs of this great country or someone that’s just coming to loot more and fulfill their long life ambition, we need a president not a figurehead!

Patronize me! I sell too and also help with online payments
Don't fall for this unrepentant scammer o.
PoliticsRe: Meet This FRAUDSTER Among Us Here. by ardeks(op): 4:06pm On Oct 15, 2022
Here are the websites he uses for his fraudulent acts https://millixchange.com/ and https://linkclopedia.com/

Modified: He has taken this down...

PoliticsRe: Meet This FRAUDSTER Among Us Here. by ardeks(op): 4:03pm On Oct 15, 2022
I contacted him yesterday to buy USDT from him. He asked me to pay to his account which I did but instead of him to fulfil his side of the deal decided to go mute since then.

Here are the screenshots of our convoy.

NB: I've taken the necessary steps against him already, I'm just here to bring this to your notice here so that you won't fall victim of his fraudulent activity.

PoliticsMeet This FRAUDSTER Among Us Here. by ardeks(op): 3:56pm On Oct 15, 2022
He is with the moniker @millixchange, he advertises BUYING AND SELLING of digital currencies and all just as you'll see in his flyer below

RomanceRe: Tell Me Your Date Of Birth And I Will Reveal Your Personality To You by ardeks(m): 3:56pm On Sep 10, 2022
Solofresh2:
Let's get it started cool
March 12, 1985
Nairaland GeneralDo It For You Or Get F**ked Up by ardeks(op): 8:02pm On Aug 20, 2022
There is a simple rule of a great life. Eat or get eaten. Everyone wants to get successful, get rich, have a girlfriend. But only a few people achieve what they want. And all others get settled with the circumstances they are in and spend their entire life regretting what they could have achieved and what they lost. As someone said ‘You get what you deserved’. Likewise, if you don't work for a thing you want then how and why you should get that thing you are dreaming of. I mean there are seven billion people in the world and millions of them dreaming of the same thing. If this is the case, then the person or the people with the utmost desire should be in that position, in that lifestyle. And believe me, it's not that hard to get that!

Just thinking aloud.... I go by the name Ardeks
PoliticsRe: Full List Of The Stations NBC Revoked Their Licences by ardeks(m): 1:52pm On Aug 19, 2022
Where una see RAYPOWER nd AIT wey una first post....
Christianity Etc11 Ways To Increase Happiness In Marriage (Islamic Perspective) by ardeks(op): 7:36am On Aug 19, 2022
The young and excited bride-and-groom-to-be; ecstatic about the upcoming wedding and marriage and the joy that it will bring. Three to six months later, reality has set in and both spouses realize that marriage is no easy task, but one that takes a great deal of effort and patience. The following are tips for both wives and husbands, to help make the task a little less daunting, and to increase the many rewards that are possible in such a marvelous and complex relationship.

1️⃣Enter the Marriage with the Right Intention and Renew this Often

Both spouses should enter the marriage with the pure intention of pleasing Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, in order to receive His grace and blessings. The marriage itself then becomes an act of worship and one for which both spouses will be rewarded. Allah Ta'ala will be pleased with them and this will be the most critical element in ensuring peace, stability and happiness throughout the marital life. It is also important to realize that when an act of worship is continued over a long period of time, it becomes necessary to renew one’s intention often to remain on the correct path and to obtain the most benefit.

2️⃣Remember that Your Spouse is also Your Brother or Sister in Islam

Too often Muslims treat other people outside the home with kindness and sincerity, but then behave in a very different manner when it comes to their own spouses. Muslims should always remember that one’s spouse is also another brother or sister in Islam and that the rights and duties that apply to the general brotherhood (sisterhood) of Islam, should also form the basis of the marital relationship. Obviously, a spouse has rights beyond these, but there should be a clear understanding of the rights of brotherhood (sisterhood) and adherence to these principles.

3️⃣Do Not Hold Unrealistic Expectations

Before marriage, people often have unrealistic ideas about their spouse-to-be, expecting perfection in all aspects. This rarely, if ever, plays out in reality and can lead to unnecessary problems and concerns. We should recall that Allah, subhanahu wa ta’ala, created humans as imperfect beings, which means that many mistakes will be made throughout a lifetime. By turning the table and expecting imperfection, we will be pleasantly surprised and pleased when our spouse is much more than we ever hoped for. This, in turn, will lead to contentment within the marriage.

4️⃣Emphasize the Best in Your Spouse

Since no one is endowed with all of the best qualities, emphasis should be placed on the positive qualities that a spouse possesses. Encouragement, praise, and gratitude should be expressed on a regular basis, which will strengthen these qualities and be beneficial in developing others. An attempt should be made to overlook or ignore negative characteristics, as the Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said, “ A believing man should not have any malice against a believing woman. He may dislike one characteristic in her, but may find another in her which is pleasing. ” (Muslim)

5️⃣Be Your Mate’s Best Friend

Try to think of what a best friend means and be one to your spouse. This may mean sharing interests, experiences, dreams, failures and upsets. It may involve understanding a spouse’s likes and dislikes and attempting to please him or her in any way possible. A best friend is also usually someone that can be confided to trusted, and relied upon. A spouse should be the kind of friend that one would want to keep throughout life.

6️⃣Spend Quality Time Together

It is not enough to share meals, chores and small talk together. Spouses should also find time to focus on strengthening the relationship. Often couples get busy with their own separate tasks and forget about working on one of the most important elements in life. Quality time may be anything from having a quiet, profound conversation to going for a nice long nature walk, to sharing a special hobby or project. Both spouses should enjoy the particular option chosen and distractions should be kept to a minimum.

7️⃣Express Feelings Often

This is probably a very “Western” concept and one that some people may have difficulty fulfilling, but it is important to be open and honest about one’s feelings, both positive and negative. The lines of communication should always be open and any concerns should be brought to the attention of the other spouse as soon as they arise. The rationale of this is that what begins as a simple concern may grow into a major problem if it is not addressed quickly and properly. The “silent treatment” has never been the remedy for anything.

8️⃣Admit to Mistakes and ask for Forgiveness

Just as we ask Allah Ta'ala to forgive us when we make mistakes, we should also do the same with our spouses. The stronger person is the one who can admit when he or she is wrong, request pardon from the other, and work hard to improve his/her aspects that are in need of change. When a person is unwilling to do this, there will be little growth and development in the marriage.

9️⃣Never Bring up Mistakes of the Past

It can be very hurting for another person to be reminded of past mistakes. In Islam, it is generally not recommended to dwell on the past. One may remember errors that were made so that they are not repeated, but this should not be done excessively. Certainly, as humans, we are not in the position to judge another person. Advice may be given, but not in a harmful manner.

10 Surprise Each Other at Times

This may entail bringing home a small gift or flowers, preparing a special meal, dressing up and beautifying oneself (this is not only for women), or sending a secret note in a lunchbox. A little imagination will go a long way here. The idea is to spice up the marriage and avoid getting into a dull routine that may negatively affect the marriage.

1️1️⃣Have a Sense of Humour

This particular aspect can go a long way in preventing arguments and brightening the atmosphere of the home. Life is a constant stream of challenges and tests, and to approach it in a light-hearted manner will help to make the journey smoother and more enjoyable. You may also find that your spouse enjoys this characteristic and looks forward to spending time with you because of it.

�Quick Tips for Discussions and Disagreements:

Begin with the intention to resolve the issue .

If both spouses have this intention and plan to consult together, it is more likely that there will be a successful resolution.

Remember that it takes two to quarrel.

If only one person chooses not to argue, there will be no argument. Generally, the one who is wrong does most of the talking.

Both spouses should not be angry at the same time.

If one of the spouses becomes upset, it is best if the other tries to remain calm and collected.

Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.

Of course, house fires do not occur very frequently; yelling should occur at about the same rate.

Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.

This is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage and should be avoided as much as possible. This allows hurt feelings and thoughts to linger and generally exacerbates the problem.

If one spouse needs to win, let it be your mate.

Do not focus on winning yourself; this is the main reason that discussions tend to become heated.
RomanceRe: Let's Be Sincere. (guys Only) by ardeks(op): 9:47am On Aug 18, 2022
olamoses75:
Will I stop buying food from a restaurant just because other customers are trooping in to buy too? It’s a community project. I need my share!
Baddest guy
RomanceRe: Let's Be Sincere. (guys Only) by ardeks(op): 11:45pm On Aug 17, 2022
rickpat:
that's inferiority complex....shoot your shot...woo her to the fullest and the best of your ability but please don't trying using your hard earned money o...you gat nothing to lose...if she doesn't want you,then you move on not giving up cus of a man with one head as you
After all, nah to chop... No be so?
RomanceLet's Be Sincere. (guys Only) by ardeks(op): 11:35pm On Aug 17, 2022
Guys, do you back off from wooing a girl you like when you get the vibe that many other guys are after her?
RomanceCome Get Me ASAP by ardeks(op):
A neatly used samsung galaxy note edge up for grab for just #30,000. It's negotiable though.... Call or WhatsApp 0.70.6075.63.69

Technology MarketRe: For Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 9:35am On Feb 07, 2022
Still available
Technology MarketRe: For Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 5:19pm On Jan 18, 2022
Still here for you
Technology MarketRe: For Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 8:23am On Jan 16, 2022
Still available
Technology MarketRe: For Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 8:36am On Jan 14, 2022
francisbarrack:
Location
Iyana Ipaja, Lagos.
Technology MarketRe: For Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 2:12pm On Jan 13, 2022
Still available o
Technology MarketFor Sale! For Sale!! For Sale!!! by ardeks(op): 8:11am On Jan 13, 2022
This Asus laptop is for sale at a giveaway price of 50k.
Features.
Asus X200L (touchscreen), core i3, 500gb HDD, 4gb RAM, 1.7ghz.

If you're interested, pls get in touch via WhatsApp 08168632198 or call 08104025614.

RomanceCheck This Out by ardeks(op): 6:56pm On Sep 26, 2021
I joined this platform in about a month and 5 days ago, and I've made this much amount of money. You can too. If you are interested, kindly check my signature for my contact info to chat me up on whatsapp.

Person wey no get helper must to get sense... We meuveeeeeee!!!

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