takleboy:

Yours is *legal what? are u a lawyer
Wish you the best

Yes I am

Thanks alot & I wish you same.

atama27:
Goodluck to those starting tomorrow, and it seems it's in batches cos it's mostly Marketers and graduate trainee that were invited, or do we av any Experienced trainee/ investigation office/ e.t.c that has gotten an invite aside marketing,graduate trainee,cahiers e.t.c And for clarification,those going tomorrow should enquire if it's in batches as to invites..thanks and best of luck!!!

Mine is ... though.
Thanks so much.

mayavathy:
@arewasweetheart I didn't see the email u posted earlier , hope u don't mind reposting it

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I'v replied your mail.

mayavathy:
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Alright, Congrats.
E-mail:...........................

[quote author=mayavathy post=35364362] @ArewaSweetheart, what is your contact either mail...

Hope you have seen the e-mail I posted earlier?

Isaacmacdon:
Someone old enough to be Ur great grand father... Was it cos he commited a crime nd was unlucky...? No sin z bigger dan d other... Who knows d one u r committing.. My point is don't judge if u don't know d exact story... Silly old baboon? Geez... Well think over this tho... mind how u use Ur words.. Everyone's got his or her own battle...

This is not the issue of sin; this is an issue of crime against the state. What he did is a criminal offence in nigeria, so no need bringing religion into it.

And under the Law, we have simple offences, misdemeanor & felonies(capital offences); hence no two crimes are the same.

trendysturvs:
The former actress posted her age online to convince fans believing that she is 34, that she is actually 28. I hope they believe now :-)

https://www.facebook.com/Trendysturvs

Irrelevant news, mtschwww

ruhu:


ehya..buh chek dt tym mayb dia is a mistake in mine....wat kind of interview by 10pm weird!!

Lol.
Mine is 8am on 4th July.

ruhu:
Just got an interview invite, slated for 4th july, #teamgraduatetrainee

Same hear

And to think i'm expected to be at my cousin's wedding which will take place on same 4th july as well.

Allah bamu sa'a, amin.

tobechi74:
Thread for those who hate marriage and prefere not to get married .

Sign in here ,lets discuss

Lol
Then you are suffering from gamophobia @op

Joel3:
ummm. I am not attacking it. it just seem to me she love her boob fitness so much. she always wear push up bra. at first I thought its the bra. that made it to stand.

not until I start to naked her. and see the firmness myself .

I just smooch it and squeeze it well

Hmm, wonders shall never cease.

ileobatojo:


Yeah, this really breaks my heart. Really. I mean, how can my life possibly go on now that I know you don't like me?

Lol, really hilarious response

moca:


I noticed something one day.
We were at d medical centre for some immunization stuff when I and one mother started gisting about family.
She has 4 children and a maid. She was complaining bitterly about d maid and that she will send her home and look for another one. So I asked her what about her children,dont they help?

She said her first is a son and don't do any thing in d house except eat,play,sleep and go to school. That d daddy said no son of his will do a woman's work.
He is up to 13 yet can't wash his clothes or plates.

I hv noticed this trend some places.
Now tell me,how will they behave if they r psychologically wired like this?

Parents will think they r being smart and following some archaic cultural norms while they bred monsters all over.

I sometimes read posts here and wonder if we r on d same planet earth with these creatures.

Parents pls train ur children well and see them become a treasure to d society.

Father's and would be father's, dont leave ur work to d wife.

And those with babymama everywhere,pls go and put a ring on it and give that child a societal sense of belonging. It's getting out of hand.

It's in this lagos I noticed that babymama industry surpass d marriage industry by far.
Nobody knows what d effect is on the kids.

Hmm, you perfectly nailed it dea. Nice one.

Unknown to many, parental upbringing is the basic determinant of every child's character & reasoning mentality in adulthood.

A male child whose parents instil in him the mentality that all males of his kind are a superior sex to females will definitely carry with him that mentality into adulthood.
And same applies to a female child whose parents instil in her the mentality that all females of her kind are 'princesses' and must be treated as such by those of the opposite sex will surely display such a mentality in adulthood.

So parents really have a lot to do in moulding the general mindset of their kids to become better persons devoid of draconian & all forms of violent tendencies in future.

obongproff:


Thanks. We will let him know. I tot he knew all dis while. Well for d oda part, he neva comes to visit his son. Its his son dat always goes to see him since his place is just 5mins walk from my mom's.

Thanks again for your contribution.

Alright then. That means you will have to make out time to go see him about the issue anytime soon (prefarably on a weekend when he's less stressed & more relaxed).

Hope he relates well with your family sha?

baby124:
Well, it depends on the situation. You never know what situation one may find themselves, that desperation will make them take certain decisions.

For instance. If the man has other wives and concubines or children scattered around the world. It would be wise for such a woman to acquire everything in her name.

Yea, i also agree that it depends on the kind of man you have as a hubby.

Thus, i'd advise that you include your spouse's name in the deed ONLY if he has been faithful & selflessly sincere to you in the marriage too.

@op, i also concur that you should inform your nephew's dad about his son's hiv status as soon as possible pls.

It is very unwise for you & your mom to further keep him in the dark on the issue. I'd advise you discuss the issue with him when next he comes over to see his son.

amtheone:
In a situation where there is an issue between husband and wife and the husband wants to leave just to avoid more serious issues but the wife hold on to his clothe demanding that the man is not going anywhere.

What should be the husband reaction?

Thats a really disrespectful thing to do.

I'd advise he calls the police on her ASAP. Let her explain why she had to infringe on his fundamental right to freedom of movement.
I believe that by the time the police remand her in their 'sweet' station for just few hours, she will never ever forcefully restrict his movement again.

I think senseless acts like that ought to be dealt with strictly.

Tallesty1:
Carry her to bed and make love to her.

Lols, i suppose the man's sex..ual urge would be completely dead at that point in time; hence, love-making will be the last thing on his mind in such a situation.

raystanley:
She goes to extent of unpluging batteries from Desktop Chargers and that charging at back of UPS. And suck d batteries connector pin-pannels...Even when i try to keep batteries away frm her reach, she leaves her toys behind and take any Cell phone on sight and smarsh it on d floor possibly d battery comes and d next is to see her busy sucking d connector panel... I dont know abou other babies? If its common among them...?

Its just a phase when most toddlers become excessively inquisitive of certain things around them that may or may not be harmful.

Ensure you watch over her thoroughly wen she's awake & moving about. And try not to leave behind these batteries n fones in same room with her i.e if you are with her in the living room, take all the small battry gadgets to your bedroom or any other room to charge.

I know you might later feel stressed after doing the aforementioned routine. But for the sake & well being of your baby, i say its very worth it. Also with time, your baby will learn to avoid those things too as she grows.

Ogoanita:
ghost mode viewers help a sis out na. Waiting patiently o

From a sister to a sister, go see a dermatologist; simple.

Visit the nearest general hospital or university teaching hospital where derma units exist. The dermatologist will prescribe the appropriate medication for you to use.

Wow, this is more than a mere coincidence i guess

However, i think this scenerio was avoidable cos its a known fact that elections in nigeria must hold any day from Jan. to May 2015.

Richard6:
There was an argument with some friends and the argument is...you as a guy can wash your mum's underwear such as her pants so long she is not sick and she is not disabled. Likewise girls, can you wash your dad's underwears such as his boxer and pants under same conditions? If you cant, do you have any reason not to?

Definitely i will if he ask me to do so.

But the candid truth is, most parents (mine inclusive) dislike such. i.e assigning their children to wash their undies for them. They prefer to wash their undies themselves.

Personally, i and my siblings have never done that.

lolaxavier:
Not so sure where to post this.


nkuWallace Turnquist purchased Ezekiel Akpu-nku from Nigeria as a playmate and servant for this 13-year-old son, Skyler. “Last year I took Sky on a hunting safari to Africa and he was delighted by the African people,” Wallace Turnquist told WSB-TV. “How funny they were, how they were always smiling and so eager to please. At first he just wanted to take one, but I told him kidnapping was illegal. So instead, I bought him one.” Since slavery and human trafficking are illegal, Turnquist gave Ezekiel a five year employment contract that pays $1,000 per year plus room/board, one day off per month and unlimited snacks. Ezekiel’s contract states that he must do whatever Skyler tells him to do so long as it is not illegal. “This one time I made him stand on one foot for the entire day,” Skyler Turnquist said. “I also made him eat a spider. He does whatever I say. He’s the best toy ever.” “I’m very happy to be Skyler’s toy, ” Akpu-nku said. “In Africa I was starving, here, in the land of opportunity, my belly never goes hungry.” Turnquist said Skyler already wants another “African toy” but his father has said no this time. “I don’t want Sky getting spoiled. If I buy him another African, he’ll just want more. I think owning one African is enough.

Despicable!!!

Biliamin:
What brought the change?


thebestlists.co/then-vs-now-life-has-really-changed?v=f5aeKy9j7we0CoRaorQd8uKw1ykcSp00j5W8

Worry does not solve any problem. So when the deed is already done, just move on with a smile on your face.

BTW who knows, the pregnancy might turn out to be a great blessing in disguise

Islie:


I quite understand the point the writer is passing across here and agree to some extent with some of her points .......

But, I kinder ask myself..... What is the different things, attitude and responsibility did our mothers did to have make their marriages work during their own time and sustained it till today that our women of today are finding it difficult to do.

Is it that our mothers were quite obedient
Is it that our mothers were understanding
Is it that our mothers were patience enough
Is it that our mothers were religious

Because the rate of ddivorce today is alarming

Yea, in the past, women were raised and trained to endure/tolerate whatever suffering they encounter in their marital homes (and which includes suffering inflicted on them by their spouses in such marriage). However, with the advent of civilization, more women are now enlightened enough to know their rights & the various ways of protecting/defending these rights of theirs.

Theoritically, the write-up makes alot of sense. But putting it into practice is actually where the problem lies.

stinggy:


Did you just kiss me to distract me from crushing on diezani?
It won't work, I won't shift attention to you joor

Lols, ok ooo.
Goodluck mr. stingyy

obongproff:
Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

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I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect.

Lol. With the exception of no.1, all the others are point.

stinggy:
Let no one talk ills of the woman. Her beauty is enough for me to overlook her sins.

Diezani, my crush I may never have

What!
Except what you are referring to is sugar mummy finzz

crackhaus:

You're right, blame the law...but also blame women who take undue advantage of the law.

Why not?
There's nothing 'undue' about the advantage @crackhaus.
And anyone who is wise (be it man or woman) will definitely utilise such an advantage to the fullest.
Men will do same & maybe even worst had it been that the law is tilted to favour them more in this regard.

pickabeau1:
k.. you win

Not a competition pickabeau1.

crackhaus:


Also, I don't think anyone blames the ladies for the laws - they just want it admitted that the law does favour women.

No guy has mentioned this yet except you (i might be wrong though).

And that should be the right thing to say. Blame not women; rather, blame the law.

pickabeau1:


A tragedy was posted

Someone said he MAY have snapped as a result of potential loss of assets occasioned by western divorce laws

Oh, so you'l rather support someone's mere assumption than to accept the facts as stated in the reported story right?

pickabeau1:


What if he was just plain old wicked or a mental case

That's what this forum is for

Debating positions

lols, pls enough with the baseless assumptions. This forum is a medium of sharings minds & opinions on facts, not 'maybes'.

And unless you want to tell us that you are smarter than the courts, then the question of whether or not the murderers have mental issues at the time of commiting the crime is irrelevant cos the court would had unraveled/realised that before convicting them. Remember there was a trial, of which we werent told anyone is disputing.

This is an excerpt of the report:
...........................

Between 2006 and 2014, more than 50 Nigerian husbands murdered their wives in what might be considered crimes of passion as a result of alienation of affection, women empowerment, emasculation, and loss of self esteem.
.........................

So you guys should kindly drop the ITK assumptions and stick with the facts of the reported story.

pickabeau1:


As per your second paragraph
Until you women accept that this is the era of equality and you should not be waiting for a payday in the event a marriage does not work out, those laws will not change cos they favour your arsês

Working _---------------------check
Living in a paid for home -------check
Monthly checks coming in------- check
Making life hell for ex hubby ------double check

And so?

As long as they chose to be or are part of the society, the laws must be enforced on them too. They can as well migrate to countries where they will never be compelled by any law to finance a grown-up woman's ar..se with their hard-earned money.

pickabeau1:


Those laws will not change... Lass

Sure, its very ok if the laws never change (just like the laws in naija may never change too).... Lass

pickabeau1:

Women using marriage as payday has roots in the notion that they were helpless or nothing outside the marriage institution
Why are vu still marking time waiting for the loot of marriage

Lol. Says who?

My point is why do you guys ignorantly make it seem like the ladies are to blame for the existence of these divorce laws that mosttimes favour them? I sincerely dont see how it is the woman's fault that the law favours her as against her spouse after a divorce.

In nigeria where the reverse is the case(that is to say the nigerian marriage act is kinda tilted to favour the man in most instances), you never hear women encourage the cold-blooded murder of abused/divorced wives or attempt to rationalize whatever heinous crime they commit against their spouse.

There4, the proper entity you guys need to channel your anger to shouldnt be the victimised/dead wives, but the authority that set up these laws.