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Why northerners all the time.. This Buhari self.....

If you are not benefiting anything from the politicians, then you have to stop licking their ass(es)....

...So I took off her shirt.

Then she said, "Take off my skirt."

I took off her skirt.

"Take off my shoes." I took off her shoes.

"Now take off my bra and panties."

So I took them off, too.

Then she looked at me and said, "I don't want to catch you wearing my things ever again."


What are you thinking?

Just do it for record purpose.. I know how it feels but trust me, it costs you nothing.

I saw this posted somewhere the other day and at first I was like Pshhhh! That’s easy – Saving! But after a few seconds I started questioning myself.

An interesting thing about saving, though, is that it’s not nearly as fun without a GOAL in mind. So saving w/out a plan = boring. Smart, but not very exciting. Spending, on the other hand, fills you with plenty of endorphins! You get instant gratification and usually something tangible right there in front of your face. How awesome is that? Extremely! So much so that people keep doing it and doing it until they crash and burn and buyer’s remorse sets in. And it affects rich people too, which is why some people say never to go shopping just for fun!

I may not have all the fancy artifacts of today, but dreaming of a free’er future gives me more than enough joy to keep pushing forward. Saving gives you options, spending doesn’t. Which do you enjoy more?

buharisbae:
hypocrisy of this op! u supported WizKid in Linda ikeji saga buhh u say dino is disrespecting womanhood this is the hypocrisy I'm talking about its really bad! u people need to change! I'm out..

Please Who is Linda, Who is Whizkid, are they from Eritrea?

meforyou1:
tunde salam, u again?

mmmmm mmmmmmm, na Rashidi Yekini

nnachukz:
Yes just as Buhari was in detention for 2years. Obj was there as well and all these men are better than you today. So worry for your life and not for him.

I hope you are better than all those mentioned above cos if not........

NwaTeacher1:
Nnamdi Kanu is our latest Hero not Dino. Op, Why Igbo is your problem? Is like one igbo boy don use money convince and snatch your girl

But our dilector has been in detention for almost a year now

This may sound stupid to some set of people but we need to ask ourselves, why praising Dino suddenly?

Here is a video that shows that Nigerians are the biggest tribalist in the entire world, random people from the three major tribes in Nigeria were interviewed on what they felt about the other two tribes and they had some very disgusting things to say about their neighbors

Hausa Man:

Does not like yoruba because:

Yorubas are not cooperative in nature, also prefers fellow tribesman to other people
Yorubas are gossipers and back bitters

Likes Yoruba because:

They study hard/well educated
Good in business
Respectful to elders (prostrate to greet)

Does Not Like Igbo Because:

They are not trustworthy/too much love for money
Look down on other tribes
9 out of 10 armed robbers are Igbos

Does Like Igbo Because:

They are good/hardworking businessmen



Igbo Woman:

Does not like yoruba because:

Yorubas are gossipers and back bitters
Yorubas are dirty
They are cowards and troublesome
They live show-off life, Party hard, sleep Hungry

Likes Yoruba because:
They study hard/well educated
Educated ones are good for marriage and caring

Does not like Hausa because:
They dont take care of their families/marry too many wives/kids beg on the street


Likes Hause because:
They are trustworthy and truthful


Yoruba Man:

Does lot like Hausa because:
Too dumb, always follow their leaders/religion


Likes Hause because:
They are trustworthy and truthful
Cooperative


Does lot like Igbo because:

They are not trust worthy/2 faced
Dubios


Does Igbo because:
They are hard working in their business.
--No further comment-----

See video below, its a disgrace


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEEfNbB3f6A


Source: http://www..com/talk/topic,94169.0.html

TURKISH military chiefs say they have carried out a coup and overthrown the Government.The Turkish army has issued a statement claiming the military had taken over the country.

Military jets and helicopters are flying over the city. Both of Istanbul's bridges across the Bosphorus, the strait separating the European and Asian sides of the city have been closed to traffic.

Prime Minister Binali Yildirim said a group within Turkey's military had attempted to overthrow the government and security forces have been called in to "do what is necessary”.

He said: “Some people illegally undertook an illegal action outside of the chain of command.

"The government elected by the people remains in charge. This government will only go when the people say so."

He said Turkey's security services had been ordered to do whatever necessary to resolve the situation and warned those responsible would "pay the highest price".

Turkish television showed pictures of tanks surrounding the entrance to Istanbul's Ataturk International Airport.


Source: http://www.express.co.uk/news/world/690032/Attempted-military-coup-Turkey-shots-fired-bridges-closed

Your girlfriend wants you to meet her family, when you got there...The elder sister is your ex girlfriend .The younger brother is the boy you were fighting with over a girl .His dad is the doctor who advice you to stop coming with girls for abortion. And finally the mother is the sugar mommy who just bought you a ferrari sport car. What will you do?

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nkechi042:
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Thanks

Supporters my foot. not up to 5% of wailers and zombies benefit from the politicians, yet they want to kill themselves..

So you have been rejected by someone, some people or even by the whole world. I know it feels bad and that you are eagerly scanning yourself for any flaws that can justify this rejection.

Some people even go further and label themselves with labels such as a "loser" or "failure" and then end up depressed.
The shocking truth is that the main reason behind experiencing those negative feelings you experienced after being rejected is believing that your worth or value is determined solely by the opinion of others.

When we were children our culture and our parents taught us that people will like us if we became nice. They taught us that being a good boy and a good girl will let people love us. We've grown up believing that we are only worthy if people like us and care for us While if people dislike us then we are worthless.
We learned to measure our self worth based on the acceptance of others and thus we gave them the keys to our mood.
Depression is sometimes associated with rejection. The main reason some people become depressed after being rejected is that they don't take actions to neutralize the effect of this rejection.

Ignoring your problems and allowing them to accumulate can be the primary source for depression. Some people face problems as soon as they encounter them while others bury them deeply in their subconscious minds or throw them behind their backs. When they do so their subconscious minds usually responds back with depression.
Lets suppose you applied for a job then got rejected. If you didn't respond by applying for another job or by trying to improve your skills immediately then you might get depressed.

The human mind can hardly rest before finding a reasonable or logical explanation for the situations it faces.
If you provided other reasons for the rejection to your mind other than being worthless then you won't feel bad at all after the rejection. That's why i will provide you with some of these reasons so that you can use them to calm your mind down after facing rejections.

People could hate/reject you because:

- They are jealous of you, of your achievements, your looks, or of anything else
- They are currently interested in someone else (if the rejection was in a relationship). This rejection doesn't mean that you are bad.
- They might be afraid of you. They might be afraid you'd take their job, their wife or whatever
- Maybe you ignored them before unintentionally and they are paying back.
- Maybe you hurt them without noticing and they were emotionally sensitive.
- Maybe you have interests that conflict with their own interests.
Maybe you look like someone they don't like.
- Even in job interviews these reasons can be applicable, after all, the interviewer is not from Mars but he is human and he experiences the same emotions of hatred and jealousy that humans experience

So as you can see people may hate you or reject you for different reasons that aren't by any means related to your worth. If you want to deal with rejection and get over it then it's time to know that your self-worth is not measured by the opinion of others.
Even if the whole world rejected you still you are worthy. Don't change yourself to please others else you will lose your self confidence.
You won't be able to deal with rejection before you document your strengths and weaknesses. You must know yourself well or you'll end up allowing people to tell you who you are.

You must know what you can really do instead of letting people tell you false facts about yourself. This can result in creating false beliefs that will only limit your potential. Go now and document you strengthens and weaknesses so that you prevent others from telling you who you are.

Did that help?

Source: https://web.facebook.com/forum9ja/posts/1169389969789468

achinaboy:
your expectations are high,u need to step it down a little, maybe the wife u are looking for could be under your nose, above all,u sounds like a nice guy,and u will always be a nice guy, so to be able to really understand women more, u need to forget about marriage for now, try and date as many women as possible,this will help u to understand that there is no better woman outthere, it will surelly help u in ur decision.

Thanks for your advice.. Infact, you just described me..My problem is time factor.. Not that I don't have it cos i am self employed and I work from home. I think i am selfish with my time...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nef1rixO1j0

jaymichael:
Na cap Awolowo wear.

The question is , is Mimiko not from south west? is he not a PDP member? Why is it only Fayose that is always shouting and complaining like a loose dog.. Southwest dont breed bastard like Fayose..

Please, don't quote me unless if you are Mimiko or Fayose

chericleo:
I wonder y good people most tyms com across bad people. Pray for direction. There are good gals everywhere dear, and these gals are looking for gud guys too. And not every gal is after ur wealth som just need ur time and heart.

Do not get me wrong, i didn't say all the ladies but majority. I have tasted real love before and i know it felt. Just that these days, it is hard to find the right partner

bukitt:
Lol I was in 9ja last year after many years n only spent 3 months, na so so stories everywhere, I begin solve people problem like say I be buhari o lol on d third month nobody tell me na, I just dust my slippers naso I pianty o. I noticed nobody is sincerely n straightforward in 9ja, na mech worse pass, even d nearest person wan knife from u n they don't even care all cos of say u come from abroad. And let me get this straight, if u've read my thread on here n you're contactin me, I use God beg u, add ur pic in ur dp n if u also know that u're not serious or u're lookin for ur mugu, I use OGHENE ELEDUMARE CHUKWU OSANOBUA UBANGIJI beg u, just move to d next person biko nunu

Me no spend reach 2 months before I piaun.. Everybody want something from you but they are not ready to help you in anyway unless if they are going to see something from it...Same mentality with the wailers and zombies.. How can you be supporting someone who never know you exist, somebody you never benefitted from and they keep on abusing themselves online..I decided not to show face during during Xmas cos na so so billing everybody wan bill you.. The moment you stop giving them, you will definitely become a bad person

bukitt:
u're just speakin my mind bro, even here wey I dey sef loneliness wan kill person cos say I no gree to put just any woman for house. Can u imagine stayin all by urself in a 3bedroom flat in a condominium with one one to talk to, it's either from watchin tv to ur lappy or play with ur phone, same shit arrday lol n also bein that I don't like to be with just any woman, I don see many foreigners but I dun want la cos all they're after is a hard black cock n I don't have any sperm or time to waste at all. But when person come reach 9ja to find that special one them go just dey use a whole guy man like atm machine. This time na just to park car for one corner dey trek or use keke napep o. I know d God who found Mary for Joseph would not let me down this time.

Bro it is better to be single and happy than be engaged and sad.. This is not about ladies, it is about Nigerians orientation about things.. You can never have a straight 2 hours chat or talk with majority of Nigerians without them billing/taxing you. They always have problem. Both men and female and i wonder how they reason as if na only dem get problem.. I was chatting with a brother some months ago.. He started narrating like 3 years back problem at the end of the day, na money go end am.. The most annoying part of it was he insisted to drop his account number and I should send him money the next day.. Just imagine reasoning.

Berlyn:
what i do baba??

I just dey hail you ni ooo...

Berlyn:
eaya Torri

dem don dey show face...Like dem dem

beesammy:
Ladies will garnish fraud and package it to you as 'love'. The honest truth is, Nigerian girls (majority) are after money/material things.

Gbam.. no two ways about that.. And the majority of the guys are after sex

hungryboy:
Na this kind topics dey confuse me,
Oga Op, you dey ask question abi you dey find answer?,
Or na your life story you just wan tell us?

All of the above..lol

bukitt:
I suppose we're on d same page bro, and now that I'm planing my trip to 9ja soon I'm wondering how it might turn out in terms of findin that special one. It really baffles me why I'm still single.

Oh lawwd help from all these 9ja karashikas this time.

My broda, no be small thing oo.. Money is not everything.. But i have come to realised that in life, you can't have it all at the same time.

bobeefc:
How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

I am in my early 30's and you?

I must be honest with myself, life has been so good to me no doubt about that. I have always enjoying the kind of person I am becoming... But I have been single for years now, which I am not happy about.. though so many factors contributed to that.

I had a very lovely past relationship. No cheating, no lies, no demanding everything was just perfect but we couldn't worked our differences cos I traveled a lot. I always pray for her wherever she is now for God to just provide her with a good husband. She is just too good I must confess.

Some months ago, I decided to go into a relationship but I was hurt. She is a Liar, cheater and manipulator..

Having experienced sweet/perfect relationship, I called it a quit and pretended as if nothing ever happened between us. Though she still troubles me on a daily basis but I told her bluntly that I can never go into a relationship with her again.. Why would she cheats on me when I am 100% faithful ( yes I mean that). Cheating is not my way, lying is not my stuff, though I may not be perfect but I still tried my possible best to make her happy. Still she never appreciated that. I guess she is just appreciating me now and it is too late.

I always get so many admirers whenever I am out. Some are my choices of ladies, some are not but for the fact that I am outside my country, i do not want to commit myself into a relationship that has no future.

My wish is to marry my country woman.. Tribe or religion is not my problem but the problem is where am I going to meet the lady.

I realised majority of Nigerian girls are after materials things. My last visit to Nigeria, I tried my possible best to find myself attached with some ladies. For the fact that I live in abroad, things they are demanding are just outrageous.. Though there are so many good ladies out there but how am I going to meet them? For now, Nigeria is not a country for me to stay unless if we want to pretend to ourselves. If you are not averagely rich, Nigerian is an hell.

sarutobie:
false! we have one common enemy, ourselves....

You are wrong.. If our politiians have a positive mind towards her citizen, things would have been better by now.. Obasanjo was a president for good 8 years, his state benefit nothing from his reign. Who would you blame? Obasanjo or his people?

You were walking down the street, nothing was unusual and then suddenly she came out from a nearby shop and it happened that you fell in love with her at the first sight! Huhh!! What happened?!!

The answer is simple, its all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not in a relationship then your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner. Even if you think that you don't care about relationships now still you will fall in love with the first person who matches your criteria.

Each one of us has got some kind of a check list stored into his mind which includes the criteria that a person must meet in order for you to love him. If a person didn't match some of the items in this list then he becomes disqualified to be a potential partner and you will think of him as a friend. The items in your check list are of course unique and specific to you depending on your background, values, past experiences and beliefs.

The following is an example of the first three lines of a check list of a guy called Sam. Sam is a guy and his list starts with the following three conditions:

Item one: She must have the same educational background as mine.
Item two: Her hair must be yellow (Sam always failed to establish successful relationships with blonds in his past and so his subconscious mind included this item in his list in order to help him compensate for his past failures)
Item Three:She must be assertive. Sam wasn't an assertive person and since we get attracted to those who have what we need therefore Sam's mind included this item in his criteria.

If Sam is currently not in a relationship and then he met an amazing girl who has black hair then most likely he won't fall in love with her (without understanding that the real reason he didn't love her is that she didn't match his subconscious criteria).

People are usually unaware of their subconscious criteria and that's why they usually describe love as a mysterious thing that follows no rules but the truth is that when they become aware of their subconscious criteria they will be able to know why they fall in love with certain people and not others.

Once you become aware of your own list you will know how to stop loving someone and how to make someone fall in love with you.

That's why people who think that the "the one" or the "soul mate" concept is true never recover from breakups. Those people think that there is only one match for their criteria in this world and because they aren't aware of the fact that there are hundreds of people out there who could meet their criteria they never recover from breakups.

You can fall in love with any person as long as he matches your subconscious criteria and that's why you should never feel bad after a breakup, simply because sooner or later you will find another person who matches your criteria and he may even be better than the first one.

Does love at the first sight really exist?
Yes it does. If someone met your unconscious criteria the same moment you saw him then most probably you will fall in love with him at the first sight.

You might be asking yourself, how can i know that he meets my criteria while i never talked to him before? The answer is simple, the criteria might include items like the way he walks, talks or looks at you.

This could also happen if the person's actions or looks reminded you of someone you loved before (people usually fall in love with those who are similar to the ones they loved before).

If your criteria depends heavily on looks then your chance of falling in love at the first sight will be much higher than that of a person who gives higher priority to personality or other qualities.


Source: www.facebook.com/forum9ja