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FamilyRe: What Is In A Marriage? by ariblaze(op): 3:16pm On Aug 24, 2011
@N101


i am pass the age marker a few years in sef. . . .its the strong hints i am choosing to ignore now jare

btw in depth write , made sense



@ronkebp . . . thumbs up




but to you both i dont feel such a person exist
FamilyRe: What Is In A Marriage? by ariblaze(op): 12:18pm On Aug 24, 2011
harakiri:
From a man's perspective, there's nothing in marriage most especially in today's "civilized" social construct. Gender "equality"/the feminazi movement have killed the essence of marriage. Most people who get married today are in it for the wrong reasons e.g they are old enough,they have the finance,they want kids,they want to please society,their religion dictates it,for sex, etc. When the temporary euphoria elapses, it's only a matter of time before reality sets in. You can have company,sex and kids without marriage. Nuff said!
@harakiri

i am inclined to agree with you, but i am not sure i feel disposed thus because i am a man sha, . .i most likely may feel the same way even if i were a woman
FamilyRe: What Is In A Marriage? by ariblaze(op): 12:16pm On Aug 24, 2011
stillwater:
Ariblaze!!! Remember me? cheesy

Anyway I think marriage is a beautiful thing.
I've always had some weird inclination to be single (maybe it was me just being rebellious) until something happened. tongue
Why must we marry? Quick question, are you adverse to cohabitation the way you are to marriage?
No matter how you see it, all living things are here to reproduce according to my biology teacher. grin What better way for a human to produce viable offspring if not in a functional home. . .hence marriage?

I don't think they've met the right person, or maybe they have a lot of horror stories around them and that have triggered the negative feelings towards marriage.
lol sure remember you . . . .you arent easy to forget . . . lol

i use to believe in the ''right person'' theory . . . .but how can you have a right person when you arent the person's right person?

there are horror stories of bikers crashing almost on the monthly. . doesnt stop me from jumping on mine and throttling down
FamilyWhat Is In A Marriage? by ariblaze(op): 9:03pm On Aug 23, 2011
this is a spin off from a thread currently up about an abusive spouse

and at the same time a summation of my thoughts


what is in a marriage?

why must we marry,is it wrong not to do so?

is being single a curse or in logical terms :irresponsibility?

and why are more youths favorably disposed towards remaining single?





your thoughts please as this is somewhat becoming a trend
FamilyRe: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by ariblaze(m): 8:03pm On Aug 22, 2011
harakiri:
Not to digress the topic but there are times when i look at my age,status,accomplishments and the army of people trying to talk me into "getting married" and i wonder : WHAT'S THE POINT? I mean, it could be good during the dating period and a few years after marriage and then what? Hmmm? I start getting nagged to death all because of how "she feels". I can't get a good night's sleep all because i am "insensitive" to her needs a.k.a i refuse to allow her manipulate me. Everything secret about me becomes open conversation to her family and friends. I have to do unreasonable and unthinkable things just to make her "happy". My entire life MUST revolve all around her all because i was stoopid enough to sign the dotted lines. I look 10 years older than my real age in 3 years all because of unnecessary stress. Is that a life worth living? Hmmm?
omo i tire oooo
single is the new fad now
i turn a deaf ear when anyone talks to me about marriage
FamilyRe: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by ariblaze(m): 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2011
no be the yeye laws in UK that shackled the parents, teachers and even police created the past riots ?
well the rate of marital violence hasn't escalated just yet. . . trip is this bros you can never win. . .never and we humans are a very funny bunch. . .we went from extreme(denying women their rights) to another extreme (giving them all the rights in the world) how do we hope to function in such a society?

i don't believe any gender is prone to violence , it is more of a personality thing. . . , . . . . .the honest truth is this free the woman, you will end up doing both of you a world of good . . .if she misses marriage she would ensure not to treat the next guy that comes her way like a dishwasher and you my good sir will get to have your life back. . . .i never would imagine there would be a good time to ever say this but BOY AM I GLAD YOU GUYS DONT HAVE KIDS TOGETHER. . .should make it easier for you
FamilyRe: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by ariblaze(m): 4:54pm On Aug 22, 2011
funkybaby:
biko, which one be career bachelor again  undecided
explain pls
meaning i choose not to ever get married
FamilyRe: My Wife And I Have Fought Again And I Think I Want Out by ariblaze(m): 4:40pm On Aug 22, 2011
@poster

i of recent have adopted the skool of thought that marriage does more harm than good,i am a career bachelor(not to say there are no good women i just cant be bothered anymore) anyways you need to exit that marriage.folks would pressure you, they will use God to beg you etc but my brother comot the marriage leave issue.it isnt worth it and i do know how it feels reining in your temper, the scary thing is this what happens if you snap? you will probably kill her and wind up in jail. . . . no woman is worth that trust me . . . .walk away, live your life , hell pay a woman to give you babies and be on her merry way or better yet adopt one.

it is no longer a crime to be single, male or female and i am an advocate for the single life, make good friends and live your life well
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AutosRe: Power Bikes Imported From Ghana In Good Condition And Very Affordable by ariblaze(m): 5:53pm On Apr 09, 2011
gaussy your bikes look clean good one . . .

btw i have being riding for 11years now

and thus feel i am within my limits to offer advice


any helmet that goes for less than 30k isnt reliable
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can You Answer This Interview Question? 199 Applicants Tried But Failed It! by ariblaze(m): 9:53am On Jan 06, 2011
simple actually


give your friend the car keys to take the old woman

you get down and remain with your life partner
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 10:40am On Dec 24, 2010
fellas is this thread dead?
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 9:19am On Nov 19, 2010
dude wrong thread
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 8:28am On Nov 06, 2010
where is everyone?
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 12:48pm On Oct 31, 2010
gay9 bring it on
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 12:59pm On Oct 30, 2010
ok i can see the loony babies have finally grown up

like owls who dominate a small part of the forest ,thus start to think they rule the skies above the jungle

i am a freaking god . . . .eti po to

i would eat you all up in one swoop, funny thing. . .would still be hungry for more

because i drink zobo now doesn't mean i still don't have a thirst for blood(your blood, if need be)

i gave you guys room , because like chicks there is noting to be gained from trying to make a meal out of you

waste of my bloody time. . . . .due to my marrying the cloak of harmlessness ,you cockroaches really think you can play catch with god.


i dont even know where to start. . . . .its been a while, if any of you pawns feel lucky step to the plate. . . even my being rant rusty wont spare you the poo filled fate that awaits you




gay9- dethroned. . . . . .you confuse me for a puny little human like you. . . . . i own the throne ,the throne is an extension of me

btw: nice happy rant though


sisikill. . . . . . you madam will always be that clueless

vesc. . . . .you try too hard

blu. . . . . .need i say more


for the peeps i dint mention their names. . . . its on purpose(gimmie a good reason to recognize you in the house of rant)
Jokes EtcWhat Will You Do. . ? by ariblaze(op): 6:50pm On Oct 26, 2010
how will you react

what will you say?

how will you feel?

LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 6:26pm On Oct 26, 2010
wey everyone!!!!!!!
LiteratureRe: My Book Of Rants! by ariblaze(op): 2:23pm On Oct 25, 2010
@Ejadamen

nope that wasnt a rant


that was me taking you lil wannbe humans to school
RomanceRe: Nigeria Guys Are Cheap, Hungry And Gold Diggers by ariblaze(m): 1:57pm On Oct 24, 2010
the pistols are never far away in the romance/sexuality section

gah!!. . . .missed the madness in here




@ poster

you became an object of what you are speaking against (generalizing )

you do know,most men wont support you nor see reason with you(even if its just to tick you off)

as a matter of fact i am replying outta boredom

next time,be a lil sensitive in your delivery

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