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Romance › Re: Does It Matter If A Girl Dates A Younger Guy? by ariblaze(m): 11:16pm On Mar 31, 2008
its not supposed to matter

atleast to a certain degree not to me

as long as the girl in not more than give or take 4years from my age
Romance › Re: What Do Men Want by ariblaze(m): 11:06pm On Mar 31, 2008
That is sooooo cliché
Romance › Re: What Do Men Want by ariblaze(m): 10:53pm On Mar 31, 2008
Cassiel:
Men are your basic humans(no offence intended guys wink ). Good food and good sex come first.

After those,they want

An honest woman,one they can trust with all their secrets.
An intelligent woman
An understanding woman(anti-nag)
A financially prudent woman
A companion
A woman who knows how to take care of their ego(make him feel like 'the' man always)
in as much as the male in me would refuse the first part

am inclined to grudgingly agree
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 9:18pm On Mar 31, 2008
Touché

but unlike you i wasnt beating down the female gender

was trying to pass a point that

its not only men that loot the nation

with respect to
herod and his queen

what happened to them at the end of the day?

herod

was eaten by maggots alive!!!
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 8:58pm On Mar 31, 2008
one or two bad eggs you say?

or the ones unfortunate to be made public

Needlelady:
Equality does not mean that men should lack respect for women.
does allowing you win an Argument signify respect

or patronage huh
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 8:51pm On Mar 31, 2008
Needlelady:
What happened to ladies first in your world? Women should have the last say in every argument.
lol

this takes us back to the double standards again

why cant ladies make up their minds

is it Chivalry or equality

that you want? grin

but since am nice you may have the last day

but knowing you

it would bore you tongue
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 8:49pm On Mar 31, 2008
@ Needlelady

you aint being objective again

have you forgotten so

quickly the hairdresser turned speaker

iyabo obasanjo right now

may God forgive me

stella obasanjo also died trying to ,
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 8:40pm On Mar 31, 2008
3viso:
@ariblaze
Brother I know sey na only me and you gree sey we ugly but we know whaazz up.
lol

i used to think sooo

but my guy i fine no be small

ask my granma tongue

@reloaded

refer to the above answer grin

what constitutes familiy apart from the biological
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 8:16pm On Mar 31, 2008
@Needlelady

no pun intended

but you seem rather one track minded with respect to this

i need you to be objective

but if by your last stament you mean we should veiw both sexes from the same angle

then am in complete agreement

@stillwater

truer words havent being spoken grin

@reloaded
[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=123695.msg2109582#msg2109582 date=1206989989]na naira I wan die for?

or dollar? or the ugly euro? Abeg, be quiet jare.[/quote]agreed you can't die for naira,yen, euro, dollars pounds, cedis

and from your previous posts i am inclined to believe

but then pray tell what would you die for?
Romance › Re: What Do Men Want by ariblaze(m): 8:00pm On Mar 31, 2008
what do men want?

the need to be percieved in a dominant role by those around us

funny enough the woman from time Immemorial have always had the answer to this question
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 7:56pm On Mar 31, 2008
@stillwater

na lie?
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 7:56pm On Mar 31, 2008
3viso:
I'm done with all these yawning of ladies about men when ugly women out there outnumbered the pretty once.



you would spark off a debate with this
Romance › Re: Characteristics Of Smart Daters by ariblaze(m): 7:51pm On Mar 31, 2008
smart daters?

or playas?
Romance › Re: What Do Women Really Want? by ariblaze(m): 7:49pm On Mar 31, 2008
ask mel gibson(lol)

but if i were to answer

i would say someone who understands them

and their constant need for change and approval

(funny enuff its not different from what we men what too)

its just that they(women) are much in touch with their feelings and require an obvious need of acceptance
Romance › Re: Am I In Love? by ariblaze(m): 7:44pm On Mar 31, 2008
topilobaba:
Sinthia,what are you talking about.Its unfair of you to say that.Talk to me on 08028581761 or text me
WTF is this?

cant you guys just resist the urge to be this::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::












Desperate huh
Romance › Re: Would You End A Beautiful Relationship Over Religious Differences? by ariblaze(m): 7:40pm On Mar 31, 2008
@aisha2

i wont go as far as saying mixed religons

in relationships wont work

but its such a tall order
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 7:28pm On Mar 31, 2008
@Needlelady

your rejoinder to my earlier statements

just proves
that double standards is indeed a virus amongst both genders

you just showed your picky nature too

dont you have a bit of flab just by the belly?

your nose might just be too pointed too

and you wont be hurt if a guy simply refuses to date you cos you dont have a car,you are too timid,or too outspoken?

you might say kitten rules and i wont contest

but the crystal truth

everyone has a Prejudiced veiw with respect to something?


am sure most women wont find it romatic if whoopi goldberg was the main character in a romance movie(why cos she is not fine)ebven the ugly ones wont want it

likewise most men wont suffer danny devito as the lead chahracter is a show of masculinity movie(but truth be told not all of us can be the brad pitts,tyson bedfords of this world)

the best we can do is to develop an intresting and arresting aura

and hope people like hotfunmi(ooops)Needlelady wont castigate u







i rest:::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
Literature › Re: Which Novels Can You Read Over And Over Like The First Time? by ariblaze(m): 7:13pm On Mar 31, 2008
anne rice's interveiw with the vampiremand vampire lestat

jeffrey archer's honour amongst thieves
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 6:24am On Mar 31, 2008
dating plumpy women is an aquired taste smiley
which suprisingly quite a few of us nigerian men

have a crave for ,

no stillwater

i agree with you they aint ostracized
Romance › Re: Who Is A Real Man by ariblaze(m): 6:17am On Mar 31, 2008
ma bad then wink
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 5:55am On Mar 31, 2008
hmmmmmmmmmm

belive me i would never have figured that out grin
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 5:54am On Mar 31, 2008
hmmmmmmmmmm

belive me i would never have figured that out grin
Romance › Re: Who Is A Real Man by ariblaze(m): 5:52am On Mar 31, 2008
was attracted to this topic because, I am presently getting over heartbreak from a just ended relationship. To help me deal with the pain I’d read a lot of books which include THE MASCULINE JOURNEY by Robert Hicks, from which the points above were almost totally condensed. Funnily I had started a thread here HEAL-A-HEART to help me deal with the pain and I was surprised that a lot of people hold the assumption that real men don’t cry which is one of the many fallacies society (especially women) holds about real men (not that I am laying any claim to being one o!).
whatever happened

to going out with the fellas

to ease the heart break, now people read books to get over heartbreaks?

get over heartbreak books hmmmm,,,,

and why the advert of the thread you are starting?

or is solicting an attribute of a real man?
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 11:16pm On Mar 30, 2008
so spicy, with an african thang

or any spice would do?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Fans: Identify Yourselves Here (Old) by ariblaze(m): 11:09pm On Mar 30, 2008
i am a staunch fan

but i also like to consider myself an objective football observer

with respects to AG , he is the worst thing that ever happened to chelsea

that guy lacks ideas(constructive or Destructive)

he hesitates to make changes and when he does :::::it leaves one with a bitter after taste

JM:::::had his faults but positive play had always being one of his strong points
i remember back then i always had this feeling that we would always win and whenever we lose it feels unreal

the man's only crime

his panache, the fact that he dared to be different and his style of game wasnt entertaining

if we want chelsea to stop that pattern general team overhaul has to take place
Romance › Re: Am I In Love? by ariblaze(m): 10:54pm On Mar 30, 2008
i could be wrong ooo

but shouldnt we be the ones asking

you that question huh
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 10:48pm On Mar 30, 2008
lol

meat huh?

so how do you like it done

meduim rare or fully done
Romance › Re: Double Standards From Men by ariblaze(m): 10:39pm On Mar 30, 2008
i think the title of your post should be:

double standards for all


Most guys I met last month in Naija needs to visit the gym and tune up because  they look like , aaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrgghhh eeeeewwwww, so nasty.
this indicates you also being judgmental on physique

A woman that sleeps around is popularly known as a LovePeddler while a man that does the same is known as a playa.
agreed this is somewhat the fad with men

but how about the standards meted on men by woman?

aaw he isnt rich enough(meanwhile some of this ladies can barely rub two coins together)

he doesnt have a car(does she?)

he is not a fine boy,and if he is fine you would wish he werent soo fine so you wont have to fend off others

he doesnt have abs like 50cents or tyrese(her figure is exactly halle'berry's)

i don't like his day old beard Subtle (shave you legs)

he drinks too much(you eat two much chocolate)


get my drift::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::?



we are all subject to double standards
Literature › Re: Anne Rice's The Vampire Chronicles by ariblaze(op): 8:23pm On Mar 30, 2008
oook silly thanks grin
Romance › Re: How Do U Get A Guy To Open Up? by ariblaze(m): 8:02pm On Mar 30, 2008
Have you

Ever heard of temperaments ?

Pragmatic ,melancholy, choleric,and the impossible sanguine wink

am sure your guy

is a combination of the first two,

learn to be comfortable with his silence and soon enuff you would everything you need to know about him

but if that dont work

try
morenike09 's method wink
Literature › Anne Rice's The Vampire Chronicles by ariblaze(op): 7:35pm On Mar 30, 2008
the chronicles is a six, book story

i have book one(interveiw with the vampire)

and book two(vampire lestat)

please anyone with an idea of where i can get the remaining books

i have checked everywhere

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