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Are you the one about to commit adultery or she? Are you also married?

All that long epistle? Just for the woman's breast? You funny sha Op, which one be health benefits again?

Looks to me like you've already decide to give in, it's your life sweetheart. The problem I see here is that you've got the wrong reason for keeping yourself, I'm guessing you are in your twenties. If I can control myself for a decade despite all the shits going on in this world then the word 'compromise' is gibberish to me. Is he the only one with urges? You wish to screw his brains out just as much! Abegi, he's no victim.

What a wierd question, who are they suppose to like?

I shake my head for her. Look around madam, there will always be beautiful ladies out there. If her hubby can't stick to one, there's barely anything she can do. I have never liked women with maids except for few cases, many are just lazy things.

This is long na. Makes sense though, I wonder why you would do that to your fellow woman. To be a second wife is even better to me.

VenusEAGLE:
you probably missed the part where I mentioned age. .

I read the part, just curious, why strawberry in particular?

bidemib:
But you know it's that sin is sin, she slept with a married man, and you've most likely lied before, same thing...

I'm guessing you're a christian. Well, in my religion, there are major and minor sins. Hers is big time MAJOR! The most funny thing is she thinks it's no big deal, like it's normal.

Demibi005:
You've never slept with a married man?
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.
I can bet you one way or the other, that your husband is cheating on you or eventually will, no matter how Christian you think he is.
It's the lounge that matters. I never stopped him from loving his wife. He was always there for her.
He liked me but loved his wife.
I asked for advice, not insult. Have nothing to say?shutting up is much better

I was not going to get involve in any of these shits until I read the 'stone' part. Guess what? Not every one is as awful as you are so I definitely cast the first stone.

VenusEAGLE:
I think it depends on where you wanna go and age wise. I will suggest if you are both below the age range of 20 just do normal hang out stuff so that she won't be too expectant and you too won't be trying hard to impress her. I will suggest you find a location of a good Cinema and visit place together.
Take a Little stroll and if possible buy her suya (if you can buy her strawberry juice it will make her supper happy ), take time to tell her how much she means to you. It should not cost you upto 5k

Abeg, which one be strawberry juice again? Any special reason?

People are funny sha! Why should drop his friend because he had slept with his girlfriend before? Wo O jare Op, na you get the decision to make. Since you're not marrying a virgin, you know that someone's been there before na.

BlackAdam55:
what the meaning of Lo ba tan

It's Finished. Like this topic has already been sort out..... that's what I think sha.

Good Lord! This kind matter never tire you? Many of the guys say they no want virgin, a lot of people agree that body count no matter as long as the character is good. Lo ba tan!

Dear Op, I like how you think. Ladies like you are rare, the truth is shits happens either we want it to happen or not. Why should I get an headache because of a man? I don't plan on staying at home doing nothing so why bother. Like you said, if the sex is not lacking, he takes care of our kids, does not beat me up and other neccesary things, then I'm good to go. Life is too short abeg, more importantly my children are my focus.

Ooh! Why are you telling her to stop. Some ladies are destined for this na. Wo! Continue O jare, as the long as you are the 'other woman', wetin concern me?

You mean you've been on nairaland since 11 years old?! How corrupt you must be now! All the same sha, age with beauty.

Move on please, let her be and both of you will find the right person.

Pearl05:
What kind of solution are you looking for? Please give the woman money to go register for antenatal . you have 8 months to prepare the ground for the arrival of your baby. Make sure you don't stress the mother.

Carry wine and some elders go pay for bride's price. Congratulations.

Inform us once the baby is born. Some of us will come for visit.

I taya for him oh. Abortion, he talk say conscience no go gree, marriage is not an option. Abeg bros, wetin you want self?

I don't blame you but that girlfriend of yours. Anyways, I would say keep it, babies are sometimes blessing. Moreover, you are not going to do much other than providing money and other little things.

pryme:
You are not here with us, cos if you were everything he wrote up there is as real as life.
Are you telling me you have not seen a woman give their male kids the "entitlement" mentality?

A man challenges his sons to work harder and be stronger, but most women make their sons believe they are better than every other person. Women spoil their boys with love.

Sorry, women or society and religion made the sons believe they are better than their female counterparts.

Dear sis in the lord, kontinue! Only 17? And all for love? I know you can do better, the sky is your limit. Plenty guys dey out wey need love, someone has to give the poor sods jare.