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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(f): 9:52am On Oct 30, 2018 |
IamPlato: Don't mind her. She's still naive 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by iceybux(m): 10:05am On Oct 30, 2018 |
victorian: how dumb are you... it 2018.. with proper legal documentation and no traditional buhaha... so calld lady is legally married ohk.. take note |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by ImaIma1(f): 10:06am On Oct 30, 2018 |
When i did not marry a Muslim...why would he go and marry another wife?? If he decides to do so, that means our marriage is over. If i wantedto have a co-wife, i could have married a Muslim. I won't kill him or fight him or his babe but i will make sure most of his money goes to me and the children. Whatever is left can be used for his new family. Taking care of the children is not a favour to me. He owes it to them. I will move mountains to makes sure he doesn't cheat them in every good thing they deserve. Aside that, i will move on with my life. N.B This nust hypothetical though. I don't believe such would happen to me. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by iceybux(m): 10:07am On Oct 30, 2018 |
iceybux: apologies wasnt meant for u |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by iceybux(m): 10:07am On Oct 30, 2018 |
highqueen: how dumb are you... it 2018.. with proper legal documentation and no traditional buhaha... so calld lady is legally married ohk.. take note 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by latyph(m): 10:17am On Oct 30, 2018 |
So funny how women think and talk, one thing I Know women consider in taking marital and conjugal decisions is the benefits they stand to gain. in most cases, women tends to make mouth that they won't take rubbish but that only happens if the man is not rich or well to do. If the man is rich and he is someone they can benefit from, they will endure and take any sort of rubbish even if the man brings a concubine to the matrimonial home! when they know if they leave the man they will be the one to lose more. Olusegun Obasanjo, Atiku Abubakar, King Sunny Ade, Chief MKO Abiola , Chief Raymond Dokpesi and co have at least 5 wives each and several concubines, do u think the women still staying with them are senseless? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by mrMeen(m): 10:25am On Oct 30, 2018 |
Iamgrey5:currently experiencing it right now, but make i know lie our neighbor own sweet die i think the first wife is like op and she just dey enjoy life anyhow with her kids and husband when he's around and living peacfully with her partner, if i fit get op kind i no go let go ooooo. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by MPESA(m): 10:31am On Oct 30, 2018 |
Headlesschicken: Seriously I'm speechless reading ladies comments here. What is this world , Africa ,Nigeria to be precisely turning into. See the way the way they are attacking the op , to the best of my knowledge polygamous family is not good because of the offsprings and for the peace of the family but no woman born of woman can stop a man from bringing another wife if he desire to do so EXCEPT na woman she married in man's form . My advice to any woman that get involves in such us either seek divorce or manage the circumstances but I don't advocate for divorce because is not really an option here because it's doesn't involves domestic violence YET which is inevitable in this circumstances and if not properly handle EXCEPT if managed properly.(ii)why I won't advocate divorce here is because of the kids involved to train child alone is not beans and it's has a lots of sides effects on the such children upbringing, physically, psychologically, academically emotionally etc . P.s Abeg any man weh wan marry more than one wife abeg I take God beg una make you get money wella oooo because better soup na money kill am , because you gotta be ready for separate apartments and make both the mother's and their children comfortable in every ratification for peace to reign. Also I take God beg all our ladies whom might finds their self in such a circumstances make they take am easy oooo , make una no go break or kill the man ooooo but just handle it with care because of the kids involved and no think say you go get better man outside abeg make we reason well. At aspects of thinking positive and confessing positives according to some people with die hard Christians mind abeg life no bi like that oooo sometimes na life dhey give us wetin its has for us with the permission of OUR LORD just the way he did with story of JOB but na we go they Ask God for divine directions and Grace to comes out victoriously at the end because trials must surely come our way that's why we are Christian but our abilities to handle it matters and also defined us as TRUE CHRIST-A-LIKE. SHALOM. 8 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by highqueen(f): 10:40am On Oct 30, 2018 |
iceybux:I responded according to his mention. He didn't go through this extent while quoting me. If there was legal documents then, the Lady is.validated. BTW, learn to comment without insult. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by SmellingAnus(m): 11:00am On Oct 30, 2018 |
I agree with you... There is no need killing yourself or giving yourself BP because of a man/husband... Victorian... There are at least two types of views regarding issues like this... we have the view that sounds rational on social media and we also have another view that is realistic in nature... I have seen someone advise another one to leave a particular relationship but she herself its in a worse relationship and she is still holding on... In all... just be happy as much as possible... These days even many married women cheat not to talk of their male counterparts... 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by victorian(f): 11:16am On Oct 30, 2018 |
SmellingAnus: I like the bolded In reality all these women making mouth, will stay put! They think it's easy training and taking care of kids alone ? Then paying house rent join. Them go taya. I don't have the energy working my mind to a pulp cos of husband, biko. I grew up having the best of life and I was even the favorite child amongst the young crew in the family. My dad loved me to a fault. My siblings too had rosy life's when our dad was alive. It was indeed rosy. Every child in my family were trained to university and hnd level. We were all catered for well. So for me, I ain't going nowhere as long as he still fulfils his responsibilities. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 11:22am On Oct 30, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You deserve a kiss 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by chiommy123(f): 11:27am On Oct 30, 2018 |
Truth is it's not everyone that can stay in such relationship. Women should work hard have their own savings so that you don't have to always beg but can take care of your kids if he wants to mess up 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by SmellingAnus(m): 11:30am On Oct 30, 2018 |
victorian: |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Biingoo: 12:01pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
highqueen:She never marry yet naw... |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by wategehu: 12:09pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Biingoo: 12:12pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
mrMeen:The op is a 35yrs old single and searching evening newspaper so at this stage she doesn't have a choice. She's even ready to be a third wife if possible. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by rame18(f): 12:17pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
I hope this thread is in existence in 3-5 years time so some of you can read your comments again and hate your slow and downtrodden self esteem. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by iceybux(m): 12:25pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
highqueen: sorry meant no insult... was more of a question. . still my apologies |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 12:31pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
victorian:The Esama has only one wife he really loves and dats the jamaican woman lady cherry. The other ones na belgium. He loves that woman to death ehn. Any official procedings he wan go he takes her along. Anyway just hope u get married to a guy who loves or adores u. Na when a man no too send u and im jus dey manage u thats when he looks outside for a better option. Many of these women wey their man dey play outside if u look closely most of them are not always happy and they are always lonely even if money plenty for d marriage. Dont hope to be in such a situation. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by samysmoothfresh: 12:39pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
Whenever you see two jobless housewives together, just know that they are either gossiping (most times their husbands and men in general) or planning to do one evil thing or the other now or in the future
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Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
highqueen:i will agree with a reasonable man not doing such but a God fearing man.mba ooo i no too agree with dat. Is it not in these days of being God fearing we dey hear about pastors wey dey nack their their female members even during prayer session or even pastors dat have mistresses or choir masters dat play ping pong with some female members of the choir in za oza room. Na dis benin wey i dey so i hear story about a pastor wey arrange with one married woman to meet her inside hotel room maybe for counselling or wetin wetin. No do no do d counselling develop to another game and b4 u knew it the pastor nack the woman to death. Pastor run and police begin accuse the husband of arranging with pastor to sex his wife to death. Crazy things done by these God fearing men. Only a reasonable man dat wont be crazy to engage in such. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by highqueen(f): 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
lefulefu:Lool. My dear, recent activities of the so called men of God these days is scary. Chai!!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by highqueen(f): 12:48pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
iceybux:Welcome. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 1:02pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
ImaIma1:its not every muslim guy who engages in a polygamous marriage sef. My home tutor that taught me and my younger bro wen we were little at the time he got married he just had only one wife, this man is a very devout muslim but till today he's still married with one wife and two grownup children. Polygamy na stress to a man. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by AryEmber(f): 1:08pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
Dear Op, I like how you think. Ladies like you are rare, the truth is shits happens either we want it to happen or not. Why should I get an headache because of a man? I don't plan on staying at home doing nothing so why bother. Like you said, if the sex is not lacking, he takes care of our kids, does not beat me up and other neccesary things, then I'm good to go. Life is too short abeg, more importantly my children are my focus. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 1:12pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
MPESA:these days u see gatemen,messengers and other very low income earners having 6 or 7 wives with 15 children u think say dem go listen to this advice. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by iceybux(m): 1:47pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
highqueen:gracias... can we get know berra if u mind |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:47pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
I honestly don't like Victorian's train of thoughts on this matter... But it's her life. It is statements such as the type she's making on this thread that encourage men to cheat. Once, a man boldly told me that if he cheats, he expects his wife to pray that he changes...and not confront the other lady or start giving him troubles at home. He said he sees no reason why she should complain as long as he meets her financial needs in the house. Cam you imagine the impunity? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 3:12pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
yeyerolling:Exactly. Why get married? Marriage is overrated. I can't deal. |
Re: Ladies, What's Your Take On It by Nobody: 3:34pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
victorian: Dats y we need 2 encourage our girl child /woman 2 work hard, if u re single get a source of income no matter hw small it is b4 u get married nd if u re married ask ur husband 2 establish u, don't become a full house wife... cos of these nonsense men do, ur frnd's mother was a full time house wife imagine ur frnd taking a loan 2 establish a business 4 her something she would have told d husband 2 do 4 her when d love was sweet 4 dem.Now tell me assuming she has something doing years bk she wouldn't have become a burden 2 d children....Enough been said single girls get a source of income, no matter hw small it is(i.e independent) married woman ask ur husband 2 establish u if not 4 anything @lest 2 support him 2 Likes |
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