jagorinho:

i would like you to find an avenue as quickly as possible to make yourself happy, you owe yourself that, i am not interested in how your marriage works but from the look of things you are not happy and your happiness are tied to individuals ( which is very bad). you can still get yourself back, my plight is try and be composed, try and get your happiness back, even if you have to get psychological evaluation, get it!!! because when you are happy others things in your life fits in so easily like a simple puzzle,
let me end like this....
1. Never take a girl introduced to you by a male folk too seriously, most times they are only good for entertainment
2. you are in total control of your happiness, do not let it be controlled by individuals, no matter how close they are to you.

lefulefu:
he will get hurt the same way... Weda she's nacking ur best friend or an ex who is not ur friend behind ur back the guy will still get hurt over the issue the same way. Anyway a married woman who cheats on her hubby always give out singnals which a husband who is smart can use to figure out that his wife is cheating..except if the husband is too dull he cant figure it out.

obekediamondfuto:



he "MIGHT" get hurt the same way.....

the same duration nko?
the same reaction nko?

when it's someone u know too well., like a family member or close relation.... the reaction might not be the same.... even if u try to be civil about it, u cannot just help but think u played a passive role in that engagement.... and also the ripple effect across all other friends /family members!

and the vexation lasts longer because u still have memories of this family member/ friend.

when it's a total stranger.... it is totally different.

lemme give u a valid scenario.....

wifey sleeping with boss( stranger) vs wifey sleeping with younger brother or father (close member).
ponder on this and tell me if u will react the same!

PS this has no connection with the topic sha....

this one is continuing education.... wifey still doing the do....

way back home, there is this young guy that heard that his wife was sleeping with his young dad..... long story short.... he later caught them in the act.... wifey couldn't hold herself amidst the whole dilemma......

till date they are still looking for the guy.... we know he didn't commit suicide....

lefulefu:

haba! a wife sleeping with ur brother or cousin thats total abomination
breaking up with such a woman should be non negotiable

Fourwinds:
when God decided to destroy the world with water, was Noah part of those destroyed?

obekediamondfuto:


it's almost the same as a friend.... true friend....

I have a true friend that I consider more like a brother...


so imagine that.....

anyways... those of us that do pray... let's pray to always be a the helm of affairs and avoid such encounters..... those that don't.... my brother..... na only hope oh

cos wetin we dey take eyes see these days ehn....even wifey no sure again like before...
only a select few are worth trying the knot with!

QueenSuccubus:



Just be reminded that u are marrying her coz of her attitude and not that loose hole between her legs..

In the Philippines eehn.. there's this woman who had 16children from her first husband sha. But when her husband died due to the altercation, her husband's friend who is a single guy with no kids at all marry her and had 8 more kids with her

AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER

SonsOfLiverpool:
Let us not act wild.... when you answer me then, I will have time to respond to your question.

victorian:


Some men do not deserve a good wife. They don't. God will give them a good woman, they will use selfish wicked attitude to drive her away.

frozen70:
If you love her and you know she is what makes you happy

Go ahead and marry her

Then drop your old friends and make new friends

Thinkfree:
I can't try that, the woman I was supposed to marry early this year cheated on me with her so called friend, so we broke up. Now the guy is planning to marry her but from march 2018 to yesterday have kolonbied her for at least 20 sweet times.

edydeyemi:

Haunty, you haff vex o.

Saff:
You know what I mean lol

SmellingAnus:
my dear i dey fine o... send me message on whatsapp

Rubbiish:

hmmm...
Do We still have virgin women in nigeria?

QueenSuccubus:



Sorry but I changed phone & i didnt saved any numba sha..

Let's do the old school --- BBM

generationz:


same way if her ex who isn't her Hubby's friend pops back she is likely to fall if she lacks self control.


what scares guys most is the feeling that the friend has already seen the ladys unclothedness

On that case I can't advice the man to do it if he won't be comfortable with it.

edictng:
Once debe

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Once debe

galantjoe:
Every one is against the op marrying a girl being f*ck by his friends, if that is the case, every one that commented must have married or will marry virgins. Impossible. As for me it is all about finding a nice woman that loves you and understand you. Forget about the past, every one gets past. So go ahead to marry her, she has more to prove in term of love than a virgin who believes she deserves more love and care.

i rest my case.

romunu:
If my ex is your wife and them tell you say I de your house, you no go nearly die where you de?

We all have our pasts, some are manageable while others are very complex. You love this lady so much, she is the best you have ever seen, but you discovered your close friend slept with her so much in the past. Will you still go ahead to marry her?

Ghostmode2two:
My fifty scent advice is no. A woman is like horse and any man who have rode her previously can ride her again

juche:
I don't see any issue with it. Is all about our mindsets. I actually did it and is better off with it. I actually married my twin's ex. Before I married her, I actually discussed my intentions withy twin who s already married to another lady then and he gave his full consent. He told me she's a good girl and that their separation is from him. She left him when he got the present wife pregnant. She refused vehemently initially but my persistence and assurance that I have no issue with her past finally won her. We have been married for five years and has 3 wonderful boys. She has been the best thing that has happened to me. I have never for one day feel any how about it. I don't care what anybody thinks. I am a happy man, my marriage is one of the best and my family is good. If u marry a woman that's not a virgin, difintely u know, that somebody has been there before u whether u know the person or not. Is a personal thing anyway.

edictng:
Once debe