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BusinessRe: Good Business Transaction Done On Nairaland With A Nairalander by ashson: 12:19pm On Feb 21, 2013
where can i get a trustworthy agent to process my visa to china?
FamilyRe: One-year-old Baby Bites Snake To Death by ashson: 5:23pm On Feb 19, 2013
lucky for him, if the snake was poisonous it would have been the other way round.
PhonesRe: Open Letter To NCC On Data Bundle Cost by ashson: 2:49pm On Feb 19, 2013
U mean u dnt even know about this NCC. they dont have time for u, infact may b they use to get their commission from these companies. imagine they even stopped the companies from giving bonuses, it now goes straight to NCC account.








Now WHO is Fooling WHO?...
ComputersRe: Is Your Glo BIS Still Working On Your PC? by ashson: 2:20pm On Feb 19, 2013
As far as i am concerned, glo bis is not a cheat. because even if u subscribe today and download up to 3gb data, dats all, u nid to subscribe again. and again, didnt u buy the 3gb or it was for freehuh
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nimc 2012/2013 Interview by ashson: 1:25am On Feb 19, 2013
kulgee001: Who got Unilorin for 23rd? What did you apply for?
i have a brother that is writing in unilorin on same date, he resides in kaduna.
IslamRe: Muslims: How To Make Your Husband Happy by ashson(op): 1:16am On Feb 19, 2013
zayhal: I feel it "out of place" if a husband just hands down orders to his wife and this is my understanding of the "command" here.

"Get me my food"
"You must not go out today!"
"My friend will be passing the night with us today, go on and tidy the guest room quickly beefore he arrives!"
"What's this you're wearing? Go and put on something better, my friend!"

And on and on. Yes, I find these out of place in a marital relationship.
"Command" does not mean he will force or tel u to do things in an unpolite manner. even Allah SWT that commands us on what to do did not force anybody. its either u choose jannah or the other for youself. anything your husband commands you to do, as long as it is not against the laws of islam, u have to obey because Allah instructed u to that.
PhonesRe: How To Install Android OS In Windows Mobile by ashson(op): 12:50am On Feb 19, 2013
Joe50: i dn't think is possible!
nothing is impossible, its only for you to learn how its done.
Christianity EtcHarvard University Recognized Qur'an Verses by ashson(op): 2:33am On Feb 18, 2013
" HARVARD UNIVERSITY RECOGNIZED QUR'AN VERSES "

24 January 2013
Harvard Law School, one of the most prestigious institutions of its kind in the world, has posted a verse of the Holy Quraan at the entrance of its faculty library, describing the verse as one of the greatest expressions of justice in history.

Verse 135 of Surah Al Nisa (The Women) has been posted at a wall facing the faculty’s main entrance, dedicated to the best phrases articulating justice:

“O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allah , even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted”
FamilyRe: Pictures Of Daddies Carrying Their Kids & Working by ashson(op): 2:17am On Feb 18, 2013
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FamilyRe: Pictures Of Daddies Carrying Their Kids & Working by ashson(op): 2:15am On Feb 18, 2013
nice...

FamilyPictures Of Daddies Carrying Their Kids & Working by ashson(op): 2:14am On Feb 18, 2013
Can You Be A Real Daddy?

Daddy's love is Super Love...

Art, Graphics & VideoRe: ???is This Real Or Fiction??? by ashson(op): 2:07am On Feb 18, 2013
how do u c did

Art, Graphics & VideoRe: ???is This Real Or Fiction??? by ashson(op): 2:03am On Feb 18, 2013
hmmmm

Science/TechnologyWhat Lesson Have You Learn? by ashson(op):
Help the needy at any given time...

Art, Graphics & VideoRe: ???is This Real Or Fiction??? by ashson(op): 1:30am On Feb 18, 2013
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: ???is This Real Or Fiction??? by ashson(op): 1:23am On Feb 18, 2013
4real...

IslamAlcohol Is The Mother Of All Evils... by ashson(op): 1:19am On Feb 18, 2013
May Allah Protect Us from It...

Art, Graphics & Video???is This Real Or Fiction??? by ashson(op): 1:09am On Feb 18, 2013
What do you thinkhuh huh

PhonesHow To Install Android OS In Windows Mobile by ashson(op): 2:32am On Feb 17, 2013
Please I want to know how to install Android OS in my HTC Windows Mobile, If any guru knows Pls share. Thanx
PhonesRe: Root Your Andriod Phones Easily by ashson: 2:28am On Feb 17, 2013
What will be the difference between the rooted and non rooted android pls huh
IslamMuslims: How To Make Your Husband Happy by ashson(op): 12:42am On Feb 17, 2013
How to make your Husband Happy

by Sheikh Muhammad Abdelhaleem Hamed.

1- Beautiful Reception
•After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you,begin with a good greeting.
•Meet him with a cheerful face.
•Beautify and perfume yourself.
•Start with good news and delay any bad news until he has rested.
•Receive him with loving and yearning sentences.
•Make hard efforts for excellence of the food & having it ready on time.


2- Beautify and Soften the Voice

For your husband only, it shouldn't be used in front of non-mahram men (men who can marry you if you were unmarried).


3- Smelling Good and Physical Beautification
•Taking good care of your body and fitness.
•Put on nice and attractive clothes and perfumes to please your husband.
•Bath regularly and, after the monthly period, remove any blood traces or bad smells.
•Avoid that your husband observes you in dirty clothes or rough shape.
•Avoid prohibited types of ornamentation, e.g. tatoo.
•Use the types of perfumes, colors, and clothes that the husband likes.
•Change hair style, perfumes, etc. from time to time.
•However with these things you should avoid excessiveness and, of course,only act as such in front of mahrem men and women.


4- Intercourse
•Hasten for intercourse when your husband feels compulsion for it.
•Exchange loving phrases with your husband.
•Leave your husband to fully satisfy his desire.
•Choose suitable times and good occasions for exciting your husband,and encouraging him to do intercourse, e.g. after returning from a travel, weekends, etc.


5- Satisfaction With What Allah Ta'ala has Allotted
•You shouldn't be depressed because your husband is poor or works in a simple job.
•You should look at poor, sick, and handicapped people and remember Allah Ta'ala for all that was given to you.
•You should remember that real wealth lies in Iman and piety.


6- Indifference to Worldly Things
•You should not consider this world as your hope and interest.
•You should not ask your husband for many unnecessary things.
•Asceticism does not mean not to enjoy what is good and permissible(Halal), but it means that one should look forward to the hereafter and utilize whatever Allah Ta'ala gave them to achieve paradise (Jannah) with moderation.
•Encourage your husband to reduce expenses and save some money in order to give charity and feed poor and needy people.


7- Appreciation
•By the saying of the Prophet(sallallahu alaiyhi wassallam), the majority of people in hell were women because they were ungrateful and deny the good done to them.
•The result of being grateful is that your husband will love you more and will do his best to please you in more ways.
•The result of being ungrateful is that your husband will be dissappointed and will start asking himself: Why should I do good to her, if she never appreciates?


8- Devotion and Loyalty
•Be devoted and loyal to him, particularly in times of calamities in your husband's body or business,e.g. an accident or a bankruptcy.
•Supporting him through your own work, money, and properties if needed.


9- Compliance to him

In all what he commands you, unless it is prohibited (Haram).

In Islam, the husband is the leader of the family, and the wife is his support and consultant.



10-Pleasing Him If He Is Angry

First off, try to avoid what will guarantee his anger.

But if it happens that you can't, then try to appease him as follows:

1- If you mistaken, then apologise.

2- If he mistaken then:

# Keep still instead of arguing or

# Yield your right or

# Wait until he is no longer angry and discuss the matter peacefully with him.

3- If he was angry because of external reasons then:

# Keeping silent untill his anger goes

# Find excuses for him, e.g. tired, problems at work, some one insulted him

# Do not ask many questions and insist on knowing what happened,e.g.

1) You should tell me what happened?

2) I must know what made you so angry.

3) You are hidding something, and I have the right to know


11-Guardianship While He is Absent
•Protecting yourself from any prohibited relations.
•Keep the secrets of the family, particularly intercourse and things that the husbands don't like other people to know.
•Take care of the house and children.
•Take care of his money and properties.
•Do not go out of your house without his permission and put on full hijab.
•Refuse people whom he does not like to come over.
•Do not allow any non-mahram man to be alone with you in any place.
•Be good with his parents and relatives in his absence.


12- Showing Respect for his Family and Friends
•You should welcome his guests and try to please them, especially his parents.
•You should avoid problems as much as you can with his relatives.
•You should avoid putting him is a position where he had to choose between his mother and his wife.
•Show good hospitality for his guests by arranging a nice place for them to it in, perfection of food, welcoming their wives, etc.
•Encourage him to visit his relatives and invite them to your home.
•Phone his parents and sisters, send letters to them, buy gifts for them, support them in calamities, etc..


13- Admirable Jealousy
•Jealousy is a sign for wife's love for her husband but it should be kept within the limits of Islam, e.g. not insulting or backbiting others, disrespecting them, etc..
•You should not follow or create unfounded doubts.


14-Patience and Emotional Support
•Be patient when you face poverty and strained circumstances.
•When you face calamities and disasters that may happen to you, your husband, your children, relatives or properties, e.g. diseases, accidents, death, etc.
•When facing hardships in Da'wah (imprisonment, getting fired, arrested, etc.), be patient and encourage him to keep on the path of Allah and remind him of paradise.
•When he mistreats you, counteract his ill-treatment by good treatment.


15- Support in Obedience to Allah, Da'wah and Jihad
•Cooperate with your husband and remind him of different obligatory and voluntary worships.
•Encourage him to pray at night.
•Listen and reciting the Qur'an individually and with your husband.
•Listen to Islamic tapes and nasheeds individually and with your husband.
•Remember Allah Ta'ala much, particularly after Fajr and before Maghrib.
•Share in arranging Da'wah activities for women and children.
•Learn Islamic rules (ahkam) and good manners ('adab) for women.
•Support your husband's activities by encouraging him, offering wise opinions, soothing his pains, etc.
•Yielding some of your rights and a part of your time with your husband for Da'wah.
•Encourage him to go for Jihad when needed and remind him that you and children will be in the preservation of Allah Ta'alaSWT.


16-Good Housekeeping
•Keep it clean, decorated and well arranged.
•Change house arrangements from time to time to avoid boredom.
•Prepare good , wholesome,healthy meals.
•Learn all the necessary skills for managing the house, e.g. sewing etc.
•Learn how to raise children properly and in an Islamic way. Read authentic books or consult experienced people in this light.


17-Preservation of Finances and the Family
•Do not spend from his money, even for charity without his permission unless you are sure that he agrees on this.
•Protect his house, car, etc. while he is absent.
•Keep the children in good shape, clean clothes, etc. Take care of their nutrition, health, education, manners, etc. Teach them Islam and tell them the stories of the Prophets and companions of the Prophet(sallallhu alaiyhi wassallam).

http://www.everymuslim.co.za/index.php/articles-menu/family-issues-menu/564-how-to-make-your-husband-happy#comments
Jobs/VacanciesOnline Job Application Or Hard Copy> Which Do You Prefer?? by ashson(op): 2:01am On Feb 16, 2013
I have met a lot of people who dont like applying for job in hard copy format, they just like to fill form online.
As for me, Online Application is more Preferable than Submitting hard copy. I wonder why whenever a university is recruiting,
will demand for about 10 to 15 copies of C.V. and Credentials huh huh huh
Nairaland GeneralRe: Cute! This Boy And His Dog Are Inseparable by ashson(op): 10:48pm On Feb 14, 2013
Coooool...

Nairaland GeneralRe: Cute! This Boy And His Dog Are Inseparable by ashson(op): 10:47pm On Feb 14, 2013
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Nairaland GeneralCute! This Boy And His Dog Are Inseparable by ashson(op): 10:46pm On Feb 14, 2013
Cute! This Boy and His Dog Are Inseparable...

Awww! Photos of an adorable little boy and his equally adorable French Bulldog are taking the Internet by storm. The boy, Tasuku, and his dog, Muu, seem to be inseparable. The boy’s mother, Aya Sakai of Japan, has been posting images of the pair, earning herself a huge following on Facebook and Instagram. See the tiny twosome watching TV, sleeping, snacking and just being adorable.

SportsOscar Pistorius Charged With Murder, Reportedly Had Firearms At Home... by ashson(op): 5:59pm On Feb 14, 2013
South African police have charged Olympic star Oscar Pistorius with the murder of his girlfriend, who was shot in the sprinter's home Thursday.

Pistorius, 26, kept weapons at his gated, luxury South African home as a means of protection against his country's soaring crime rate, according to a British writer who had exclusive access to the Olympic sprinter.
Oscar Pistorius was taken into custody Thursday. (AP Photo)In the early hours of Thursday morning, the 400 meter runner – the first man to compete in the Olympics and Paralympics – is believed to have used part of his weapons collection to tragically gun down his girlfriend, Reeva Steenkamp.

Early reports had the alleged incident being reported as an accident, but police spokesperson Brigadier Denise Beukes told the Associated Press that information did not come from police and that "it would be very premature and very irresponsible of me to say what actually has happened."

"There have been allegations," Beukes said. "We are not sure."

According to those initial reports, Pistorius mistook Steenkamp, a 30-year-old television personality and model, for an intruder as she entered his residence at 3 a.m. and allegedly shot her four times in the arms and head.

According to the Associated Press, police said there had "previously been incidents and allegations of a domestic nature at the home of Mr. Oscar Pistorius."

According to British writer Jonathan McEvoy, who was given unprecedented access to Pistorius in a broad-ranging 2011 Daily Mail interview, the athlete held serious concerns for his personal safety, perhaps unsurprisingly given his nation's appalling record of violence.

"I spoke to him at his house and when we went upstairs to his bedroom so that our photographer could take photos of his running blades, that was when I saw the weapons," said McEvoy, when contacted by Yahoo! Sports by telephone on Thursday.

PoliticsFort Hood Hero Says Obama 'betrayed' Her, Other Victims by ashson(op): 5:52pm On Feb 14, 2013
Three years after the White House arranged a hero's welcome at the State of the Union address for the Fort Hood police sergeant and her partner who stopped the deadly shooting there, Kimberly Munley says President Obama broke the promise he made to her that the victims would be well taken care of.

"Betrayed is a good word," former Sgt. Munley told ABC News in a tearful interview broadcast on "World News with Diane Sawyer" and "Nightline."

"Not to the least little bit have the victims been taken care of," she said. "In fact they've been neglected."

There was no immediate comment from the White House about Munley's allegations.

Thirteen people were killed, including a pregnant soldier, and 32 others shot in the November 2009 rampage by the accused shooter, Major Nidal Hasan, who now awaits a military trial on charges of premeditated murder and attempted murder.

The broadcast report also includes dramatic new video, obtained by ABC News, taken in the immediate aftermath of the shooting, capturing the chaos and terror of the day.

Munley, since laid off from her job with the base's civilian police force, was shot three times as she and her partner, Sgt. Mark Todd, confronted Hasan, who witnesses said had shouted "Allahu Akbar" as he opened fire on soldiers being processed for deployment to Afghanistan.

As Munley lay wounded, Todd fired the five bullets credited with bringing Hasan down.

Despite extensive evidence that Hasan was in communication with al Qaeda leader Anwar al-Awlaki prior to the attack, the military has denied the victims a Purple Heart and is treating the incident as "workplace violence" instead of "combat related" or terrorism.


http://news.yahoo.com/fort-hood-hero-says-obama-betrayed-her-other-152920702--abc-news-topstories.html

Christianity EtcHomeless Man Returns Diamond Ring Accidentally Dropped Into His Change Cup by ashson(op): 1:57am On Feb 14, 2013
A homeless man who hit the jackpot in his change cup—a diamond ring—showed he had a heart of gold by returning it.

The woman who accidentally dumped her engagement ring along with all the spare change in her wallet into the cup noticed the mistake long after she had given the pricey item to the Kansas City man, Billy Ray Harris.

Sarah Darling, who hadn't meant to be quite that generous to the man on the street, explained to Kansas City, Mo.'s KCTV that "my rings were bothering me, so I put them in my coin purse."

Darling said she didn't realize what she'd done until the next day.

"I was so incredibly upset because, more than just the value of the ring, it had sentimental value," she said.

Needless to say, Darling returned to the scene the next day.

Harris told the station, "The ring was so big that I knew if it was real, it was expensive."

He recalled, "She squatted down like you did like right there and says, ‘Do you remember me?' And I was like, ‘I don't know. I see a lot of faces.' She says, ‘I might have gave you something very valuable.' I said, ‘Was it a ring?' And she says, ‘Yeah.' And I said, ‘Well, I have it.'"

Harris added that he wasn’t the type to cash in on someone’s misfortune. "My grandfather was a reverend. He raised me from the time I was 6 months old and thank the good Lord, it's a blessing, but I do still have some character," he said.

Darling gratefully told the TV station, "It seemed like a miracle. I thought for sure there was no way I would get it back.”

Harris did not go empty-handed: He again received money from Darling—this time all the bills she had in her wallet.


http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/lookout/homeless-man-returns-diamond-ring-accidentally-dropped-change-161705603.html

IslamRe: A 3-year-old Nigerian Girl Memorizes The Quran by ashson: 12:45pm On Feb 13, 2013
hamzakyana: since you are a mad cow, there is no point taking issues with you, but this forum is for human being not cow.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... a Mad Cow indeed!
IslamRe: A 3-year-old Nigerian Girl Memorizes The Quran by ashson: 12:40pm On Feb 13, 2013
All of you christians and atheist, must u comment on anythn that concerns islam? what are your problems? better wake up and learn the true religion and not rely on baseless world propaganda.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by ashson: 11:38am On Feb 13, 2013
Pls guys are you talking about buying shares or what?

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