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Irelokeh:
Hello guys I would really love some quality advice.

I met a girl for a year now we've been dating ups and downs but the girl is really nice and I love her to the extent I never find myself dating any other girl throughout the relationship and as well really really respect her as a man.

The only problem I'm now having is I noticed she doesn't want to spend as much time with me as I do with her, I have my own place but she stays at her parents. I get lonely when I'm not busy and wish to share moments with her say a week or more and I noticed even if she has enough free time she only wants to spend a day or two or at most a week.

I know she loves me, and I give her space but I actually think I need to find a way to reduce that love. Any advices?

@bolded and what happens to you marrying her?

Post your pictures. Lemme quickly check something . Pls i don't want filtered or make up pics. Just natural

MissionaryArchi:
Great work you got there fellow.
I miss site works deeply. Strictly on CAD work now but trying to maneuver my way back to site when God permits

Thanks my brother

Nnamekus1:
From your comment, I take it to mean that RANGE PLASTERING involves the use of such iron bar to ensure that the wall levels are same.
If that is right, I guess it should be more expensive and one may not need to do screeding before painting right?

Range plastering is best, cos it helps ensure wall edges, windows edges and door edges are straight even wall surfaces ain't left out... You'll get range plastering for that price quoted above.

You'll still have to do screeding before painting if you have the financial means as range plastering is not a determinate factor not to screed your wall... Screeding helps to ensure your wall has a smooth surface

Nnamekus1:
Thanks.
Please I don't understand what you mean by range plastering.
However, the plastering includes the POP-like window designs and pillars designs too.
The mason is from Togo.

You can never go wrong with those Togolese guys as they're good at what they do. I used them most especially when am doing any plastering job...

For the range plastering just ask them am sure they'll understand. For emphasis though see below pics

400 - 450k might not be feasible in 2022 for plastering a 5bedroom bungalow. But it's not out of place if you start your negotiation from there.. If eventually it falls between 500-550k you can still go ahead... Hope it's RANGE PLASTERING

750k for just workmanship is on a high side. Where's the location of the project

Happy birthday ma'am

Heads up. It's high time students take the bull by the horn cos their future is been toiled with

Not true. Engagement rings are very much allowed in orientation camps. During our time in camp, both married women and those engaged wore it just to scare those brolosho's and soldiers who chase women up and down off.
Maybe your woman wan explore small

GooodHardDick:
OK so I met this girl who gave me her number and felt so excited about it. I don't know,, maybe because she saw I was using an iPhone 11pro max, which she herself also uses.

I no even waste time at all, I invited her over and we started knacking. About 50mins into the knacking, her phone started ringing which she felt very reluctant to answer. I no even kukuma send because I was so much focused on her pussy.

Omo, this girl's phone kept ringing until I asked her to answer the call. She told me it was her bf that called her and it was the guy that bought her the iPhone 11 pro max she's currently using that the guy pays her bills and stuff like that.

I no know why SIMPS will never! Guys don't waste your time dating a Nigerian girl. They're only good for fvcking, after which you dump them straight up and move on to the next available girl. OG Use your head, if you buy her a phone, she'll still use that same phone to call and meet up with another guy who will bang her pussy. Use your head my brother!

@ bolded True my brother true

Osinbajo is the only candidate that'll make me to vote in 2023. The rest are noise makers

Where's that sapphire girl again. Come and see ur gender

Brighton1:
My post might be lengthy, but Pls read because I need advice.

I've been living in Lagos for 5yrs now, even before the death of my father (R.I.P). I lost my dad 4yrs ago. I'm the eldest and I have two younger ones. I'm a contractor.

My mom and my siblings are based in ekpoma edo state. I call them regularly, I advice them, I send them money for up-keep, I visit home once in a while. I play both role of a father and elder bro to my siblings. I don't want them feel the absence of my father.

My construction team got a contract at Auchi, it was an opportunity for me to visit home often.

My younger sister is a 300L student in AAU. She is 22yrs old, she don't read, she's always on social media (tik tok & Co.) Nobody can touch her phone, if my lil bro wants to browse something important or play game with her phone, she will just be screaming at him as if Ogun is about to strike her... Don't touch my phone o, drop it down.

Even the phone (iPhone 7) I was the one who gave it to her when I bought my current phone (Samsung). I promised my lil bro he shouldn't worry, as soon as I get paid for the job I'm currently working on, I will get him a phone before I travel back to Lagos.

Okay, Yesterday I only said, now that ASUU is on strike, find something to do, get busy, learn a skill, even if it's fashion designing, make-up or catering.

She was just giving me flamzy excuses, and the annoying part is she will be raising her voice while talking to me. I almost used a belt to flog her if not for my mom that held me.

My father's house is a bungalow, and we have a tanent, Anytime I receive the house rent (200k yearly) I send everything to my mother. My mom would be like I should hold some for myself but I said NO, they need it more.

AAU school fees is now x4 compared to what I paid back then when I was there. Yet I'm the one providing 80% of her school fees while my mom 20%.

My Lil bro who's just 18 yrs old is more hardworking than her, he goes to my mom's shop to help her out, he's learning how to cut hair and he plays instruments very good (piano & bass guitar). He plays for a church that pays him 5k per week (he plays weds & sun for the church). I pray uniben grant him admission this year.

My father was a nice man, he disciplined us and his death won't change that. I want him to be proud of me wherever he is now.

Nairaland family, I need your advice. My sister depend so much on the money I give her. I don't want her to be a leech.

You're responsible and i know how bad you feel about ur sister. Continue talking to her and hopefully she'll change one day. Always make her her see reasons why life shouldn't be taken as a platter and that she needs to work as there's dignity in labour...

Well am a building engineer too based in Ekpoma we could meet up anytime you're around

Eyaaa this one don go

Boarding of internal columns

Wait so u went through this because of a woman? I think Op should be crowned P.R.O SIMple men association

More photos.. Aerial view

[LINTEL]
Iron benders and carpenter going about their trade

Lol quite funny..

Shay u see what you're dating

Boarding and casting of lintel for the shopping mall ongoing

Tinubu is a daydreamer

Cokahot:
Don't be fooled guys,gear has been tampered with,something with dashboard. Don't be fooled. Don't go and but a problematic naija used car. Please and please. He is a yahoo boy staying at a wretched block of flats.

Oga how did u know that the gear has been tampered with? Let's learn to mind our business

Advice on what again?

Unserious set of individuals

More photos:

Work progress

Good but abeg make una warn BUBU, no be Nigeria Tunisia wan play match o make him no talk anyhow

Error401:
Urgent pls
Is she really pregnant?
I think the line is too faint to proof pregnancy damn
She insisted that she missed her period but this result isn't convincing enough!

Pls help me urgently

Funny guy. Dats twins on the way if u don't know

Cultism doesn't pay