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funmisticqueen:
Amen to that

maiahsaiah:
No man is penniless. Even that tiny money, make sure he takes care of you. Even if it’s to buy fruits.

Phenomenal16:
..OK.next

Phenomenal16:
.......lol ,,,so childish of u
Grow up...
This is naira land ....she can type anything she likes.....

Phenomenal16:
..she just aired her views.... Don't sound pained u grab

maiahsaiah:
You hear them say, “Women offer only sex in a relationship.” And immediately you are throwing curses, shades, and getting angry for no reason.

Do you think these men don’t know the truth? Do you think they don’t know we offer everything and more?

My dears, they are just trolling! Probably depressed and frustrated from being unemployed or working shitty jobs, and so they look for who to transfer aggression...and then you make yourself available and start going back and forth in arguments.

The real men are out there, making cool cash for their queens because they know their responsibility. Everyone knows their responsibility, but some try to shift theirs to others.

Men know the truth, they just have fun seeing ladies tear their head and argue with emotions. Try not to give them that pleasure.

Every girl is a queen. Act like one. Don’t let yourself get emotionally drained by butlers when your king is waiting for you.

And yes, enjoy your man’s money because there is a time he will get broke (every man experiences this once or twice in his life. I don’t care if you’re Dangote), and you’ll have to hold the fort.

Brytesp:
Very few people can go on with a relationship even after their partner cheated. Forgiving a cheating partner actually does more good to you than the cheater, forgiveness has many benefits. Each one will help you move toward a happier life.
1.) Forgiving is a Step Toward Trusting Again

To rebuild a relationship after infidelity or have success with future relationships, people need to trust each other. Cheating shatters trust and the ability to trust, and forgiveness is one step you need to rebuild it.
People who can’t forgive cheating carry resentment, Friedman said. This resentment can prevent people from being honest and trusting.
The last result you want is a partner’s cheating to negatively affect your character.
Forgiving them will reduce the risk of the cheater’s dishonesty rubbing off on you. Then you have a higher chance of being trusting and honest in any relationship.

2.) Not Forgiving Is Mentally Exhausting

Your mind has valuable and limited real estate. There are better things to think about than how angry you are at someone who cheated on you.
Letting go of resentment allows space to think and feel more positive things. It can be difficult to reach the point where you can stop it from consuming your mind, but the results are worth it.

3.) Forgiveness is Healthy

Feelings of anger and bitterness affect your physical and mental health. Forgiving releases this and improves your health in the following ways : less anxiety, stress and hostility, lower blood pressure, fewer symptoms of depression, Stronger immune system, Improved heart health

4.) Higher self-esteem

You will feel better about yourself after forgiving someone that cheated on you because you played the bigger person.

5.) You may cheat also

Never rule out that option because you are also human. Even though we would not intentionally hurt those we love, we stray away sometimes.
Next time you get cheated on, take a deep breath, sip a cup of cold pami, sit on your favourite chair and think over these reasons.

Pinkie2018:
you demand sex, the girl demand money; automatically she is a liablity; You guys prefer a girl you will drill and drill but doesnt ask for anything; stop demand for sex if u want her to stop demanding for money; when a girl finds out all you want is her body, she will also start demanding for money so as not to lose out; Most of you that said u prefer foreign ladies, tell yourself the truth, you guys are liablities to them, always extorting. Yahoo boys. I know your ego will not let u see the truth, yes you....

Pinkie2018:
Men always look for the slightest opportunity to insult ladies. Yet every time they are chasing us. Almost all the guys that chased girl, wants sex on first visit. If u refuse they stop calling. Tell a guy you don't want sex until marriage, he will run. If you date a broke one, you are stupid, you date a rich one you are a liability. What do u guys really want?. Should we run away from planet earth for you guys. I know one stupid guy in my area that wakes up by 6 am and stand in front of his house everyday to call any girl he sees. I know the sacrifices I have made in my own relationships,i also know of many girls that have helped their men one way of the other. If you only meet girls that leech on you, Pls don't generise it. Change your cycle

RPirez:
@bolded. Yet, no insult, abi?

Yes madam, I'm happily married to a beautiful and wonderful Yoruba lady (probably your age grade but, way too beautiful and more intelligent ). Sure, I'm definitely older than you (not as old as you mentioned) but, not as dumb like you when I was ur age.

I come on here to learn and have fun as well. Too many ignorants, chest-beaters and noise-makers on here. I can see you've definitely never held a real professional or corporate job in your entire life else, you'll understand the concept of actual productivity and downtime is a

victorian:
Not all Nigerian men are these shameless and leeches o!

At least my bf is a Nigerian, complete Igbo man and he loves to be in charge and very caring and generous. He works hard and ball hard. He doesn't wait for me to even credit his account. Instead he credits mine whenever i ask.

Ask me, why won't I respect him? Connections, he has!
Money he has!
Fine matured face he has!
Class he has!
He's even humble and well learned.

If u see babes rushing this guy? U go bow!

But I'm glad he chose me above all.

Mehn not all Nigerian men o.

I do pamper my man but not with crediting his account with money. He sees me as a woman meant to be protected, pampered and loved. That's how a man is meant to be. Not all these leeches calling themselves men.

MJBOLT:

lillyval is back

Classyuniquebae:
Obviously one of the empty brains. Thanks for identifying yourself .

Organs:
Most guys that talk like you are actually Broloshos as well. It takes an ashawo broda to recognize an ashawo sister. In conclusion, bros, you, AstroG dey follow only ashawo.

Magnoliaa:
ah well... I tried... I offered something. You refused.

Okay.

successfulhadi22:
Shoulder to lean on and money

Classyuniquebae:
If you've been meeting Nigerian girls who had nothing to offer but sex , I would strongly advice that you check yourself first because you attract what you are .


It's also very foolish to generalize the whole Nigerian women which means all of your mothers, sisters and all female siblings you've ever known are empty with nothing to offer other than sex . It's best you'all make use of the word SOME OR MOST Nigerian women and not All Nigerian women.


You meet these girls who have no business ideas, no investment plans, no career paths and no dreams to offer other than sex because you senseless Nigerian men are always the ones after slay queens with the latest Brazillian Hair , breast , nyash , figure 8 and all . After looking in the wrong places and going after a woman for the wrong reasons , you pigs come out to cry foul of how they have nothing upstairs after you must have gotten sex which was what took you to the THING in the first place.

You all see the sensible ones everyday but you choose to ignore and go for the flashy things .

I have female friends with amazing intellectual acumen when it comes to businesses , investments and life in general but their problems are that most Naija man they meet these days are only interested in sex and nothing more . They tell me how frustrated they get cuz even when they try to strike up a reasonable convo , the guys would keep saying " babe you too hot , babe your Ukwu dey drive me nuts , babe this ! Babe that ! Yeah !!!!

So it's vice versa . Both genders are guilty of this. So you shameless guys should quit cursing Nigerian women at every slightest chance you get and work on yourselves too.

All Nigerian women are whores, agreed !!! Including all your mothers and sisters .


Change your circle of women and you will find out that we have Nigerian women with intellect and mind blowing ideas as well . As a matter of fact , some are living it already .

If you keep meeting this type of women , then you are empty yourself .

RPirez:
Na true ooo… the lady needs very effective dental braces!

ojuwura:
You might be older than that babe but wisdom is obviously farther from you. She was so matured yet you displayed your credulity with so much generosity. Nairaland be harboring animals with humans since 1914.
I know your reply will further reveal your dumbness and ghetto upbringing but I won't spare you such time. You and your colleagues can rave on like mad dogs.

ojuwura:
You might be older than that babe but wisdom is obviously farther from you. She was so matured yet you displayed your credulity with so much generosity. Nairaland be harboring animals with humans since 1914.
I know your reply will further reveal your dumbness and ghetto upbringing but I won't spare you such time. You and your colleagues can rave on like mad dogs.

OdefaGirl:
Am out of stock babe....

mistyebby:
As in eh, like men are not the new beggers and sex addicts in relationships.

They cheat, they cause you heart ache and still ask for money No wonder the increasing rate of jobless men. They want to take the feminine roles....Goodluck to them.

Magnoliaa:
Your mom cannot encourage you to dabble into diabolical stuff now, can she?

She'd rather tell you to go work hard.

...And I'm offering you an easy way...

RedCreme21:
I get the whole red pill stuff. Protecting men from gold diggers and such. But men shouldnt cut themselves off from romantic relationships because of a mistake that may or may not have been based on love.
Love is a strong feeling of affection that cares little for physical appearances, hence my illustrations. Love means sacrifice. When that other persons happiness is a priority. It's a selfless feeling. Majority of the relationships here, werent based on love. What if the lady became pregnant? Would he accept or ditch her? When i had my heart broken, i cried alot. But i realized several things.
Im young and would make mistakes
I wasnt inlove with my ex. We had fun. Though it ended with hurt, we both shared fun memories.
Why blame all men or bottle up cause of what wasnt real?
Thats beauty of life and love. Have fun, cry alot, move on and become stronger.
AstroG learn

themaestro08:
you know what. I find your comments funny and enjoyable to read because of the memes you attach to it. Keep it up.

RedCreme21:
*sighs*
I remember when i first joined nairaland and was warned of you...
AstroG, [s]i thought you had changed. Perhaps fallen inlove.[/s] But it seems youre still the moniker we all know you to be.
Let me leave behind a tip. Im a teenage girl who's bored out of her mind. I can ditch this whole mature girl sh!t and become a full time troll and torment the living daylight out of you and a few others here. You can do the same also but in this game of who's more punk, i'll beat anyone here hands down. I try to keep the demons within at bay. Like i stated before, i like you, denreledave and even vickyhow.

RedCreme21:
[s] i dont hate you. Btw, you're entitled to your opinion. But i wont be so reduced as to wallow in the mud.
You're welcome.