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Ishilove:
Poignant. However, not all women sit idly by when their man is broke and hustling. Be that as it may, just there are scumbag men, there are also scummy women. How some women can comfortably bill a man for their expenses when aren't aren't crippled always amazes me. Get up and work, add value to your family, relationship and the society so that egomanic misogynists will not come online to say rubbish about the women folk. A scummy man will still find an excuse to leave even if you work your fingers to the Bone, but at least you will be able to beat your chest that you are an independent woman who was taken advantage of by a no good, rat soup eating son of a bitch. (Thank you, Dolemite).

Someone also said after "hoeing the go to the Gram to sell wigs and bags". Going by this statement, all IG hustlers at retired prostitutes?

*sigh* I need a break from NL. I can feel the stench of ignorance and toxic stupidity trying hard to overwhelm me.

On a side note: Feminism must be the most abused word in gender relations in Nigeria.

Riele:
Ofcourse , these is the kind of things empty male barrels would love to read !

For all i know , Most men are trash !

lavylilly:
Mumu! Did you red it all was it written by me.

jackals:
Shut up Martinez, you have been brainwashed. There are many good Ladies out there who support their men. I don't know where u lot are getting women from. When I love a man, I give him full support

Jewessgratitude:
Its a lie. Women know what they want or have you been in our circle before to really know what we want?

Don't let any girl deceive you. There's nothing like looking cheap at the wooing stage where you love a guy truly. No woman will even think of such if she's truly into you at this stage.

The only time a girl that loves you will not want to appear cheap is when you want to sleep with her so early in the relationship or even on your first outing (crazy) then she can say no and that is fin. In that case it doesn't mean she's not into you. They are both different scenarios.

Got that?

RiyadhGoddess:
Uhmmm when I am here praying to God to bless and enlarge my coast so I can buy a portable Jet for my pastor mission. I am begging God to enlarge my resources so I can place pastors on monthly salary, I am begging God to bless me so much that I pay their children school fees, take part in church building projects...

Eni ti o ri mi ri ni o mo se oluwa...
I pay my tithe not just 10% but 20% and hoping God gives me the grace and resources to increase it year 2020. I see the result of it all around me. My life is a blessing. My life is a testimony. I will do more and more for God's kingdom. All contributions, donations and assignment towards the house of God or his kingdom projects will not pass me by. Even if it's my 100 naira contribution if I have none at that moment, I will put it. The kingdom of God will not suffer bankruptcy in my own time. It will not lack lailai.

I don't need Nairaland or Twitter or one freeze or social media to validate what I do for God's kingdom. If all you do is to sit and wait for social media validation on what you do for God, then my friend, I put it to you that you do not know God!

Don't come and ask me where it is written in the new testament bla bla bla because I will not answer you. We don't read only new testament in Dominion city, We read both Old and New Testament. We read the whole books of the bible not some parts as some of you want in order to justify your excesses. The book of Malachi 3 verse 10 says, bring all your tithes to the store house that there may be meat in my house. Look at that word Meat in my house. What is that meat? You come into the church, you seat comfortably inside the AC, well furnished and sophisticated building, the sounds and musical instruments on point, the toilet facilities on point, the power supply, diesel or fuel on point, welfare services on point, mission trips and works on point, among many other projects in the house of God. Is it Paper or leaf that they are spending or using to acquire these things? Can any body go to the market and buy diesel or musical instruments or building materials and say I represent this church or I am the pastor or general overseer of this church or it is for God's kingdom give them to us free? Are these things free in the market?

If you have ever had the opportunity to work deeply in the house of God before, to see how the administration of a church is being run or facilitated, then you will know that no be paper or leaf them they spend! Some of you go to the church admin office to submit your business proposals for contracts to supply one thing one thing, did you give it to the church free? When you got the contract to supply or render your services in the church was it free? NO!!! And you sit to type on your phones or systems don't pay tithe don't pay tithe yen yen yen whereas na church dey pay your bills...
What of the instrumentalist, it is so hard these days to find someone who will play instruments for free. I know churches even smaller churches who pays their instrumentalist monthly or every Sunday. Why una no say NO I'm not collecting a dime, I am doing it for God. No be money these churches dey pay, Na Paper abi na leaf dem they pay?

What of the welfare? Feeding, clothing and shelter of the needy amongst us in church? Is it not money we use to put these things I'm place?

Because you pay your tithes to the wrong place, you pay your tithe to occultic churches, you pay your tithe to pastors who live lavish reckless lifestyle doesn't mean there are no genuine pastors out there who stands on the word of God only!

Those of us who pay our tithes and see the reward of Malachi 3 verse 10 knows the importance of Tithe in our lives. I am addicted to tithe paying! I pay it everyday. Even when someone gives me 200 naira, I pay tithe from it. I am not ashamed of tithe paying!!!

Malachi 3 verse 10, And prove me now if I will not open the windows of heaven!!!
It is not about going out to drop your tithe, No with your tithe in your hand, Prove God First!!!

Malachi 3 verse 10, And this is my favorite part, I will open my window of heavens, I will pour out my blessing that even the room will not be enough to receive it JESUS!
God said prove me and see if I will not open my window of heavens and pour out my blessings so much that even that our small cubicle room will be too small to receive his blessings on us.

Do I have a witness here? I am number ONE!!! Why should I allow somebody beliefs or opinion on tithe ruin or stop God's Blessings on my life? Why should I?

The blessings received from tithe paying are numerous aside financial blessings. What of the blessings of protection from evil of all kinds, what of the blessings of great jobs, contracts, fruit of the wombs, education, unmerited favour, shelter, feeding, Mercy, Grace etc? Are they all by your powers or doings? Do you know your tithes are being recorded in heaven oh ye faithfully stewards?

Pay your tithe at the right place and enjoy the blessings of Malachi 3 verse 10. Do not confuse giving charity as tithe paying. Do not let Satan fool you on that. They are two different things. I give to charity and I pay my tithe. Charity is charity (welfare), Tithe is tithe! No be the same. Don't get it twisted!

Are you the owner of the money? Did you come to this earth with money? Will you leave the earth with money? Every time my money my money my money WHO GAVE YOU THE MONEY MEHN? If people own money why don't they carry their money with them when leaving the earth?

Since the devil launched a social media campaign on tithe paying, has the church closed? Lols instead it keeps moving on day by day. Sincerely, I am amazed by the numbers of people who pays their tithe in the church despite all the satanic campaigns. It only shows where the devil belongs. He's always on the loosing side. He's a looser!!!

God bless everyone who pays their tithe in their various local churches. Thank you for paying your tithe. The Church Is Marching On...

In Dominion City, We pay our tithe. I pay my tithe, Pay your tithe!!!

Thank you and God Bless You...

Jewessgratitude:
Hi mods and Admins. Please attend to my humble request

The rate at which some members mention others to abuse and insult them is beginning to make this forum more of a joke than a friendly and sane forum hence the need for a feature that can enable members to block anyone who tries to cross their boundaries.
This will go a long way to curb the excesses of some members and maybe create a saner environment here.

The economy is already not friendly and you come online to unwind only for someone to jump out from no where and start saying all sorts of despicable things to you. I mean... Its inhuman and needs to be addressed.
I know some will say, over look, ignore and move on but hey everyone is different and handles things differently and this hate speech can demoralize an unsuspecting fellow who may not have the resilience to weather it.

Please look into this and see if its achievable. I mean the block feature.

Thank you.

Jewessgratitude:
A good example of what I'm talking about.

For your info, I'm a part-time phonetics and diction instructor, meaning I'm on hols now so I gat all the time. Ok? Mr. Workaholic.

GreenMist21:
Astrog is one of them

Jewessgratitude:
In my short time here as a member ( though been here as a guest since 2015) I observed that the guys here are easily irritated and get provoked at the slightest opportunity. I mean...I feel its uncalled for especially as this is a faceless forum.

I grew up knowing guys to be very discreet but these days especially in this forum, guys talk recklessly and gossip a lot too. They also dont mind their business.
Is it a comradeship thing here or what? An identity? Hmm....

I also observed non of the members live in Ikoyi, VI, and nice places one can easily relate with...guess I joined the wrong forum after all. Reason I feel like a square peg in a round hole like one in an entirely different circle of people. Hmmm...

If you come at me with your usual rantings, I won't be surprised.

StacyO:
No please

EmmBim:
I need an electric blender pls,may God bless the giver.based in Lagos,I can pay for delivery.

Omawumi17:
I wish someone here ll help me pay for my skills acquistion training fee.. I want to learn a skill that ll change my financial situation next year... I am tired of job hunting walahi

Rekhina:
U and that[i] Big breasted lady who can be mistaken as a Jewish Jezebel[/i]

Mariangeles:
Before you give those out, I would advise you select from people that haven't received anything .
Let's spread the joy instead of giving it all to few people.

Motirayo2018:
Am interested pls

Phenomenal16:
No sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex no sex!¡!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rekhina:
Y the AttaCk on My person last nite khiaa .Are u on drugs?

Amatarasha:
Am 100times preetier Dan u fungisticqueen

IyaTola:
12 EXPO FOR MEN IF YOU WANT TO MARRY SINGLE MOTHERS.

1. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing.

2. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.

3. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.

4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they are.

5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.

6. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.

7. If the child is a female child you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once they are adult or even get married.

8. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she
will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.

9. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

10. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

11. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, Sign an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife;

12. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not, be
ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity.

Nigerian men do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated. 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market.

SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!

https://twitter.com/madamkofo_/status/1200310181357338625

chiommy123:
I think the ladies are trying this days and should be encouraged. men need this more cos they're lazy

destinyy23:
Please loud it for those at the back..

chenzen:
Education: 87%

Good manners: 89%

Morality: 79%

Beauty: 98%

Etiquette: 99%

Intelligence quotient: 99

Exposure: 100%

culinary skills: 100%

spirituality: 50%


pls ask if u want me to break it down

TheRedpillguy:
Honest opinions only please.

BIXYBABE:
God bless d giver.....I need wavon or attachment to make hair