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ImaIma1:
Hmmm AstroG are you sure you want me to mention names?

franchasng:
hahahahahaha


There must be sissy men no matter how you preach it, there must be men who will kill their entire lineage just to convince one pussy to allow them get laid for few seconds



Op, if you haven't noticed a huge decline in the number of capable guys getting married early, then you are not observant.


There are many financially successful guys who out of fear of bad news about marriages or out of their fear of being tied down by one pussy or fear of loosing plenty other hot chicks they sample free as single guys, have refused to get married.


The truth is, in as much as we do see lots of pussy niggas begging and worshipping girls in real life, don't be deceived that it means guys are completely happy with ladies' latest way of life today. Many guys are dealing with ladies in real life oh.

What Jeremy did to almighty Linda Ikeji is it not mortal combat


What Dbanj did to Genevieve Nnaji is it not WWE Smackdown


What Iyanya did to Yvonne Nelson is it not more than WWW raw



What about what Iceberg Slim did to Hanty Juliet Ibrahim, after pressing her big ass up and down in public he dumped her like hot akara, was it also a movie or an online show



It is not online bragging oh, most Nigerian guys are really angry with Nigerian ladies, reason I have decided not to allow any Nigerian guy to ever touch my BIG BOMBOM, never

pocohantas:
Hahahaha. People wey no well

Anyway, there are true alphas. So, I can't speak for every guy online or say they are not what they represent online. My own be say, make them go find work. Majority of the ones in Romance section are juveniles that don't even know how much a litre of fuel is sold. Na their papa dey buy fuel them dey use charge phone. More reason their talk dey finish for Romance section. Take them to any other section and they go off. Ndi ala!!

ImaIma1:
So many...lol...red pillers especially. I don't wanna mention names.

Ishilove:
You are just ranting and ranting without making a single sense. I clearly stated that 'I stand to be corrected', and Ornicus did just that, but you are one of the many Nairaland youths with poor reading culture that comment first, think later.

FVCK OFF MY MENTIONS.

Hamachi:
Dear Men,

You're not doing us a favor by marrying us. No! if anything, you benefit immensely by take up a wife (I would touch more on that later).

Marriage is a mutually benefiting contract. Nobody goes into it totally oblivious of what he/she stands to gain.

We are all selfish in nature, we seek self gratification before anything else. If marriage isn't a boon then most of us here won't aspire to get tangled up in it.

You aspire to marry a woman that would be a yin to yang, you have your standards. So why then are you threatened when women present their own standards?

It's highly laughable when I read comments like;

"If you don't lower your standard, you'll end up growing old in your father's house "

"Wait to you hit menopause then you won't be this picky"

"You're still young that why you're this arrogant "

Most men who make such comments have nothing tangible to offer other than their penis or whatever little change they've gathered. They lack critical thinking, have no humility and think the the world revolves around them. Take away whatever their ego hinges on and see them deflate like balloon.

Most Kings who knows their worth hardly make noise. They simply lurk in plain sight, observe then pick their Queens.

Spend time looking for the one that deserves your time, resources and heart so you would not feel like you're doing her a favor by marrying her.

MissOffpoint:
I hate argument, but you are a very stupid person. You don't even know what you are saying, Is it you that built office for the dean of medicine in UNEC? And you said it with so much pride. What do you want to tell me about UNEC that I don't already know? Or is it another UNEC?

And I am still telling you that there is biochemistry department here in UNEC different from the one at Nsukka. Go and find out and stop talking trash.

You are the one with a whack head. Foolish human being, if someone says something different from what you know, make your findings. Don't just open your mouth and start insulting the person. Get lost and never return, infact eeh, let the ground open and swallow you, so that you will get lost for ever.

Nonsense

Chapter1vs6:
Lagos Enugu kwara Oyo Ogun. Those are the few I know

Michellekabod2:
Leave them,let them be jubilating! They think I am with them....


I always knew we had so much views in common that only a matter of time before we realise...we all learn everyday

Michellekabod2:
At some point I have been guilty of some points listed below but we all learn everyday.

The first and second wave of feminism focused on political, economic rights but the third wave places emphasis on societal rights. This is where the problem lies. Its easier to pass bills and adjust constitution in order to promote equality but can you influence someone consciousness, beliefs,norms?
Now people are different, different preferences,different perspectives,religion,environment, ethnicity et al influences our subconscious. Very few people are able to reason for themselves, very few people are able to dump the shackles of stereotypes,we can't force them to (except they engage in acts that are not within the confines of the law).
Some feminist now deviate from attaining gender equality to trying to change peoples individual beliefs or norms. If a lady beliefs she should act in a way or not,you don't have to start encouraging her to do otherwise as a way of making her equal to the man. Some ladies love domestic chores, it's their way of showing their love for a man, you don't have to start bugging her to stop it and telling her she is been exploited.
I have seen feminists telling virgins "you are keeping yourself for a man,is he keeping himself for you?" Encouraging ladies to dump their personal values in other to be equal to him. You can be equal to him by being yourself.
Feminism is not a competition but to earn equality, you must not copy men to be equal with men.

I personally drink,and club,I have "good girls" as friends, I don't have to be telling them to be like me . I don't have to tell them to dump the path they have chosen.
Feminism has ruined some marriages by telling wives what to do. The either of cheating in marriage is not frowned upon because its a betrayal of trust but it is frowned upon nowadays because "if its a woman cheating will he tolerate it?" I will walk away from a cheating spouse because he betrayed my trust, not because someone gingered me saying ", he is doing it because he is a man bla bla bla" . some feminists even advice ladies to cheat as revenge,to show they have rights to cheat as well.
If a lady tells me her spouse is cheating I just ask her a question,"do you want to divorce him or make him change?"
I don't have to call her a weakling for staying. Some people value their marriage and will do everything to keep it(well not me).
I can only advice a lady to leave if domestic violence is involved which obviously poses a threat to her life or if he has STDs and can affect her. Aside these cases I can't tell her what to do. Some feminists do things not because its their choice but a way of showing men they can also do what they do.

Another problem with some feminist is the quest to change men views of them. So people can't unlearn their stereotypes, imagine being fed with the stereotype that women are supposed to be this or that,instead of being yourself you try to make men appreciate you for being you. Not everyone will accept you,not every man appreciate your choices,stay away from them and keep doing your own thing instead of engaging in futile arguments with them or how to see you. Feminism is a fight for equality and not a fight for acceptance/appreciation of equality by men . some men believe all ladies should be virgins till their marriage, its futile trying to fighting to stop them from viewing you as a hoe if you think otherwise,rather have sex if you wish and ignore them,except off course they bully or oppress you for your choice.

Instead of doing the things they want, they complain men are viewing them as "bad" and judging them. Keep doing what you wish,and leave any man to his own thinking as long he doesn't oppress or silence you. If you love to drink for example, do drink ,if I man says a lady should not drink,still drink and there is no need engaging in campaigns or e wars crying foul, except off course he oppresses you for your choice.

Lastly,I see more "talkers" than "doers". I see much blaming,complaining than taking steps. Most pages of feminists I see are always talking of men! Men! Men! Men! The attention they give men is feeding their ego,most discussions of feminism is centered on men,what is the obsession with " men-talk"?
Is better to light a candle than curse the darkness. it all ends in nagging online,nothing is done offline. They are places where female genital mutilation is been practised, its more noble to push for laws that will prohibit it,than the online noise some feminists make which yield nothing.
If you want to participate in politics go and pursue it,it is when you are opposed you should start complaining,first make the move.

*modified
Based on the comments of this thread I wanna clarify something, I am not saying ladies should retain or not retain their personal values all I am saying is that don't pressure them to dump their feminity,its their choice,if they want to dump it,fine! If they don't want to,fine! The main objective is not to alter their nature,but promote equality... Their choice to retain their nature is their decision to make....

Cc: antibrutus,liberalchick,poccohantas,magnoliaa,martinez39,redcreme21,budaatum,fuministicqueen,JOHNNYDISPUTE, martinez39

Rekhina:
Shame on u n ur clinic matters cleaner biliki

Rekhina:
funmi do u say u be 22?


Nne u can lie

Phenomenal16:
Age: 22
Location :UNEC ENUGU
Occupation : student nurse
Religioun:Christianity
Genotype :AA
Relationship :single
Person of interest : men above 30... Late twenties too
Hobbies : movies
Dislikes :lies
Pls don't derail this thread..... Forgive my typo
I know m not too fine... Manage this one

chigoizie7:
All the best.

I only asked because I know that Nairaland girls are senseless.

Congratulations once more

RedCreme21:
go back to the room and sleep.

chenzen:
nb: Martinez is ubunja, ubunja is Martinez...
givin' credence to failing monikers

RedCreme21:
Dare you not.
I never stated that i would write miseducations. I typed that i would create threads where both women and men also will contribute to assist and encourage one another. I believing in love, you dont. That where our conflict stems from.
I deactivated for another reason. Not because of you. Dont overestimate yourself martinez.

Katier00:
lazy man's ideology

Kenoxman:
No woman is really single. If ur feelings for her is really genuine, then be patient with her. But if na to just chop & clean mouth, let her go.