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Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by ASUNDER: 12:49pm On Mar 30, 2021
They want equality but their whole purpose in life is dependent on getting a man. Ask her very well, it's not like men are not approaching her, it's just that she needs men with a lot of money to spend on her.

Another thrash street girl looking for her simpy "captain save a hoe"
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ASUNDER: 12:45pm On Mar 30, 2021
Miracood2:


Ya clazy grin
At times I do feel I need a bang..
But certainly not a gf
Quit the jealousy and the need to get a girl just to prove a point to your room mate that you're superior. You have your priorities misplaced, so for now, focusing on positive goals is your best bet. Work towards getting a first class and a maybe awards in your department to Impress your roommate and others, definitely not a girl. Your thinking is not in line with TRP philosophy bro. You need to relearn.

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Sports / Re: Boat Ride To Port Novo – Super Eagles Players React by ASUNDER: 10:22am On Mar 25, 2021
Pee
Romance / Re: Would You Date Her? (WARNING: Graphic Dating Profile!!!) by ASUNDER: 2:20pm On Mar 11, 2021
She is single and looking for love. Boys please respond grin
Education / Re: Kwara Hijab Controversy: Government Deploys Security To Schools In Ilorin by ASUNDER: 2:44pm On Mar 10, 2021
Gobengroup:
I doubt your sanity... � You sound like a person suffering from mental disorder..
Just like your father and you, his slowpoke son. Friggin numbskull *spits*
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ASUNDER: 1:22pm On Mar 10, 2021
Zabiboy:

The truth is, we MEN have the power to change more than 95% of these things we complain about in women whether it is biological(inherent) or learnt but we ARE NOT READY....
We all know that women can only love you based on what you can provide just the way your fellow guys measure your worth based on how much you have.....it's just the world we live in......CAN YOU CHANGE IT?? NO .....CAN WE ALL CHANGE IT?? YES ....BUT IS IT POSSIBLE FOR EVERYONE TO AGREE TO CHANGE IT NO ...
so let's leave all this women talk and focus on other things...If everyone here had applied the redpill to every area of his life( and not only women) then they would have known that you dont only ignore (F) monikers but also (M) monikers posting something you don't agree with thereby saving all those pages lost to arguments.
Anyways...A lady once said "for every guy forming redpill, there are thousands of other guys begging and spending on a girl for sex and attention" and this is the truth....
So lets leave all these women stuffs and focus on ourselves...topics like
1) How do our fellow men manipulate us
2) How do we improve physically,mentally, socially, financially and otherwise.....
3) Gym and exercise challenges...
4) How to get information's to improve financially and latest job vacancies if possible
5) what to do when we feel Hot or feel like visiting a brothel or feel like masturbating or watching porn ( for those who do)
6) disecting real life occurrences and examples to know how we should act if we're in a similar situation..
7) books that can shape us( a lot has already been recommended here tho)
And other things...
My Humble opinion

Very sensible post. I am ''pink pill'' cos I like p***y too much grin grin grin. Some of 'em, you get for free, some take some effort and spending a little bit of cash, but by and large, all p***ys are enjoyable. I don't expect any woman to love me or be faithful to me and I love none, even though I need to say it to get into some of their panties. I got enough love for myself already and from my mama and my sisters. I will not marry anyone of that gender, but will continue to enjoy their special body parts till thy kingdom come. I have also noticed that the more I improve on myself, the more free high quality p***ys come my way, without much sweat. Lets all just keep improving on ourselves, make more money, look good, gain confidence and we will keep smashing that body part that is sweet in the middle and we all love!

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Culture / Re: Traditional Marriage List In Anambra by ASUNDER: 1:18pm On Mar 10, 2021
Marriage is a scam. Do not marry anybody guys. We are in the baby mama generation. Do not sign your life away to the government!
Romance / Re: Would You Date Her? (WARNING: Graphic Dating Profile!!!) by ASUNDER: 1:14pm On Mar 10, 2021
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Romance / Would You Date Her? (WARNING: Graphic Dating Profile!!!) by ASUNDER: 1:13pm On Mar 10, 2021
As seen on a christian dating website in the UK

Please help judge this matter our sisters in the Lord, pastors and evangelists grin cheesy smiley

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Career / Re: How To Adapt To A New Work Environment by ASUNDER: 2:09pm On Mar 09, 2021
Cool
Politics / Re: Sheikh Gumi Replies Army, Says ‘I Was Misunderstood’ by ASUNDER: 2:08pm On Mar 09, 2021
Wahala for who follow ignorant and confused Sheik
Education / Re: Kwara Hijab Controversy: Government Deploys Security To Schools In Ilorin by ASUNDER: 7:39am On Mar 09, 2021
Please protect ijab wearing, it boosts the economy!
Politics / Re: Backlash As Bawa Addresses Staff Under The Sun by ASUNDER: 7:38am On Mar 09, 2021
Sun that some people are praying for in some countries, you're shaming thr EFCC boss for letting his staff enjoy Vitamin D! grin
Travel / Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by ASUNDER: 7:30am On Mar 09, 2021
Based on your questions, you have assumed that she is a saint and he is the villain and merely suffering from Karma. Well, you're wrong. I think my friend is suffering cos he is the opposite. He is a simp, who put all his life in his wife's hands and sucked up to her, empowered her and allowed her to persistently cross his boundaries. She doesn't see him as a man anymore and thinks she is too good for him. So suck up your assumptions lady!
awulio:
He should move to another city or move to Isle of Man or gurnesy they don’t care about his criminal record.... but ask ur friend what he did to his wife... was he a serial cheat and the wife is just doing pay back?

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Travel / Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by ASUNDER: 3:08pm On Mar 08, 2021
Well for any Nigerian lady who is lonely and lives in England or Wales, I am a good fun 5"8 professional hight value millenial guy. I WILL NOT MARRY YOU AND WILL NOT BE EXCLUSIVE. But if you are nice, cheerful and open minded, we can regularly enjoy each other's company. My DM is open

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Travel / Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by ASUNDER: 2:40pm On Mar 08, 2021
No domestic violence. He willingly moved out of the house due to constant arguments. They are both Nigerian Yorubas. He brought his wife to the UK from Nigeria. He is not a citizen yet but legal. If you have lived in the UK, you'd realised that violence doesn't need to have occurred before a woman gets you arrested. Merely saying "I am fearful of him and my life is in danger" is enough! Abroad is not for black men with shaky marriage. If your marriage is not solid and your wife is in Nigeria, just leave her there. If you are single, remain single! I for one will never marry any woman and sign any stupid papers! NEVER! Don't tell my mum sha grin cheesy smiley
SURElee:
You mentioned domestic violence as one of the many allegations against your friend.

Now, if he wasn't violent towards his wife, he wouldn't have been arrested or She wouldn't have been scared when he came to see his kids. It was the fear of a possible violent altercation that led her to calling to police.

Nigerian men have to know that what they do to women in Naija here and get applauded, they will get the boot for it over there.


I won't comment further , because you are simply giving a one sided report of what you have heard the man say. You haven't heard the wife's side of the story.

It takes two to make marriage work.

Your friend should sit and truthfully analyse what went wrong and take steps to better his life. It is either they make up or go separate ways in which he is healthy, mentally and emotionally stable even after the divorce.
He need to stay alive and be stable upstairs , he wouldn't be the first in this case.

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Family / Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK by ASUNDER: 11:06pm On Mar 07, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:


He is in uk illegally but he has kids with this woman so how can he not use his kids legal status to renew his document
He is legal.
Family / Re: How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK by ASUNDER: 11:04pm On Mar 07, 2021
Citizens advice bureau give free divorce lawyers? In this same UK where I live? Are you kidding me bro?
Family / How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK by ASUNDER: 4:03pm On Mar 07, 2021
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

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Travel / How Did You Survive Your Divorce In The UK? by ASUNDER: 3:54pm On Mar 07, 2021
My friend is currently going through a divorce in the UK and having a hell of a time. His wife mounted as many allegations on him as possible during separation - domestic violence, marital rape, child abuse, drugs and alcohol use, adultery, forgery just to name a few. He had to leave the house. He has moved to a room in a shared house and now even struggling to pay the rent. He does not see his kids anymore (not by choice). He is very broke and in debt because of all that is going on. He can no longer afford a lawyer. He feels so powerless, helpless and hopeless that he cannot fight most of what his wife is putting him through in court. He represents himself these days.

He has stopped looking after himself and is always looking sad . He also lost his job due to his arrest and all the drama. He was arrested because he tried to go see his kids at his former home and his wife called the police that she was afraid of him and that he had come to harass her. Police arrested him even without any traces of any harassment. Note that he moved out of the family house voluntarily thinking that the period of separation would ease tension between him and his wife.

I always feel sad seeing him in this state and just wish that he could recover and bounce back. He is considering moving back to Nigeria.

Have you gone through divorce in the UK or do you know anyone who has? What was the experience and what advice would you give someone going through this?

Thank you.

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