Politics › Re: Victor Giadom Faults Ajimobi’s Appointment As APC Acting National Chairman by ATAKAM: 4:23am On Jun 17, 2020 |
abeg make una stop disturbing people with all these APC news.... |
Politics › Re: Owonikoko Quadri Is Dead by ATAKAM: 8:39am On Jun 16, 2020 |
this covid 19 might be the cause of all the these deaths but people keep hiding it.....its better everyone gets tested early enough and start boosting the body immunity..... |
Politics › Re: Moves To Save Obaseki By Presidency Flops by ATAKAM: 8:12am On Jun 16, 2020 |
i see sympathy votes going to Obaseki.... |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Elected Man Who Killed Their Country- Ghana Presidential Candidate by ATAKAM: 11:57pm On Jun 15, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Nigerians Elected Man Who Killed Their Country- Ghana Presidential Candidate by ATAKAM: 9:31am On Jun 15, 2020 |
omoiyamayor: This people use to enjoy Nigeria without vision,no that Nigeria is on the rise they are upset. i guess you are living in burkina faso |
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Politics › Re: A First Lady After My Heart… by ATAKAM: 9:17pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
what do we do now with this? |
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Politics › Re: Katsina Protesters Burn Buhari's Billboard Over Insecurity (Photos, Video) by ATAKAM: 4:04pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
Omoiyaa: you people don't want to see rich or average northner
Why always using the poor among them for your propaganda? Don't you have poor people in the east? See as you captured those kids to mock a whole region
Stop deceiving yourself, these are the real Arewa boys enjoying oil money below, although many of them are into business and advanced agriculture.Instead of our youths to wake up and do something by holding our leaders accountable for our allocations,we are busy looking for any opportunity to stereotype and call the north poor and backward while northerners are busy building their empires .....you made a point but the pictures you posted are childish.......if southerners start posting pictures of opulence the dogs will be sent to them.....to keep mute is a wise thing to do.. |
Politics › Re: Why Are The Politicians Visiting Orji Kalu by ATAKAM: 6:31pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
fellow thieves.............................. |
Politics › Re: Mention 10 Things Obaseki Did In Edo State And Get 5k by ATAKAM: 5:01pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
daddytime: Thank God say you be witness.
Make we ask dem the question.
Wetin be Obaseki sin? ovwie edo kpata ki.....a benin man served him for 8 years and remained loyal....now its the turn of edo north man in the person of Philip Shaibu to remain loyal to a benin man....Osho just dey worry everybody up and down........ |
Politics › Re: Mention 10 Things Obaseki Did In Edo State And Get 5k by ATAKAM: 4:48pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
daddytime: When I enter my village for Irrua before the lockdown I even shock say any government fit remember our roads.
The last time we saw any government presence was in the Ali days.
This is apart from his work in the inner roads of Benin metropolis oh.
The Ugbor to Amagba road which runs through Ize Iyamu's house, Kabaka's house through Ize Iyamu's farm had been abandoned by the idiots in their time and the monies shared among their lazy thieving pseudo-political leaders arses but Obaseki came in and said enough of sharing the States common patrimony while infrastructural rot and thugs reign supreme in the State and that's his crime of not carrying the bastards along.
Na thunder go fire all of una that amagba road shock me....visited a friend and was driving even past his house to meet workers still on the road working.......whats really obasekis sins...because e no share money to thieves..... |
Politics › Re: Mention 10 Things Obaseki Did In Edo State And Get 5k by ATAKAM: 4:34pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
daddytime:

E be like say dem never read finish.
I see dem kids with zero life experiences running amok all over in support of their original enemies because they have no idea what is truly happening even right before their eyes.
It is indeed a shame, a classic case of Stockholm syndrome, and a shame on the average Nigerian youth.
Helineus, I've seen you on several threads supporting Oshiomole and jubilatingabout how Obaseki deserves to be disgraced.
Would you be kind enough to tell us his sins and why Oshiomole is the State's Savior? ...why you dey waste your precious time writing so much.....i was in benin recently....iyoba,technical school road and evwareke road is wearing a new look....passed uselu market and saw everywhere clean... |
Politics › Re: President buhari attends Juma'at prayers by ATAKAM: 5:36pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
Xisnin: There is no one on the other side. ..There is God...dont join me in this spiritual argument please.... |
Politics › Re: President buhari attends Juma'at prayers by ATAKAM: 4:21pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
God is really merciful.....despite all these wickedness from our leaders they still pray to Him and he spares them........ |
Politics › Re: Another TINUBU Mension Where You Must Pay N300 Million To Live In It. by ATAKAM: 4:17pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
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Crime › Re: 66-Year-Old Man Who Rapes Minors In Yobe, Arrested by ATAKAM: 10:42am On Jun 05, 2020 |
just put it in your head and imagine if those kids are yours.....hehehehehehehehe....make i no laff first......in the north its a common thing as children roam aimlessly....if you charge him now the worse that can happen is to tell him to marry them....its common... |
Crime › Re: Rioters In The U.S Have Killed So Many Innocent People by ATAKAM: 12:21am On Jun 04, 2020 |
when Trump said loot and get shot....they world cried fowl.....now it has entered looting and killing......what next.... |
Politics › Re: Edo APC Primary: Obaseki As A Student Can’t Set Rules For An Examination –Mayaki by ATAKAM: 9:20am On Jun 02, 2020 |
Bighead9: True.
Ugly Obaseki should stop running from post to post. He should should mention the 10 things he did in Edo state. are you from edo? bighead |
Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Served Me With Just A Meat Instead Of Two Meats by ATAKAM: 2:12am On Jun 02, 2020 |
OP raise your status and you will have plenty of meat to eat.... |
Health › Re: Share Your Sleep Paralysis Experience Here. by ATAKAM: 11:14pm On May 31, 2020 |
That thing is scary....just dont lie on your back facing up....remember this and thank me later.... |
Politics › Re: I Gave Asari Dokubo N20 Million In Kuje ,He Called DSS For My Boys-Nnamdi Kanu by ATAKAM: 9:32pm On May 30, 2020 |
donbachi: 20million naira..where u dey work and which business u dey do? ask arewa boys oh....20 million? |
Politics › Re: Ize-Iyamu: Those Who Brought Obaseki From Nowhere Can Look Elsewhere by ATAKAM: 2:12am On May 30, 2020 |
Ize Iyamu should stop jumping from one party to another as he is a pastor..... |
Politics › Re: President Trump Terminates US Ties With World Health Organization (video) by ATAKAM: 1:12am On May 30, 2020 |
BeLookingIDIOT: Not really a virus indeed  It is ever the most stupid humans that are in support of trump. is he your president....? |
Politics › Re: President Trump Terminates US Ties With World Health Organization (video) by ATAKAM: 12:35am On May 30, 2020 |
only those who dont have mb to watch this will call him a bad man.....he is coming close to africa and i fear for nigeria..... |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Breaking News: Us President Cancelled Bill Gates Project by ATAKAM: 11:55pm On May 29, 2020 |
something he knows we dont know... |
Family › Re: Children's Day: Childhood Memories, Fun Games That Got You Amused by ATAKAM: 10:17pm On May 27, 2020 |
OsuMustGo: This thread is not for Indomie GENERATION indomie don old oh.....e still seniour some people here |
Family › Re: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by ATAKAM: 8:02pm On May 27, 2020 |
charlesELIKIBA: HELLP NAIRALANDERS
I will be brief with my writeup as much as possible so I can explain my connection with this lady.
My single mom gave me away at a tender age of 5 to her elder brother (financial difficulties i assume), this ''aunty'' happens to be the wife of this my mother's elder brother.
Aready they had 4 children, all boys.
The home was a tough upbringing with strict rules about socialising, we weren't allowed to bring friends home or go to friends places. It was pretty strict and my uncles wife i would say was the mastermind of it all, she was strict and mean maybe because it was a house of 5 boys.
Growing up in my uncles home, I wouldn't say I was treated diffrently because I always got matching outfits with my uncle's children during christmas, gifts during christmas, same portions of food BUT IN ALL I was always scared of doing somethings my cousins would do. I didn't feel free growing up, i felt diffrent from them. In some cases they attended the best schools than I (but I never attended a govt. school or a bad private school).
It's like if their school fees was 1m naira per term, mine would be 150,000 per term.
I lived with them until I was about 16 or 17 and one morning I woke up and they said i was going back to my mother at 15 or 16 like any kid, you would start to develop conscience (sense), maybe breaking some rules and being stubborn just like their own kids. This I assume was why they wanted to send me back to my mother OTHERWISE I CAN THINK OF NOTHING ELSE I DID WRONG OR DIFFRENT.
In all of these years living with them, I saw my mother as a strange person. I had no motherly connection with her. My anty to me, was my real mother. Whenever we went visiting my mother in very rare occasions, it was always awkward.
Well long story short, I found myself back in my mother's arms, to a new environment i knew nothing about and starting to learn to live with a woman called my mother. I was naive, had no choice but to accept realities on ground. Do you know that feeling of living in a pouch house and wake up next morning in a 1 room surrounded by thick bushes. Yes that was the change.
I was enrolled into a school, my uncle was repeatedly forced to send/ pay my schoolfees until i was in ss3 and i called him to inform him about waec enrolment. He told me on the phone ''all the exams i have been writing, how many have i passed'' and that was it. He never sent a dime anymore meanwhile at this point his children, my cousins were already miles ahead of me suddenly in education. When i left the home, the eldest son went to canada to school, the second who is my agemate was already in a private uni in Nigeria and the 3rd who i am senior to with a year is preparing to go to ukraine for school and years later the last born who i spoonfed and chewed meat for attended uni in Ghana.
Well long story short, since my uncle had failed me. My mother said it was time i go to my father. My father was old retired pensioner. My mother took me to him, as expected awkward encounter. I have never known this man, no memory of him. Well he said he would find my enrolment money and he did, he later passed on a year or two later.
I enrolled waec and pased in one sitting, thanks to miracle centres.
PS: i must say i was never an intelligent student. i wasn't even average but i wasn't the poorest and neither of my uncles children were better. We were all poor educationally.
Long story short another uncle sprang up and paid for my university diploma which i later acquiried.
YEARS LATER my uncle and aunty decided to move back to our home town, please note the home my mother stayed in was this my uncles home. It was the boy quarters, the main house was not even in sight as at the time i was returned to my mother. We did series of bush clearing and snakes killing lol. well my uncle returned home town after retirement and setup the main structure ( a 5 bed room duplex) and thats were they lived while i and my mother lived in the BQ.
I WAS very angry with myself that i happened to still live with them AGAIN, i needed to get out of their sight, my condition was bad. i was a mere teacher to some rickety school. In all of this my uncle's wife always ensured she knew what i was upto and she derived satisfaction when she knew i wasn't doing better than her kids who were all abroad. i turned to their errand boy again after years of neglect. i was very angry with myself and needed to save to get out of the house.
Well i did manage to save up and leave the house and i promised myself never to return to that house. i felt neglected, i felt they sent me away because the goodthings were coming and they couldn't bear to see me share in them because to me they were my parents.
YEARS LATER, my aunty was sick with cancer please note before i left the home, my uncle and aunty always sent me to travel journeys to get them medicines from a monastry. i attended such trips severally and ran other seperate errands but i never dared to drive their car talkless ask for the key. i always washed their car in the mornings, i would never also dare to see myself in the living room of the duplex with the remote in hand. when they moved back to the hometown, that fear in my childhood started again but this time i was mature enough to know i would never m amount to anything in life if i continued this again hence the reason i needed to move out.
So my aunty sickness grew worse, the husband flew her to india and back but the sickness grew worse. in all of this cancer times i never went back to the house to see her. I only heard of her conditions from my siblings (my half siblings, my mother was married to 3 men in diffrent years and she had only me for my father, another for another man and 3 for another man, i was the lastborn of all).
Then my aunty died. The day she died, i saw her in my dreams and she was crying saying ''she forgave me''. A day or two later i went to my sisters store and she told me of my aunty death, i went to my rented apartment and cried profusely. i later summouned courage and maybe sympathy and went to my uncles house and i cried before my uncle and told him to forgive me too for all abandoning them all this while.
NOW ABOUT MY AUNTY SAYING SHE FORGAVE ME IN THE DREAM: i did not do her any wrong neither did i wish death on her. All her life her greatest fear was maybe i would become greater than her children. She loved these comparisms, i was never wicked to her, i never cursed her, i was never rude to her unless i some instances when she sends me errands and i tell her i have other things to do.... Otherwise i never was negative to her instead she is the one nobody likes, by nobody i mean my uncles family. Nobody talks good of her, they say she controls my uncle and also squandered his money but in all of this i never spoke of my experiences living with them and somethings they did wrong that made me feel diffrent, i did not even tell you guys neither have i told my mother ever. i don't see them as anything that would stop my growth in life. i hate to talk about the bad in people.
WELL BACK TO REASON THE TOPIC WAS CREATED, why do i keep repeatedly seeing her in my dreams even after her death and its always on a negative role. its either in the dream she still plays mother, or she is gossip about me in the dream or she is against me in the dream, just think of anything negative in a dream and she will be the mastermind. This is really beginning to worry me. Why is she still attached to me in the dreams?
After she died, her husband, my uncle started his own sickness but has been sick for years now, he is bed ridden. The family has repeatedly asked him if there is anything he and his late wife did in the past to amount such sickness were he is living in pain but refused to die and he would not answer. One time they said, he said ''it was out of ignorance'' and thats all he ever said about anything.
It will also be good to note that of all my 4 cousin brothers and i today, i am the most successful by far.
i just finished my house (a 3bedroom, 2 bedroom, 1 bedrrom bungalow) january this year i bought my 3rd car. i travel round the world effortlessly. YES I DID TURN OUT FAR BETTER THAN MY COUSINS WHO YOU KNOW HAD THE BEST EDUCATION.
I don't want to talk of their conditions, lets concentrate on me.
So this is my much writeup... I had to skip many things so you can bear to read but please be free to ask me questions.
Why do I repeatedly see my aunty in my dreams.... just before this writeup, i had just woken up from another dream she was present in, she was whispering to the ears of a very good friend of mine and then the friends turned to me and was like '' ah cahrles na so you be''?...and i was angry and was like '' how can you believe something someone you just met told you against i your best friends word'' and minutes later dream ended and i woke up.
At this point i am thinking of going spiritual to know why this is happening but this will be a first in my life. There are two popular places i have never being in my life until lately last year... One is a shrine and the other is a police station. Last year was my first time to be in a police station. I was driving my unregistered car. That was my offence. is this one brief? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Could Be About To Lose U.S. Dollar Hegemony To China by ATAKAM: 7:51am On May 25, 2020 |
is this why china gave the world covid 19? |
Health › Re: Prodest Hotel Manager Tests Positive For Coronavirus In Rivers State by ATAKAM: 12:23am On May 25, 2020 |
whattttttttt  |
Education › Re: Private Schools Teachers, How Are You Coping During This Lock Down? by ATAKAM: 11:46am On May 20, 2020 |
exco90: get out of here.. who is scared of the end time sef.. we don hey hear am since. me as a person I don't even care again.. the world didn't end after measles outbreak, Spanish flu outbreak. the pandemic of 1720, 1820 and the likes . abeg make person hear word i just tire my dear...end time issue don make so many lazy....waiting for the day instead of working for the day.... |
Science/Technology › Re: Rare Dinosaur That Roamed Antarctica 110 Million Yrs Ago Found In Australia (Pix by ATAKAM: 1:25pm On May 19, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: Sometimes eh, the exaggerated "facts" that are given to these archaeological findings, makes science look like Superstitions!
Awon 110million years!
How a dating-analysis system of less than 200 years old is able to make a hundred million years prediction begs a lot of question! AI learns from data, how many data did they get from earth at 100+ million years ago to teach these machines accurately and thats why when they are ready to go to the moon we are getting ready to visit the village.. |