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thesicilian:
Still cracking my brains on that. Personal suspects currently are:
1. Ramona - the only person actually in the building
2. Ghost himself planned it - maybe as part of a larger picture, considering that phone call he made to Tommy's guy in prison
3. ... thinking...

Let me position my chair beside you to join in the thinking, at least till January 05, 2020.

Oxtertee:
It might be Tommy Eagen with his hot tempered.

Maybe...

thesicilian:
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Tommy
Tasha
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Saxe
Tate
Angela's sister
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I'm guessing a completely different person from all the suspects.

And that's likely to be ?

selch:
Clearly his son tareeq, ungrateful privilege useless waste of sperm

Can we really blame the boy? It seems it runs in the blood. Also, James got a dosage of what he did to his father. He told Riq that his father warned him too but he never listen.

For lovers of the series #Power. Please guess correctly who shot Ghost and get #5,000 in January when the concluding episodes would be released.




Lalasticala kindly let someone chop this awoof 5k for data

Dear Op,

I really understand your point and can relate on your position, but in fairness to your wife, she's already told you right from onset what she wanted.

Secondly, you told us she is a born again which means, traditionally, you guys are married but according to her faith, you are not married but only engaged until the church rite.

My advise, you have really tried waiting for almost 2 years without sex with her (I'm not sure I can... smiles), please fast track your white wedding preparation if you cant wait any longer and you can start having her honey to yourself. Suspending the white wedding only suspended your days in her paradise as it seems she is a lady that you love genuinely. Above all, please be patient with her and am sure she will forever appreciate you for that and vice versa.

God bless your union.

igwegeorgiano:
Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well.

There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with.

When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious.

Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex

I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well.

This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks

I was there for a year and resigned some months ago. I actually got a more bigger offer

austertee01:
So what's your status now, were you finally selected?

He should have taken her to BBN... Sebi e go dey yard when Ike go knack her something for bathroom. Broda Mumu!

Amagite:
Fashion designer and comedian AY's brother, Yomi Casual, has reacted to BBNaija Mike's Instagram post with his wife.

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Yomi has now shaded him. See his post below...

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Sir, it is a strictly NO to that marriage except you are ready to have your babies through IVF (where you have an option to choice their genotype). Also be informed that there will be nothing like 'my wife mistakenly take-in'

BroAchival:
Greetings to this great house,

As I type this message, my heart is heavy.

Up till today, I have never known my genotype till I went to do medical fitness test for my job/employment process.

I've being dating by girlfriend for about two years and seven months now, and I've always seen her as a perfect match to me, not because she's perfect, but because she's very loyal, reserved and calm, respectful, teachable, willing to learn, beautiful and very supportive to say a few.

Kai, the thought of losing her is killing and unexplainable. She had been a BLESSING to me all these while.
We've really worked on ourselves and helped each other to overcome our weaknesses.

With the challenges of my new and better job, will I really have that time to woo women and start the process of working on a woman to blend and suit me?

And this is a girl I'm planning to settle down with by the middle of next year, after I must have gotten used to my new job.

I have always believed that my genotype would be AA, but I was wrong!

Somebody told me that there's nothing God can not do, that he has seen people giving testimonies about change of genotypes. I didn't doubt him, it's just that i'm not the "churchious" type who easily believe all those stories.

Now, my questions are:

1.) Is it possible to have just two children without an SS child?

2.) How do I relate this sad news to her (after she has turned down several serious marriage proposals because of me)?

3.) Please, what do I do?

Please, help me and send this to front page for greater views and advice.

Matured and very serious advice needed.

Thanks.

Good afternoon bro,

I don't usually comment on things like this... I don't even know what to advise you as at when I started typing this. However, I will talk to you in the following bullet points:

1. You girlfriend is authoritative and your are in for a deep trouble should you marry that girl especially if she is your success story!

2. I know you are a graduate and of age (20s), but I think what is paramount now is to 'make yourself'. You will be surprise plenty specs of your pretty girl in Abuja here in Lagos will be ready to marry you (your focus should be getting yourself job/business).

3. Sincerely, no matter what the lady plan to do in Abuja, expect if she help you with a good paying job, it doesn't worth your relocation.

4. Oga, you are in for a good thing in Lagos - all the jobs is in Lagos (smiles). You will always get something to do as far as you are not lazy and can defend your certificate.

5. Please calm down and be a man, we sincerely need our women advise and support but it is very unhealthy when they command with deadlines.

6. CALM DOWN AND FINISH YOUR SERVICE IN LAGOS - WHO KNOWS, YOUR JOB MIGHT JUST BE WAITING FOR YOU!!!

Mensah007:
I had to open another account to post this.
Me and my gf graduated from the school and are currently serving. I'm serving in Lagos while she is in abuja. She was actually redeployed from a far north state to abuja with money by her parents.
We re both in our mid 20s, We love each other so much and would like to marry asap if money comes. After we graduated from Uniben, she persuaded me to go over with her to abuja and search for greener pasture, i made frantic calls in attempts to secure a place to squat over there but to no avail, I had no relatives there and d few friends I have there aren't that close. I later had to go over to Lagos to hustle because i have a few relatives there. Even while i was in Lagos she was still insisting i come over to abuja, reasons that abuja is a more lucrative city. I truly agree to that fact but i seriously have nobody to squat with and I have nobody at all in abuja, not even been to abuja before.
At a time she managed to convince one of her mum's sales boys to take me in in his room but the guy disappointed at the last minute so I had to stay back.

Nysc came, I'm serving in Lagos, she was posted to Kebbi and later redeployed to Abuja. While in camp too, I tried redeploying to abuja on health grounds but I was redeployed bk to Edo state so i had to cancel the application and stay bk. She has been hampering that i redeploy to Abuja but i don't have the 50k fee to pay.

I'm now in Lagos serving in a school, during the holidays i always go out to look for a good job or a good hustle to do. I wasted transport fares and stress attending interviews daily and meeting people but nothing came out yet. Though i did one gig BA job and im yet to get paid. She is still insisting im lazy nd wasting away in Lagos nd i should come over to Abuja. I would like to add that I saw myself thru school with supports from my parents so I'm not lazy. One regret I have is that the hustles i did in uniben are not long term and can't be moved to Lagos. My plan is to find a good job or good hustle and ghost nysc . Im also looking forward to saving to buy a good laptop and starting online business because i have learnt a lot on Nairaland although saving 80k from 19,800 salary might take time.

I have managed to secure a room in a flat where im staying currently, I have resigned myself to be teaching in my ppa for the meantime and still be looking out . She recently became more persistent about the abuja move and gave me few days to come over or forget about her. She initially proposed to pay 50k for d relocation lobbying but relocation for my batch isn't possible until October ending. She however insist i must be in abuja this Saturday.
I have been thinking about this all week, i don't know anybody in abuja, I don't have accommodation there, how do i do my clearance in Lagos if I move, I don't even have money so I will live off her benevolence till I find something doing. Had it been i have a sure hustle/job to take up in abuja, i can make the sacrifice and leave my apartment in Lagos here. I'm just confused.
I need advice please

ARCHEMEDESME:
Please help me out,am frustrated and depressed right now I just don't think I should live again
Data processing-B3
Civic Education-B3
English Language-D7
Igbo Language-B2
General mathematics-OUTSTANDING
Agricultural science-B3
Biology-B3
Chemistry -c4
Physics-B3
I want to apply for remarking but do you think i can make it

Just calm down, it will definitely be released. I had my English in the 2003 waec outstanding but was release after sometime.

Add:
I eventually got B3 in the subject. It is very likely that the paper is going through the remarking you are asking for as at the time the generally result was released. Just be calm, I can assure you have a good grade in the subject.

You only need your Bank account to be as Tall as you, Mr. Afeez.

Why warning her again... Let her dare now!

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Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

My sincere question before I can advise you properly... Is the guy abroad and you here in Nigeria?

stevy00:
I applied for Customer Service Officer. Just finished my interview now. The company make big sense.

So what's your status now, were you finally selected?

What did you apply for?

stevy00:
Please I have an interview with them on monday. How's is their pay like?

ibbryte:

Girl Has either 7m or 700k in her Account.

700k. Only one comma

Bros, to be candid, it seems I know your place of new job. It's Gulf road if am right. You can get a 2bedroom or self contain for 300k close to your office and you can forget all the stress. Pls take the job as it will give you an edge to negotiate for higher pay I'm your next job as there are a lot of opportunities around Vi-Lekki-Ajah.

Habisoye:
Thank you all for the advice....
1. Am maried with 2-kids and light-skin pretty woman and we are happy family.
2. We had to relocate to yaba here frm Abk wen i got the 130k yaba Job Last yr. Are we naw gonna relocate to Ajah again?
3. This new Job is run by White(french) and they produce mastercards, verve, visa, voterscard, etc. and they are offering all kinds of benefit and my current job is a real estate firm owned by a private person.
4. If riding a bike is too risky on d island what abt d dispatch riders dat does diz everyday every minutes all around lagos?
5. I can always get a car and Drive but What abt the heat of traffic and fuel consumption?
6. What if i get a Small room apartment of like 5k at lakowe and sleep there mondays&tuesdays and goes home throughout the remaining dayz of the week?
7. If i shu consider forfeiting diz 200k Offer, wont i find it difficult to secure diz kind of Opportunity again?
Nairalanders please what other options is Best suitable for me to take?

Thank you all..

Bros, I stay in Awoyaya and work in VI. Wake up time is 4.30am to beat morning traffick, leaving office 9pm to beat evening traffick. I do arrive home 10-11pm everyday.

Now my advise, take the job of 200k in Lakowe, I can help you get a 2 bedroom in Lakowe/Awoyaya for 350-450k (depending on your taste). With this you are saving yourself the risk of riding bike here daily, you save a lot on tfare as you will only have to take 50naira cab to your office and non if your house is so close and you can sleep till 7.30am in your house and get home 6pm daily (your children will know their father this way, lols).

Also, you don't have a business pass Ajah bridge as everything you need is right there from Abraham Adesanya roundabouts.

Finally, if you are a night crawler like myself, you have a lot of places to catch fun to the fullest here starting from Total Lounge, Royalty Lounge, Whiskey Ice, Vocalno Strip Club, Askamaya Strip, Wadbash, Royal Bliss, Mayfair Garden, Val-time, Mama Nkechi Beer parlour and Shalaye Sepe Joint (if you no too owe cash) to mention few.

I one cent... Best of luck!

And nobody has made mentioned of going late to an Embassy visa Appointment.

Many times I have seen people on the island arriving for Visa appointment interview slated for 9am as early as 6am

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Ishilove:
'Miscommunication' and boom! Separation. Smh

People of nowadays don't know the meaning of marriage. They just jump in and jump out like they are playing jump rope. It is no longer sacred or till death do part.

They just like the razzmatazz of pre-wedding pictures and the glitz and glamour of weddings, which is why when storm hits the so-called marriage it collapses like a pack of cards because of faulty foundation. 80% of people getting married nowadays are not emotionally ready for the rigours of marriage

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damton:
bro.
how did the interview go and what post were they recruiting for

It was just a test yesterday and the truth, up till now I don't know the position. But it seems like a secretarial/administrative position.

wunmi590:
For those who are sceptical about the coy, please don't, I have had interview with them before in their office in V.I, they are very real

Apart from being real, they are very friendly, their interview is always like man to man talk.

Though I rejected the offer, due to the pay.

Goodluck to you guys.

Thanks for this info. I was there yesterday. Pls what was the pay like then? I need to prepare my mind on that.

damton:
bro.
how did the interview go and what post were they recruiting for

It was just a test yesterday and the truth, up till now I don't know the position. But it seems like a secretarial/administrative position.

Dear House,

Please I received a call today from UNIFIED PAYMENT SERVICES LTD for a test tomorrow. Is anyone on the same page with me or any information about the company as I can't remember what I applied for.

Thanks

Dear House,

Please I received a call today from UNIFIED PAYMENT SERVICES LTD for a test tomorrow. Is anyone on the same page with me or any information about the company as I can't remember what I applied for.

Thanks

The Ekiti state Governor Ayodele Fayose some minutes ago took to twitter to allege that the Buhari led government has frozen his personal account with Zenith Bank Plc.

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