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Creamish:. This guys is definately GEJ' son. I fit pay for the DNA test. |
Bible Question: What scriptures teach that fasting and/or refraining from sex during a fast, and/or denying oneself lovemaking to your spouse? I am a newlywed and my husband told me that when a person fasts he/she cannot have sexual relationships. You must deny your flesh of all pleasures. Is it true? What scriptures back this up? Bible Answer: There are two previous questions dealing with fasting that may be of interest. The first one is entitled, "When fasting, how often do you pray?" and the second one is, What does fasting include?" It is important to remember that fasting involved denying oneself only food and sometimes water. Avoiding Sexual Relations. In both the Old and New Testaments, God never commands couples to avoid sexual relations. It is amazing that God has warned us to not do certain things, but He never warns nor commands married couples to stop having sex. In fact, the apostle Paul warns couples to do just the opposite. God wants couples to have sex. Apparently, some Christians in the city of Corinth thought there was virtue in avoiding sexual relations with one' spouse. One of the spouses or maybe both thought it was good to regularly avoid sexual relations. God did not see this as being a good thing. Listen to what Paul had to say. But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (NASB) 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 Notice that Paul says there is only one reason to not have sexual relations. It is for the purpose of prayer - for a short period of time. God does not want wives or husbands to regularly refuse to have sexual relations, and Paul says stop it! That is sin! God's message through Paul does not sit well with many today. The message is simple. Your body belongs to your spouse! You do not have control of it when it comes to sex. Today many talk about the right of doing with their bodies as they want, but God does not agree when it comes to sexual relations within marriage. A spouse does not have "authority" over his/her body. It belongs to his/her spouse. Now Paul does not mean that a husband or a wife can demand that the spouse "make love" from morning until evening or at anytime he or she wants. Paul is establishing a principle - an attitude of cooperation when it comes to sex. There is no place for sexual abuse, nor is there any room for excuses between spouses to avoid sexual relations. If one spouse is "not up to it" then that spouse needs to say when he/she will be ready for "love making." The other spouse needs to be understanding. The Desire. Many believe that only men have a strong desire for sexual relations, but that is not true. Generally men do have the greater desire, but both men and women crave sex - some more than others and to greater degrees at different times in life. When a man does not want sexual relationships, there is usually something medically wrong with him or there is an emotional situation with his wife. If a medical reason is suspected, your husband may want to see a doctor for a check-up, consultation, and help. Sometimes the issue is an emotional problem between the man and his wife. He may not enjoy sexual relations with his wife for one or more reasons. An open and frank discussion or a written letter between the spouses may help to bring understanding as to why he is struggling. This is a difficult subject for many couples to talk about and so it should be done with love, kindness, compassion, and tenderness. The goal needs to be, "Is there a reason you do not want to make love with me?" The answer can be difficult to accept. But both spouses need to be ready to change. Married couples need to remember that it is a sin to avoid sexual relations. Conclusion:God wants married couples to have healthy, enjoyable, and satisfying sexual relations on a regular basis. He has told us in 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 that couples may avoid having sexual relations for the purpose of prayer but only for a brief period of time. Any spouse who frequently wants to "fast" or avoid sexual relations is disobeying God. Does God mean that a couple should ignore medical advice about having sexual relations or not avoid relations when one of them is sick? The answer is no. 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 is about abuse in marriage. To deny your spouse sexual relations without a biblical reason is another form of sexual abuse. God has said that a spouse does not own his/her body; it belongs to your partner! God designed marital sex! Source: bible quesion and answer. What is your take? |
Bible Question: What scriptures teach that fasting and/or refraining from sex during a fast, and/or denying oneself lovemaking to your spouse? I am a newlywed and my husband told me that when a person fasts he/she cannot have sexual relationships. You must deny your flesh of all pleasures. Is it true? What scriptures back this up? Bible Answer: There are two previous questions dealing with fasting that may be of interest. The first one is entitled, "When fasting, how often do you pray?" and the second one is, What does fasting include?" It is important to remember that fasting involved denying oneself only food and sometimes water. Avoiding Sexual Relations. In both the Old and New Testaments, God never commands couples to avoid sexual relations. It is amazing that God has warned us to not do certain things, but He never warns nor commands married couples to stop having sex. In fact, the apostle Paul warns couples to do just the opposite. God wants couples to have sex. Apparently, some Christians in the city of Corinth thought there was virtue in avoiding sexual relations with one' spouse. One of the spouses or maybe both thought it was good to regularly avoid sexual relations. God did not see this as being a good thing. Listen to what Paul had to say. But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (NASB) 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 Notice that Paul says there is only one reason to not have sexual relations. It is for the purpose of prayer - for a short period of time. God does not want wives or husbands to regularly refuse to have sexual relations, and Paul says stop it! That is sin! God's message through Paul does not sit well with many today. The message is simple. Your body belongs to your spouse! You do not have control of it when it comes to sex. Today many talk about the right of doing with their bodies as they want, but God does not agree when it comes to sexual relations within marriage. A spouse does not have "authority" over his/her body. It belongs to his/her spouse. Now Paul does not mean that a husband or a wife can demand that the spouse "make love" from morning until evening or at anytime he or she wants. Paul is establishing a principle - an attitude of cooperation when it comes to sex. There is no place for sexual abuse, nor is there any room for excuses between spouses to avoid sexual relations. If one spouse is "not up to it" then that spouse needs to say when he/she will be ready for "love making." The other spouse needs to be understanding. The Desire. Many believe that only men have a strong desire for sexual relations, but that is not true. Generally men do have the greater desire, but both men and women crave sex - some more than others and to greater degrees at different times in life. When a man does not want sexual relationships, there is usually something medically wrong with him or there is an emotional situation with his wife. If a medical reason is suspected, your husband may want to see a doctor for a check-up, consultation, and help. Sometimes the issue is an emotional problem between the man and his wife. He may not enjoy sexual relations with his wife for one or more reasons. An open and frank discussion or a written letter between the spouses may help to bring understanding as to why he is struggling. This is a difficult subject for many couples to talk about and so it should be done with love, kindness, compassion, and tenderness. The goal needs to be, "Is there a reason you do not want to make love with me?" The answer can be difficult to accept. But both spouses need to be ready to change. Married couples need to remember that it is a sin to avoid sexual relations. Conclusion:God wants married couples to have healthy, enjoyable, and satisfying sexual relations on a regular basis. He has told us in 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 that couples may avoid having sexual relations for the purpose of prayer but only for a brief period of time. Any spouse who frequently wants to "fast" or avoid sexual relations is disobeying God. Does God mean that a couple should ignore medical advice about having sexual relations or not avoid relations when one of them is sick? The answer is no. 1 Corinthians 7:2-5 is about abuse in marriage. To deny your spouse sexual relations without a biblical reason is another form of sexual abuse. God has said that a spouse does not own his/her body; it belongs to your partner! God designed marital sex! What is your take guys. Source: Bible question and answer. |
mencade4:. U just called Adeboye thief. May God forgive you. |
17(over simple) |
[quote author=austinebode post=28233764][/quote]did u re-aplyed immediately or you gave them some space? |
LordReed: |
Hi guys. If someone is refused a US Visa. How soon can he reapplied and does he stand the chance? Thanks. |
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coogar:Nice bro. You're right. Come to think of it. I have been playing PS (PES & FIFA)for agess now. I'm 40Years and I thing I'm getn too old for the game. What is your take? Do u think I shld stopp palying? Hmmm love too much!! |
Equado:Hmmmmmm. I was a core addict of PES( for over 10years). But when FIFA produced a better Game I had to swicthed. I actually got both Game (FIFA 14 & PES 14), played them discovered FIFA 14 was better. Don't be suprise that PES cld come up wt a better game oneday. The good thing is that there is competition and it gives room for improvement. |
seunpayne:. That is true. I was once a disciple of PES game and i played PES for over 10years.. The game is ok. But FIFA is better(MY OP) I had to switched to FIFA. FIFA looks more real and realistic..... |
Male glasses. |
A counting machine that can detect a fake currency. |
Good news! But where is our girls? |
aysometin: Sorry, why was he offering them money? Is he their employer?By their fruit you shall know them. It is high time God expose all fake and evil pastor. |
PAGAN9JA: [size=18pt]WE MUST RETURN TO THE RELIGION OF OVA ANCESTORS!Another lost soul. |
sartorius: By Toni Clarkewe don't really have time on our side at the moment... Let just request for Mzapp for now. |
247tops: Abolore Akande Popularly called 9ice has officially declared his intention to meander into Politics.He however did not put the political party of his choice on the campaign poster. In January 2014 the pic below broke announcing Abolore’s intention to go into Politics but he refuted the story claiming he was on the set of a music video and a member of his team posted the image.nobody should blame Mr Abolore(9ice) what do you expect when is not making money like others @ the moment. Let him serve his people. Best of luck bro. |
emmatok: Do the Indians and chinese think about your God?So funny! Are we China or India? Nobody is saying u shld not do ur stuff but don't disturb others simple. I just pray God shld arrest everyone of u b4 it too late. |
Zedric: your reasoning is a bit low. If u have any problem with the culture, leave the country and go stay with the whites u like so much. There are things in our culture that will neva be erased, computer age or android age. It' not about "reasoning low" but knowing christ. As a christian I don't have any issues wt what the idol woshipper (the said culture) does, provided it' does affetct movement. It' only in Africa we don't think about other. May God help us. |
theplanmaker: as backwards as Nigeria is, we r still miles ahead of some pepo. if the disease resurfaces in Nigeria I'm very sure its spread ll b effectively curtailed. Let just pray God shld take control. I said same about sucide bomber- that Nigerian can't never be one cos of our love for life and money. I once tot every every Nigerian are survival, but Boko Haram has provided me wrong |
austinebode: Hello Guys,Issues resolved. |
FrostyZonn: Well, in my case, it's roughly the opposite. I was a fifa fan(still am) but pes 14 (fully modded) knocked fifa off it's perch...at least for the moment.hmm, but have u played both game- PES14 and FiFA14? |
FrostyZonn: Dude, remove the coloured sun shades from your eyes and see the truth. As of last week, I was busy enjoying my Fifa 14 till I finally got the Pes 14 from a friend. After installing it, I downloaded a modding program from www.moddingway.com, then installed it inside the Pes 14 file, ran it and tinkered with some files inside the program, saved and closed it, then ran my Pes 14. Voila! All the clubs and leagues are fully licenced, Countries too. Abuja national stadium is even present, if you can believe it!. Well I ve the 2games(PES14 and FIFA14) CD and I hv palyed them. If u have the original CD try play them on a console. Fifa all the way bro. |
Hello Guys, Just migerated to Fifa after years of paying PES, but been having the follow challengies: . I want to be able play world cups with countries. . Play league games wt my team. . Play nation' Cups wt my team- nigeria .Champion leagues. Does fifa comes wt this packages? Thanks you. |
Hi guys, Bn playing PES for years now, just potted to fifa(fifa 14)and it hs been awesome but been havn some challengies trying to access world cup competitons, league cups, nations cups and other competions. Please advice. Thank you. |
I have been paying PES for years(more than 15years) I just potted to FIFA14 last week and it' great. Got the 2games (PES 14 and FIFA14) played PES14 for 2months and FIFA14 for just a day and it great. Fifa14 is better. |
iterator25: 10MillieFunny! 10m can't do jack bro. You need to factor the area (island or mainland). But 15m-20m depends on the finishing. |
Hmmm. Maybe u should try Fifa 14. I ve been playing PES14 anyway and I think it' not bad. |
Yeah, Haruna lukman- a wonderful player. I really don't understand what shola Ameobi is doing in the team. |
PS3 Console.(UK product. New) PS3 pad. Original sony product from UK FIFA14 (UK product. New) PES14.(UK product. New). Other PS3 accessories. |
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