₦airaland Forum

BigYash:
You are right about that indebtedness part.. I only pointed out that some guys dey use babes get connect too,even for contracts and all that.. Guy if you no get experience for women en,they will likely play you local in marriage. And na d type wen no get experience dey jam the girls when get experience pass. So for guys,should not just making money alone.. Still try dey explore, so that you go still fit share one or two experience or advice to someone else. Funny world we in ..

Na why I say no too take them serious. Business is different from love life.
Yeah yeah the useful female friends .

I've seen many of my guys derailed by women ... I dont want to be like them
FOCUSED

BigYash:
How will you ever find her cheating, when you don't have experiences about the way these girls roll? You talking about making $$.. There are some girls you will date ,and they will link you up .. I know of a guy wen him babe parents hold bar.. The guy car na d babe,bills o.. Currently planning to move him out of the damn country.. As a guy you need to explore to gain experience .. No go form making money,then turn mumu when it comes to gaming women o.. No be even now when girls don dey sabi deceit pass as it was before. Before you plan on sending out of your hux sef,she fit don send you go meet your ancestors. Plz guys be wise o

Once you observe one kain awkward moment or behavior na .

Me nor depend on any woman to help me financially abeg . She'll always make you feel indebted to her.


You didn't read the part where I said "instantly"

I'm a soft guy abeg ... I nor like wahala

Or you can just focus on your life and career and make huge $$$

When you feel it's time to get married , you pick one that is quite presentable ( mentally ,physically and emotionally... don't go for poor or hungry girls too ) and marry her ( Dont take the marriage too seriously sha ) love her properly but ignore all her misbehaviors and rants ( she'll get tired whe you dont respond) anyday you find her cheating you instantly send her back to her parents .

Life nor too hard o


Say no to fornication .

Temptation like ?
Just tell them you want to live alone . But be ready to counter any questions and ideas from them

Lmao ... see as their ranting and bashing him for saying the truth .
Nigerians are the main problems somehow .. forget the polithiefians

BigYash:
And your daughter,if you have any.. The rest na shoulder them dey put them,if she don dey do pass herself, you push am away..

Yeah bro . Wife and others na 50/50 . 🎯🎯 . Even tho I d9nt pray to have a daughter abeg

blacksam01:
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

Dont take any woman very seriously except your grandma,mum and sis .
Bye 👋

Naturally there is nothing wrong with that . But women are masters of deception thats the prob
problem.

Id just do the same to an ex girlfriend amd see how she reacts . Im not an insecure person

Birdbyrde440:
Na now you understand nigeria system abi
You better start planning your future bcs if you depend on nigeria you might end up badly.

Forget nigeria, chase money by any means bcs it seems like you are now just waking up from sleep.

Whenever police stop you dont talk to much, dont raise voice just chillax.

I no dey take them seriously right from time .
Na Japa be the idea comrade

Birdbyrde440:
Na you yourself again bring talk of calling police oo

Na people like una if police stop you, you go use ur hand incriminate yourself.

You too de fear. Calm down!

Lmao fear keh . I just gave my experience as an example .
After everything wey happen for this election . I don't respect the security agents anymore

Banila oya ... there is a counter thread

kyber:
Have you ever been to an event and they gave everybody take away rice and left you out?

Abi Na rice the person neva chop ?

There is what they call sense of exclusion

Well you ignore. Its not everything you should react to
I kuku like myself . If they exclude me id go out get better yoghurt and meat pie .. come back and eat wirt them . No time for long capping
The person self go begin feel guilty or silly

Birdbyrde440:
You use your hand talk say you be ex-yahoo boy oo

Me i de talk about why boys de do yahoo oo

U use ur hand incriminate yasef oo

No blame me oo

Go call police na .
Oga there is no excuse for being fraudulent sim0le and short.

Banilla:
Not the topic? But we were talking about marriage...

You don't get it.

Prostitutes have sex with hundreds of men. That should tell you something. Women can cheat with men they don't even like. Same goes for the married women who cheat. It's just for sex.

So your argument makes no sense. I'm sorry.

Men who think women fall in love with those they have sex with are naive...

Any man that marries because of s3x alone is a fool
Marriage isn't about s3x alone.
Saying a womans body count is tantamount to sating a man should marry a prostitute that has been with many men

JASONjnr:
How do people go to functions and be expecting food?

I don't get this....


I have friends that will be very vexed if he attends weddings and he wasn't given something to eat.

Omo, I thank God for my kinda person. There's absolutely nothing in this life that you will offer on your ceremonies that I haven't taken or eaten before... That I will stoop so low to get myself worked over N300 Fanta and N500 meat pie.... As how?

Lmao . Its embarrassing

You slapped someone in the church right after service just showed the pastor wasted his time preaching to you

You never drink malt before?

We have lost hope in this Country...

Go about what in the first place??

Banilla:
Wrong. Men are the head of the family, no? They are responsible. It's unlikely a man would divorce his wife, so obviously they are the ones messing up.

Men divorce
Women divorce too
Thats not the topic here ... the topic is you advised men to marry prostitutes.
Why do women go into sleeping around in the first place = greed . Y'all should keep yourselves in check

depressedlad:
kaduna. i have no skill

Kaduna doesn't seem like a place of opportunities

Banilla:
Amongst the younger generation? Can't you see the pattern?

Thank God you said amongst the younger generation.
When i say our mothers were not like this generation of women..yall will start going offensive

depressedlad:
what else will i do ? steal ? i hv tried a lots of things nothing works maybe i am cursed im tired

Your location ?? Skills ?

Banilla:
Yep! If not, why are millions of people still getting married? Social media isn't real life. People exaggerate on Nairaland, I don't take them seriously. It's all bullsh**.

Yeah yeah . goan check the rate of divorce too

Banilla:
Check my profile, I created a thread for them. Most are happy. Ignore the children here

Most are happy ??

depressedlad:
i have my family needs from me my relatives i dont ask them my friends i will think im trying to use them by asking them for help

And suicide is the best option?

Banilla:
Correction: boys in their twenties come here to the romance section to complain after having their fragile hearts shattered.

The happily married men on the family section, you think their wives were virgins?

Ok the family men wail in the family section while the boys wail here . Noted
There are more wailings in the family section than happy men .
A prostitute is a prostitute and might never change

Yeah yeah .. we've seen guys that didnt care.
They come here to cry everyday


Kindly give this advice to your brothers and other ummarried males in your family . Thank you

No family ? Friends ? Relatives ?

Birdbyrde440:
Simple question i just asked you based on your claim and you went off track to another chapter. Thats how you people incriminate yourself. Becareful, this is nigeria stop talking too much

No wahala but if wahala come ....no wahala
This useless contry where nothing is working properly
Abegi


I gave you an example. For this topic alone i have every right to consider you a fraudster.
I simply ask you to change . And desist from hurting others die to your greed . Bye

Modified:- damn .. i didn't motive the money ritual part . So i assume you also have GOOD excuses for killing people for money rituals

Birdbyrde440:
Oga sorry oooo

But from my discussion with you thus far i just cannot trust your sense of judgement. Sorry.

On what aspect