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Meklex:
the thing you should understand about girls is that, if they get too comfortable they'll use you as steering. First thing to do with any girl you want in your life is to get down with her, that way she has lost her balls to you, second is to never give her what she asks for, (like you mentioned). If a girl wants 5k from you, give her 2.5k (if you want to give her moni at all). Once you form lovey dovey with a girl, you have lots all your balls (my experience). Never ever be too available to a girl.

Sure thing bro. Sure thing. Like she has discovered that I am now distant.

My question is, what happened to the guy she flaunted? I am sensing all is not well between them.

Meklex:
2 more testicles to you bro, you deserve it. That girl is a manipulator, she had you in her clutches but just like the good ol' Pharoah you hardened ya heart, takes lots of balls to harden a heart without God's help (I would know cos shit happened to me too)

she called me twice on Sunday night but I didn't pick. Then called her back that I will call her when I get home but didn't call her back as promised.

By Monday, I called, wasn't really in the mood, but just to hear what she has to say. Seems she was busy and asked me to call her back. I dropped the phone to attend to something else and missed her call.

I had to drop a message that we should make the call when less busy. I have not called back since then cos I am too busy chasing my business dream. I am a hustler... I have no time for games cos I don't have enough time.

How can someone complain about her ex not giving her attention or treating her right and tell u that u are desperate (Jesus Christ! Nobody has ever called me that) for doing the opposite of what the ex did.

Desperate for what? Pussy? Something I can get? U see it is wrong to take girls serious.

Never ever try to make them feel important or good. Never place them where they never belong or asked for. Never give them what they never asked for.

I had this girl I met on here and it was one of those dating threads. I had always had my eyes on her though and I did mentioned it.

We took it offline via emails and she complained about what her ex did, didn't treat her right, neglected her blah blah...

Initially when i would call, i don't spend more than 1 minute on calls with her and she queried me on why i don't call more than 1 minute. So for that day, i loaded my phone more and we spoke for an exciting 45 minutes.

Naturally, I friendly connect with her and she is a wonderful person to have around.

Long down the road I would chat her often and then she started calling me as well. Mind you, she is very well aware of my intents, I didn't hide anything from her about my plans and she often declined wanting to date me.

But she would frequently ask me if i went out with any girl, if was with any girl at home. One time i went to watch black panther and i told her about it. She asked if i went alone or with someone.

I had other options, but I usually told her I had none.

I knew about the dangers of giving women too much attention but I stupidly thought there was one out there would not abuse it and she sounded so.

we chatted and she still called me, asking often if i am with any girl and so on. OFTEN times I asked myself, why would a girl say she does not want to date you but still ask you whether you went out with any girl.

Then I noticed that my closeness was beginning to get into her head. She told me one day that she didn't tell me her birthday because she knows I will start jumping up and down to make her happy. OMG... I felt insulted but I kept being me.

Then I noticed the egocentric rhetoric filled with boasting "I can't date you", "I have only dated two guys", this she often said even when you never asked.

We had a quarrel in which she repeated again that she can't date me (now making it look like she was doing me favour), I tried to appease her and she wouldn't have any of it. After that, I told her I will never call her to beg her again like used to just to make peace. She probably thought I was bluffing.

Minutes, hours and few days went by, I never said anything to her. She tried changing DP on whatsapp to get my attention and I didn't flinch. A few days later, she posted image of another guy on her status and wrote a lot of amorous things dedicated to the said guy, I saw it and stood my ground... In fact, I had to make myself more happy than ever before instead of allowing a girl make me feel miserable.

Then days after posting the guys image on her status, she came hard with long epistle, writing all sort of rubbish that I can't remember now. She said hope I saw the image of the other guy and that she did IT intentionally because I was too clingy.

She called me desperate, called me too emotional and boasted that the guy waited 2 years patiently for her because he saw she was different (she always does this and over hype herself to lure you to give her premium price to which I didn't see through initially at the beginning). She said if it were to be me, I would have been red with feelings. She told me she had decided to date the guy "since she couldnt find someone else that she likes"(again feeling she is doing the guy a favour for accepting to date him, a guy she broke up with previously for same reason as not having feelings for him)

She said that we hadn't met and I already told my brother and friend (who spoke to her on phone) about her and that it was a red flag for her. I did all these because I actually meant well for her and no games. But I blamed myself that day for being cool and giving her more than she deserved.


Oh well, after reading all the insultive epistle, I summoned courage and still never said a word to her. She wrote from 6Pm till 9Pm and I never replied any of that until she demanded that I deleted her pics from instagram where I had them. I had actually deleted them long ago, in fact all her pictures were off my devices. So all I said that day was "Deleted long ago" and that was all.

Silence kills women more than lethal weapon.

From that day till the 3 months later, I never said a word to her, I never called, I never texted... My mind was already preoccupied by how to tackle a new business idea was about to start at that time.

One morning, as I was about stepping out to go see my friend and my phone rang. It was her. She spoke calmly and asked if I know who was speaking( she wanted to know if I deleted her number). I mentioned her name and she said okay.

She said she wanted to check on me since I no longer called her because we were quarrelling (same person that terminated my call and categorically told me she does not want to speak to me when I called to explain things). I told her we ain't quarreling and that what happened is no big deal. I kept things light and peaceful.

She said I dont call her and I had to tell her I have been busy. She said it is a lie that it is because we are quarreling. Well, I had to ask after her parents to which she said they are fine. She then ended by saying she just called to check on me since I no longer called her. I said thanks for you and I appreciate it.

I never returned the call and spent over 3 weeks to call her and it was very brief, less than 1 minute.

I didn't want it to look like I was still angry over what transpired. She probably never knew there is loving side and a cold side soulless side that doesn't give a fvck. It depends on which one you want and I will give it to you hot.

The communication has been like that ever since, devoid of the frequent chatty and friendly atmosphere.

I know she is trying to get thing back and I have no idea what happened to the other guy but truth is, she needs her camo on because she is at war with a being she never knew existed in same body as the angel she once met... my ex would tell her this if they ever met.

I hope someone learns from my mistake.

Shukuakukobambi:
If you're a newbie here and have never encountered the brain dead posters here, just keep quiet and take several seats

Folks that still believe the proposed refinery for katsina will be financed by Nigeria and use oil from ND are not joking when they spew the sh!t that guy posted

Edit:I just went through your posts and realized you belong to his school of thought. You must have realized how idiotic his post sounds hence your attempt to tag it humor. Keep deceiving your self

You went through my post and so what? You think I am as foolish as most of you supporters of Buhari.

Refinery in Last in after wasting billions of Niger Delta wealth in search of imaginary oil in the North.

What happen to other refinery we have in the country, the one his body language was working on.

I am not a sentimental idiot as most Nigerians are which was why I wanted GEJ out because I am of the school of thought that we deserve better... Nothing more, nothing else.

Rubbish

Shukuakukobambi:


Mehn!! will any sane human believe a human being with any grey matter in his skull thought up this nonsense and wrote it down for the entire world to read? Is this also a part of opposition politics? or you're truly and really an illiterate?

he was being sarcastic. Where is your sense 9f humour? Smh

Chiedu4Trump:
Please can the Igbos, Niger Delta work with the Yorubas to free ourselves from this mistake called Nigeria?

If you notice that we are always grouped together.

As far as the Fulani's are concerned if ur not fulani u r an enemy!

I thank God for the warm reception IPOB gave FFK in Abia.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vP3T6hJf4Q

We need to know that as u read in the post he simply said Southerners, we need to unite to free ourselves from this tyranny

The Yorubas will never agree to work with other Southerners to achieve this. They are the black sheep of the family...

point5:
Osho na disgrace n disappointment to Nigerians,,cud remember vividly how this cow was seriously agitating n protesting as labour minister during OBJ regime...was seriously thinking he was doing it for our benefits..

everyone of them do things for themselves. He was just marketing himself then and now that he has gotten it, he true colours has surfaced.

[quote author=Racoon post=69769600][/quote]you have said it. What baffles me is how everything that happened during PDP road to defeat has also happened under APC.

Mark might buy this app the way it is growing.

[quote author= post=69763340]Total Rubbish!
Total Rubbish!!


Since we have never replied all of you..... ever.
We decided to pack you ALL in ONE post (in a dustbin) while we think of what to do with y'all.
We have 5 options:

1. Lagoon?
2. Poultry?
3. Animal Farm (Sty)?
4. Jail?
5. Hand you over to the owner of the forum?

We are still thinking about it.
Children of hate[/quote]Continue supporting rubbish...your children and their children we suffer what you sow.

Giovanotto:
who ask you

arindin

SlimBrawnie:
While he is right, I believe a person who is really into you will create time for you,no matter how busy. My hubby is very busy, if I don't hear from him b4 12pm, I know he's extremely busy and once it's lunch time, he calls even if its less than a minute or send a meassage just to check up on me everyday. If he's to work overtime, he calls to let me know he'd be about 30mins late or more... Same with me. Understanding is the key anyway.

not understanding but being in love with person that also love you.

Problem arises when only one person is loving.

sirfemoz:
Seeing the comments here shows that our salvation is not even close. Punch drew up a cartoon to illustrate recent election and we are here comparing. The obvious reason for that cartoon is to see where we have gotten to irrespective of party. You guys should keep comparing, by the time you see ya self being governed by a mad man cos he posses more cash, una eyes go clear.

brother, I will prefer to Relocate to another African country with better potentials. Countries like Rwanda on my radar. I can't go to the west because I am business person at heart...

Nigeria will never be greater than we see now even in 100 years. If you doubt this, comments your highlighted should tell you that the masses are idiots and have no brain.

Angy55:
If you are working already and earning above 100k and not married, I would suggest you buy a land because land value appreciates. But if it is the opposite start up a business. It depends on your location too.

My one cent.

land value will only appreciate if the location is good enough. I was given a land by my elder sister and I don't think I want to build a house there any time soon. I will likely buy a house in my current location than go build there.

I finished from that school and don't doubt what that man said above because sincerely, we had some academically poor classmates from the North who are currently staff there.

Good luck to everyone. Ayam a hustler to the core.

Runalong333:
So what ? . She is old enough to do so.

the truth is this girl is not really serious about building a career for herself. She is a sharp contrast of her younger sister.

She was same one caught smoking marijuana at an event.

Well, let her enjoy her life.

flyca:
The funny thing is that all these American versions are banned and blocked in China. Whatsapp, Google, Youtube just name it. So you must download and use the Chinese versions, most of which now have English translations by the way.

Example: After DiDi Taxi gained grounds in China, they ousted Uber out (with strict policies and stringent measures). Eventually, Uber left China, they left more than two years ago. Now its DiDi all over.

Whatsapp, Google, Amazon etc all blocked.
Except you start using VPN which is illegal, difficult to get, and they'll still be frustrating you with bad and unstable network connections

So the alternative is to ask your people abroad to download those apps for them to keep in touch with you. Do you see their intelligent marketing strategy?

Chinese government is really smart, run by highly intelligent and futuristic leaders with goodwill for their nation and people as priority.

So I laugh when I see them come to Africa, and expliot Africans (like the topic on frontpage today) and Africans still shout "good development". Firsf of all, ask yourself, "is China Father Christmas"? Fire!

What shall it profit a man not to be smart? Besides, China ban most of these US companies for security reasons as they feel that the US can use them as a spy.

marc55:
Chinese and copy copy... Them dey try sha

they don't invent. They copy

obailala:
If the Chinese guys start producing in Nigeria, that would be a wonderful development. About the generator guys fighting solar producers, that's one real problem with Nigerian businessmen - lack or foresight and flexibility/dynamism. What the generator guys fail to see is that they can actually switch from generator to solar business and make mega bucks.

Nigerians don't know business. What they mostly practice is monopolistic market control.

HungerBAD:
This your specifications can only be found in Heaven . Let us manage the ones we have first.

I see. Just look at your perception

alignacademy:
The partnership idea is commendable

Seems we are learning our lessons...

P.S. Nice logo by the way. The eagle is NOT smiling...

I don't lime APC or Buhari but I love that logo die!

[quote author= post=69485746]We understand better now.
This country is just something else honestly.[/quote]Imagine the company telling me I need a license to import the meter. He does not even know that I have one with me that I brought in without such nonsense... a foreigner, telling me such crap. E no go better for them!

[quote author= post=69480363]The minister should let the masses know the true position of things, and let us know where we stand.
It's sad that since independence, this power issues has remain the same.
Let there be light, Nigerian Government![/quote]Let me tell you the truth, the discos are bloody liars... some men control the distribution of the meter in connivance with disco. You cant even get into that business because the discos will tell you that it is the one they had agreement on that their system accept (bloody lie). This is because the one they recommend is the one they had an agreement on.

There is one company in Nigeria, someone brought them into Nigeria, some took them to Disco and an agreement was reached. for every meter sold by the company, a percentage goes to the persons that brought them in. you cant introduce another brand of meter into the market because the disco will recommend the one they had an agreement on while making it seems like the one you brought has fault.

It is that frustrating and seeing that Nigerians are groaning in pains over this meter just breaks my heart... SATAN IS A NIGERIAN!

Amakavula:
Who else feel he should have kept quiet?

he is a human and has feelings... it probably got to him.

verygudbadguy:
Classic man.
TBH, there is a clear difference between a well trained obodo Oyinbo boy and his counterpart in Naija. The Ilu Oyinbo boys seem to be grounded in humility and prudence. They are never materialistic. They have seen it all so nothing freaks them. A typical Naija boy whether well trained or not wants to have everything. This is because we lacked so much whether from a rich or poor background. We lack good roads, social amenities. It's also part of the things we learnt from our thieving leaders. God help us.

God bless Banky W. True definition of a gentle man.

bros, its poverty mentality and what sick Nigerians equate as riches... the stupid ladies are part of the reason many nigerians want get rich quick.

CANDYDADDY:




To be frank her blog is reek of voids ___nothing like numerous comments like nairaland, no ads anywhere,
you will wonder is this kind of blog drive her home billions of naira

well, she is a business woman and Seun isn't.

lifestyle1:
Na WA o

So Comedy they pay like this?

see u. Continue to sleep.

englishmart:
how much did you buy it?
Just asking






BTW, this man is one of the darkest men in the world

45-50 million will get you a duplex. I know say that house no go pass lekki

MISEDUCATIONS:
women's fakeness knows no bounds. women really have a problem with reality. losers.

men are the ones fuelling all the darkness.

owomida1:
It's unfortunate really, you are outnumbered by men that have their brain positioned downstairs.

sadly bro. Even here on nairaland, you can't see any place where a dresses without some sexually laced comments from guys.

miteolu:
Go to Ota Local Government

@Donald3d

owomida1:
Well, that's your opinion. Just like some me drool over the sight of a woman's nipples, some fancy the cameltoe. If some men don't want it, the women won't flaunt it.

U have a point. Same reason many Business men use pretty girls as their sales reps. If many men where like me, lots of businesses will close down. I only buy stuff cos I need it and not cos of any girl.