₦airaland Forum

Obey before complain!

Your mother's employers asked her to move, but you and your mother decided to choose sentiments over reason.

I pity you and those advising you to seek redress through unconventional means.

If you don't want your mother's pension delayed or even denied, she better go down on her knees and beg the guys at SUBEB to rescind that decision to suspend her.

A word is enough for the wise.

77up:
There are serious division in SE and it's very bad for the people and even the governance.


When SW governors are holding meeting, you ll see Akeredolu, Abiodun Fayemi,Gboyega, Makinde and Sanwo Olu but it's unfortunate here when they were holding a region meeting and a governor is left out may be because of political line . At least , Imo governor aught to be represented there.

Oga what are you saying?

As much as this is a faceless forum, you should crosscheck facts before making your sentiments public, presenting them as facts.

PROPEACE:
Wichtech doesn't sell damp proof creams, do they?

They do but as paints... I can help you buy

If you didn't buy from Wichtech, then I don't know how to help.

DigitalPastor:
Fashola, with due respect sir, shut up. That's over 7yrs ago and it's now you deem it fit to tell us. We don't want to know what happened in 2013. Please sir, what are you doing about the state of federal roads across the nation that's more like a death trap. No road to Lagos, no road to the east, no road to south-south...etc. If you know how many people die on road accident daily, you'll not climb on that podium and be spilling all that fat-big-bellied lie.

You could have made sense until I read where you asked someone whose shoe you are yet worthy to clean to shut up all because you have a crappy itel phone and free data.

SMH

missimelda01:
True, I agree cos I possess few of the characters you've listed.

Agreed and its even manifesting in your obsession with curing your young cousin of his almost masturbative tendencies, even when it is still unconfirmed.

In between, I think you should let him be, trust his ability to do right and want to do right. Above all, it's a phase it will pass.

missimelda01:
Questions like this comes at the early stage of meeting a lady, sometimes they have no idea what the family's financial status is like.. they just assume nonsense and that's what is annoying.

I don't think they assume nonsense... When you become older you would come to understand that certain character traits exist in firstborn children.

At the point of making that enquiry, the person involved is trying to understand a bit of your personality... This is not to say that they are spot on with their assessment.

However, some examples of firstborn children are a domineering nature; because they have overtly or covertly been responsible for their younger ones, the same attitude plays out in their relationships.

Firstborn women are often opinionated as are firstborn males especially if they grew up in homes where their word is law. This too rubs off on their relationship.

And so many other examples but this is not to say that they aren't beautiful souls, protective individuals with alluring characteristics.


Edit:

Away from the money issue... Your family's financial status has not been determined at the time of the exchange. I believe when that question is asked at that time, its purpose is to help in determining some of your inherent character traits, some if which you may be unaware of or yet to acknowledge.

@ Cityqueengirl we should connect you know.. I feel a certain vibe with you.

Opeyemiebun:
Hmmmm, so I should encourage us getting 2 cars within the next 3months looking at Nigeria's economy and the need to have multiple source of income?.
Waoooh, thanks for the advice!!!

Oga I thought you came asking for advice? Or have you made up your mind already?

If you already know what to do, please don't disturb us again with your marital drama.

However; Happy woman, Happy home!

ackunahc:
I do not agree with you. I personally live here with my wife and 2 kids. We relocated here 2 years ago, though my relations have settled here for decades now. I work as a business development executive with GilGal Properties Limited in Victoria Island. Most of the other residents work as Mechanics, cruize boat captains and deckhands, others work in the beach houses along the coast. There are Police stations and navy checkpoints around and officers from these units usually come here to raid the Vandals which are usually not from here. The decision to deprive natives of their homes because of a few vandals who could be easily arrested if not for greediness the of the officers sent to safeguard the pipelines is simply wickedness on the part of the government. I work hard and trying to create a sustainable life for my wife and kids. The government should please ask his officers to do their work diligently in other to save the rest of us from the trauma of having to lose a home and start all over again taking into consideration the present condition of Nigeria.

I heard that they have stopped the demolition in Ilashe... Please how true is that?

Najkona@gmail.com

You might not like the advice I am about to give.

Leave her!

Let her have her divorce, it would be hurtful for you at first but the later tales would be worse for her.

Listen the signs have been there... Insisting on an expensive wedding when she isn't contributing shishi... Asking for an extension of the date.

Most women who are ready for marriage are ready now! They don't focus on the cost of the marriage as long as it is something decent.

She is young and if karma wants to roll its dice for her, 3 years from now, she would be the one begging to do kwarangida

Najkona@gmail.com

Very sound legal points. 12monkeys are you a lawyer? I might need your contact.

odinga1of:
With US number?

No o! My number is an MTN number ending with 733

Just noticed the message hasn't delivered. Just single ticks... Check your internet connection.

odinga1of:
Bros can we talk on WhatsApp? +2348062580362

I have sent you a message on WhatsApp

odinga1of:
Will I get in a chemist or ?

and will she be using the oil to rub or ?

I doubt you find in a chemist... There are some retailers here on nairaland because the oil is discreetly imported.

As to how to use it, I have covered that in the post. 2 - 3 drops sublingually (under the tongue) per day and she should be fine.

Note that it should be taken overtime and if you have the money add it to her diet as a supplement. Continue to lookout for the symptoms and note improvements and or any possible case of side effects.

You can read more about it on the web.

odinga1of:
How much is CBD oil?

Anywhere from 30k and above for a 100ml bottle. However the price depends on the amount in (mg) of CBD contained in the bottle.

Something in the range of 750mg should do just fine. 2 - 3 drops a day applied sublingually should help.

Nnamebuka:
Pls bro what's CBD oil and where can I get it?
I have a patient amongst my siblings

There are some sellers here on Nairaland. Search for them you would them.

@logan95 CBD oil would do a lot to help her condition. Quite expensive but worth the money spent. You don't want to continue to seat on a time bomb... Not when you can still detonate it.

Help restore her self esteem.

It's funny how all these tribal bigots with no sense of history continue to masturbate on anything IGBO!

I would reply to the OP when he presents verifiable links to the claims made in that piece.

For the much we know, it could just be another madman meting out his hungry frustration on a Nation that has done so well for themselves inspite of every form of segregation, traumatization, and trampling that have been meted out to them.

Remember this, when you think of the Igbos, think of the Phoenix... We rise in glorious splendour from our ashes.

It's all part of a larger demolition strategy to rid these islands of any form of "undesirables" in their quest to commercialize them.

Funny how from illashe to Tarkwa Bay, its only island sections that have been earmarked for fancy beach house developments that have been demolished.

The wider strategy is to remove these locals and create a Lavida Loca beach destination, laudable but traumatic for the individuals at the end of the stick.

jahlove4jah:
Their merger with Diamond hasn't really helped.
I have also suffered in their hands.
I would advice you to look for alternative.

I have other accounts but its just unfortunate that transactions this period has to pass through them and they continue to make a mess of it all.

IMHO if the burden of a merger is too much, they should unburden it abeg... Its not by force na!

The race to become larger than the big 4 is almost futile in my opinion as the market is largely shifting towards technology.

Public notice to access bank and its management.

Sir,

Hope you all had a nice day at work today. I just want to bring to your notice the loss of income and embarrassment your continued lack of quality service is causing me and my business. It is important to note that in this age of technology and the tangent the Nigerian banking system have achieved, small service inconsistencies do not tell well of a financial house of your standing.

It would be in your best interest to look into the consistent loss of service customers as myself continue to face while using your service online and in-branch particularly issues of transfers not reaching beneficiaries on time.

I don't have much to say abeg... I just know that it is not by force to be a bank if you can't render the services of one properly.

Thank you

Maxymilliano:
I know this beach quite well, and I've been availed numerous pictures from the scene after the invasion but what I'm yet to get is the actual reasons for the demolition

I hear the Navy decided to demolish the entire stretch of island, although leaving the beach houses due to the activities of pipeline vandals.

I have seen some of the images too and get daily reports of activities there but my question is why allow many suffer for the sins of only a few?

The supposed vandals have been arrested according to reports but in my opinion, the destruction is totally uncalled for.

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govomotors:
Why is everyone crying Nigeria, Nigeria, Nigeria. Nigeria Government didn't ban you product. For security and economic benefit, the government close his border or is it a crime again to close your doors and gate.

Stop crying and start shipping your product to Nigeria through the sea port.

Thanks for making it plain again ... This is the most informed comment about this issue.

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