The land belongs to the palestiniens. If someone comes your house to still from u. Won’t u fight back?

OOzz:
Good!!

Palestinians should pack and go to Saudi Arabia. Israel should take over that place fully.

Oh my goodness do your research before commenting. Even Israel said they purposefully targeted that building. They sent multiple bombs to bring it down. So did the palestiniens force Israel to make that statement?

illitracy:
Don't believe anything you see on Palestine media, they fallaciously concocted to trigger to hoodwink the gullible and trigger sympathy.

Soon you will see the Lebanese explosion as Palestine being bombed by Israel.

Lol that’s the only insult Nigerians know. Thank you. 100% can’t get offended by someone like you. When someone insults you, you first need to look at who is insulting u. If they add zero value to your life then they 100% useless and deserve no response. Peace out dude.

Athemisia:

Olosho with home training indeed....

Only ppl with no home training would look down on others. Peace out

Athemisia:

Arguing with a female.... Dumb thing to do...

Yes. All I’m saying is don’t call ppl pests or parasites just bcuz they don’t hv money that is common human decency. It has nothing to do with coming from a rich home.

Athemisia:

So because you came from a rich family every other person both those from poor homes should behave like you, right?
Amazing...

Firstly I ain’t no LovePeddler. Currently doing my masters in the USA and I run my own business... a top chick ain’t going to look for a man with money, she will look for a man that loves her. You claim to be a top chick but u get ur money from dating men with money, that’s not something to be proud of. Baby girl focus on improving yourself instead of depending on men to take care of you. Yeah sure call me a shameful giver since my ex that had nothing bought me land when he finally made money. Focus on your life and not your sister. Last time I’m speaking on this topic. I won’t degrade myself by arguing with a top class LovePeddler.

orohbiro:
90% of guys u have dated shey u be olosho no u not married and u already a shareful giver this shows how cheap u are any dick and harry can come and climb, anty am a top chick am nowhere been broke. As for ur rich family.*everybody rich for Instagram*

She has no say bcuz she’s not the one dating the man. It’s obviously the sisters house and not the family house..... OP should focus on her own issues instead of getting involved in the sisters drama. The Op is only calling the man a parasite bcuz a richer man likes the sister.... girls that just follow men for money will never be respected or treated well bcuz the guy knows she’s just there for money.... OP has no vision based on what she posted, her whole anger is based on the amount of money the man has and not his vision. I repeat I dislike such girls bcuz they tend to be senseless.

BRATISLAVA:


She's a gold digger if she leaves him, but he's not been a gold digger for 2 years?

As much as there are broke ass girls, there are broke ass guys leeching on women and nobody is concerned about their productivity in the relationship rather they want the women to build with him. It's a parasitic relationship and it has not changed because he's a man and has a "vision". Don't the broke girls you referred to have a vision, or you think they want to be broke?

If the guy was working or doing something with his life, OP wouldn't have to call him out. He comes to their house to eat, are you sure it's not their parents house? She has a say. She's a good sister.

First of all you don’t know me. Second of all 90% of guys I’ve dated I hv in most cases been richer than them I come from a good family. My family raised me in a way to never judge ppl based on the size of their pocket. That’s why I repeat it’s only a broke person like the OP that will look down on a man based on him being broke.

Athemisia:

Aunty preach some more... As if you can do the same.. Too many movies have made most of you forget realities....
His sister ain't getting any younger.
His sister needs a man to take care of her and her family not the other way around.
If that guy truly love her, then he should let her go rather than being a burden to her.

Life is the present. The past is history.

I repeat if he was spending on her sister when he had a job the girl has no right to call him a pest. Ppl always go through trials in life. Only a gold digger will leave a man when his broke... I repeat op should butt out of it and focus on bettering herself. All these broke ass girls always looking for someone to leech on and once they hv sucked all the guys blood they then throw them away... if op was working and doing something with her life she wouldn’t hv time to focus on what her sister does..... if the man has a vision and treats her right then the sister should stay with him and build with him.

BRATISLAVA:

When he was working he was not a parasite (theoretically), but for two years he's been one. Do you know if the man was ever able to stand on his own or they were sharing bills? Would he have done the same for her if she didn't have the job? What if he's still there just to eat her money free?

She has no right to butt in, but how many people have helped your partner decide on that to do with you through their interference?

It's her sister, she has a right to be concerned about her sister being blinded by love for a guy who has leeched 2 entire years to the point he's an outright pest.

She has as much right to leech on her as the man does, don't try to guilt her, as if the man is entitled to.

When he was working she didn’t see him as a parasite. No one knows how much the man has spent on her sister when he had money. Plus it’s the sisters choice who she marries not the OP....It’s non of her business. If the sister is not complaining then she has no right to butt in.

BRATISLAVA:


Why should she work and stop searching for a man to take care of get and her family, when a fully grown man is not working for 2 entire years and being taken care of by a woman, her sister? Productivity only applies to women, otherwise it is acceptable to a man to be leeching for years, right?

Do you know how much she despises men like him?

Despise indeed.

You not a failure. You did something amazing with your life. Many would hv given up or lived a life of crime but u chose to keep pushing. Once you get your certificate look for a teaching job immediately then while working search for a better job.
In the next 2 to 3 years I’m sure u will hv your own flat and car. Stay focused don’t look at what others are doing. Your classmates didn’t go through what u went through so don’t compare yourself with them. All things will work out for your good

WhiteRuler:
First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.

Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.

I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).

Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.

Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of
landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.

My questions:
Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.

Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks.

My mom calls me 5 times a day and we live in the same house but I love her....When she gets home from work she always complains that I didn’t call to check up on her....After speaking on phone 5 times in one day why do I still need to call and check up on her

I’m a female but I really despise girls like you. When the guy had a job was he a parasite? Did u help your sister when he had a job? If he helped her then it’s obvious why your sister loves him and is sticking with him....if the second guy goes broke will you also call him a parasite? I hope ur sister doesn’t listen to u. Madam go work and stop searching for a man to take care of u and ur family

orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.

I run my business from home so I use a lot of data

Curious345:
o haven't used 900gb in the last 5 years ..and here you are using 900gb monthly ?

Wawuuuu

USA $50 gives me unlimited data and unlimited free calls in the the USA.....Wifi $40 1TB ....Whole family normally uses 900GB per month. Yes everything in the home is connected to internet. We mostly stream stuff

F

Odin literally has a full blown full stack Java developer course for free

MsFaith:

I googled Odin I Didn’t see anything of such in relation to programming.

The fact that you have to say shut up your mouth just shows your microagressiveness.

All your males bosses what have they done that’s valuable. Women work hard to get to those positions and when they get there they work hard to make sure everything runs smoothly. It’s only a lazy man that will complain about a female boss. Females make sure the job gets done correctly but lazy employees like u hate that you hv to do extra work. Women want the best quality while men settle for mediocrity.

WiszyFraud:
Women and problem are like 5&6..

Hope she doesn’t make life hard for some students.

Power dey always intoxicate ‘most’ of demm




Will you shut your gutter mouth, and also stop disgracing your parents in public!!?!!

I’ve had several women as boss.. i Know exactly what i’m saying.. most women in power tends to make decisions that makes it very difficult for the people under them..some male boss aren’t any better though, but it’s very much common among the women !

Google Odin they teach you free how to code and there’s a discord community that guide you and help you filled with ppl from around the world.

nwikpab:


Good tips.
I don't have a skill and still have many things in my head. I have tried to learn Java but just can't understand nada. I am planning on looking forward to python.
I am really really confused. My head no just want carry this programming of a thing.

It’s only a weak man that will say all this. All the previous male chancellor did they do anything good for the school? Did the male chancellors make the school better for students? The answer is no... You didn’t care when make chancellors were destroying the school but now you care bcuz it’s a woman in charge.

WiszyFraud:
Women and problem are like 5&6..

Hope she doesn’t make life hard for some students.

Power dey always intoxicate ‘most’ of demm

You do know it’s very easy to enter North Korea right? The law states you have to come into North Korea with a tour company in South Korea. They literally charge $1000 for a 2 day entry to North Korea. You hv to follow their rules and allow them to search your phone.....She has travelled to every country in the world. Even if she spent 1 day in the country, fact still remain that she entered the country. You can easily watch her YouTube to see the videos she took in every country.

Periklis:
She no reach North Korea... I can bet on that

I intend on buying a 2 bedroom apartment in Ibeju lekki. It is Semi finished. How much will it cost to finish it with luxurious finishing like marble tile etc thank you

A family friend let his brother run his business. The brother stole 100 million from the business. 8 years later the money is finished and his begging people for money...so yes money in the wrong hands can finish

Nemesis0147:
There is a kind of money you will be pumping to your sibling or a way that you will establish the person that the he/she won’t have any choice than to be successful.
a guy in my hometown Opened a building material shop for his brother worth 20M and still gave Him 10m cash with a car and well furnished apartment.
How that one wan take they useless?
THE MONEY NEVER COME!!

100% agree. You said it best

abbey621:
In this life as long as your conscience is clear nobody can guilt you! Even my very own siblings know that you can't just come to me and say bro dash me 1000 dollars, I'll be like for what? I'm going to grill you like Oputa panel but if you behave sensibly and bring forth good ideas to turn the money into recurring income, I'll be your biggest cheerleader and supporter. Nigerians no dey ever finish their problems, it's always one problem or the other and the same people will be eating goat head pepper soup every weekend and drinking beer, me wey dey abroad sef no dey chop like that

This is not wickedness or strictness, it's making sure Nigerians do not run you down and bring you back into the poverty you worked so hard to escape.

Charity begins at home was a statement made by Paul and not directly by God. No one is entitled to ur money. U can choose to help but it’s not by force. I choose to help ppl but if I see the person is not serious about improving their lives I stop helping

BRATISLAVA:


Same Bible said charity begins in ones household.

Everyone should make money for themselves and hope nothing goes wrong. That's all. Nobody owes anyone a dime, not even if you helped them get to where they are. Parents deserve these things.

Life is easy without entitlement and indebtedness.

You have no idea what your saying. Every family is different. I know ppl in my family that have been given millions of naira to start business but instead gave it as a seed to pastor or used the money to buy clothes. Those same ppl hv been given jobs but refuse to work or stole money. Eventually as a rich person u need to realize that there are ppl in ur family that refuse to improve their lives. They just want u to give them money...Imagine a 50 year old still living with his parents and depending on his younger brother to be sending him money every month... if it’s u will u keep sending money?

kingthreat:
Bullshit.
God places some certain people in certain families to lift them up.
When you see yourself in that shoe, don't hesitate to do the right thing. Take your family into happiness. Let the grace around you spread to them.
Linda Ikeji did it and is not complaining
Don Jazzy did it and is not complaining
Dbanj, Tuface, Otedola, Adenuga, Adelekes, Dafinones, Murray-Bruces, etc all did it. That is how it is all over the world.
Only greedy people with vendetta against their families will rather help strangers than their blood.

The Bible never said give to family. I can choose to give to non family. It’s not a must to give only to family.

D6thSense:
If this advice was coming from someone who made it from clean ventures or by God's mercy, I will gladly take it but not one who made a path with the DEVIL to get wealth.

Talk is cheap and motivations are often from a speaker or writer's perspective of life but the word of God remains the standard for life and living.

'Give, and it shall be given to you; good measure, pressed, and shaken, and running over, they shall give into your bosom; for with that measure with which ye measure, it shall be measured to you again.'. Luke 6:38

You will understand what she’s saying when u become rich.... seen this happen in my family where 1 million was giving to someone to start a business and the person gave it to Woli. Gave the same person 1 million again to start business but they used the money without starting a business. Eventually I realize the person is not serious. Gave same person job but they never came to work... don’t judge rich ppl with poor family members. Some of those poor family members refuse to do anything productive

DrBrainstorm:
I cannot be stinkingly rich, as in a multi-billionaire and have poor family members.

Low budget Inspirational abi na motivational speaker

Still a bad idea. My uncle did that for a junior brother and that younger brother stole money from the business and all the workers where complaining about him.

Bornsinner7:
Na wetin make me fail waec.. any question wey just dey lengthy a bit I dey skip am..

Anyway, I agree with her.. I know a guy that plays football professionally like he has played in Europe, Saudi Arabia and still playing at a club somewhere.. I have seen some of his post with big names training together and this guy own big big properties here in Nigeria.. I still wonder what kinda of brother he is when I see his younger brother on the street...

But one thing I'd suggest is when you make money.. instead of handing them cash to lavish or waiting for them to tell you about their business idea.. I'd rather you open businesses and make them managers, supervisors etc just engage them

Lol I’m a female first of all. Lol me and my family are in America enjoying ourselves.... go focus on your poverty stricken family

kingthreat:


Na your mama wey no really get sense. Help me greet your wife.

Lol ur a dumb ass. I ain’t broke at all. Lol I own my own business here. I take care of my bills very fine without any stimulus.... Americans love Biden because his doing a good job. By May everything will be back to normal. That’s why I love Biden. Everyone is getting vaccinated and going back to enjoying life while your here talking rubbish.

Doings:
You shut up. The only reason Biden is being admired by a broke ass American migrant like you is because of covid stimulus. You want to enjoy the Gov't money you didn't work for. Your own nah poverty just like millions of Americans loving bidden nah just mostly because of stimulus. Idiot's everywhere

Lol not even close to poverty stricken bro....lol most likely for more money in the bank than you. Biden has done a lot for Americans. Keep talking thrash about a country that u don’t even listen to. Your words has no value here.

Doings:
Just like i was a prophet, what else can you talk about if not stimulus. Idiot. Poverty stricken being, we talking politics he is talking stimulus fool.