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You points are right,the thing is our government officials including management staffs of such companies benefit hugely from those fat salaries that are paid to these guys.
Am in a related industry (oil and gas),so I know the drift wella.

fashrola:
They don't..... They first consider their locals before anybody

We have lot of competent captains and Engineers looking for jobs

And this is a tug boats for pilotage and handled by NPA

Are we supposed to employ foreigners for a government job?

Competent Nigerians are Manning DSVs, PSVs, AHTS as Captain and Chief Engineer and these boats are 10x bigger in capacity than these tug boats been manned by foreigners

1. Can I pay school fees using naira account?
2. Has anyone use UBA,for (1) and how was their service?
3. Advise the best bank to use.
Gurus, please assist
Please help

Gurus in the house,
1.have gotten offer from UWS, please advise the next steps to enable me achieve CAS.

2. Anyone going to UWS that was offered admission but with indication that the WAEC result submitted is "too old"? Please advise how to close out

Gurus in the house,
1.have gotten offer from UWS, please advise the next steps to enable me achieve CAS.

2. Anyone going to UWS that was offered admission but with indication that the WAEC result submitted is "too old"? Please advise how to close out

1. This is my calculation,
9135 - For me @ 9 months
6120*3 is 18360 For Hubby&2 kids at 9 months.
2. Is my calculation right,guess you lrs came with 2 dependant?
Total 27495 excluding tuition fees.
Many thanks.
quote author=mimilyrics post=95660081]2. Your tuition balance + your maintenance (£1,015*9) + £680*9 for each of your dependants. Total maintenance for you, your husband and child will be about £21,375 excluding your tuition fees.
Add some extra money as a buffer against inflation if your funds will be in a Naira account.
3. It depends on your preferences.
Some apply with dependants so that they can travel at the same time to help prevent homesickness as a result of time away from home/family.
Some apply separately because they'd like to travel ahead of their families to conclude living arrangements so that the family doesn't feel the initial stress of moving in.
Some people apply for their dependants after they get their visas/BRPs to avoid cases where the application is wasted in case of a refusal that can't be upturned with AR.
Some apply together anyway as long as they are sure that all the requirements have been ticked exactly how UKVI wants it.[/quote]

@mimilyrics, just wise and other gurus.
1. Hubby has agreed to do dependant visa
2. School is in Scotland(uws),how much does each of us (me,hubby & 2 kids) need in account (Total),for the period of my masters
3. Is it advisable that we all apply once?

longidorous:
Have they sent you a UKVIconsent form? The wait is usually between 5-10 working days.

No,yet to receive any form from Teeside.
When does the form usually come, immediately after submission of application?

Wizzy2010:
Teeside has sent unconditional offer for january , anybody going to teeside?

I submitted application three days ago .
Was it DIY or an agent and how long did you wait for offer letter?

[quote author=tutudesz post=95516235]Na retirement money dey reach millions O! Boys were shell sack no collect pass 1M[/quote
Unless "those" boys you mentioned are contract staffs. As a staff millions awaiting you and with good plans,you can do well for rest of your life.

@mimilyrics,thanks.
1. Noted. With these,does that mean I should state, self-funding in my forms?
2. Ok,hubby is too busy,he is funding everybody,sweet family,no issues atall,he has travelled alot and still prefer his visiting visa.please advise if that won't hurt my chances
3. Even with his own choice,can we all apply at the same time?
3. Ok,I will receive CAS before going for TB test?
4 & 5. Noted.many thanks.

@Justwise and all the gurus in the house.my questions are -
can i apply using hubby's account as sponsor? if not then what are the right options.
can i apply together with my kids as dependents or i apply alone first?
at what point do i need to do my TB test?
can naira account card pay for my application, IHS and etc or USD account is advise
am applying for January 2021, resumption date, application submitted, how can i wait to hear from school before getting across to them?

Learning

Why I admit that two weeks is not yet the beginning of the marriage but I hope Op will give us more interesting gist on their 3-5 anniversary. We don old for the journey (16yrs) beautiful journey all the way but with each comes with their own ups and down

Francissta:
My sister, I would have done that but will loose some files so dear to me, on a normal day, I won't stoop so low to do this, but can't help it.
I hope you understand, thanks for your suggestion.

you are Nnamani,right? Someone sent you something.if you are honest with your request, God will raise people to help you and His favor will locate you.

dezik:
His excellency, according to Asari Dokubo, please kindly intimate us where you got your electioneering campaign cash when you contested your first election as a governor of the state.
from there, we will know how sincere you are.

we all in niger delta is aware that Wike got his first term campaign funds from the same NDDC. While I am not in support of the looting at the agency,my wish is for honest leaders who can wholeheartedly fight and bring development to this region.

All the gurus, please assist with info

Good day house and travel gurus, I will need your advice on criteria and others requirements to relocate to Canada with the option of investment.
Justwise and all, please help.

wey d car,bilko

Any truck owner in the house. For flat and low beds provision to move oil rig tools and chemicals. Buzz me on 08036862035 if available

Ijawwomaninoyo:
He used to be very stupid!
He sold his house, added some money to go and be a tenant in a highbrow area.
He bought an automobile that costs N3m monthly to maintain. When people asked if Olu Maintain could Maintain such a vehicle, he said everyone should mind his business.
When music no work again, he went to pack in with his mother at Ibadan.

know about these back then but he later got favours with government of Agagu and Iroko (the last administration before Akeredolu),he cashed out big time working with this two former Ondo state governors, though also a yahoo boy (still cashing out big big time, infact,as much as hushpuppi),but on a serious low key, while investing heavily in agriculture and properties without any noise.

SweetCunt97:
Some simply stop enjoying sex after childbirth.

if you say some then I will agree but why do we have alot of men complaining about the same thing?the same woman who doesn't "enjoy" sex after child bearing will give you enough sex through a week because her parents or family member needs your financial help? On a normal day, you can get it for a whole week not even three times a week again(2 yrs after marriage)
2. Because she wants a new car, attend a wedding. Where she needs you to pay for aso-ebi next week then you will get it all through this week.
3. She needs one favour either her own or for her siblings then you will get it well but as soon as you deliver on this, two days after excuses will arise.
In my 15 years of marriage(am not yet 40yrs old),have learnt a whole lot and still learning. The journey has not been easy but with street smartness, patience, over looking stuffs, always ready to lead and discuss issues immediately they happen has kept us these far.not an easy journey but no regrets
Sex is been use as a tool/weapon in many marriages.

Mattsilva:
my case exactly....

i must confess that it is rampant this days, talk alot married men and the story is same over 70% of men are telling you same tales and this are men who are above average financially and takes very good care of their family.the woman was a beast In bed during courtship but suddenly the man is begging for sex now, the same action they used in getting "hold" of you is the same action that has turn to a weapon to weaken you

Ningen:
Married men cheat 70% of the time because of sex deprivation. So they don't have a choice but to venture outside for satisfaction.

This is why the sexual compatibility should not be undermine or taken for granted when dating.

there was 100% compatibility during courtship intact in most cases she will initiate it, so the question is what went wrong now that marriage is here, no more initiating it, u initiate,palava.its hurting honestly and I understand it's over 70% of the married women. So what happened, where did that drive vanish to? Even when you are doing well,not cheating, no lack of any kind, you are caring, you listen, you ate at home, yearly vacation(imagiming being deny sex during vacation,just imagine), the same vacation she planned and dreamt of o, everywhere stew but yet this thing still happens. So I ask, what do omen really want,is it just having their kids, is that all?what happen to the man after the kids have arrive?

4ckz:
Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem.
Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.

100% right. What changes the same woman who used to give great sex during courtship to depriving you of sex after marriage. D tin tire person honestly

Yoruba people plenti wella for delta, port Harcourt and Bonny. Lots of them o, controlling things in terms of investments, properties, networks, job and even the government

Blackdeewhy:
mine was in school 2010. we meet in school, things were so hard for me that I could still remember how my stomach was grumbling for minutes in the exam all ( it was that bad). Well I got an hotel job so from school to work, work home. He helped me out with my assignment and one thing led to another we had sex.
Long story short, I went for my 1year industrial training when I realized I was three months gone. I called him to notify him and he told me he was married, he has two kids. He gave me options of dropping the baby for her mother in the village or be his second wife.
I was just 24 then, I have no friend, no guardian or good parent.
In all I went with option C which was to take care of my self and my child. And till today HE NEVER ASKED, CARE OR TRY TO LOOK BACK.
She will be nine on Monday, few months time I will be through with my masters and give Canada a shot. And Settle down someday!!!!

he never looked back?such a man. God that has strengthen you this far, will continue to uphold you and that child will be greater than you in 100 folds.

I will advise you now and I will advise you again,DON'T TELL. IT'S YOUR FAMILY, KEEP IT SAFE AND LET IT REMAIN BETWEEN YOU TWO ONLY

Coolcalmcollect:
never give a girl money for her dads responsibility.

Word!!!

Monkeyprick:
Do you understand the magnitude of what it means to remain chaste until marriage? Refraining and denying yourself this youthful exuberance and not giving in to the pressure ?
Unless you're battling character deficiency, you're a very special woman. You should be proud of yourself.
I met my wife of 5 years as a virgin, a 28yr old at that time . The joy it gives each time i remember i am her first knows no bound and i made a promise to myself and my God never to lay any other woman aside my wife till my daughter lay me down to meet my maker.
May God forgive me, i don teach her bad bad bedroom skills though

bad guy, she don learn from carpenter, carri go. Na ur own

OgunLaakaye:
See how toto just end this guy life.

He was definitely jilted and couldn't just move on.

And the same fvcking bitch that warranted this act will presently be on a peniss now shouting "fvck me deeper"

This hoes ain't loyal. Guys need to programme their minds for the worst. Even what you call a wife at home will jilt you for a bigger peniss or funds.

you are 100% right my broda.this is wat I tell every young man around, program your mind over a woman's matter, never allow it confuse you,be in charge at all time, even if u catch her with bigger sick/fund,walk away like a man and remain strong in ur head. See how a young life was wasted

SoNature:
If it's the Bayelsa I know too well that you are talking about, then you should know that an average Izon man prefers you share the money to building of projects.

I remember that Seriake complained bitterly that the only language their people understand is "Share the money." He often calls them lazy people on radio. I wasn't told...I lived at Akenfa 3.

I am sure the governor focused more on sharing money during elections

i also go in and out bayelsa steady in the last 11yrs,my crib is around First Road in Akenfa By AP FILLING STATION near SOBAZ Petrol Station..i understand the town and the people well.its same mentality even in other nigerdelta states but to say the truth, the Dickson truly share the money?

NigeriaBam:
Beautiful. Congratulations

my friend I respect your opinion but if you are on ground in bayelsa you will stone this useless man. He is busy commissioning noting, commissioning houses he has shared among his cronies.for 8 years, this governor did noting with second highest allocation in the federation.no meaningful development,non in education non in human development non in health.this man is example of total failure